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I've been snooping and finding messages my boyfriend has sent to people on Craigslist

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted today

20 August 2017 (F - Hi everyone My boyfriend and I have been living together for 2 years dating for 3. This summer we moved to a new town for his work. He really hated the job but had to do it to move up. One week, our sex life was amazing, he was tired but came h...

If my husband loves me like he says he does then why can't I shake the feelings that he's been unfaithful?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted today

19 August 2017 (F - Hi everybody, I have never done this before so here goes.. I have been married to my husband for 12 years. We have been together for 15 years. I ma 38 and he is 53. I love him so much and there's nothing I wouldn't do for him. I'm in scho...

My very best friend is cheating on her partner! Do I tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted today

19 August 2017 (F - Please help. She is my very bestfriend for 17 Years. WE See really good with each other. I care for her. I know her very much and everything what she do is open to me. Thats how she trust me. My Problem is, i visited Her 2 months ago. Thats ...

His ex randomly pops up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

17 August 2017 (F - My .... ex? current bf?... I don't know what we are... we dated for a year,he cheated several times, I broke up with him and 6 months later we are seeing each other and acting like a couple. To him and his friends and immediate family, he introduces ...

Married co-worker I'm having an affair with is now ignoring me

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

10 August 2017 (F - Im a married woman who has been having a fling if you call it that with a married co-worker. Now that weve slept together hes been ignoring my texts yet still speaks to me in work like nothing has happened.( a week ago) Im so confused by this. Im ...

What to do with my cheating friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

10 August 2017 (F - One of my girlfriends whom I have been friend for a year has had the tendency to sleep with men that are taken or take men from our circle - example one of our other gfs liked this guy at the bar and started talking to him- apparently he also liked ...

I blurted out I LOVE YOU to my married boyfriend. Why does he still want to be with me?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

8 August 2017 (F - I told my married boyfriend of 3.5 years that I LOVE HIM yesterday. It just came out. I did not mean to say it but I did. He was asking me why do I stay with a guy like him? He called himself average, boring, not so attractive yet said I am ...

I ended the affair but he keeps contacting me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

8 August 2017 (F - I have been involved with a married man for over 5 years....he said he's in a sexless marriage and his wife doesn't show him any affection....he can't leave her yet as he feels he would be abandoning his kids even though they are in their late ...

Should I tell his girlfriend he's been having an online affair with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

7 August 2017 (F - So I met a guy online and instantly fell for him. We live cross country so the chances of us meeting were pretty slim I guess. Still, he told me how much he liked me and wished he lived closer so I could be his girlfriend. At one point, he even said ...

Cheating past discovered via old emails! Should I confront him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

5 August 2017 (F - ve been with my bf for almost 10 years now. I've never had any issues, and never even had a slight suspicion that he would do anything he's not supposed to, and never had trust issues with him (maybe I'm too naive?) one thing always peeved me off ...

My wife is a masseuse but I'm not sure of her "exchange network". Should I hack into her account?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

5 August 2017 (M - After i had some business problems my wife decided to qualify as a masseuse and try and bring in an income. That was 4 years ago.After a year of working in a Spa she decided to work from home. She said a lot of her regulars had said they would co...

My boyfriend doesn't want to talk about sex or have sex. Why?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

2 August 2017 (F - My bf is 26, I'm 32. He is very sexual, likes porn, been caught cheating several times. We've broken up and just recently got back together. I've noticed that he seems very uncomfortable watching porn with me, talking about sex, and does not like to ...

Why wasn't the fact that he was married and a baby on the way enough to stop him from cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

31 July 2017 (F - I just found out that my husband cheated on me. Him and I are "newlyweds" we married in may 2017 and his affair happened from February to early May 2017. He is in the army and he used to be based only 3 hours away from our hometown. He would visit ...

Are my fears reasonable?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

30 July 2017 (F - My bf, who I will call DH and I go to watch his nephew play VB (volleyball) on the varsity high school team. The team had sort of a team mother who went to all the games and drove kids to away games. I’ll call her the TM. The TM had come up to DH ...

When are you supposed to be "over it" when your partner cheats?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

30 July 2017 (F - I have a question that I'm betting A LOT of people do that visit this website. If your in a relationship and you are madly deeply in love with the person your with. Time goes by and you find out that they have been lying to you many times and ...

My boyfriend is cheating, pressuring me to have sex. I'm afraid he'll leave me if I don't give in

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

29 July 2017 (F - I am 19 and even tho i know all my friends are having sex, i know it doesn't mean i have to but i'm getting a lot of pressure from my boyfriend to do it right now. The pressure seems to be more and more as the days go on. And I will be honest, i ...

How can I cope with seeing a co-worker that I was involved with?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

28 July 2017 (F - Hi, I recently was involved with a man at work however it hasn't worked out as I planned :-( . We never had sex , just hugs, kisses and loved each other's company. We have had an amazing time together and I really thought he cared about me. He used ...

Why do I want him so much? With no cares about who gets hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

26 July 2017 (F - The below is a story about, love, betrayal, cheating, and fate... In order for you to understand my story, I have to take it back TO THE BEGINNING. 6 years ago I met my now ex-boyfriend. After a year of us dating, we both moved across the count...

Married man who I was having an affair with refuses to leave me alone

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

26 July 2017 (F - Hello, Aunts! I've had an affair with a married man for over a year now. At first, I was swept off my feet by this man, whom I later found out was married. However, I stayed as he narrated the stories of his failing marriage and his impending di...

How is the best way to deal with social media and ex partners?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

26 July 2017 (F - My partner and i separated about 4 weeks ago. We had been together 4 years. The break up was horrible. He called me one day at work told me he cheated on me then dumped me...i was in shock because i had no idea anything was wrong.im still hurting. ...

My married lover has been conflicted lately. What is next?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

24 July 2017 (F - Hi. I'm not looking to be judged. I am just looking for some good, sound advice as this situation is not one you can discuss openly. And as happy as it can be, it can also be difficult and very painful. I am not sure how to address this. I hope you ...

I forgave him after his betrayal, but how can I warm this love up again?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

24 July 2017 (F - I am 27, yet still so naive in love. I will try to make this as short as possible. Both times when being betrayed, I never had a doubt because he was still treating me as good as we used to be. 6 months ago, my bf had feelings for a gir...

Is this woman trying to break up our marriage? She claims my husband cheated with her

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

22 July 2017 (F - My husband and i have been married for 8 years with 3 Kids and pregnant at the moment. I have never caught him cheating. But my Brother exgirlfriend told my Brother that she went out my husband and they had sex. Then my husband gave her money. When ...

Advice please on my crush on a policeman

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

22 July 2017 (F - I am 17 year old young woman! I have a strong attraction to a local cop, because he responded to a home invasion when i was all alone one summer.. I fell for him because he was such a quick responder, like 5 mins. He was so sweet, very experienced. ...

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