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Archived questions from: June, 2013 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

I need fun things that we could do that doesn't involve sex but that would turn my B/f on when we are getting intimate

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3951 days ago

30 June 2013 (F) - Hi, I have been dating my boyfriend for over 2 months now..we have decided there won't be any sex(I believe in sex after marriage and he's ok with that) So I need fun things that we could do that doesn't involve sex but that would turn him on when...

My friend thinks he likes me and that I can change him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3950 days ago

30 June 2013 (F) - My close friend introduced me to her friend on a night out about six months ago and ever since then we've been flirting, texting, meeting up and sharing kisses and at first I didn't like him but now I really do and I'm worried the feelings aren't ...

I thought the dating was going well but he said he didn't want to commit

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3952 days ago

30 June 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, just hoping for a bit of advice on this one. Was dating a guy a few months back, who I got on really well with. He was quite hard to read at first, I wasn't sure whether he liked me as he would often look kind of awkward in my company, ...

All seemed OK, so why did she say: "'I want to be alone and have no feelings for you.' "

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3950 days ago

30 June 2013 (M) - Say you're seeing a woman for two months and everything is clicking, sex chemistry, views etc and suddenly she says 'I want to be alone and have no feelings for you.' And the time we spend together is amazing and fun. And she feels the same. I...

Dating a co-worker... should I avoid it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3952 days ago

30 June 2013 (F) - I am VERY attracted to one of my coworkers. We do not work directly together but do work in the same company at the same location. After a party we found we have a lot in common and he asked if I were interested in getting together sometime. YES!...

Is my mechanic taking me for a ride or was I rude to cancel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3952 days ago

30 June 2013 (F) - To the point.....I've know my mechanic for 5 years and I make an effort to have my car inspected and maintenance when he's there. We've met up twice outside of his job at a bookstore nothing serious. I consider him a honest reputable mechanic. We ...

I am frustrated with waiting for the woman I gave a promise ring too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3952 days ago

30 June 2013 (M) - I gave a promise ring to a woman that I haven't heard from her for 2 months before that we were seeing each other at least twice a week for three months. And but now i have been dating other women during that time cause we didn't talk for two months ...

Is this a legitimate stance to be in regarding a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3953 days ago

30 June 2013 (M) - (I am 22) I was discussing my lack of physical or romantic relationships of any kind with girls with a friend of mine who started dating at 14. She was saying I am a commitment phoebe, I disagree: my argument is that I need a relationship th...

Why do I find "softer" guys much more attractive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3950 days ago

29 June 2013 (F) - I'm a girl, and while I'm stereotypically feminine in a lot of ways (am always wearing dresses or skirts, into fashion and beauty, have a really girly voice), I also have a strong personality and am "masculine" in other ways. I love sports, lif...

Boyfriend took pictures of women on his cell phone. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3952 days ago

29 June 2013 (F) - I needed my boyfriends cell phone to make a call. On his cell was a picture of a woman in a bikini. I remembered her because we went to a local beach the other day and she was sleeping on a lounge chair next to my boyfriend. I was on a lounge ...

Whay makes a guy want to have a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3951 days ago

29 June 2013 (F) - What really attracts a guy to a girl to where he wants a relationship with her? I am an upbeat, down to earth, nice and understanding person. I am affectionate and loyal. I maybe a bit busy with work sometimes and have to cancel a date or two, but I ...

I want to make it clear that there will be no sex on the first date

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3953 days ago

29 June 2013 (F) - Basically, I am in a bit of a situation with this guy. I met him in a student bar and we hit it off. We had a bit to drink and ended up making out throughout the night. After this, we ended up exchanging numbers. He text me last week asking to meet ...

I'm engaged but my guy friend who's interested in me just wont take no for an answer

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3952 days ago

29 June 2013 (F) - Hi there, I have a question about one of my guy friends.He is a sweet guy that would do anything for me.We hang out get along great but are just friends. he has been hinting around that he wants more, but I have a fiance and just want to remain ...

How can I be the love of her life one day, then absolutely nothing the next day?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3952 days ago

29 June 2013 (F) - I've posted on here a couple of times recently. I had some great feedback. Basically, it was about my ex. She's been so on again-off again with me. One minute I'm the love of her life and she wants to live with me, marry me and have a family with ...

Is it just me of has anyone else noticed the same assumptions and consolations that people make when someone says that they've never had a girlfriend and are having difficulty finding one?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3952 days ago

28 June 2013 (M) - Is it just me of has anyone else noticed the same assumptions and consolations that people make when someone says that they've never had a girlfriend and are having difficulty finding one? 1) You have to be happy alone before you can be with some...

Will persistence pay off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

28 June 2013 (M) - There's this girl I've been having "something" with for the past few months. I was the one all throughout the relationship who pushed it forward (we used to be friends before). Like... I had to go in for the first kiss, ask her out on a "date",...

