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Cheating: Help and advice

I feel bad because I rejected my cheating ex bf... please give me some encouragement!

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7 November 2009 (F) - i was with my ex for 2years and he really hurt me.. like he'd be talking to other girls, cheating..lying etc: but i stayed with him cos i was young naive and thought i was in love and the sex was great.. but i finally had the courage to leave ...

We send each other saucy pictures and flirt... Are we having an affair?

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7 November 2009 (F) - Over the past 2 years I have become friendly with 1 of the guys i work with-we are based in different parts of the country but sometimes he comes over for meetings where im based. He is married with a child and im getting married next year. I want t...

Do you think he'll cheat when he travels?

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7 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. We are very much in love, but have encountered our fair share of problems with other females (singles sites, and an "online affair," but no physical cheating to my knowledge) in the past. He ...

I don't know where to start trying to repair this friendship...?

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7 November 2009 (M) - hi, months ago i fell in love with a girl completely, she had a boyfriend she did things with me... weve recently started uni and stupidly whilst drunk (i know thats no real excuse) told her sister what i had done with her sister. The girl who i di...

Help, I discovered my partner goes with escorts!

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7 November 2009 (F) - Hi, Im desperatley unhappy. 3 years ago i met a wonderful man after spending 10 years married to a pub addicted bully who made my life a misery.I had finally made my way out and managed to buy my own place for me and my six year old daughter when I ...

I'm married but want to have an affair with a married man..

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6 November 2009 (M) - Please everybody I really just want answeres from MEN. Please, all men out there reply to this. I am happilly married and i know a guy who is also happily married, I have never cheated on my husband but I want to cheat now. I want to have hot...

Can I ever trust my cheating husband again or should I leave now?

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6 November 2009 (F) - My husband was spending to much time with an old friends of ours who had split from her husband. they ending up falling in love and in bed together. He is still with me and says he loves me but loves her more and wants her in his life at some ...

I've cheated on my fiancee and I'm seeing him this weekend... Do I tell?

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6 November 2009 (F) - I've got myself into such a mess. I'm engaged to the most amazing guy in the world, he means everything to me. We currently only see eachother at weekends as I'm at university now, and may way of coping with him not being here is to sort of push him ...

Should I see my ex and finally find out if this is real?

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6 November 2009 (F) - I got married last year, no babies yet... One day I looked for my ex on facebook, and happened to find him. I sent him a message and he responded back... we've been chatting since then. I don't know why I looked for him, he was my high school bf and ...

The love of my life cheated on me...is he at it again?

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6 November 2009 (F) - I have been cheated on 3 years after I was married, by the person whom I knew for more than 10 years and who showed me nothing but pure love, respect and trust. We had a beautiful love story that a lot of people envied and wished they would have the...

Cheating GF wants to work on our relationship but won't give up her friendship with her affair partner.... What do I do?

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6 November 2009 (M) - Hey all. My girlfriend of 3.5 yrs cheated on me. We have a beautiful son together. I have forgiven her and done everything I can to try and work out our relationship. The one thing I have asked of her is for her to not have any form of ...

He told his girlfriend he loves her, but I think he really wants to be with me...what should I do?

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6 November 2009 (F) - I recently got out of a relationship 2 month ago with "A". Before dating him I was going out with another boy "D" from Feb. 2008 until August 2008. me and A went from from April 2009 until August 2009. I thought that I was in love with A ...

Why is my ex playing games with me?

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6 November 2009 (F) - So, my ex and I broke up in dec. 2007. We talked on and off from that point until the end of feb. hooking up once. I had a lot of issues going on then and I went away for a year to sort through them. During that time we had no contact ...

I was inappropriately intimate with someone. What now?

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6 November 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do. I was inappropriately intimate with someone who has a girlfriend and the girlfriend works for me. I never meant for this to happen and still can't believe it. I'm not sure if she knows, but she hasn't returned my messages ...

Should I be trying to move on with my life?

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6 November 2009 (M) - Some background. About 10 months ago I started a relationship with my Sister In Law. Yes I know its messy. We just had that instant connection. Over the 10 months we realized so many things about ourselves and life in general. I have always ...

My ex confessed he still loves me...but he has a girlfriend!

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Should I ask about this 'business' trip?

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5 November 2009 (F) - My husband and his good friend (male) spent a weekend away from home for business/fun. Shortly after I got an anonymous phone message suggesting my husband had a female with him. His work is extremely busy right now which I figured is the reason f...

Falling for my husband's cousin!

