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Dating: Help and advice

Will girls still want me if I have waist fat?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

10 October 2009 (M) - Hi i'm kobi. I have gotten a little bit overweight recently but still want a girlfriend. will girls still want me? I mean, i'm doing my best to lose weight at the moment but I'm not sure whether I'll still be attractive with some waist fat. can a...

Why do I attract pieces of shit?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - WHY DO I ATTRACT PIECES OF SHIT? I'm having a total break-down! I've been reflection on stuff and I want to scream...........is it me? what am i doing wrong? here's the story: I was with my ex for 13 years!!!(hs bf). He did NOTHING! I went ...

Has a friend messed it up for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - I'm so confused! I told a boy in year 9 (Im in year 8) that I had a crush on him and he replied back as 'I fancy you a bit too' We were talking and he seemed really sweet, so I put him as a shoutout on my MSN name with a love heart, messages ...

Am I in a love triangle?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

10 October 2009 (M) - hello dear readers, so i sposted allready lot's of questions.The story is like this i've been seeing a girl for 4 months, and beetween us is real serios.She loves me and she does everything for me, we went o vacation together, she slept at my house ...

I was gutted when my friend asked him out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - Here's my problem: I really clicked with this guy who goes to my college, quicker than any friend I have ever made. He's really physical and touches me a lot. He likes carrying me around, sitting next to me - when our knees touch under the table ...

Is my lack of reaching out proof that I didn't like or care about him as much as I thought?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - So I have been talking to this guy for a little less than a year. We don't attend the same school so it's mostly through the phone and text messages. However, I do visit as often as I can. Now I have grown to like and care for him greatly and ...

My boyfriend is trying to finger me while I am asleep. Why is he being so crude?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year. We're adults and live in our own places, however we have a situation when it comes to sex. I've recently gained weight and I feel unattractive and insecure. Everytime he tries to initiate sex I ...

We confessed we liked each other over a month ago. What should I do next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

10 October 2009 (M) - me and her used to be friends but then we confessed we liked each other, that was over a month ago and now things have pretty much gone back to how they were before, we haven't talked about our feelings since. I know she trusts me enough to tell me ...

Can someone help me break this pattern in relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - Hi every body i have something abnormal when it comes to the matter of heart. Every time when i feel that a guy loves me and i find some emothional feeling in my heart this guy treats me like his lover but they never speak about it. every time it ...

He took something very special to me. Should I confront him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - okayy so theres this guy ive liked for quite some time, we were all at this party and i was drinking a little to much, i poured my heart out to him and told him how i felt, we stated talking alot, than he took me off into this room, and we started ...

I don't want to waste time if he doesn't like me. Is there hope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5318 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - Welllll! Okay, so I kind of like this boy in my biology classs. He sits infront of me. And he kind of flirts with me but I can't tell if he's a flirt and just a waste of my time or maybe, possibly likes me. The girl next to me told me the other ...

If he really wanted me...why would he push me away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - i need some advice about what to do..i'm really hurt...every time i think of him i get this weird feeling in my stomache..and i feel like crying..like idk why i even care but i do..i was really into this guy:( I met this guy last year during the...

How do I get a balance in this relationship? She's clingy and demanding...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

10 October 2009 (M) - I am 20 years old and my girlfriend 18. We love each other. It’s our first real relationship. We have been together for 9 months. We are comfortable with each other. The problem with our relationship is that she’s very clingy and needy. But I don’t ...

What is the significance of a forehead kiss?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

10 October 2009 (M) - So i was @ my Ex girlfreinds, well Girlfreinds, she asked me to give it another go with her last nite, so i went to her house and we was Holding each other, and she asked me to kiss her on the FOREHEAD, What is the significance of a Forehead kiss? t...

He just wants to be friends. Is there any possibility that I can be with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - I am in love with a guy that I have known for a long time. He was good friends with my ex husband before we had an affair. My ex husband was very abusive and controlling. After the affair the guy I'm in love with moved away and I stayed with my ex ...

Does he want to have a child with me now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

10 October 2009 (?) - im 16, my boyfriend is 18, we have been together for 4 months, but we have known eachother for almost a year. when school ends in june, he will be leaving for college and enlisting in the navy. yet, we want to keep our relationship together. he says ...

I feel deep in my soul that he's "the one". Why won't he ask me out on a date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - What is it about when a man has been showing interest in having a relationship with me for over a year and a half but won't ask me out for a date? He is going through a divorce after a long term marriage and having a very hard time of it. I am...

Am I wrong for not wanting her to be friends with a guy from her past?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5318 days ago

10 October 2009 (M) - My fiancee doesnt like me associating with other women. She can be very jealous. I dont have a problem with that. I can be too. I dont have any girl friends, and my interactions with women are very limited. I wouldnt hang out or associate with other ...

