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How can I find out if I am fertile ... or not?

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17 January 2017 (M - dear cupid im worried about my fertility im 35 years old mals i dated a lady 28 year for 3 years relationzhip.staying together.she got preg and i went for dna with her and found that im not the farther.it happened to me on past i get a girlfriend ...

If I am talking online to a guy, just talking as friends, with nothing sexual said, BUT is it cheating for me to do this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted today

16 January 2017 (F - Sometimes I talk to someone on Skype (just text never camera or voice), I came across them on Tumblr and we became friends. He is a guy and we mostly talk about random things, never anything sexual. He knows I have a boyfriend and to be honest h...

Can two cheaters make a relationship work?

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16 January 2017 (F - I was in a serious relationship with a guy (it was long distance where we had to fly an hour to see each other). Then one day, I find out he had been texting this other girl 10 hours a day, and they were seeing each other for 3 hours a day for ...

I'm panicking my boyfriend will cheat on a guy's trip to Cuba. How should I respond or act in this situation?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted today

16 January 2017 (F - My boyfriend is in Cuba for one week on a guy's trip. I am beside myself with worry that he is going to cheat. I have read that prostitutes are around every corner there and they are dirt cheap. The anxiety is hard to take. I contact him a...

He ignores me. Feel like I'm walking on egg shells. Is there any hope for this troubled relationship? What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted yesterday

15 January 2017 (F - What should I do about this relationship?. I will just tell you what happened recently. I have been with my boyfriend just over a year. There have been a lot of times where we have argued. He has a very short fuse. I feel like I am walking on eg...

I feel like my boyfriend isn't really committed to me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted today

15 January 2017 (F - Hi, I'm just looking for some advice. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and I'm really unhappy. I feel like he isn't really committed to me, I'll give you some examples. He's messaged other girls behind my back and admitted he l...

I feel ill for cheating on my boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted yesterday

14 January 2017 (F - I am currently feeling physically ill for cheating on my boyfriend and I would love some advice on what to do. Me and this other guy did not sleep together just hung out for the day and made out a bit.I am feeling incredibly bad for him as I didn't ...

I text my bf on an alias phone pretending to be an admirer. And he fell for it.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted yesterday

14 January 2017 (F - After forgiving my cheating bf who got me and another woman pregnant 5 yrs ago, i forgave him and we are now back together for the past year. i put up with him going to spend time with his son at the other woman's house of which sometime he sleeps ...

I'm so in love with him but I don't even think I know who he is!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted yesterday

14 January 2017 (F - So ive been with my boyfriend a year and 2 months now. I recently found out he was lying about having a Facebook, I never cared he had one in the first place because I trusted him. So I'm on my moms Facebook and I see he still had it when he told me ...

He says I mean everything to him so why don't his actions show that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

14 January 2017 (F - Hi all!! In need of advice and I turn to you. Ive been with my guy for a few years. And he messed up HARDCORE a cpl years ago lying, cheating and hiding things. He got busted by being sloppy. And all that he did seriously messed my up in the head, ...

My boyfriend says I can't leave him because he's planned the next 5 years around me!

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13 January 2017 (F - Have I fallen out of love with him or am i just depressed? Recently i can't bring myself to say i love you to my boyfriend. We have been friends for 3 years and have dated since last May. In October i felt the same way as i do now just feeling dow...

My boyfriend messaged another girl on OkCupid. Was this just a momentary lapse in judgment or should I be worried?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

13 January 2017 (F - Ok so here goes.... I need advice you guys I'm at a lost with what to do. I (F/26) met my boyfriend (M/36) this past June. When we met I was dating my ex of five years. I broke up with him and two weeks later started dating this new guy I'll cal...

My husband wants me to date other men for sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

9 January 2017 (F - I have been married for 17 years my husband for the past 5 year asks med to have sex with other men while we are having sex it gets him harder, should I? I have explained to him sex is more then sex to me, he says for me to go out and date then. I ...