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5 November 2009 (F) - I am married to a wonderful person.I was having a very normal life until my husband's cousin's brother joined us for a vacation. He slowly started talking to me about his love life and lot more about his personal life but we both never crossed the ...

I've been grilling my wife for two years and I need the truth!

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5 November 2009 (M) - 36 years ago I noticed a guy's name on my gf's calender. As I had just a few days prior got back from the military I asked about it and she said he was just a person who came over to the apartment house where she lived to play cards. She lived with ...

Should I tell my best friend her boyfriend kissed me?

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5 November 2009 (F) - My best friends boy-friend kissed another girl and guess who it was! ME!! But i dont like him .... I think he's a jerk. So should i tell her or walk away ?? Cause i dont want to tell her and ruin our friendship... PLEASE I NEED HELP!!!...

Should I trust my husband or my gut feeling?

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5 November 2009 (F) - Hi People i really need some help!!! Please let me know what you think I am a 24 year old mum of an adorable 21 month old girl, and have been married to her father for 2 years this December. since we got married my husband has been lying to me...

She had sex with her ex, so I went out and had sex with another girl. Is this relationship doomed?

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5 November 2009 (M) - hi my girlfriend and i are together for like a year. we jumped straight into relationship literally the day after she finished with her ex of 3 years. a few days ago i found out she had sex with him again a couple of weeks ago. in anger i we...

I want to see him for an explanation and an apology but his wife forbids him from contacting me!

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5 November 2009 (F) - I was seeing an Iranian man for a couple of months. He told me he was separated for the last year, doesn't live with his wife and has a 5 year old child. We got on really well and a while into our relationship I actually was getting more conscious ...

How can I make the guilt of cheating in a past relationship go away?

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5 November 2009 (M) - 3 years ago, I was in a long term relationship. she gave up everything for me, friends, family, just to be with me. We lived together for years, but I developed feelings for another woman and began an affair. I hate myself for what I did to this ...

Am I headed towards divorce or is this normal?

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5 November 2009 (F) - My 2nd husband, no kids, and I are living different lives with very different lives. He seems semi-concerned (probable to guilt to my daily affairs and i s'pose i to his) I am flirting back to men who flirt with me in a semi-(im)proper manner, he ...

Are these signs she wants to pick up where we left off, or just remain a friend?

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5 November 2009 (M) - I'm not sure if my married friend, who I have had a relationship with in the past, wants to remain my friend, or pick up where we left off. I'm terrible at picking up signals, and when we hang out, we usually just talk, and she always stretches out ...

Should I ditch this engagement? After what she did with this guy?

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4 November 2009 (M) - I need help. I just found out my fiancee cheated on me a little while ago. I don't know if I should marry her or not. I'm real pissed off and upset, but I love her, but this is not acceptable. I'm a believer in that 2 people who are in love and ...

My boyfriend's wife has cancer. I love him, but want what is best for everyone.

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4 November 2009 (F) - I am a 37 year old single mum to a four year old. I began an affair with a man 25 years my senior, (someone i have known for 15 years) around six months ago. prior to this I had been alone since the first trimester of pregnancy. Having a child, a...

She cheated on me with two men and now wants me to give her time before we break up!

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4 November 2009 (M) - 5 months ago me (32) and my girlfriend (23) moved in together. Previously we had been having a long distance relationship for 2.5 years. Things were going very well and then she went on a 2 month medical elective on a pacific island. A month into ...

Through wife-swapping, we fell in love, but are distraught about the hurt we've caused!

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4 November 2009 (M) - Here is my heart-hurting situation. I have been with the mother of my son for almost 15 years. We met when we were in our late teens. About two years ago, we began something that has made me realize I wasn't really in love with my fiancee but more...

My ex-girlfriend says she wants to be friends, but is hot and cold with me!

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4 November 2009 (M) - My gf broke up with me like 3 months ago after about a year and a half. We tried being friends right off the bat, but it didnt work and we didnt talk for about two months. She calls me to hangout two days in a row and now she says she doesn't want ...

She's admitted to seeing someone new and I'm afraid I'm going to be forced out of our house!

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4 November 2009 (M) - After my wife has admitted seeing someone else she says I can still stay in our home together. She will do her thing and I can do mine. Im frightened in case she get serious with this guy and Im forced out of my house...What should I do??? [M...

Friend & I become very involved and now his g/f is upset. Should I try to intervene?

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4 November 2009 (F) - Hi I'm in a strange problem.I'm a happily married woman immensely in love with her husband but was somewhere lonely.my husband switched his job to a foreign country and i had to stay here for one year. soon after reaching there, he got busy and had ...

