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He cheated, we broke up. He's never apologized and its weird being in the same group of friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted yesterday

25 June 2017 (F - The guy I was seeing exclusively for the past few months recently cheated on me when he was drunk and I found out about it from my friend. At the time I was obviously very angry and upset when I spoke to him and so even though he apologised it ...

I found out the man I'm dating is married

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

25 June 2017 (F - Am dating married man but on the first he didn't tell that is married,I found it by mi self.I feel like leave him but he is caring man every woman need,He says that he loves even he took me to his home but wife unknowing that am co,What can I do?...

Am I foolish to forgive my girlfriend for cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

24 June 2017 (M - In January I found out that I'd been offered a promotion at work. A fantastic opportunity to change my life, but it involved 6 months living abroad. My girlfriend of 4 years didn't want me to go initially, but after talking things through she agreed ...

Why is he still looking for me? He's married now.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

23 June 2017 (F - 9 years ago (15-16yrs old)I dated a guy in H.S. But we only dated for about a month before he broke up with me over the phone. In that month we were together we had sex and seems like all the guys were talking about it..Well next school year he ...

Co-worker complains about boyfriend. Do I have a chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

23 June 2017 (M - I like my co-worker but she is involved with another co-worker and has a child. We have been spending a lot of time together at work and outside of work, but she complains about her bf a lot. I constantly tell her to stay with him and try to make...

I even left my daughter at home for 4 days for the sake of my affair and now he's disappeared. I feel so lonely!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

20 June 2017 (F - I met this guy in Vegas over two months ago. He approached me and my friends at a club. I told him from the beginning I was married and he respected that . The night went on and everyone was having a great time. He would dance next to me because he ...

I think my wife cheated on me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

20 June 2017 (M - Hi people, I have been married for over 3 years now and I believe my wife cheated on me. I am usually an entrepreneur, I make enough in the first quarter to be able to pay for the rest of the year. I suddenly wanted a more abundant life so...

Am I wrong to find someone else other than my husband very attractive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7 days ago

20 June 2017 (F - Hello there! I would love some advice on this. I have been married for two years to a wonderful guy. But we have been having family issues for quite some time now, fighting and arguing and me crying. I got transferred to a new place a month ba...

Is there something going on between my husband and his co-worker?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

19 June 2017 (F - Why is my husband gets annoyed when i ask him a question about the woman that he always with most of everyday at work? Is he having an enotional affair with this woman? It does not mean that i am doubting him. I tried to not be negative about i...

How do I keep my dignity now it's over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

18 June 2017 (F - Hello.. I recently wrote on here asking for advice about someone who I have been seeing, and I was trying to find a way in my head of knowing if they really cared about me and liked me. This person (who I work with) had hurt me before a few m...

What goes through a man's head when he sees his wife having sex with another man?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

17 June 2017 (F - To make it short my husband and I are into guys joining us for sex . But husband has always joined for sex until recently when at a party when a black guy paid attention to me more than normal. So at husbands request I invited him home for a ...

I've been cheated on in the past so I have trouble with trusting someone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

17 June 2017 (F - I started seeing a guy who was a bit older then me (11 years) last year after we met through online dating. He was great, really funny, kind, good looking, good in bed, seriously he ticked all the boxes. Then I found out he was still texting the ...

Both my partner and I cheated on each other. Back together now and I'm pregnant but he keeps using my cheating past as a way to justify all his wrong-doings

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

16 June 2017 (F - I have been with my boyfriend now for 8 months Within the first month of our relationship I found out his ex was still in the picture messaging eachother and she told me they had had sex. When I found this out I thought I was going to leave h...

I think my bisexual girlfriend might be cheating on me. Are they trying to make me jealous, or is something wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

13 June 2017 (M - I love my girlfriend very much but, the last few days she's spent the whole day and night with this girl that she knows that I can't stand. Today when I went to her house the girl I don't like was there. While I was over there my girlfrie...

I didn't cheat so why do I have crabs and my husband?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

12 June 2017 (F - I'm married I found crab louse on me I'm not Committing adultery my husband doesn't have any of those things on his body how can that be?...

I'm married and have fallen for a married friend. Do I pursue this?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

12 June 2017 (M - I am 29 years old. Im maried in 2010 with 2 kids (3 and 5). I met my wife when i was 15 and have been with her ever since. I have never cheated on her or even talked to another woman inappropriately. But the other day we were hanging out with some ...

I'm married but cheating with my old flame and I'm hopelessly in love

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

12 June 2017 (F - I went to a reunion and as soon as I stood in front of my old flame I knew. I hadn't thought of him in 40 years. I'm happily married and live a plush life. He never married. Even though we live in Different states we've been together twice And...

My love life has made me depressed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

12 June 2017 (F - I have had a difficult relationship history. I changed cities and changed boyfriends in my 20's - atleast 4 of them. These were men who really liked me and I left them. I was dumped twice by two similar Casanova-type of men in between, which made it ...

What's the best thing to do? I have a crush on a hot co-worker

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

10 June 2017 (M - Well, I have a crush on coworker, but she is dating another co-worker and has a kid with him. She asked me if I think her boyfriend would cheat on her. I told her "no, I didn't think so". She supposed to come over and hang out, but Im not going to ...

