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Archived questions from: November, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

I just want to know if there's anything that I can do or say that will get him at least making an EFFORT

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Hey, I just need a second opinion to make sure I'm not going mad. This is a question about my boyfriend and and my family. I have been going out with my boyfriend for almost two years. During which time my boyfriend has met my family about fiv...

Can upper classman date freshies?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Okay so there is this really awsome, sweet, cute guy that I like alot. But there is one thing...he is a freshman. Im a sophomore. I know this may sound dumb, but when I asked my friends if they would date a freshman they alll said no...But I would, ...

"We're too young to be in love." What do I make of THAT?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I told my boyfriend, who I've been dating for a little over 9 months that I'm in love with him (neither of us have ever said that before). I thought it would go over well and he would say it back, but it would have been okay if he didn't, but ...

I do love him a lot but am I a mug?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3313 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - This is a long story lol.. Me and my boyfriend have been together for five years ( 6 Month break between) we have a 2 yr old daughter also. Anyways at first he was perfect but after aa while of him smoking drugs I ended with him an found someone kn...

What went wrong? Why his change of heart? Can I get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I have recently had a breakup with a guy I dated for 2 months. It was a short relationship, but everything seemed from the first date and so on. We went out every single week since we met each other. In each one of the dates we felt we had so many ...

Women: do you want a bad guy or a good guy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - Hello, i am hopin someone can help me here, prefferably a female. I know a girl whom I am attracted to but she is not interested in me just want to be friends. i am a nice guy. steady job, supportive, relaitvely stable, kind, et cetera. But she ...

I don't know what should I do with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I dated this guy for a month and the very last night I saw him, we got together. I didn't think that I was jumpin in or rushing it in because, I saw him like twice a week every week for a month. Well the bottom line is that after that night(at th...

How can I ask her to the concert without flaking out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4895 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - So there's a really cute girl who works at the gym at my university, i've had a crush on her for the past year but only recently (2 months) had the courage to get her name. we exchage small talk couple times a week whenever we see eachother no real ...

Is this going anywhere?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Ok this guy and I have known each other since we were little but not always been in contact. Anyway we have been out twice it all went really well and we were getting closer. However I think I might have mucked it up last time we went out coz I ...

Did my shyness blow it with my crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4895 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - i have a huge crush on a guy with me in college and it s been almost a year now and i know that he likes me too he really tried so many times to talk to me and i let him down everytime and just few weeks ago he came and sat next to me in the clas...

She turned me down once but I think she wants me to ask again

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - My friend's sister turned me down for a date after initially accepting a few days earlier. Anyway since then we've been out a lot in the same social circle and she's been sending some strong signals. She's kissed me on several occasions but always w...

Why do you think he behaves this way?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Hello - Why do you think he behaves this way ? We dated for several months but ended last september. We never lost contact but definitely was less frequent. Anyway he always crossed the friendship line with those "I would like to be with you" com...

I really want to have sex, but I don't want to rush into things!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I've been going out with this guy a month now, and he's the best thing that has ever happened to me. he is lovely, caring and he is just a sweetheart. to celebrate our 1 month anniversary, we gave each hand jobs. it was great! but now i real...

Help!!! I have a gut feeling that my boyfriend of 3 years is cheating.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I have a gut feeling that my boyfriend of 3 years is cheating. Lately he has been distant, says its more work related. We don't speak as much as we used to. Last week as we were texting he called me "Judy" my name is no where even close to th...

What do I get my 38yr old boyfriend for Christmas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Any ideas on what to get my 38 year old boyfriend for Christmas? I was thinking maybe the Wii but I can't decide. Any advice?...

I found him a great gift, but how long is too long to wait?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4895 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I have a bit of a dilemma. It's not really a relationship question but I could use some different people's opinions. So, I just found out Batman Live is coming to my town in September 2011, so next year, and my boyfriend loves Batman. I thought I'd ...

