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I've met the perfect guy but after getting back in contact with my ex I am confused

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted yesterday

27 March 2017 (F - I’ve been dating this seemingly perfect guy for the past couple of months and honestly the way he is with me and treats me is just perfect. I have a ‘check list’ of everything I want in a man he is everything and more BUT... Out of the blue my ex ...

I want more sex but he would rather masturbate to porn with young girls with boobs!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted today

26 March 2017 (F - We have lived together 2.5 years. I'm 44 with 2 grown up kids living at home, he is 40. He works 10.5 hour days with an extra hour on top for travelling and claims to be too tired for sex. We will usually have sex once a week, sometimes twice a week ...

I suspect my fiance is cheating but he thinks I am stupid!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted yesterday

23 March 2017 (F - My fiancé was out last weekend and I was informed from one of his friends he was walking a girl home. The weekend before he was out and lost his phone and I call it and a girl answers whom he had left the phone at her house. This was the only...

Does this help a man with ED to feel better? What could possibly have allowed me to continue to enjoy knowing my wife was having an affair?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

22 March 2017 (M - I am a 50 year old married man who has had erectile dysfunction problems since before i married my wife.. She was very beautifull when she was younger but that doesnt make a difference when you have ED.. When she was still in her twenties I f...

We broke up. I know I still care for him. should I talk to him about my feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

20 March 2017 (F - I was in a long term relationship with this guy for almost two years and we just kept bickering, small petty arguments and I'm not afraid to stand up for myself. It turned out he was messaging one of my friends and it turned out she wasn't very nic...

My husband is giving me all these std's , do you think he cheated?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

18 March 2017 (F - Do you think my husband cheated? Hi! so, nine days ago my husband went out with his coworkers to have some drinks and he didn't call me to say he'll come home late or what he would be up to. This left me with a bad feeling because It was weird, you ...

Boyfriend is seeing his ex behind my back....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

18 March 2017 (F - My boyfriend is seeing his ex-girlfriend behind my back. He says nothing sexual is happened. At the beginning of are relationship I went to jail for three months. While I was in jail, they got back together. ....or they never broke it off. He didn't ...

I think having sex with another girl will get these crazy depressing thoughts out of my head!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

15 March 2017 (M - well, im in a relationship for about a year with this girl and we both love each other a lot. While she is my first gf, im not her  first bf, she had one before me who she really loved as well (i know this because a knew her back then) it was a long ...

I've lost trust due to his texting other women yet he's talking about marriage. He's barely speaking to me, how do I sort this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

15 March 2017 (F - Hi I've been with my partner now for nearly 4 years we have had trust issues down to him texting other women he has asked me about getting married I tried to explain to him that I need to be able to trust him 100 percent before I think about ...

How easy is it for some men to cheat?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

13 March 2017 (F - How easy it is for some men to cheat? Do you think my man cheated on me based on this: *He's had sex with approx. 30 girls that I know about... *They are all types of faces and bodies and most of them he says he considers them ugly. (Ma...

Husband's penis smells like condoms and we never use them!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

10 March 2017 (F - Yesterday my husband came very late from work, and he had been drinking and his penis smelled like condoms!, Earlier he called me from work and said hey! I want to take you to the mall and didn't say for what reason, he wanted it to be a surprise ...

My Long Term girlfriend has just been diagnosed with Herpes. Should I bail?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

8 March 2017 (M - The question i'm posing is whether or not i should leave my girlfriend of almost 5 years. I know that herpes can lay dormant for a long period of time, and i know there is a POSSIBILITY that either of us could have had herpes with no symptoms for ...

I want the relationship to work. What are your opinions on flirting/ making inappropriate comments to another female while the guy is in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

7 March 2017 (F - Please guys only (ps if advice is just shouldnt be together please do not respond. I want to make this work) Okay so guys. What are your opinions on flirting/ making inappropriate comments to another female while in a relationship. ...

My husband is a serial cheater. Am I fooling myself to think he will change?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

7 March 2017 (F - I have been married to my husband for 23 years. We were young when we got married - 20 and 21. Early on in our marriage he cheated on me twice. I was not very confident back then and terrified of being alone, so I forgave and stayed. And I guess ...

I don't know whether to tell my boyfriend that I cheated or not

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

6 March 2017 (F - Okay so I went out one night at the start of my relationship and I barely remember anything. I'd gone out with a few friends and end up in a club on my own. I got speaking to a guy and he walked me part way home. He ended up giving me his number but ...

