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Cheating: Help and advice

I fell for him, he's married - she's pregnant, now I'm heart broken

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13 May 2008 (F) - Hi.....iam 21 years and iam in a heartbreaking dilema...i started seing this guy ( @ the time 32) when i was 19.... The thing is that it all started so sudden @ work...you know the passing by the office..the eye contact...then one day he took me ...

I'm hiding something from him, because it'll make him angry. I'm confused, advice please?

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13 May 2008 (F) - Sorry, this is long... My boyfriend doesn't trust me. I am to blame of this, in part. He has trust issues because of previous girlfriends and being abused as a child (I didn't know about this until it was too late). But the thing is, he's always ...

When the person you love lies and cheats on you...

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13 May 2008 (M) - Love is like playing Russian Roulette, and nobody ever wins. When you fall for a guy/girl, it feels like euphoria. Your heart is pounding, sweaty palms, butterflies in your stomach, and you experience fantasies in your mind about what you want to do ...

Can you guys explain to me why my boyfriend goes for lapdances?

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13 May 2008 (F) - On saturday, i went to my boyfriends aunty's 50th. The hall was packed and i was ready for a good night. A few weeks ago, i found out my fella had gone to a strip club in london with mates and had a lap dance -thats fine.. its just he'd not told me ...

Do we have double standards whenever a woman "cheats"?

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13 May 2008 (F) - its funny that.....when men come on line asking for advice about cheating on their girlfriends, you never see many men being judgemental and condeming them. However, when you see a woman who betrays her husband, all the men are so quick to respond...

She cheated, but I'm still in love with her. Will she do it again?

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13 May 2008 (M) - ON the 11th, was our 1 year anniversity, and she cheatted on me then and also on the 12th, that I know of, as that is all she told me. I'm still in love with her, and didn't let her know how much it hurt me, I just told her, that it's ok, and not ...

My boyfriend has been lying to me about money and other girls. How can I cope with all of this?

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12 May 2008 (F) - help please help!!! i just dont know what to do at the moment. ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we've lived together for 2 months. things seem to have gone from bad to worse with us, i found that he has been talking to other girls on...

I don't want to be with my live-in girlfriend anymore, as I'm interested in someone else! Any advice?

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12 May 2008 (M) - I have a crisis of conscience and I'm in a very sticky situation!! I having been with my current girlfriend since November. I knew her for quite a while before we got together. She moved in with me after a couple of months because she was having ...

I went through his phone and he had been 'dirty talking' to some girl through texts.

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12 May 2008 (F) - I dont know what to do. I feel so hurt and trapped. I love my fiance more than anything in the world we've been together for just over a year and we've gotten engaged recently. We live together and everything has seemed perfect but just a few days...

He says he needs space...so why is he seeing someone else?

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12 May 2008 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend told me he needed space and is seeing someone else. He still calls me, comes over, we go to dinner, etc. I love him so much and I don't know what to do. Should I just let him go? My heart seriously hurts everyday that I ...

I deserve to be punished, I know, but please help me?

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12 May 2008 (M) - Hi all, please help me, i am so afraid that my wife will find out about a fling i had with a woman a few months back. I love my wife with all my heart and am so upset, because i made a stupid, stupid mistake and i just cant forgive myself for what...

I'm feeling unbelievable lust for this man other than my husband. What are your thoughts on open marriage?

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12 May 2008 (F) - Help! I am married to a wonderful man for 7 years now. We have 3 wonderful kids. I was out with my girlfriend and met this Brad Pitt look-alike from Brazil. He is so amazing in so many different ways. In the heat of the moment i shared with him a ...

Is he waiting for me to get better or has he moved on?

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12 May 2008 (F) - Sorry, this is a long post. Just trying to clear certain things up in my head I guess. I was with my ex-partner for 18years, 10 of which we lived together. We never married, and never had children. But we were saving money for a house and were...

Has any one ever had a fling, and regretted it as much as I do? And what did you do about it?

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12 May 2008 (F) - hi all, please help me, i am so afraid that my husband will find out about a fling i had with a man a few months back. I love my husband with all my heart and am so upset, because i made a stupid, stupid mistake and i just cant forgive myself f...

Is she cheating?

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12 May 2008 (M) - Really haven't got a clue where to start with this, my head is just in such a mess. But I hope there is someone on here that can help me , because I just don’t know what to do any more. Suppose I'd better start with some background informat...

Did someone perform some sexual act on him to 'last blow his load'? Because it obviously wasn't me!

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12 May 2008 (F) - Please I need some help before I start pulling my hair out!! And i'm sorry but i'm going to be blunt there's no beating around the bush with this one. Ok some background info I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 and a half years we have a good r...

Can someone please tell me how to trust my boyfriend? He's cheated in the past.

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12 May 2008 (F) - I have really bad trust issuses with my boyfreind, the problem is he has never done anything to betray my trust. My ex boyfreind cheated on me so much and i never found out till we had broken up...Im jsut worride my boyfreind is doing the same. Even ...

