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Archived questions from: November, 2005 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

He is a terrific bf-I don't want ruin this by becoming lazy and not contributing more.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

30 November 2005 (F) - I don't want to be selfish when it comes to my relationship with my bf, but he just ends up doing so many nice things with me and planning little days out and all these ideas...I don't want to get lazy and expect him to do everything...how can I ...

Why do I feel awkward when my boyfriend talks about us in the future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6716 days ago

30 November 2005 (F) - Sometimes I feel myself getting scared when my bf talks about the future with me. It seems like he's picturing me in his future, which I think is great, but how about if we aren't together for that long? I feel like I don't wnat him to get his hopes ...

Help me Ladies! What are the signs this lass fancies me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5890 days ago

30 November 2005 (M) - Come on ladies, how do I tell if a lass at work fancies me, signs, don't say just ask her because I have been wrong in the past, what signs can I look for. Help!...

Is she cheating on me? The signs are there but I don't know for sure.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6105 days ago

30 November 2005 (M) - Hi,I am a 23 year old guy,and my girlfriend is 19 and we been together for 5 years,we are having some problems. It first started out 2 months ago she was at work and she let some guy use her car and I had to find out myself about it,and then she had ...

How can I get my parents to understand he is a genuine guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6719 days ago

30 November 2005 (F) - Hi there, I'm looking for some advice on my problem: I'm a 16 year old girl (turning 17), in high school. For the last few years ive had a really good friend, lets call him John* who lived in a different state to me (we live in Australia). Now i al...

Something different as a present for my 16 year old boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5980 days ago

30 November 2005 (F) - Ok...I have absolutely no idea what to get my 16 year old boyfriend for christmas. He told me he'd be happy with anything as long as it was from me, but it doesn't make me want to get him a good pressie any less and besides which i have no idea what ...

Does she feel the same way for me.. that I do for her? Help me figure this out!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

30 November 2005 (M) - This is so tricky, I don't know what to do! (Sorry this is so long, but it's a complicated mess I'm in!) My best friend and I have been friends longer than I could ever remember (my parents say it has been since we were both two), and we both c...

Is she just scared of dating or...way too immature for a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

30 November 2005 (M) - ok im 20 years old and ive known this girl since she was like 13 now shes 17 and we've met up and are now dating i really like her and treat her better than i've treated most girls in the past. we've been together for about 3 weeks and im feeling a ...

We're dating but she's always too busy to get together! Is it time to throw in the towel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6720 days ago

30 November 2005 (M) - I have been dating this girl for the past few months. She says I am perfect and she doesn't want to lose me, but wants us to step back. It's been weeks and we still havent gone out together. I get shot down everytime I try to arrange something. ...

She thinks her vagina is icky-so how do I convince my girl, to let me perform oral sex on her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6719 days ago

29 November 2005 (M) - i want to please my girlfriend, but she thinks that i wouldn't like going down on her because she thinks that its slimy and therefore icky... is there any way i can convince her that i would enjoy it and that she would too?...

She said my bf cheated with her. He denied it... but wouldn't agree to confronting her with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6708 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 8 months. I was surfing this website one day and I wanted to see if he was on it too. It turned he was. I clicked on the person he had in his friend's list. While reading the things she posted, I ...

I am involved with someone else...but my ex bf wants me to take him back. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6719 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - I asked a question on what to do when I saw my boyfriend was making life a living hell for me. Now he's back telling me he's sorry and that I should take him back. The problem now is that, I have someone else and I don't know if I still have ...

The man who keeps telling me he loves me keeps dumping me for his "friend"!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6720 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - I've started dating a guy about 5 months ago. When I met he told me about a friend that he had for 4yrs...a friend that he had been having sex with. She was in love with him but he wasn't in love with her. That she understood their relationship and ...

I love my girlfriend...but very intrigued with her best friend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

29 November 2005 (M) - I am 16 years old and i love my girlfriend very much. But recently I'm feeling strange about her best friend. I think I might be in love with her too. What do I do? I feel like my girlfriend could be my soul mate but then I'm intrigued by the best ...

Our sex life has all but disappeared! How can we improve the intimacy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6720 days ago

29 November 2005 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 10 months and our sex life has all but disappeared. I am very troubled by this because we were friends before we started dating and she used to tell me openly about her sex life with former boyfriends. ...

My bf's mate is so hot and I'm tempted to cheat.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6720 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - Ok. my boyfriend doesn't pressure me to have sex, we're rather content in our relationship, I'm VERY infatuated with him, but his friend and I are more in sync, I really have the hots for this friend, he understands me, he's hot and he's really ...