Separation and Dating, Part 2 of 2

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28 June 2013 (M) - Separation and Dating, Part 2 of 2 Separation does not automatically lead to divorce unless you let it. It is up to you and your partner to put in the work so that it does not happen. In the event you are the only one trying to work on yourself and ...

Why doesn't my boyfriend look for a job like he said he would?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3953 days ago

28 June 2013 (F) - Hello, My boyfriend has asked to be left alone at the moment. However, I dont know why. Before he texted me this, we had a quick mobile conversation about him saying that he's been feeling down recently because he doesn't have much money. Which I ...

Would it be better if I broke things off and concentrate on myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3951 days ago

28 June 2013 (F) - I'm constantly paranoid about my new relationship and don't know if I should stay in it. Last December I broke up with a guy I'd been with for four years. He left me, to be precise. At first he said he didn't love me any more but later I found ou...

Should I ask my guy if he ate alone or with a "friend"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3953 days ago

28 June 2013 (F) - Dear Aunts I need advice, I have been lied to by my BF over a year ago never sure if he cheated but was definetly keeping company with a friend, a girl that he has known a while. Well all was worked out and things have been great, lately very grea...

Do I ask my boyfriend about an old sex tape I found in his camera?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

28 June 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been living together for the last year. He is home for the summer and I'm staying here in the apartment. So, whenever he is gone, I always do deep cleaning. While I was cleaning the closet out, I came across an old camera ...

My B/f keeps interrogating me about my past and if he were to ever find out I have lied, he will end things. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

28 June 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and he is te type of person that just about interrogates me about guys in my past. I have nothing to be ashamed about and have only been with one person before him. He always asks about stupid things ...

I just want to find someone that I love and who loves me in return and I'm so scared that I'm never going to find the right guy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

28 June 2013 (F) - This isn't really a question asking for advice, more like asking for support so I'm brave enough to make the decision that I have to make. Please tell me that I'm doing the right thing for me? _________________ I started dating this guy a ...

I think my friend has Post Traumatic Stress disorder stemming from sexual abuse as a child. It's affecting her life and I have no idea what to do about it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

28 June 2013 (M) - I think my friend is suffering from post traumatic stress disorder. She was sexual abused as a little girl by both her brother and her uncle on separate occasions. Over the course of our relationship I kind of fell in love with her, much to her ...

Why is my boyfriend ignoring me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3951 days ago

28 June 2013 (F) - So my boyfriend hasn't talked to me in 6 days , he's been talking to literally everybody .. Except me. And he's going to the beach with 2 really pretty girls on Friday .. But I'm not going . I know I sound over protective but I don't know what to do ...

I’m afraid my impatience and my willingness to speak my mind, totally unabridged, will cause more harm than good

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

27 June 2013 (M) - For a 20 year old, I’m not very attached to my phone. Call me old fashioned, but I’d rather talk face to face, enjoy personal contact. And sure, I use email for work and school, and find time to text girlfriends, but as a single guy, I enjoy my ...

Could I be doing something wrong in my dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3954 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - I'm hoping someone can help me. Since I've never really been in a relationship before, I made an account on a website where you can meet and get to know new people in your area. It's like a dating site. Through out the last 5 months or so that...

Will he ever say "I love you"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - hello everyone.....I have a question which may sound silly but its really messing with my emotions right now. I met this guy we have been officially going out for nearly 2 months. I told him I loved him which I know I do so please don't say I cant...

Fat Issues and lots of Tissues: Question is, why would I stay in a relationship where I have to change to suit his ideals?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - Fat issues and tissues So my SO keeps calling me a fatso. Mmm that's abusive. I need to loose, for myself, 20 lbs Also in menopause and also 52 years old. But I'm very active, trying now to boost my metabolism I have put my relationship...

Any other females that have been through these feelings of the clock ticking have any advice? Or any males that could give me advice from their viewpoint?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - I'm 27 and I'm not not married, finishing school with my graduate degree in 2 years and by then I will be close to 30. It's starting to scare me only because I always thought that I would have met the right guy by now and all my friends are in ...

We just met and he told me how much he loves me, and that we could be friends with benefits if I'm not ready for a relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - Hi. I only met this guy who is of the same age as me, [mod note; age 17] 2days ago. He was very kind, everyone seems to enjoy his company. Yesterday he asked for my phone no. and i gave it to him without any hesitation and anxiety. Later on that day ...

Any ideas on surprising my boyfriend with a holiday?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - Hi, Not a big problem at all just looking for advice! I have decided for my one year anniversary with my boyfriend to book a holiday (go back to the place we had our first holiday - Egypt last January !) I know I'm thinking ahead but I want to pa...