My husband had an affair which resulted in the other woman falling pregnant. The child is almost due, what is the best way to handle this?

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12 May 2008 (F) - This is complex - and difficult to write about succinctly...I'll give it a go! My husband had a year long affair. He tells me he tried to "end it" many times prior to me finding out - but felt guilty and like he owed the OW something. To make mat...

Can projecting a bad conscience ruin my relationship?

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11 May 2008 (M) - Help!!! I have been in the most perfect relationship for circa 18 months now with a girl that means everything in the world to me! I really love her with all my heart! Then 2 days ago I was at this birthday party (with my girlfriend) where also my e...

I am so sexually frustrated and all the masturbating in the world cannot help me!! Can you??

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11 May 2008 (F) - Hi everyone. I have a major problem with my marriage. Although my relationship with my husband is great in every other way, the sex is so lame that i cannot take it. It´s pretty much the usual 2-minute missionary intercourse under the covers w...

Unbearable truth....do I move on or wait for a cheater to reform?

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11 May 2008 (M) - I am 38 and my ex gf is 23 going on 24. We had been together for over a year and a half. Chance meeting at a bar and I wasn't looking for someone this young. Firstly, she's geniunely naive, stupid and weak. I slept with her the first night. I had ...

How can I get past him cheating on me twice?

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11 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for over two years. Within the first six months he cheated on me twice, just kissing two other girls. I found out after about a year, and we decided to try and work things out. I have forgiven him, and am trying ...

I constantly get accused of having affairs and I can't take it anymore. Any ideas?

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11 May 2008 (M) - hi everyone, same old story i suppose but here goes, i have two gorgeous children with my partner of five years. very happy till a few months ok, i constantly get accused of having affairs. which im not but her friends keep telling her otherwi...

My friends say she's cheating on me but she denies it. Who do I trust?

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11 May 2008 (M) - Im very worrid, I have been told by people I trust very much that my partaner is cheating on me. She is denying it, but i dont think so many people can be lying. Also she was going to the cinima with another one of her freinds and someone said to ...

My wife had sex with our neighbour. How do I get past this?

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11 May 2008 (M) - Hi, I live in india. Six months back my wife came to me and confessed to me that she had sex with my neighbour and very much regretted for that. Also promised that hereafter she won't do like that again. Initially I consoled her and accepted bec...

If female nudity was not commercially exploited, would there be more cheating?

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11 May 2008 (F) - Here's one for the guys...and women if you want to comment too!.... If there were no such thing as media, porn, dirty magazines, playboy, Hooters restaurants, or any exploitation of sexual suggestion, etc., if strip clubs were never invented...

Will having sex with this woman make me stop yearning for her, alleviate this sexual frustration so I can focus on my marriage?...

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11 May 2008 (F) - I'm getting concerned about my sexual feelings for my wife, as I've been strongly attracted to a very attractive and wholesome woman at work, and I came to learn she feels the same as me, and she is also married. There has been no sex between us a...

He thinks it's safe to cheat because I'm forgiving! What can I do to make him change and respect me?

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11 May 2008 (F) - okaaay. so my boyfriend and i are on the verge of breaking up because he's been doubting our relationship for quite a while. but the only reason he hasn't broken up with me, after discussing this with everyone but me, is because i wont ever break up ...

She says she really likes me, but she loves that guy and says she can't get over him.

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11 May 2008 (M) - Basically I've been having this on and off relationship with someone for 8 months now. The problem is she was/is in a long distance relationship with someone from another country that she only sees once a year. He was her first b/f, practica...

I wish we could come away respecting each other at least.

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10 May 2008 (F) - Well you could say I'm old enough to know better, but even though I'm way past adolescence I still want to know what he must think of me now. I live in a foreign country and sometimes give English lessons. Someone put me in contact with a diplomat ...

My boyfriend has a fetish for black haired girls!

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10 May 2008 (F) - Hi this is going to seem like an odd problem, but its been bothering me awhile. I've always known that my boyfriend of 3 years has had a fetish for black haired women. It's not a problem, until i begin to think about it, or find something, then it ...

He asks my friends to do naughty things, should I trust him?

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10 May 2008 (F) - hi, i chose a boy over my bf nd i think i made the right choice we r a lot more affectionate nd i luv him. But he is a bit of a naughty boy! nd likes to ask my m8's to do stuff, just like showin him their bra's. they hav always sed no but i dont kno...

Does he love her or me?

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10 May 2008 (F) - I need to know something, it's kind of 2 questions. Well, first is, I need to know if my ex really does love his girlfriend. He never really acts like he does, and he beats her. He's always cheating on her. And the other is, I need to know if ...

I honestly never touched a woman's body while I was away working, and my g/f doesn't believe me.