I'm only interested in being with her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - i've read some stuff on here and i kind of relate to it. I have a girlfriend and we have been dating for 9 months now and everything is great and i love her to death. I know she's the one and we never fight. but when i'm not with her or she doesnt ...

In love after three days???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - i went for holiday for 1 week .. and i meet one guy .. we have fun and went out for a drink all the time after that 3 days pass he told me he loves me .. and he wants to marry me .. do i need to belive it ?.. cos for me love is not for just in 3 ...

Should I be moving on, or should I continue chasing her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - Hello, this is my first time posting qns here... Anyway, there is this girl I like, and she already knew since i had told her. and it seems that she has been giving me several signal that she likes me as well. The problems is that she have several...

What is with his kisses?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - hi my boyfriend and i have been together for 2years and everytime we kiss he always just pek kisses me why is that?...

Is he going to marry me? Or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Please help! My boyfriend of one year seems unsure if he wants to marry me. This really hurts me because at this pont am ready to be married to him. He used to be so sure about getting married--but lately he said.. we didnt get along so well that he ...

How should I ask this girl out? Respond quickly!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4895 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - I need help fast. I'm planning on asking this girl out this afternoon. She works at a restaurant deli where you pay at the counter, and she is usually the one taking the money. She's absolutely amazing and I'm praying to any God I can that she'll ...

Is it my fault that he has not spoke to me since our date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I wenr on date with a 21 year old (Im 17). We met over the internet. The date didn't go as I planned. i was nervous but we held hands. He was nice and sweet, opened the car door for me and paid for my movie ticket. That night, he told me he was ...

Why haven't I met her yet? I'm almost 31 and tired of waiting!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - Well, I havent dated for a year now since I broke up with my gf. She wasnt the one for me.She even called me mental.I just need a gf thats understanding and doesnt talk so much.I'm just wondering if I'll ever find because I dont know any friends to ...

For girls, what's your taste in guys?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - I know every girl has diffrent taste in guys but these are just a few questions I can think of off the top of my head that I want to know the answer to 1.Do girls like guys with long hair? 2.Do girls like guys who call them babe or baby? (I d...

What is he thinking/doing? We are only casually dating but I have not heard from him in days!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Right, advice again please.... I have been seeing this guy for about three and a half months. At the start, we had a chat, and we both said that neither of us wanted serious relationships as we had both just come out of relationships. ...

Does my best friend fancy me like I fancy her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

30 November 2010 (?) - I'm gonna' be straight up and say I'm in love with my best friend. I can't stop thinking about her it's driving me nuts. We've been best of friends for about 2 years. When we met we hit it off straight away. After about a year I told her I fanci...

Has anyone got any good pickup lines?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - there is a girl who i have a crush on but i dont know what to say to her when i ask her out, any good pickup lines?...

Bonding with my partner's 3 year old son?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4896 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - I've been seeing this woman, whom has a 3 year old son. I invited her to have a nice pic-nic at a park with her in attempt to bond with him a little. How ever I'm not quite sure what would be some good games for us to play with him, let alone f...

Does she miss me? Does she just want to be friends? What is going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - So, I was dating this girl during the summer. She's 2 years younger than I am, but we had a lot of fun together. I was serious about dating her, even though it was never "official." Anyways, we ended up having Her First Kiss. A few days later, she ...

We broke up then got back together, will things ever be the same again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating or about 5 months. We see each other and I stay over his apartment on the weekends but for the past couple of weeks, we haven't been going out to actually do things and get to know each other like we use to when ...

Girls, what turns you off?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 November 2010 (?) - Girls what is a major turn off about a guy? Is it appearance? Smell? What?...

My curfew is causing problems!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - What is going on? Should I break up with him? We have been dating for nearly 5 months. I don't want to say that our relationship is perfect but we hadn't been through any dramas or fights. He is a year older than me, much more mature but has a...

I want to surprise him with some risque photos...just worried he won't find me hot! Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Ok so recently I have been seeing this guy..who I really like :) which is awesome and finally I think Im ready for the serious relationship, etc. He's more experienced then me, he's older.. expected. I have been taking it slow but the other night he ...