Feeling un-easy about my gf going on cruise. Am I going to be cheated on during the cruise?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

10 June 2017 (M - My girlfriend of 6 months is going on a cruise with her family for a week here soon, I am just kinda of un-easy because of all the stories I've heard about what happens on cruises. I'm her first ever bf and she's never given me a reason to suspect ...

I'm very attracted to one of my future sister in law's alternate personalities

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

8 June 2017 (F - My love life is like something out of a movie and I feel like I'm out of options. A bit of back story, I have been seeing a man now for almost a year who has been my best friend for a long time and we've been engaged for a few months. He's ...

Should I commit to moving? Worried about his cheating in past and about leaving my family

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

7 June 2017 (F - Hi! I have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for a little over two years. He is 27 and I'm 21, so naturally he has more experience than I do. 6 months into our relationship, he confessed that he had cheated on me, so we broke up...

My husband and I are struggling to move on. Any suggestions on how we can resolve this?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

7 June 2017 (F - Hi. I am a married mom mid thirties. My husband and I have been together for 20 years, married for 13 years. We have 5 children together. We have had a wonderful marriage up until recent. Back in Feb 2015 my husband started to receive texts fr...

I'm having an affair with a married woman and she doesn't know if she can ever leave her husband for good

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

7 June 2017 (M - I am a 26 year old man. I work in a school system and I have now been dating one of my co workers for exactly a year (June 9th) The big problem here is that she is married, with 2 kids, and 11 years older then me. But this is not an affair like ...

How do I tell my BF? I kissed one of my close friends while having a loving boyfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

7 June 2017 (F - Last weekend I got very drunk with a group of my friends at a club and ended up kissing one of my close guy friends. I have known his forever and honestly, have had a thing for him in the past that has lasted a long time. But, right now I am w...

I was so attached to him. Now I want to cut him out of my life. But how?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

6 June 2017 (F - Hey. I need some help. Although I have moved on from a long term relationship before this and I know it gets Okay with time but I can't seem to get over this situation. I invested all my feelings in a guy for 4 years just to get cheated. It too...

My FWB wants me to stay the night while his GF is away. Does my FWB expect something different? Or the same?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

6 June 2017 (F - So I've been seeing a FWB guy since we were both 17ish. Its been nearly 10 years and its a continuing thing, never stopped for either of us. But we have both in and out of relationships and we still do it on the DL. Just wondering i guess if...

My husband had an affair a couple of years ago. Should I write to the woman and ask some questions?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

6 June 2017 (F - my husband had an affair a couple years ago, he says it is over but I have my doubts. She does not live near us anymore. I want to write her a letter and ask her if he has called her or written her a letter. If he has what has he told her, did he...

What do I do? I feel I can't trust him anymore after what's happened.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

5 June 2017 (F - Hi I've been in what I thought was a happy relationship for the past 3 and a half years. A couple of weeks ago I went on my Facebook and seen he had became friends with 2 women. I asked who they were and he denied he had added anyone. I had my s...

I don't think he wants a divorce but he wants his freedom

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

4 June 2017 (F - My husband left me for another women but came back. He was with her for 18 months. I was devastated and profoundly affected. Our marriage wasn't perfect but we had been together for 22 years. We both had a hand in it but I never would hav betrayed ...

Why would a man of his age want to have an affair with a much younger woman?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

4 June 2017 (F - I am married and now having an affair with a man who told me he 70, but I did abackground check and hes 82!! My guess is he did not want to reveal his real age because I would have said no way. I really like him. I just think it's strange that a ...

We've been dating for 5 years. Why does he need so much attention from other women?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

4 June 2017 (F - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 5 years. Throughout the relationship I have caught him engaging in online flirtation. He signs up for dating sites to chat with women, and he uses Facebook to chat with multiple women (sometimes the ...

Was he leading a double life with me and someone else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

2 June 2017 (F - So me and my bf or Ex, have not been speaking some time ago due to a misunderstanding (I believe it was kind of my fault, I did not handle the situation well) also after him finishing his studies he was leaving back to his hometown which is in ...

What should I do? My boyfriend got blind drunk and cheated on me.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

2 June 2017 (F - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 months and everything has literally been perfect, he's treated me so well tells me he loves me every single day and how much I mean to him and that he's completely infatuated with me. However I foun...

Is it over with my married lover? Or is he just cooling down?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

31 May 2017 (F - Hello everyone, through common friends I met a guy at a dinner and we clicked instantly. I have been single for 3 years and I'm very hard to connect with someone immediately. We spoke the entire evening and exchanged numbers. The next morning I had ...

I'm falling in love with a married woman who's in a bad marriage but will she ever leave her husband?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

30 May 2017 (M - I recently moved to a new location about 6 months ago, I started going to bar to hang out. I started talked to the a Server while I was the bar and every time I go in she always made a point to go say hi. Now she was cute, so I went more often th...

I want to tell his wife that I was his mistress

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

30 May 2017 (F - I am a 44 years old divorced woman. 15 years ago when I was 29, I dated this one guy who was an American soldier. I wasn’t very much attracted to him at first, so it took a lot of effort for him to get me into a relationship. We never said ‘I love ...

I found a phone he'd been using to text a woman for 4 years!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

27 May 2017 (F - Hi I found a phone my husband had a few months ago he had been texting a woman for 4 years !! It was someone he had known 35 years ago and been out with a few times before he met me . He states that he thought they had slept together 35 years ago ...

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