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Should I move on? She had a crush on this guy previously. They've had recent conversations with each other

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted yesterday

21 February 2017 (M - I recently found out that my wife is having inappropriate conversations with someone who she had a crush on several years ago. I know for a fact that she asked this person a hypothetical question saying "Let me ask you something, what if I say he...

Is he confused? Playing me? Using me as a rebound?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted yesterday

21 February 2017 (F - I was seeing a guy for few months, he told me he loved me multiple times but all whilst drunk, i responded saying that i did like him but didn't love him. The last time he said it he made little to no effort to see me, when he would normally come ...

I cheated on my boyfriend with a co-worker and now my life has become a living hell

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

17 February 2017 (F - This is a very difficult story for me to write but I desperately need help. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 6 years now and I love him dearly. We bought our first house 2 years ago and to be honest things were very very difficult and we had ...

Is there any way I can remedy this situation? He's avoiding spending time alone with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

17 February 2017 (F - My boyfriend and I were together all last spring 2016 and part of the summer, but we had known each other much longer then that and I am very close to his oldest son since he goes to school with my daughter and is alway over my house. It was his son ...

Is he right to be annoyed? He was asleep, while I watched porn. He said that what I did was a form of cheating

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

17 February 2017 (F - Okay so My boyfriend always takes the mick out of me that I want sex too much. I do like it every day but I don't think that's a problem.. Anyway, that's not the issue. Last night he fell asleep when he knew I was horny, which isn't reall...

My boyfriend keeps texting a female co-worker and it's getting inappropriate. Am I overreacting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted today

16 February 2017 (F - So my boyfriend has a female co-worker. He told me a couple weeks ago that it was pretty obvious to him and a few co-workers that a supervisor was trying to get with this female coworker, let's call her "B". My boyfriend told me that he told B "I ...

I don't want to snoop through his phone but I think my husband is cheating

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted yesterday

14 February 2017 (F - I'm worried my husband is cheating. We've been married 7 years and have had the happiest relationship. He started a new job 6 months ago and his behaviour has changed. He's started keeping his phone on silent, or constantly on his person, somethin...

Crazy obsessed women wants my man!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

14 February 2017 (F - This lady had sex with my bf. They now share a kid together. She is obsessive over my bf. She is 10-11 years older than us. Recently she has stalked our Instagram a. But she blocked us but only unblocked my bf. I know she still wants my man. But I'm ...

Is there any future for this marriage? Since he cheated I have turned to cheating too.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

13 February 2017 (F - My problem is I am not sexually attracted to my husband ,at all. The only way for me to be at ease is if I get really drunk to have sex with him .But he don't like that . I can't have sex sober with him.Since he cheated on me I lost all lost I had ...

Do I tell my friend who I've seen on the dating site?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

11 February 2017 (F - I have just joined a dating site and all is going well . My best friend met a guy on a night out and started seeing each other , even tho there is no official 'label' between them (boy/girlfriend) He did say to her and she agreed they would see how ...

My husband cheated on me with his brother's wife and now she's saying her child is his. Do I stay or leave? We have children of our own.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

11 February 2017 (F - i just found out my husband of 17 years slept with his brothers wife on his wedding night. This is the most disgusting thing I have ever heard or had to endure, the pain that i am going through is so unbearable. His brother met his wife 3 years...

I think the married co-worker I've been flirting with is just looking for a fling, but I can't avoid him because we work together. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

11 February 2017 (F - Hi. I have recently started a part time job which i love. Everyone is so lovely but I have found myself flirting with this guy. We text a lot and he says very flattering things but he is due to be married in a few weeks. He has two children with ...

He says he loves me so why is he going to escort sites?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

8 February 2017 (F - One day I used my boyfriend's computer to look something up only to find a website called backpage and he had been looking at escorts. I confronted him about it and he said it was from before we were ever dating and I believed him. Well I was using ...

How can I get away from him this time, without getting attached to him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

8 February 2017 (F - I have been in a serious relationship with a guy for over a 1 1/2 on an off. There have been times where things were good. Then there were times where he did not want me and I wanted him and vice a versa. Long story short this guy i am dating ...

My boyfriend doesn't want me going out with male friends for drinks

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

8 February 2017 (F - Am I in the wrong ? After recently starting uni I made a small group of three male friends whom I worked on an assessment with and we automatically became friends. We are all older than the normal uni starting age so its nice to have someone on ...