He said he is not ready, should I wait or move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, It all started a few weeks ago. I started talking to this boy i knew back in school. I'm 26 now, he is 27. We went out for coffee on the first date, then a week later for coffee and lunch. He started getting extra attentive and we w...

My girlfriend never randomly contacts me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3955 days ago

27 June 2013 (M) - So I'm with my girlfriend for 2 years now, we lived together and everything was good, we never fight and are happy together. 2 weeks ago she had to move to another town that's 1 hour flight away to take care of some things at home. Since then...

Is an awkward first kiss a bad sign?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - I just had my first, very first, kiss with my, again, first boy-I-like-and-he-likes-me. And I got to say, it was...awkward. Don't get me wrong, I really like this guy! But we are both going off to different colleges (same state though) this fall and ...

I don't like it that my boyfriend has started using instagram

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3955 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - I am 27 years old and have been with my boyfriend for almost a year. I know he loves me very much and we both see a longterm future together. He recently started using instagram. I have a jealousy over it for some reason..i feely silly but it's h...

Afraid to tell my boyfriend I love him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3956 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - So I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and we've never said I love you to each other in person. We've only said it over text that's it. I really want to tell him on the phone tonight and I hope I can do it. I know he'll say it back, and I ...

Is the guy I'm dating just a bandaid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3956 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - So ive had a very complicated romantic history lately... i dated a guy off and on since 2010 (currently not together) we had a child together and moved into an apartment this year after a few months we split up because he seriously miss treated me ...

Why wasn't I enough? Why is this girl already in his heart the way I once was?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - I used to jump from relationship to relationship, until I learned that you need time to breathe and be alone in between. After an especially drawn out break up, I decided to spend one year single. Although it was difficult, it was also the most ...

Boyfriend can't let go of former lover

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3832 days ago

26 June 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a few months and are in our late 30's; somewhat older and wiser, you could say. Unfortunately with age comes more baggage. From the beginning there was a "red flag": his very close friendship with another ...

Why have I Been alone this long?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

26 June 2013 (M) - Ive never had anyone in my life say the like me, Ive never had a girlfriend, Ive never Had a passionate hug, I fought in the army, Served 12 years, And when i was just a kid my mom told me i'd find someone, all the way through school no one ever ...

I'm feeling rubbish about myself because I can't get my girlfriend to orgasm!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

26 June 2013 (M) - I'm good at getting girls off and always been very confident about it. My new girlfriend acts just like the others getting closer and closer until its like she's about to orgasm when she pushes me away saying everything is too sensitive. I'm used to ...

Is it common for men in committed relationships to engage in behaviors like this with another woman? Why is he doing this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

26 June 2013 (F) - I'm a single female and a few months ago, had a chance to get to know a male colleague of mine who's located in a city 4 hours away. We hit it off immediately and very quickly became friends though common interests. After our first meet, we have not ...

I am addicted to chasing men and I don't know how to stop

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

26 June 2013 (F) - Hi there. I am a woman in her early thirties, and I think I have an addiction to chasing men. I know that many people will read this and want to give me the advice "just stop" but if it was that easy I would have done it a long time ago. I real...

I joke that I'm guy repellant, but it kind of hurts. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

26 June 2013 (F) - There's a guy that I work with that seems like he likes me, but he's hot and cold about it. If we're around people, he'll try and say hi or talk to me. Otherwise if we're alone together he'll tense up and avoid me. I'm shy and quiet, but frien...

Play hard to get or wear my emotions on my sleeve?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - dear cupid, Its an exciting time of my life, I was introduced to a man about 2 1/2 weeks ago and I'm totally diggin him. Let me share with you though, I consider myself new to the dating scene since the last man I dated was my ex who I was in a rel...

Right person, Wrong time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - Hey guys I have a question more for all of you. Is there such a thing as meeting the RIGHT person at the WRONG time. I met who I am pretty sure is the love of my life or at least I want him to be, 2 and a half years ago. We were in a long dist...

How can you tell someone theyre being unfair without it descending into a massive argument.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3957 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - Im going through a custody battle right now and I have court on friday so this whole time is quite stressful for me. Well my boyfriends been going out on weekends staying out all night and I dont know where he is. He keeps talking to is ex who h...

How are things in a relationship after the honeymoon phase wears off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3957 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - Hey everyone, I may sound a litle paranoid or probably worrying for no reason! Let me just give u an insight I'm dating this guy for 2 months now and things are just perfect to the point I think its a fairytale,he loves me,cares for me,looks ou...

My boyfriend blames me for losing his best friend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - I need some help. im gunna jump right into this. Ive been with my bf for 4 years now. he had a best friend he use to do everything with and i was ok with him till i started figureing out what kinnda guy he was. ever since my bf fell in love wit...