He's never said he loves me-is there a way to find out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6713 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - Does he love me or not? I'm 25, bf 24. We're in grad school together, dating for 10 mos (incl 3 long-distance, while he was in Eur. over the summer and I in NY), friends 4 mos before dating. I've had 2 very serious relationships, both of which la...

We're still engaged but his family doesn't like me-part II

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6721 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - Continued from NOV. 28..."we're engaged but his family doesn't like me"....Yes, he has problems with his sister and dad. The thing is that his sister knew my brother, my brother drank and everything, so she thinks that I am like my brother. I ...

His Mom blames me for problems she caused. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6709 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - I am 15 years old and my boyfriend is 18. His mom likes me sometimes, but then will call and say she dosen't want me near him anymore. She blames me for things that she has actually caused. The only time I can talk to him is when he can sneak a ...

He's 27, he's immature-we break up but he keeps contacting me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6720 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - We broke up 2 months ago. It only took me 4 days of ignoring him for him to miss me and come back.This is the 4th time we had broken up. He always dumps me because we argue about stupid things because we are both stubborn. But the real reason is ...

My boyfriend would be perfect, except that he feels I'm not good enough for his family!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

28 November 2005 (F) - My bf and I have been together for almost 6 months. I am 29 and he is 27. I have three children from a previous marriage, he has never been married and does not have children. He lives about 30 miles from me, and works about 5 miles from me. H...

I love my friend but his friend wants me...help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6721 days ago

28 November 2005 (F) - hi im inlove with one of my best friends i no he likes me too but he has a girlfriend. now i found out his best mate (my good mate) likes me instead i dont know what to do because i no they talk about me when im not there please help!...

Is this guy interested in me...or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6721 days ago

28 November 2005 (M) - I've been going out very happily with a new boyfriend since late August. He's been very attentive and very gentlemanly, even as a lover - but we would see each other about once a week. He is very overweight and drinks a lot. However, recently he's ...

I told him I fancied another guy to make him jealous but it backfired!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6705 days ago

28 November 2005 (?) - I really like this guy. He is 18 I am 16. He is from Dubai but recently came over to Wales to go to college. I didnt know he liked me at first and i told him i fancied his friend to see if he got jealous. Which he did, then i told him i fancied him ...

I'm too young to get engaged-but I think I may be getting a ring at christmas!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6112 days ago

28 November 2005 (F) - hello, I am 17 and i have been with my partner of 22 for two years in december. I keep hearing of proposing at christmas and engagement. But i feel i'm too young for this and i have a cousin that is my age and she knew her boyfriend for si...

Scared to hear his verdict about our relationship. Will he want to break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6721 days ago

28 November 2005 (M) - My boyfriend has "come back" from his time of space, he has sent me a message asking to call him, as we have a lot of things to talk about. I have feeling THAT THIS IS IT. He is breaking up with me, he always signed of his messages reading i love ...

We're engaged but his family doesn't like me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

28 November 2005 (F) - I've been dating a guy for quite a long time now, he proposed to me, but his sister doesn't like me and has a strong impression on him, not changing his mind, but just making him angry. His mom is the only one in his family that he really gets ...

Ideas for a christmas gift?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6722 days ago

27 November 2005 (F) - Hey everyone. umm.. I'll get straight to the point my boyfriend is 16 and I'm 15. I'm finding it hard to find out what to get him for xmas could anyone help me thank you....

What if the guy I'm hanging out with already has a girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6722 days ago

27 November 2005 (F) - I am a 30 year old woman who lives in England. I have met a guy who I clicked with straightaway; he is a real gentleman, is very easy to talk to, and I find him very attractive. However, he has, or did have earlier in the year, a girlfriend. I...

My long distance girfriend wants to get back together again...should I go for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6717 days ago

26 November 2005 (M) - My ex-girlfriend has resurfaced in my life after a year and a half of being apart. We were together for 2 and a half years, but she moved to pursue her career, and couldn't handle the distance and broke it off. Now, she's been calling me, saying she ...

I'm worried about seeing my girfriend again, now that I live far away.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6722 days ago

26 November 2005 (M) - Me and my girlfriend live miles from each other and phone and email every night but I am worried I won't see her again as I live with my aunty now. What can I do?...

I'm feeling sad that he has contacted me in quite a few days. What's going on with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6723 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - I am in a relationship, everything is great so far. It is just that over our Thanksgiving break he has not wrote me an email since Friday November 18, 2005. I can't have phone calls so our communication is emailing. I do call him sometimes. We ...

I like a lot of sex and she is refusing. Am I driving her away or is she trying to bail out on this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6722 days ago

26 November 2005 (M) - i have been with my girlfriend for 12months now but i think i have a few problems. it all started 2 months ago. she said to me that all i wanted her was for sex but i enjoy having sex and i do feel like i always want to have sex with her. so she...