Boyfriend looks up his ex on facebook and then looks at porn. I don't like this!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

8 February 2017 (F - Rcently my boyfriend gave me his facebook password because he had been flirting with girls and ex girlfriends in the past and it drove a wedge between us. We got over that after I deactivated my facebook so I couldn't see what he was doing and so ...

Four years of dating and he's never asked if I missed him until now. Is he cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

8 February 2017 (F - Yesterday I was on the phone with my boyfriend and suddenly out of the blue, he mumbled "Do you miss me?". His tone sounded different, like in a flirty muffled manly way, not the tone I am used to hearing and we have been together for 4 years. In ...

He says his On line friend is just fun and escapism. It sounds like emotional cheating to me. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

7 February 2017 (F - Would love advice as to if " emotional cheating " on line is as bad as the physical cheating . I have dated my guy for two years and walked in on him skyping a woman who he knows through " business " when he was saying " love talking to you ,...

My married boyfriend is interacting less with me and he seems depressed. Do you think he wants to cut ties with me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

7 February 2017 (F - My boyfriend is married and we've been dating for quite sometime. His wife got to know about me and tried to get me to confess, which I avoided somehow. He says that he would divorce her as they don't have any sort of bonding (they don't have any ...

If I was happy, I wouldn't have had cybersex with the guy online. Anyone got advice? Should I tell my bf about what I did?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

6 February 2017 (F - I became friends with this guy online. The conversations started off as topics about forums (met on a forum so) memes, YouTube, just general Internet stuff really. However, it slowly got a little flirtatious, and last night, I was drinking and we ...

Does this married man fancy me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

6 February 2017 (F - Does this matried man just like me or do you think he wants more? Reasons I think he does: Caught him staring at me and he smiled and shook his head a little. Saw him looking out of the corner of my eye and when I turned my head he averted his ...

Slept with my best friend, My boyfriend is hurt, help?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

6 February 2017 (F - My best friend Michael and I always hang out on his bed and play video games, watch movies, listen to music, do work, or just talk. Last night we were just watching tv and taking about past senerios and we hit some that are sensitive to me and I ...

I saw a condom in his wallet and now it's gone!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted yesterday

5 February 2017 (F - I am in a very deep pain. And I have no where to go and ask. Please help. I am married for 15 years. I have three kids. I saw a condom in my husband wallet when he went on a trip to New York with his friends. How i found out was Taking out money fo...

I found out that my boyfriend cheated and he doesn't know it yet. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

5 February 2017 (F - Hello everyone. I've never posted a question online before but I really don't know what to do in this situation so I'd very much appreciate your honest opinion and input! Quick background story. I've been with my partner for 5 years this comin...

Is it still bad if someone cheats but has no feelings for that person?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

5 February 2017 (F - What are some of the downsides to a man cheating on his GF with someone he doesn't have any emotional attachment to? If he doesn't care for the girl he's having sex with, like her as a person, or anything, then shouldn't it be okay to cheat ph...

Does this indicate there is possibly another woman? Red flag!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

5 February 2017 (F - I'm really bothered with my boyfriend, cause I really don’t know if I can take his word or not anymore, he told me that I can stay over the weekend in his apartment in the city, in fact, he has said it many times, the times I have traveled to see ...

Help me sort out this tangle before it gets worse

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

5 February 2017 (F - I'm in quite a difficult situation. My ex boyfriend was living on the streets recently. The battery on his phone had run out one night. He met this guy who was also living on the streets, and he borrowed the guy's mobile phone to speak to me. Me and ...

Isn't this cheating? I'm distraught and stunned that he visited at least three mens' homes to masturbate

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

5 February 2017 (F - I just found out my husband of 23 years, who has not had relations with me by his own accord for 12 years, more than half of my marriage, has been registered on gay and swinger websites. I found out all this on my own and have filed for divorce....

Should I bring this up for discussion? It feels like he does not trust me anymore.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

4 February 2017 (F - My husband and I separated nearly a year ago due to my infidelity. We recently reconciled and moved back in together. I missed him so much and have grown up a lot over the separation. Although I couldn't be happier that we are getting a second c...