Secured Long-Term Relationsihp vs. Unconditional Love Affair

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

6 March 2017 (F - I'd like to introduce myself as Len. I am 26-year old and I am married to an engineer who currently works in Saudi. We have been married for 2 years already but we've been having this relationship for 8 years and we have been blessed with a 5-year ...

Why did she react the way she did to my words? She is the one who lied to me, earlier.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

5 March 2017 (M - Hi everyone This isn't so important just something that really confuses me. My ex-girlfriend broke up with me 2 years ago. The relationship had become long distance, she had changed, she insulted me a lot, I was not happy at all. so when one da...

She has no idea her ex cheated on her often! Should I tell her?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

4 March 2017 (F - I'm in a very very sticky situation. I have 2 very close friends. 1 who is male the other is female. Both of the 2 used to date for over 4 years, they had just recently broke up about 9 months ago and I was always very close with the male. He was ...

What I thought was just a good time has me having feelings for this girl!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

3 March 2017 (M - I'm away from my wife now for 1 month, she's visiting her parents and she is pregnant, we are in good terms and very happy with our relation, we have this kind of up and downs that can happen to all the couples well one week ago I traveled for 3 da...

He contacted a girl on social media after I'd asked him to remove her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

1 March 2017 (F - Ok so this may sound petty but I'm pretty worried about where my relationship is going and how much I trust my boyfriend at the moment. Now, I know mobile phones have taken over but whenever me and my boyfriend would go out we would try not to be ...

I hacked into his email and discovered he'd applied for another flat! What do I do next?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

1 March 2017 (F - Hi! Me and my boyfriend have been dating for over two years now. Two months ago we moved together in a new city. Two weeks ago I did something horrible, something I can never forgive myself. I hacked, literally hacked into his email account. ...

Why douche and hide it from me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

1 March 2017 (M - My girl had to douch before we had sex for the first time after I got home from prison...and she tried to hide it from me that she did it. Does this mean she slept around recently before I got home...why else would she douch and hide it from me?...

My married lover won't commit to me.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

1 March 2017 (F - Been having a relationship with a married man for 11 years, I have asked him on numerous ocassions for me and him to be a proper couple.....but even though he says he wants to in the future he can't right now because of the impact it will have on ...

I feel my heart has been ripped from my chest!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

1 March 2017 (F - My husband and I habe been married for 2.5 yrs and were both 22. He just got deployed a month ago but all of this started happening well before he got deployed. Id say for the past yr that weve moved back to his home state its felt like he pushes me ...

I was cheating and my husband found out.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

1 March 2017 (F - Im a 28 year old female whos been having an intense sexual affair with another man for the past three years..my husband recently found out about us and told me to stop or else..I stopped seeing this other man, hoping my relationship with my husband ...

She says I'm psycho but I hink she is cheating.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

28 February 2017 (M - Hi everyone Recently My girlfriend went out for a night-out and came back with a boy (who was her friend) and was in her bed watching a movie.Her flat mate (who has been her best friend since a young child) said she heard the bed moving, breathin...

Can anyone help me with the basics of starting afresh? I cheated on my fiancee. Then I confessed and he forgave me. My guilt is affecting my ability to go forward

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

28 February 2017 (F - Aunts, I need your help. I had committed a major mistake of cheating on my fiancé with a married man. But I realised my mistake and owned up to it, confessed my fiancé and broke up with the married guy. He (my fiancé) has not been resentful, ...

I am a married woman who has sex with strangers when I travel for work!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

28 February 2017 (F - I am a married female looking for some help. This is going to sound crazy but I have always had a high sex drive. I met my husband and everything was great. We had two kids, and he is such a good man. Provides well, if I had to honestly rate hi...

Should I stay with my fiance even though I love someone else?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

27 February 2017 (F - Dear Aunties and Uncles, I will try to keep this short as possible. I've been in a long term relationship for 14 years and have a 14 year old daughter who my partner raised as his own since she was 2 weeks old. We had an amazing relati...

We/ve been back together for a year but it just isn't like it was.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

26 February 2017 (F - Okay so I don't quite know how to start this, but my friends have been helpful and supportive, but I suppose I'm still lost. My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 years minus the 2 that we were broken up for. We broke up because he said he ...

Should I ? I'm tempted to contact the other people involved and ask them

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

24 February 2017 (M - Looking for some advice here.. About a year ago, I found out that my fiancée and two of her (our?) friends had been exchanging intimate photos - and had even been together a couple of times. I confronted her, she broke down, told me that the o...

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