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Was my co worker trying to start an affair with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted today

24 May 2018 (F - I'm friendly and cordial to this co worker who works in the same department with me,just like everyone else. He got my number from the office so he texts me outside work when he wants to exchange shifts.However,lately he has been been sendin...

I'm constantly worried my boyfriend has/will cheat on me and I'm going insane thinking what on earth happened while he was on that cruise without me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted yesterday

23 May 2018 (F - My boyfriend went on a cruise ship with his (male) friends last week. I expected it to be hard. I was a bit moody during the first day he was there, but the remaining 6 days I felt fine about the fact that he was having fun. He kept in touch wi...

He's addicted to sex sites and internet dating. I want my old man back!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

20 May 2018 (F - My live in man of 20 yes he is addictied to internet dating and sex sites.his treatment of me in last couple months he says not doing anything but he is I am a worthless I have tried everything just to get him to come bed with me he say ok then ...

Why does my married boyfriend love me one day and hate me the next?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted yesterday

17 May 2018 (F - Hi. I have been in a "relationship" with a married man for approximately 5 years. Before I begin, I am asking not to be judged. I truly and honestly go through enough pain because of the situation I put myself in. And I know what everyone here will ...

Does he love me? Or not? Is he worth the wait or is he spouting empty words? Must I risk it all and take a chance with him? Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

15 May 2018 (F - I am hoping to get perspective on an issue more to reflect on it and process it before deciding what to do. This is the situation: My first love and i were together for a year and a half before a very silly solit. He thought he wasn't ready as ...

Is this the end to our marriage? He loves porn more than he loves me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

14 May 2018 (F - We have been married for two and a half years and the sex life has become boring af. I feel like it’s all about his pleasure. When he wakes up at night his reaction is : babe want to suck my dick? Like I’m some kind of sex slave that enjoys only ...

My wife is bi-curious and has talked about a threesome then never does anything about it! What is she thinking?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

14 May 2018 (M - Over the years it has been obvious my wife is bi-Curious, she came home one night and told me she kissed another girl, I thought wow tell me more.. she said it was just messing around and we laughed and I though cool .. nothing got mentioned again ...

Is it possible to be in love and committed to a man, whereas developing only sexual interest in others?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

13 May 2018 (F - I will turn 30 next month and my life's in a big mess. I've a good career, a loving would-be husband (getting married in early fall this year). We've been together for 11 years. You're wondering where's the messy part? Well, the sex between ...

He cheated on his wife. I don't want to be the next person he hurts

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

13 May 2018 (F - I've been seeing a really great guy who makes me laugh and is fantastic with my son. He is a great dad to his own children with his soon to ex wife, (in the process of getting a divorce), and everything seems perfect. When I first met him through ...

How can I get my mistress to finally trust me after 5 years together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

13 May 2018 (M - I've been in a 5 year relationship with my mistress and she still doesn't trust me. I have done everything I can to show her I am trustworthy but she can never fully have faith in me. Her trust problem has caused a lot of tension in our relationship ...

How can I stop thinking about him and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

13 May 2018 (F - Hello! I'm sorry if this is not the right place to vent, but I feel like I can't talk to anyone about something that is bothering me so much right now and just need to hear others' thoughts. I fell for a guy who is a good/long-time friend of mi...

My ex-girlfriend's confession has re-opened old wounds

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

12 May 2018 (F - My girlfriend of close to 3 years split up with me a couple of months ago. It felt like a total blindside because I never saw it coming. I haven't taken it well. I've dealt with significant anxiety and depression since. I had asked extensivel...

Does one mistake break you forever? Even if you've learned from your mistake and would never ever repeat it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

12 May 2018 (F - Does one mistake make you broken forever? Even if you've learned from your mistake and would never ever repeat it? My first bf and I were not a good match. Or we were for a codependant relationship. Bit I didn't know that then. Everything was a...

Why does being a mistress feel worse than being alone?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

10 May 2018 (F - I 've been seeing a man who lives with his common law wife and their toddler twin boys. I believed he will leave his live in Significant other as he promised and it would turn into something more . Well it seems like he was in strictly for sex.He n...