Is he flirting? And if he is..does he really like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - hi. i'm 16 and i really fancy this guy. my friends have told me we flirt. since my party we're always poking and smiling at each other. then my friend told me she has seen him staring. and also..when i was getting stressed he sat with me and grab...

He has a crush on me but I still have feelings for the other guy, I broke up with!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6723 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - Hi I recently broke up with this boy cus he was only going out with me cus he was desperate 4 a girlfriend ! At my school disco I danced with this boy that has a crush on me. he's really sweet but I still have feeling's 4 the over guy !!!!...

I fear intimacy, so I trust no one.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6722 days ago

26 November 2005 (M) - I am 24 and am scared of intimacy for the fear of getting abandoned and hurt. I can trust no one. I believe ppl are too much cruel for my tender inner self. Please advice. ...

My boyfriend and I argue over the dumbest things..how can we stop doing this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6233 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 7 months, we both love each other very much and we plan on spending the rest of our lives together. Yet, it seems the past month or so we've just been arguing and fighting over the dumbest things. I'm not sure ...

My best friend is dating and now ignores me. It's very upsetting so am I over reacting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6721 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - hiya, i have been best mates with this girl for 3 and a half yrs and we get on really well and have a laugh. but this all ended when she started dating this boy. she has left me on my own for hours standing in the cold because she is to busy with ...

His son hates me! Please give me tips on how to improve the situation.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6723 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - Hi I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months now. He's a really good guy, we are great together and i love him dearly, but lately we've been fighting quite a bit. He has a 2 1/2 year old son who i've also grown to love, but lately he's been a bit ...

He seems very inconsiderate..should I marry him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6723 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - I used my credit card to rent a car for to go on a 6 hr trip that my boyfriend needed to do, work related. He asked me to rent it for one day and go with him. I did but now he is rushing us to go back because he does not want to pay for another day. ...

Lonely and so horny..does anyone have tips to share?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6722 days ago

25 November 2005 (F) - I am completly misunderstood by everyone. I am a female but I have male instincts I always want sex it is the best thing in the world to me. But since I am in high school I dont sleep with many guys. Vibrators dont give me any good feelings. I like ...

She tells me she loves me...but only when she's drunk!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6723 days ago

25 November 2005 (M) - I have been dating this girl for three months now. Most of the time we were inseparable, she would always be telling me how much she liked me and how she was waiting for someone like me. She tells me that she loves me everytime she's drunk. But ...

My girlfriend makes me feel paranoid when she says I express my feelings to her too much.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6724 days ago

25 November 2005 (M) - me and my girlfriend have been together since december last year. so far we have had a great relationship but over the past month things have gone all weird and i dont know where we are going. we haven't had sex for about a month as she said all ...

I need some tips...how do you keep a guy interested when it comes to kissing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6723 days ago

25 November 2005 (F) - Does anyone have any kissing tips? I am having a hard time keeping guys intrastead. When it comes to kissing....

My friends told him I fancied him...what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6724 days ago

25 November 2005 (F) - Hi, theres this really cute boy at school that I really like. I don't think hes had many girlfriends, and when i told my friends i fancied him, they ruined it by telling him! I think they've scared him off! When they told him, he asked to see who I ...

How do I deal with girls fancing my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6722 days ago

25 November 2005 (F) - hi. I am going out with my boyfriend for 7 months. wE were best friend before so ive known him 2 years and since we've been together it has been perfect. He is a university student and lives with 3 girls! I know 2 of the girls like him and he kissed ...

She wants a 'no strings attached' relationship but I want a committment.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

25 November 2005 (M) - dear cupid i have been in a relationship for the past year. i am 18 and she is 17. we went on a break recently which lasted 7 weeks. we got back with each other and then she told me she wasn't sure what she wanted. she say's that she still wants to ...

I want to get my boyfriend something special and memorable for Christmas...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6725 days ago

25 November 2005 (F) - It's time to shop for Christmas presents but I have no idea what to buy for by boyfriend. He plays soccer and baseball, eats a lot, listens to soft rock and some rap. Whenever I ask him what he wants, he says he has everything he needs in me. T...

I can't understand why a woman who seems to like me keeps me at arms' length!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6726 days ago

23 November 2005 (M) - At the start of October, I kept bumping into a girl when I was out at the weekend. After a few weeks, we started emailing each other. Then she came home from uni three weekends ago and we got on well. She asked me out to a gig the following weekend. ...

13 years old and I want a boyfriend

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6650 days ago

23 November 2005 (F) - hello i am 13 an i am so very woried that i havn't snogged a boy every one else in my year have and i have only ever had one real boyfreind what should i do because i realy want to get off with a boy but none of the boys at skool like me and i dont ...