He's asked for another separation because it's hard for him that I don't trust him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

9 January 2017 (F - I been with my husband for 15 years. About 6 years ago we briefly seperated because he started talking and texting with this girl from work. He said that it was nothing but deep inside me always screamed that it was something. We got back together ...

I need advice on making my marriage better. Should I feel guilty about the flirtation I had on a weekend away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

8 January 2017 (M - I need some advice on making my relationship better. I'm married and have been for 13 years, the first thing I want to say is I love my wife. I am in my mid 40's whilst my wife is 7 years older than me, up until last year I was fairly overweight ...

How can I cope with my husband cheating on me two years ago, with a blood relative? He has cut contact with her, but I'm still trying to cope with his betrayal

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

8 January 2017 (F - My husband was adopted as an infant. He later found his birth family. Since then he has had sex with his half sister. It is tearing me up inside. I'm still with him, he does not have contact with her now, but I wonder about his heart. T...

What do I do? How can she still want to be with someone who she is not sexually attracted to, nor IN love with?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

8 January 2017 (M - Apologies if I ramble but I have some much to get off my chest ?? My Fiancée of nearly 14 years and the mother of my 2 beautiful daughters (11 and 6) had told me she loved me but is not IN love with me several years ago. We have also not had...

Why does my boyfriend appear uncomfortable around his subordinate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

6 January 2017 (F - Hi. So there's this woman my boyfriend works with. He is actually her boss. At a social gathering around Christmas, I noticed he looked uncomfortable around her. I asked him about this. He said he thinks she likes him (more than a professional ...

I don't feel good that my husband talks to his ex behind my back! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

6 January 2017 (F - I have been cheated on in the past and I just can't stop with snooping. I've talked to my husband about it but I just keep finding him communicating with his ex and he deletes them right away. I just saw that he told her I don't like them keeping in ...

I hope this can help you jump start a plan that can lead you to a better way of seeing things in a relationship.

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6 January 2017 (M - Hi there, hope that everyone had a great holiday period and that much fun was had, lots of love thrown here and there, memorable moments were shared and great memories were made. With that being said here's a little about me and why I decided to ...

The phone messages he's been receiving from her do bother me. But how do I raise the issue with my husband?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

5 January 2017 (F - Hello I am a woman in my late 20's who has been married for 2 years. I have a problem and don't know how to handle it. My husband back when we were first dating over 4 years ago had cheated on me with a woman he was friends with at a drunken par...

Heartbroken, but I want to forgive him. What are my options? Found out my Bf has been cheating.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

5 January 2017 (F - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 years. Lately he has been acting weird and always on Snapchat and never responds to my text but responds to me on Snapchat. One day he left his Snapchat logged in on my iPad and I became curious. ...

Should I be more angry or just let it go? My wife confessed that she gave oral briefly to a male stripper at a party

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

5 January 2017 (M - Hi, my wife went to a girls party night recently where we both knew there would be male strippers. I was totally cool with it but she got carried away with the night and ended up giving a few seconds of oral to all but one of the stripper...

Should I tell her he cheated on both of us?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

4 January 2017 (F - Hi, I had a difficult abusive relationship before hand. I met someone from out the country and he made me trust again and go out again. I was content with his friendship but he pursued it to something more. Time for him to leave. He wanted me to go ...

My married lover wants me to move to his country with our son

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

3 January 2017 (F - Dear readers, I am in a really complex situation. 8 years ago, I met a man - we were both married at the time. I didn't have any children, because my then husband did not want any, despite my wanting a child desperately. The other person (OP) has ...

Should I tell my wife I've been visiting massage parlours?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

3 January 2017 (M - I'm a married man in my early 50s with a big secret. I've developed a habit of visiting massage parlours and receiving massages that end with sexual stimulation and orgasm. This started a few months ago and I love the excitement of headin...

What I want to know is, if he is seeing my ex best friend then would he really want to stay friends and in touch with me when there is a good chance I would eventually find out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

2 January 2017 (F - My boyfriend of one year an I split up 8 weeks ago. We split because I thought he was seeing my best friend....I still do. He has ALWAYS sworn that he never had and never would have anything to do with her and that one day I will see that. He tells...

