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My partner avoids me, but says there is nothing wrong.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

18 May 2019 (F - Hi people I really need some advice I’ve been with my partner for 6 years we have a 4 year old daughter I have a son from a previous relationship we’ve been having problems this last year I caught him watching porn which normally would not of ...

How do I get stronger? Ex cheated on me I ended things

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

16 May 2019 (F - So I found out my ex cheated on me this Monday. We had a lot of problems throughout our relationship, so many that I lose count. We had an argument last Thursday he was bottling up a lot inside it turned out he didn’t like I was friends with my ex, ...

Does my girlfriend deserve a second chance because she didn't 'go all the way'?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

13 May 2019 (M - I can’t forgive my girlfriend for cheating on me even though she didn’t ‘go all the way’ with the other guy. I’ve told her what she did was unforgivable but my friends and family all think she deserves a second chance and that I’m being too harsh on ...

Just found out he cheated the entire relationship. Should I give him chance?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

12 May 2019 (F - I have been dating my current boyfriend for 3 years now. Our families have meshed and we've gone on many trips together, have gone through many experiences and have even told each other I love you half a year into our relationship. He lives on...

He says he loves me but has a girlfriend. How do I get her out of the picture?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

10 May 2019 (F - I’ve been dating a friend that I have known for over 30 years. Only thing is that he has a girlfriend. He has been with her since August 2016. My husband passed away in 2017 early and he has been there for me. We started seeing each other in Late ...

My bf and I had a rough patch but weren't broken up. He started talking to someone else and now I'm upset

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

9 May 2019 (F - My bf and I have had a rocky few months. We've come close to breaking up a few times but we love each other. During this time, I found out he started talking to another woman. My guess is he was hoping to get together with her. He said he still ...

I ended the affair but the man I was involved with is blackmailing me into talking to him threatening me that he'll tell my husband

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

9 May 2019 (F - I’m a married woman but was going through a really bad patch with my husband and I started to get depression... while I was going through that I started chatting to a man online... we met and started an affair.... he knew I was married.... anyway he ...

I've been a mistress for a long time and am starting to get bored with it all.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

9 May 2019 (F - Hi guys. I've been a mistress for a long time. I can't really talk to people about this. But I'd like to know if it's normal to grow tired of being in a "relationship" which never grows or evolves? I am feeling tired of being a sex toy. Tired of ...

She can’t choose between us two!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

7 May 2019 (M - I had a girlfriend who we met when she was in a relationship i won her then after few months she dumped me and went back to him,after 9 months she came back stalking me saying im the love of his life and she is still with her boyfriend when i ask ...

Is this relationship even worth it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

7 May 2019 (F - Hello and thanks So my fiancé and I have been together over two years. He has cheated in the past and I forgave him. Lately our relationship has been strained he has been irritable with me , less affectionate as well. I began t...

I want to hear from you - especially the male ‘aunts’ - if you think he likes me?!?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

7 May 2019 (F - I'm really confused and need your help. Sorry, buckle in... it's gonna be a bit long but the details are important. I promise. I started University in August, and my major is really small. There's this really shy/quiet guy in my major, so he's e...

He says his affair was my fault. I am emotionally exhausted!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

1 May 2019 (F - My husband and I have been married for nearly 7 years. I got married young (21) and he was 25. I knew at the time that he was a bit insecure but I guess I was young and naïve. The insecurity is getting worse and worse. A couple of years ago, I h...

I had sex with another man because its what my husband wanted and now he's mad

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

28 April 2019 (F - How can I fix my marriage? We are married 5yrs and both age 27. For 2yrs my husbby has had a fantasy for me to fuck a hung man. I have resisted. We have used this as fantasy sex talk. Fri night we went out together to a bar and met friends. Later ...

I know I can't trust him again but I also want to tell him let's work on it and can figure it out. What is wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

25 April 2019 (F - I've been dating a guy for about 2.5 months who is going through a separation. He has treated me better than anyone I've been with before and I was really starting to imagine a life with him. The gestures he made, how he made me feel, our ...

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