She doesn't want me because I was bi-curious a long time ago! Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - Ok so me and my gf were together for a year and a half and we had a baby together. We broke up for about six months because we didnt trust each other and just recently got back together. Well things were going great till i found out she was lying to ...

Confused about all his "I loves you"..something just isn't right here!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Basically I started dating this guy about 4 months ago offically. We were talking alot before he asked me. At first i wasnt really into him but i liked talking to him alot sometimes. I really felt he was more into me than i was into him and id blow ...

What do you think that I should do to get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - 2 years ago, I met a boy and we fell in love with each other immediately. Everyone could see that we felt something for each other. It was like a fairy tale. He was very shy and he kept his eyes only on me. We have never seen eachother anymore ...

Romeo and Juliet was just a step on my ladder.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - I have come looking for help and advice. I need it desperately. This is my story. When I was 15 I started going out with a girl who we will call lucy (not her real name). I had had a few girlfriends before her that lasted around 8-10 months (...

I just don’t know if I want to invest possibly years of my life and give more of my heart just to get it broken...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I’ve been dating the same man now for over a year. We are both over 40, have our own homes and even though work is really tough right now we both have had successful careers and will again. We spend most of our free time with each other and have a ...

Long distance relationship advice sought...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I really need some advice about my LDR. My bf is coming back for a month at xmas (he works in south America and i live in the UK) but only wants to see me for about a week. I don't want to be unreasonable cos I know he has to see his friends and ...

Feel 'dirty' after sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - So, me and my boyfriend are sexually active. We have been for a couple of months now but the thing is everytime after sex, I feel just really dirty. I mean like disgusted with myself. I'm 19 and he's 20 and I don't get. He's the sweetest guy I've ...

Need advice about pictures to send to boyfriend or not???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I have a problem because i'm rather inexperienced in this issue. My boyfriend lives overseas, and his birthday is coming up. I want to send him something personal. So pictures. But i don't know what the pictures should be of, or poses, like i do...

Why doesn't he understand?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I have been with my fiance for almost 7 years and known him for longer than that! We were also business partners and the best of friends suring our relationship. He cheated, I forgave him, then I found out he kept cheating on and off for 3 years! ...

I don't know how to feel about him still talking to his ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - So this boy I have been talking to for two months now, I just found out he is still talking to one of his ex's. When we first started talking, we were, "together" but he broke up with me when he found out I cheated on him. So we actually stopped ...

Are there anyone who has been in this same situation? The jealousy is eating me alive.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - Before me and my girlfriend got together, she was at a party at my house. My friend is a typical womanizer, and has had sex with over 30 girls altogether. At the party he got a good vibe with her, and when the others had left they asked to use my ...

I caught my fiance in a lie!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I caught my fiance in a lie. I saw him talking and laughing with one of his female co-workers on their way to lunch (I was running an errand and saw them - with their lunches - walking together). When I asked him that night if he had eaten with ...

Girlfriend... or just friends???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - me and my 'bf' broke up a while ago however we still remain very close and hang out a lot. he still calls me baby or babe or mami etc all the time if we are out at the store he will lovingly graze my a$$ or grab me in some way... but in private h...

I caught him jerking off... to dance videos!!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - This isnt really that big of a deal, but for some reason its really bothering me. This morning i found my boyfriend of over year sitting on the floor watching Dance videos. NO big deal right? well i popped my head up a little further to disco...

Please tell me... how to break up with him???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4896 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - Me and my partner have been together for 5 years. in the 2nd year of my relationship he told me about his other girlfriend. we called her and he said to her that it was over between them. in the eve she called me back and told that they had sex 3 ...

Is this normal for a guy to not be able to finish?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - my boyfriend is 36 and im only 24. the other night we kinda hit a bump in our sex life and since i have never dated anyone this much older than me im not sure if what happened is normal and Idk what to think. we were having sex and everything was ...