How I can become a better partner in the future and avoid temptation to cheat?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

10 May 2018 (F - Hi everyone, I just broke up with my boyfriend because I cheated on him and had a one night stand with a guy friend. Long story short, my boyfriend was a rebound and he knew it. Before my boyfriend, my ex cheated on me and it really broke my ...

My boyfriend and his ex are "best friends" and keep saying that they love each other!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

10 May 2018 (F - My boyfriends ex is starting to make me have uneasy. Feelings. They were only married two years and had no children together. She did bring a two year old little girl into the marriage. They fought all the time and she wanted out and filed for ...

He denied using social media and then won’t show me his secret account!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

9 May 2018 (F - I will get straight to the point! I have never ever used social media like Facebook etc., It has never ever appealed to me that’s all. When I met my husband 7 years ago he did not ever use social media and told me he didn’t like those kind o...

Husband cheated on me with my cousin

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

9 May 2018 (F - Hey everyone something is really bothering me, I've been marries now for 5 years we have 2 little boys and just recently I found out while I was marries my husband had sex with my cousin 3 times so he was overseas when that happened see I brought ...

I love him but I'm tired of being a mistress and I'm tired of the whole situation

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

9 May 2018 (F - Hi, Aunts! I've been involved in a relationship with a married man since the last two years which developed on the very basis of his lies towards me. In the beginning, he kept me telling that he was single until I found out a few months later (I'...

Anyone else developed a conscience when they were about to start a FWB with a married person?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

7 May 2018 (F - Ok so I have been single over 6 years, I like being single, I have no one to answer too. But it's been a long time intimately just over 2 years! So I'm on a dating site, not looking for a quick bunk up but maybe friendship or fwb. I met this bloke ...

Partner of 5 years lied about a 'friendship and now I feel like I'm blowing things out of proportion

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

5 May 2018 (F - Hi agony aunts and uncles. I've been a long time reader and love seeing your advice and views. I never once dreamed I'd be writing in and asking for advice. So where to begin. It's currently 2.30 am where I am and this has just happened in the ...

I don't want to throw 5 years down the pan but I don't know what else to do. Can you offer any advice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

3 May 2018 (F - Hi, I'm facing a bit of a crossroads in my life and I'm hoping you guys can help me as you've helped me so many times before. I've been with my BF for 5 and a half years. On our 5 year anniversary he proposed and I said yes. We've talked abo...

What’s the worst that could happen? He doesn’t want the threesome and I think it’s a bad idea too but I still want it!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

3 May 2018 (F - Sorry, this is very personal and embarrasing and long so you can stop reading if you’re offended by threesomes or anything taboo. Me and my boyfriend have been together for over two years amd we have lived together since 6 months together and we’r...

I pretended to be another woman and my fiancé told “her” he was single!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

3 May 2018 (F - My partner of 3 years has asked for my hand in marriage. At this point there are issues that make me unsure if I want to make this lifetime commitment with him,the big one being trust issues. He has cheated on me several times. Upon discove ering ...

Why does my ex married lover want to fix things?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

29 April 2018 (F - I really don't know what to anymore about my situation. I left my married lover because it was the right thing to do and it was hurting me. We are both military (one outranks the other) so it complicates things in terms of actually having a ...

A choice between Craig and Tom

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

29 April 2018 (F - I’ve been with Craig for over three years and I do love him, although I’ve never been sure he’s the one. He’s a great support among many other great attributes, however he has no drive and never will, he’s lazy, he doesn’t dress properly for work ...

We've broken up but why does my heart still hurt.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

27 April 2018 (F - MOD NOTE: TWO QUESTIONS COMBINED My head is in a spin . My ex broke up with me a few months ago. At first he sent nasty texts and then texts saying he loves me and then I heard nothing for over a week, the texts dwindled to odd 1 or 2 and then not...

Married man damaging my reputation.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

26 April 2018 (F - Previous Post: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-out-of-this-relationship-with-a.html About a month ago I ended an affair with a married man that I was having. We texted and called daily and we slept together on the weekend but I told it ...

My confidence is shot, I know I'm better off but I want him to realise it.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

26 April 2018 (F - My ex of 8 years dumped me 4 months ago, he was and still is an alcoholic and takes heroin and crack and blues and pregabs plus antidepressants ( bought of the streets) I tried helping him and loved him so much , in the past year before the break up ...

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