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I think he's going through a midlife crisis he went to Thailand and met a girl and he doesn't know that I know

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted today

18 November 2018 (F - I have been dating a man for over a year who has just recently gone through a divorce. (Nothing to do with me). I felt he used me as a punching bag as he was very angry about the divorce although I knew he loved me. He stopped speaking to me f...

I need to tell my family that I was duped!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

13 November 2018 (F - Hi All. Please bear with as this is quite complicated. So I’m 30 years old, had a few relationships before my current one. This time i thought it was never going to end. We have been living together for 4 years. He is of a different race religi...

Baby daddy is secure financially but I love a poor refugee.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

13 November 2018 (F - I am in a relationship with the father of my daughter and I live with someone else ...my baby daddy is okay ...he can provide ...he loves me very much ...and his financially doing fairly ...the guy I love with is a refugee and broke...but we love ...

My husband has had numerous affairs and somehow it's all my fault! Will he ever accept me and make me feel good about myself?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

13 November 2018 (F - I am the most pathetic person I have been married for 28 years. When we met we lived a long way from each other and eventually I moved 250 miles to where he lived. At the time this was because his job was better paid than mine but I now realise ...

I'm married and in (unrequited) love with someone else for years. How can I get over her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

12 November 2018 (M - Hello aunts. I am almost 35 and married, but deeply in love with someone else who does not feel the same way about me. For the long story, please read below. Year 1: A few years ago, halfway through a master’s degree, I had to quit school and ...

Worst mistake of my life!! Don’t know what to do

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

11 November 2018 (F - I’m in the worst situation I could ever be in in my life I’ve made the biggest mistake ever and now I don’t know what to do I am suffering badly! I am 14 weeks pregnant but ended up cheating the night before I found out I was pregnant I know how bad ...

My girlfriend is perfect, but I want an open relationship.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

11 November 2018 (M - Hi people. I met my current girlfriend a little over two years ago and I was not the social type back then. I never really went out a lot and hanging out with friends was pretty much 'indoor'. After I met her I became very outgoing. We went t...

Should I be strong and not burden people with my problems?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

10 November 2018 (F - I'm really upset but wondering if I have every right to be or if my boyfriend was spot on and I need to get a grip. I have two children with my ex, we were together 8 years but then he cheated with his now wife. They got married within months of...

I cheated, fell pregnant, boyfriend left, I believe its his baby.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

9 November 2018 (F - I cheated on my boyfriend and I found out I was pregnant in a month time. When I told my boyfriend about it he told me to give birth but after he will have a DNA test. I had to tell him the truth that I cheated on him.he then said he is not ...

She seems open but what if she is telling me lies?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

9 November 2018 (M - Been single now for about 5 months after a long term relationship, and met someone a few weeks ago that i hit it off with, it happend very randomly and out of the blue. being careful, or at least trying to be ive had my guard up. but it feels right ...

I'm sick of this man being a ghost in our relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

8 November 2018 (M - Early this year my girlfriend did an internship in another city. I was too busy to visit and she didn't have much time either, so she only travelled back here a couple of times. I missed her and was looking forward to her getting back. Then she ...

We are on a break but working on our relationship ... he doesn't understand how his actions affected me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

7 November 2018 (F - 7 months ago, my ex and I broke up, mutually. Our relationship was long-term. A few days after our breakup I accidentally read a conversation in his facebook account between him and a female friend. The conversation was very intimate, and almost ...

She loves me but has a LDR boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

7 November 2018 (M - A girl has a boyfriend but she loves me. Her boyfriend lives far than Im living close to me. We had sex several times and we both promise to get married but she is yet break up with him? I need some advice.....

I stood by him even while he lied and said he was single now he doesn't want me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

6 November 2018 (F - Hello to all. I do need help I need some advice or at least someone who does not judge me or listen to me. I met an Iraqi man four years ago. He arrived to the USA as a refugee. We met in person one night I was out with some girlfriends and he was ...

My boyfriend spends all day on a dating app.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

5 November 2018 (F - I don't know what to do as my b I yfriend is on a dating app day and night there's no photo of him and details just it shows his location home and work. I don't know what to do I just don't get if he's looking for me on there OE someone else. I see ...

I don't understand why she did this to me

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

2 November 2018 (M - I know part of the answer. She's selfish. Has some severe mental health issues but so do I, so I'm trying not to hold it against her. Been scouring all over the internet to understand. Narcissist? Bipolar? Just trying to make sense of all this. ...

My husband seems to think I am a bank, smokes weed all day and chats with other women!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

1 November 2018 (F - Hello My husband isnt working and I am providing for our family. He is unable to work do to his new arrival to my country. During hid time here, he tells me his friends back home need an apartment to rent and they need to open up their ow...

I saw a strange number on my husband's phone, called it and a woman answered. Should I confront him about it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

1 November 2018 (F - Hi, I'm needing help on what to do next in my situation . OK, so I checked his phone. But I had to. He's been acting strange lately. I saw a phone number that called him this morning. And the call lasted 23 minutes so he had a conversation...

My married lover doesn't want me to go on trips by myself. Why doesn't he trust me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

31 October 2018 (F - My married lover travels with his wife up to 3-5 times a year. The longest he is away is a month at a time. It's very difficult for me, even though I've chosen to place myself in this role. I feel resentful and left behind. They are natural ...

I'm in a messed up situation with a guy from another country

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

29 October 2018 (F - Hey dear agony aunts I met this guy one month ago (B) who got my number from a friend of mine. We started talking casually. B doesn’t live in our country and he told me he while we were just talking that he had a girlfriend in a different country ...

Lover wants to stay with his children for now

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

28 October 2018 (F - My lover cannot live with me just yet because he still wants to live with his children who are 21 and 19.....He said they still need him .... He doesn’t love his wife... they share no interests as a couple, just stayed married for their kids sake... ...

I'm hurt, confused, angry and betrayed.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

28 October 2018 (M - So Last night I texted my gf and asked her how it started and she said that they met at a mutual friends house and he went up to her and they started talking about regulsr shit at first. Eventually they started chatting over what...

Five years on and he is still accusing me of cheating!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

20 October 2018 (F - How can I get my partner to trust me? We've been together 5 years, I've NEVER done anything that's remotely disloyal or unfaithful. When we met I had a few male friends, I'm now not allowed to speak to any of them despite the fact that all I've ev...

Should I fly 4,000 miles to go see my ex? Would it be cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

19 October 2018 (F - So... we’ve broken up for 5 years after an incident and subsequently I moved home to my home country. Contact was lost eventually as we were sick of crying over the phone. Recently, I thought I saw him whilst on vacation and sent him a text. He...

How do I move forward and stop letting his coworker get to me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

19 October 2018 (F - So my husband has a female coworker and their work relationship has made me uncomfortable. More so because of the actions of my husband. He has lied to me numerous times and all lies have been associated with her. While this was happening, I was ...

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