Why has she changed so suddenly?

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4 November 2009 (M) - help me please, im screwing the best thing i have ever had in the world up and yet i cant stop myself. i have been with my current girlfriend for about 4 months now and i am so deeply in love with her, she makes me feel wanted needed and loved in...

Should I just come clean about why I renewed my commitment to my boyfriend?

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4 November 2009 (F) - I've been going through a rough patch with my boyfriend, and another guy started showing an interest in me. I was very interested in this guy too, and we ended up doing a lot of things in the 'grey area' that doesn't quite count as cheating but is ...

Is my husband planning to go back to his ex-wife?

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4 November 2009 (F) - I am going to make this as short and understandable as I can. My husband is not with me at the moment (he is away) I know he has been calling his ex wife that has two grown kids with him because I told him to call and get to know his kids. He...

She is 30 and he is 74. Is he actually interested in her mind?

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3 November 2009 (F) - He is 74. She's 30. First of all, let's say he is a thin, very attractive, elderly man. It may seem gross to some people, but she says she is actually attracted to him. It may be weird to some, but she said something about him is fascinating to h...

Could this Senior be a Cheater?

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3 November 2009 (F) - Okay, so there is this sweet senior, and he will always come by me and touch me a little. hug me, hold my hand. and when ill text him "hey" he will text me " hey cutie ;-D". the thing is that he has a girlfriend who has been away. and im afraid she ...

My boyfriend has always been faithful, but I suspect he might cheat!

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3 November 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for almost two years now. he's an outgoing person and funny. he maybe starting a new sales job where he will be working with alot of women. he's divorced and i know that his ex and him both cheated on each ...

My husband says I am over-reacting to his online affair!

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3 November 2009 (F) - My husband and i have been together for 15 years and we have 2 little girls we only recently got married in March, we have grown up together he's been my best freind my lover my everything. 5 weeks ago i came home from work to find him asleep on ...

I quit my job to be with my girlfriend! Is she cheating?

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3 November 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid... I have problem with my girl friend now, she is divorced with two girls, and i'm divorced also, after 1 year living together i was reassigned to work 2 weeks on site and 2 weeks on leave, after 4 moths i found that she love somebod...

Is it Mistake Identity or is my Boyfriend Lying?

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3 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years but things haven't been easy. I realised i didn't want a future with him for cultural reasons which I told him. He said its not a valid reason but it's fine and that we don't have to break up just because ...

We flirted and kissed even though I have a boyfriend. Now I haven't heard from him in two days! What happened?!

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3 November 2009 (F) - I recently moved back to my hometown and have been meeting a lot of my friend's friends. They are all really chill, and one in particular immediately sparked a more then friendly interest. i soon found out that he did too, he started by putting his ...

I lie alot and I don't know why I do it

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3 November 2009 (M) - Hi, I've realised I lie a lot and I don't want to I don't know why I do it. There are a few big lies i've told. I've cheated on my partner and not told them - I regret it, hugely, I love them, it was a mistake at the beginning of are relation...

I found out my sister is cheating on her fiance, what do I do?

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2 November 2009 (F) - I am not one to 'stay out of it' when I find a person cheating on their boyfriend/girlfriend. However, I recently found out that my sister has been repeatedly cheating on her fiance (they have been together about 4 1/2 years. My brother accidentally ...

Just wondering...for those of you who were cheated on...how did you find out.

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2 November 2009 (M) - To those of you in long standing relationships who have been cheated on by your better half, HOW did you find out?...

Is once a cheater always a cheater?

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2 November 2009 (F) - When my boyfriend and I first got together, I asked if he'd ever cheated on a girlfriend. He said yes, once. He said he was young and stupid. I didn't ask further about it until recently. I was curious about specifics, and he told me that he ...

Our love is forbidden! How can I be her best friend?

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2 November 2009 (M) - My lover decided to return with her husband and workout her marriage but now considers me to be her best friend... she tells me that she loves me and that she is in love with me but feels that she needs to sacrifice her "happiness" for the sake of ...

I can't eat or sleep for fear she's cheating!

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2 November 2009 (M) - Now that i am aware of my fiancee cheating on me at least once in the past I keep getting paranoid that she is still being unfaithful. Since i called her out on cheating on me (around 3.5 months ago) sex and anything of the nature has been almost ...

How do I prove that I didnt cheat? I need help!

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2 November 2009 (F) - Hi, i was wondering if anyone could help me out here. I have a fiance and hes been away for a while spending time with his sick mother, now I have no problem with that its just now we are both in separate towns. Mind you he is coming to town soon, ...