Why won't he make a step forward?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - I have got a crush on this guy in my class. Most of the times we kinda tease each other, laugh, sometimes even argue (others think it's in a sweet and cute way). We get a little touchy feely at times.. But when we are in public or with friends....

Is she toying with me for her amusement?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

10 October 2009 (M) - help im really confused! This girl at my high school keeps writing me notes about how she is a virgin. this started happening about three weeks ago and its starting to get worse. Then in the halls i ran into her and she was like what the hell are ...

Help! I don't know how to decide between the two...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

10 October 2009 (M) - Well... This is something that I don't know how to deal with. How do I do the right thing? There are two girls who I like. The first one I am really close to. She knows how I feel about her. Thing is though, she never rejected me as such...

The boy I like told everyone at school I was a frigid!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - Well, I've loved this boy since year 6. ( I'm now in year 10.) And I've been out with him nearly 10 different times but it doesn't last long because I refuse to kiss him. It not my fault though because I was raped when I was younger. He doesn't seem ...

I guy I like kissed another girl! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - basically this guy i like liked me a couple of weeks ago round about august time, my best friend knew i liked him and she knew he liked me back, i only found this out after he went to a party and kissed another girl. i am really upset, i don't know ...

Why would a guy show a girl he likes her and then just disappear?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - college started for 3 wks, I haven't seen my crush for the whole summer and since schools started he's been showing more attention to me. He would stare at me try to keep eye contact and I felt him trying to be around me. When we are in the same...

Do I have the right to tell him off?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - im in a ldr. i came down to see him this weekend. on my way here, driving, he asked if i was going to come see him. his mother said no because itll be 11 pm by the time i got to miami. however, he and his brother are allowed to go to their friends ...

How do I make him notice me and love me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - hi i am a 13 year old girl and i have fallen in love with a boy in my class but he loves my best friend and i am getting jealous she is very sexy and i am ok but how can i make him notice me, talk to me, and love me. please help me out or else i ...

Any advice to make things less painful while I wait for this 17yr old to turn 18?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

10 October 2009 (M) - I'm 26 and falling fast in love with a 17 year old. We both know how each other feels and have agreed to wait until she is 18 to have a relationship. This is pretty complicated as I know and almost dated this girls older sister. Not to mention i ...

Should I wait it out with a player or move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - If you fell in love with a player geniunely and he gave up all of his chicks to be with you and you have been dating for almost 2 years and you told a lie about someone you said you had a phone conversation with and all you really did was ...

He suddenly started ignoring me and messing my head up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5318 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - Hi, im hoping you could help me out here. Let me begin by giving you a little background info...but before i do theres something you must know. The guy im talking about is in NO WAY a player or anything, be is one of the nicest guys you'll ever ...

How do I go about asking him out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5319 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - Hi, i hope you can help with this situation.My Grandma joined a theatre group recently, she isn't a part of the group now though.When i saw one of the plays she was in, i started to like this guy in the play. We have kept intouch on Facebook. He has ...

Why does this girl run so hot and cold?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5319 days ago

10 October 2009 (M) - So, theres this girl brittany in two of my classes , shes 15 and very cute and i know point blank that she likes me, but recently shes been getting pretty strange. For one, she gave me her number but then didnt get back to my text. When i asked her ...

How do I handle such strong feelings I have for a guy when I'm in a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for over three years now. my boyfriend is a very sweet and kind person. I know that he accepts me for who I am and I do not feel like I have to work to impress him. When we first began dating I was completely head over ...

I like two girls but who should I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

10 October 2009 (M) - So I've known two girls for the last two years: let's call them Sophie and Katy. I've probably talked to Sophie more and we get along really well (same type of humor and things like that), but she's really shy and kind of a loner. So, she doesn't ...

Does it seem like he still likes me or has he moved on to that other girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5319 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - So this boy liked me but I'm not sure anymore I liked him back and I still like him he's always hanging around with this other girl that he liked before me they hug each other all the time and talk privately to each other I'm starting to g...

How do I help him stop undergoing unnecessary pain?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend gets upset about my past (not really a wild past, but it upsets him). He's very confused, because he loves me. However, he says rationally, he knows the past is long gone and that I love him now, but that irationally he can't help ...

I am bi and in my first relationship...how far should I take it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

10 October 2009 (M) - Hello all, this is slightly long so bear with me So i need some advice. i am a 22 year old male. i am in my first relationship, she the only women i have been with. We met through work and are at a distance, so it is slightly hard, it being a...

Should I tell him he kissed a guy when he was drunk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - I am in a new relationship with a man I very much love. Our relationship is going really well, and I think he's the man I may want to marry. Last night, though, I was at a friend's birthday party and got blackout drunk and apparently kissed a guy ...

I have a girlfriend but I really like this older girl!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5319 days ago

10 October 2009 (M) - i have a girlfriend but i really like this older girl in my band and we flirt alot but she has boyfriend. should i try to ask her out and if so how?...