He is also my colleague at work and we just broke up. How can I face him when I go back to work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

2 January 2017 (F - Im from India working in a bank. I had a relationship with a colleague since last January.. he has one friend or girlfriend i don't know with whom he spent a lot of time..now even after our relationship they talk over phone. Once i caught him ...

Boyfriend kissed another guy while drunk as a 'joke'. Are my thoughts on this incident justifyable or am I being too uptight about this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

1 January 2017 (F - Hello all, Yesterday my bf of 6 years told me he'd kissed a guy he knew, while drunk, full on the mouth during a concert a few months back. It happened in a joking context, he added. Because of this context, he does not see a problem with it....

My husband made 160 phone calls in one month to his female coworker! Advice?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

1 January 2017 (F - Geez - where to begin? Suffice it to say that about a year ago I began a downward spiral into depression. (The triggering event was horrific, but unrelated to my marriage). Anyway, I am definitely not myself, anymore, nor do I adequately fulfill the ...

Does a bruise on my boyfriend's stomach mean he is cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

30 December 2016 (F - My boyfriend came home with a noticeable bruise to the right of his belly button last night and this concerns me. We have had rough sex many times but not recently. I asked him where he got it and he said he has no idea and just noticed it himself ...

What do I do? Don't want to split up. Yet also don't want a Bf who behaves like a cheater 2.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

30 December 2016 (F - hiya everyone me and my fiance have been together for 3 years. A few month ago he started to add women on facebook the women he added were the type of women he said he would like as a girlfriend. I asked him why he was adding them (he hardly uses ...

Is it possible for men to move on so quickly?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

29 December 2016 (F - Hi, I need some advice. I was in a relationship with a guy for one year. We had a great relationship until September this year then we started to argue because his behaviour changed towards me and I also fell out with my best friend because I ...

He is clearly lying, but why does he keep doing this? I don't know why??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

29 December 2016 (F - I'm so confused!! I was friends with my ex for 3 years and seeing him the last year. The break up was bad as I accused him of seeing someone. He repeatedly denied it but he had lied to me a couple of times previously (just white lies he said...

Why has my Boyfriend changed his sexual style to a more conservative one, to the style he favoured previously? Could he be cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

28 December 2016 (F - Hello friends. I have been in a long term relationship with my boyfriend. We have always had a good time experimenting with each other sexually. We have a good bond and have connected from the get go. And we have also had stellar chemistry and a gr...

I can't walk away from my married guy but I can't handle the situation either

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

26 December 2016 (F - I need help to deal with this situation without judgement please. I am having a relationship with my pastor. Well most would say affair but it is more than that to me. I'm 26 and a single Mum and he helped me so much and my wee girl. I ended up ...

Are my reasons for not trusting her valid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

24 December 2016 (M - I don't know if I should stay in my relationship. At times it is excellent she can be thoughtful, giving, and highly sexually charged and also will spend a great deal of time just making sure I'm okay, but I find it very hard to trust her she has a ...

Is it a good idea to let a guy know you are a cheater?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

22 December 2016 (F - Dear Cupid,I am a firm believer if you do something to somebody it is right to return what has been done to you.I was in a relationship with this guy for years a little over some years.He would cheat,lie,and make babies on me. I would look past it ...

How could she have a three year sexual affair with this guy, and still have sex with me??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

22 December 2016 (M - I recently discovered that my wife has been having a sexual affair with a single friend of ours for the past three years, usually when I was at work.... he is single and has had girlfriends in this three year period..She knew this because he came ...

My Bf has been talking to a younger woman. Where to now? After all I've done for him, why did he do this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

21 December 2016 (F - Hi I have a BF for 3 years, monogamous relationship. That is what I thought. My Bf has an habit to lie. Lie about small and big things. We are on and off due this because I caught him then he apologized then I forgive then again he lies and so o...

My boyfriend can't control his intake of alcohol

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

17 December 2016 (F - Ok so I have been seen this guys for almost 4 years now. On and off at first (we broke up 4 times and both went looking somewhere else. But would still kept in contact and talk about who we have been sleeping with, then have sex together. Unless one ...

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