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Iv recently found out my wife has had sex with women

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted yesterday

21 September 2018 (M - Hi, found this site accidentally while googling my issue. Ive been with someone 28 years and married 25 years, been together since late teens, thought everything was ok but now I know isnt. Iv recently found out my wife has had sex on more that a ...

Do I just forget about it since my partner hasn’t technically said anything wrong to her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted yesterday

17 September 2018 (F - I’m not sure if I’m overreacting or not (as I do tend to) but my partner has a work and personal phone. The other month I had to use his work phone to get a contact and I came across messages over a few days to his female colleague. It was general ...

Should I tell my partner about this encounter I had?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

15 September 2018 (F - Hi I’m not proud of what I’m about to write I feel very ashamed I’ve been with my partner for 5 years I went out had a lot to drink and ended up going back to a mans place we had oral but not penetrative sex i think I done it as I’ve been unhappy in ...

My husband has blocked me on his phone and adds, texts other women

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

12 September 2018 (F - Hi aunts I got my second marriage and I got trust issues now because my first marriage ended with betrayal and I am afraid this might turn up in same manner. I don't understand if all men do this. My husband is always checking his Facebook account...

I kissed my ex when on a break from my boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

11 September 2018 (F - I need help, me and my boyfriend always break up and this time I thought we broke up for good, but no. He came back like always. But while we broke up I kissed my ex. And I feel so bad about it but I don’t know what to do. My boyfriend told me he ...

Was I really nothing more than a sexual conquest to him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

10 September 2018 (F - I am 29 yrs old in a loveless marriage. I married a good friend thinking things will spice up post marriage but unfortunately there is everything in this relationship but passion. I do love my husband a lot and likewise but we have not had sex in 2 ...

Dating apps and cheating in a long distance relationship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

7 September 2018 (F - I have been in a relationship for the past 8 years. It has been long distance since 2014 due to work and family issues on his side. I can work remotely, so have been backwards and forwards from Ireland, where my family lives and where I usually ...

My boyfriend is on a dating app! What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

7 September 2018 (F - My boyfriend is on a dating app online for an hour. There's no photos and details but it says single looking for a relationship and half the profile is false to hide his identity. As soon as he went to sleep the profile said offline. What should I ...

How do I stop being a glutton for punishment?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

4 September 2018 (F - I was involved with attached guy for over a year.I'm not sure if he is actually married or common law but he lives with his kids mother and thier twin boys.When we met he told me that their relationship was over but just trying to figure out what's ...

He keeps using dating apps!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

4 September 2018 (F - I keep catching my fella using dating apps. First he denies it and calls me paranoid, then he says it is me who goes on them and that is why i am so suspicious, then he admits it and says it is just for a laugh and has not any intention of meeting ...

My husband cheated while we were separated

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

3 September 2018 (F - Hi, I have been married for 14 years now and have a 11 year old son. I walked out of his home 7 years back when I couldnt get along with his parents and he wasnt ready to live separately with ME. He would come and see me and my son on weekends. But ...

Did my girlfriend cheat on me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

3 September 2018 (M - I’m 43yrs of age I been with my girlfriend for 14yrs an she is 32yrs of age. for the last few months we been having alot of great sex like everyday then one day for 3hrs she went to work and next day we had sex an her vagina was alittle opening ...

Why would my cheating wife try to contact me after 6 months of NC?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

29 August 2018 (M - Well it's been almost 7 months since my cheating wife left me for her boss. Although she never admitted to an affair I have mountains of evidence proving otherwise. Long story short... I thought I had her blocked on everything. I have been ...

I don't feel guilty for cheating

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

28 August 2018 (F - Things with my bf have been Rocky for a while. We've been together nearly 4 years. We hardly sleep together, we never go to restaurants, we argue alot but when I've suggested we break up he gets teapot upset and says things like without you I will ...

He's messing around with that other girl, he's the one that moved out leaving me paying all the bills when I'm unemployed and yet somehow I'm at fault?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

27 August 2018 (F - Hi guys, this will be a long one so please bear with me... I moved abroad around 3 years ago for work. Two years in, I met Jay who I thought was, as tacky as it sounds, the one for me. I had never had this connection with anybody before and there...

My partner betrayed me by breaking our swinging rules

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

27 August 2018 (F - Me and my partner tried swinging it was his idea. Before I drank alcahol I told him what I was and was not ok with and that he should respect my wishes. He said ok. I got drunk and he broke all the rules (sex and kissing) I had discussed with h...

Will my married lover ever come back to me, even as a friend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

24 August 2018 (F - I am 45 with a teenage daughter. My husband is good but has no time or interest in me. I tried all ways to get him interested in me, but he is keen only in earning more money. He is not bad but a very very boring man. But he is a great dad. I ev...

Leaving a married man is more painful than staying

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

22 August 2018 (F - So I ended my A over a month ago. I felt like a huge weight was lighted off my shoulders that I finally off the roller coster ride of emotions. I started wanting more than he can give He would always make excuses to come to my place go to your p...

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