Should I be concerned about his actions? Should I be questioning his commitment to me, based on his actions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

4 February 2017 (F - I'm concerned my fiance is travelling every other weekend for a few days without me. I want to go and he tells me to pay my way. If i try to go ahead with that plan, he just takes off without me. I bought him something for over 700 bucks the o...

Coming out for both of us is out of the question. Should I try to make both relationships work concurrently?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

4 February 2017 (F - I am married with two children but in love with my bestfriend who is a girl My husband is not aware that i am bisexual...but he suspects...and knows that my best friend is weird..but he is the most understanding and loving man..i love him and wan...

Am I responsible for the baby or did she cheat on me? We had sex on October 8 2015 and she gave birth on June 15 2016

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

4 February 2017 (M - Morning dear friends. My case is like this: I was in a relationship with my girlfriend(24 years old) for a year. we rarely met; at least once in three months. She visited me on the 8th of October 2015. We played the indoor game; but with pr...

My friend's Bf wanted to have sex with me!! Should I be feeling so hurt about my friend cutting me off for doing nothing wrong!!!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

2 February 2017 (F - My friend is mad at me because her boyfriend wanted to in her words " ^^^k ME" I have never met the guy nor has he seen what i look like. My friend does not have social media, I do. And shes mad at me. It was the strangest text i have ever received...

I'm having doubts about his ability to stay faithful

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

28 January 2017 (F - I have been with my boyfriend for about 8/9 months now. He is 29 and I'm 31. He is into sex a lot and has a really high sex drive. He needs to have sex everyday plus masturbate once a day on top of that. I am not always up for sex everyday, ...

Affair with my best friend but I have a partner of 18 years and a one year old that we had after years of trying. What do I do now?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

28 January 2017 (F - I've been with my partner for 18 years I do love him and we have a one year old which we tried for years to have. But for the last 3 year I have been having an affair with my best friend who's showed me so much love , a lot more love than I seem to ...

I kissed Max on the cheek and Mark thinks I cheated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

28 January 2017 (F - Hi, me and this boy have known each other for around 3 years now. Lets say his name is mark, me and mark have been quite good mates. The other day he asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes. I told him not to tell anyone we were together ...

Could my bf's avoidance of my compliments suggest he is cheating?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

28 January 2017 (F - I have been suspecting my bf has been unfaithful recently. Just sense a change. When having a text conversation this evening, I went on about how lucky I am to have him. What a good guy he is and how I am glad he is not like other men. I sai...

Could her actions in bathroom indicate that she cheated?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

27 January 2017 (M - My wife got really drunk last night and started a fight then went and douched her vag and left the bottle on the counter on accident. Now swears up and down she didn't cheat and says I'm in the wrong for accusing here. Any thoughts?...

Do cheating married men usually have more than one mistress?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

27 January 2017 (F - Do married men who cheat, cheat with more than one mistress at a time? Or do some men stay with just one? I am interested in everybody weighing in with their opinions. ...

I feel I have lost my future ....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

27 January 2017 (F - Last week i split with my boyfriend of 2 years . Yesterday my friend shocked me with some news , she joined a dating site for single parents as she is one, i helped her set up her account and started looking at profiles and thats when i saw my now ...

I hid a recorder and heard breathing, is he cheating or watching porn?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

27 January 2017 (? - Hello Everyone, I have a unique issue. I don't trust my husband. For varies reasons. Alot of people thought I should hire a Detective. I really don't have the money for that. A friend of mine suggested I get a voice recorder and set it in the m...

I like him and enjoy his flirting. But what should I do? Because I think he has a Gf already

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

26 January 2017 (F - There's this guy I'm talking too. The problem is, I think he has a girlfriend.. We've been speaking a while and a few months ago, he told me that he can't take things forward with me because he has someone. I respected that and we remained to j...

Is this an emotional affair? ?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

25 January 2017 (F - Is this an emotional affair? ? ? Last March- my husband of 27 years (M) was working at a customer's house (he's a contractor), and one day a woman (T) who lived across the street came over to bum a cigarette from one of M's workers. She a...

Just found out that my LDR is happily married. Do I confront him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

23 January 2017 (F - I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 months.. We are in a LDR, but he's very caring, sweet and romantic...keeps in touch. But one thing that continually bothers me is that he never calls me at night! Two days back, I was viewing his profile on s...

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