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9 May 2008 (M) - I've been dating this girl for 3 months, then on the 4th month we decided to live together. On the 5th month i went to Hawaii to work for 4 months (with continous communications, sending gifts and stuff to her). 2 weeks before i finished my 4 ...

What do I do? It hurts to let him go. I do love him.

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9 May 2008 (F) - Do I stay with my husband or leave him either for my lover, or to be alone? I have been married for 4 and a half years. I stopped wanting my husband and have been having sex with him when he wants it for just over a year of that marriage. He kn...

I was happy with his friendship - I never stopped loving him and gave him another chance, now this??

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9 May 2008 (F) - This is long so please bare with me. When I was younger - I had the biggest crush on one of my sisters male friends. I never thought that I would ever stand a chance because he was older (6 years) but when you are young that's a big age gap. ...

My 'perfect' man with a girlfriend....Is he giving me signs?

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9 May 2008 (F) - Hello newbie here!! I have been single for over a year now and recently been email/facebook flirting with a guy who is quite local to me. He instigated it by emailing me first off (approx 1 month ago). I originally know him from university altho...

My lecturer's been with his wife for 15 yrs, I really like him, so I'm planning to act!

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9 May 2008 (F) - The lecturer I fancy knows my name and i think he likes me. He's married but he's been with her for over 15 years (even though hes only 35, i'm 20) and has indicated to me he's a bit bored. He's so clever and interesting and i'm dying to spend time...

I think he does love me but he's never got time for me. Please help.

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9 May 2008 (F) - We're working abroad and we are both married, he has a girlfriend but i couldn't help falling in love with him, he said he love me too. I really love him so much (well i'm just a human). My problem is i feel bored with our relationship because we d...

My husband offered me to his friend. Does he just want an open relationship?

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9 May 2008 (F) - House party out of control. I am rather confused and upset. I have been with my husband for 5 years, married for 3 with two young children. We used to have house parties all the time and my hubby would either not drink or drink very little, he was a...

I am madly in love with a married colleague and I want him for me at any cost!

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9 May 2008 (F) - I am married. It was love marriage. Recently i started working in an insurance company and there i met a guy named Rajan. He very warm, friendly and funny guy and i attracted towards him and fell in love with him. I'm madly in love with him ...

I have cheated on him several times but we're still together. Do I really love him?

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9 May 2008 (F) - Hi Everyone We have been dating for 2 yrs now, but sometimes i feel like i dont love him, and like he does not love me. I have cheated on him several times but we're still together, and he is the first longest relationship i have ever had. The o...

Should I leave my wife because our sex life is virtually non existent?

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9 May 2008 (M) - Hi i'm thinking of leaving my wife, i like her in many ways but our sex life is virtually non exsistance. I've met a wonderful woman aged 18 who is beautiful and works as a model. The sex is absolutely fantastic. Do think there is a chance for us, ...

I've had affairs and feel stuck in my current marriage because of my child. I want to be in a marriage where I feel loved!!

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9 May 2008 (F) - I am in a marriage that I am not happy in. I am still here because he is not the biological father of my son. They love eachother very much. How can I take that away from my child. I have had 2 affairs in the past and I am just sick of not being ...

Why am I cheating on a girl who is so perfect for me?

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9 May 2008 (M) - I've been dating a girl for 2 years. Everything was perfect, until I met a girl about 8 months ago who I slept with, roughly twice a month, for 6 months. I have only physical feelings for this girl and do not love her what so ever. I have be...

I think about having sex with this other girl, but I'm already with someone.

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9 May 2008 (F) - Hello everyone, I have a question i know you all may hear this a lot, but i need to have it answered in detail Right firstly, i'm a bi-female and i have been dating this girl got 3 years, but i do still like guys a little, but i am mostly for ...

My boyfriend thinks I'm nuts...would you say I was over-reacting?

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9 May 2008 (F) - Please help! I don't trust my own judgment because I have anxiety/depression and take meds. I have a b/f who I have been seeing for about three yrs - All my friends say he is using me - I have decorated and remodelled his house, landscaped...

Is it possible to be with a partner and not trust them 100%, but disconnect yourself emotionally so you don't get hurt?

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9 May 2008 (M) - Hi there, My problem is that I can't trust my current girlfriend. We have been together for a month. But have known each other for 4 years. The problem stems from a few text messages i read on her phone from her ex boyfriend, which read 'I love you ...

Help me please- beat up my mate and dumped gf because they slept together

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8 May 2008 (M) - help me please, my girlfried has told me that see has slept with my best friend. ive beatin the hell out of my mate and dumped my girl friend. now i regret doing them both. what should i do?vplease help me....

I told her I won't wait. Should I really walk away?

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8 May 2008 (M) - Hi guys. Just a quick one after your views. Had a deep passionate emotional sexual affair with a women who was in a relationship with a man she feels no spark, attraction for, lasted a year and a half. She does however love him and he is like her ...