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Archived questions from: September, 2018 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

How do you cope with the loss of a potential relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2032 days ago

28 September 2018 (F) - I was dating a guy for a few weeks until this weekend. I wasn’t overly keen for the first month or so, but finally something clicked on the weekend and I finally let my guard down and invested. We had sex and he stayed the night. A few days lat...

I have a new guy ... so why am I so jealous about my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2035 days ago

27 September 2018 (F) - Hey, Needing some advice. I had been in a long term relationship (6 years) with guy A we split up in March of 2017, because our relationship was no longer healthy we were endangering each other physically and mentally with drug abuse. I still ...

Advise needed please, about sex and time.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2033 days ago

27 September 2018 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship. My boyfriend and I see eachother every 3 months. Recently, when we saw eachother, we had sex on the first night. He lasted about 30 seconds. The next morning we had sex again and he lasted a long time, maybe 5 ...

Am I in the wrong for talking to his mate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2034 days ago

25 September 2018 (F) - In February I was talking to this guy and he was newly single at the time. I knew his ex but she wasn’t a friend I just knew of her. And because we live in such a small town we kept it a secret because everyone knows everyone so literally not one ...

Is he too immature? Should I give up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2036 days ago

24 September 2018 (F) - Hi everyone! I went on a couple dates with this guy, we met online. I'm a few years older than him, he just graduated from college. Both dates were really fun and great and ended with us kissing for a long time. He said he really liked me and wanted ...

Would women actually want a relationship with someone who already has a kid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2036 days ago

24 September 2018 (M) - Call myself c and my daughters mother m. I'll try to keep things short. Our relationship was great before the child came and we even got engaged. I'm not great with women or people in general and I struggle just to hold a conversation to get a tip ...

I need dating advice on how to meet women!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2037 days ago

23 September 2018 (M) - I'm 30, single male, and at a total loss on how to meet women for dating. I don't have a big social circle (which has been shrinking since my mid 20's) so I don't meet anyone through mutual friends. I live in a small town but commute to work ...

How to get people off my back about dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2037 days ago

23 September 2018 (M) - Hey guys I have a question, may be weird for most as you probably have not experienced it. But I have to face the facts. From young age I was always bullied about my looks. Certain facial features different proportions etc. Anyway I always ...

Does he love me or just think of me as a sex toy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2031 days ago

22 September 2018 (F) - I've been with my bf for 3 years and now I feel like he just wants me for sending him sexy pictures and wants to see me for intimacy he barely even talks about himself like how he's doing, or anything other than spicy pictures and am not sure what ...

Is it wrong that I feel he's totally describing her when he volunteers his opinion on whats his type?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2039 days ago

22 September 2018 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend for five months now. When we first got togther he mentioned he knew one of my friends and almost dated her. Ill call her S. Then after hanging out with him and another friend of mine ill call P, im told he was ...

Should I give up on a shy guy? Is he just not that into me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2031 days ago

21 September 2018 (F) - I've been friends/acquaintances with a guy for 6 months now. I don't know him all that well but when we talk we would really get on and have a lot in common. He wow make excuses to come chat to me all the time. He's 10 years older than me an...

Good date but no sparks. Should I ask for a second?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2017 days ago

21 September 2018 (M) - Hi all, I went on a first date with a girl last night. We met on a dating website. I am unsure what to do next. She was a nice girl and I think the date went well. It was comfortable and conversation flowed. She said at the end that it felt lik...

How do I stop self sabotaging.my relationships?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2042 days ago

19 September 2018 (F) - Every time I get in a relationship I seem to always panic that I am annoying them or I over think things to must making up problems that aren't there making the situation 10x worse than what it is already. What can I do to try and stop this from ...

Is he fobbing me off, I thought we had a good thing going.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2042 days ago

18 September 2018 (F) - I started seeing a guy a month ago. He’s 12 months separated from his wife with two young children. Our relationship seemed really promising but then he went a bit cold. He says his ex wife is being really challenging. She calls him up out of the ...

I'm happy with the way things are, but she is talking marriage and babies

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2042 days ago

18 September 2018 (M) - I have been dating a girl for 7 months now, due to my working hours and her studying at college, we only see each other 2-3 times a week. I am happy with the relationship the way it is because I like my space and time to myself, however she is ...

Move on or try to resolve between us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2042 days ago

17 September 2018 (F) - Hey everyone, I've posted a while back about how to move on from my ex etc but wanting a bit advice on an update really. Long story short, me and my partner split up about 4/5 months ago now. We lived together for the majority of our relationship...

How can I get better at finding the one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2045 days ago

17 September 2018 (F) - I wanted to get some advice since my love life is a mess ( or lack of). I have been single for a year and a half and I have tried a lot of things to find the “one” but nothing - I can’t seem to connect with men and the ones I do connect with or ...

Am I being paranoid about my girlfriend’s interactions at work with this guy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2044 days ago

16 September 2018 (M) - I work at a restaurant with my girlfriend. We just got into a big fight which was my fault. So we’ve barley spoken for a few days. I come into work and i notice my gf getting her shirt sleeves rolled up by a guy coworker. Then i see she’s ...

My progressive hair loss is making me insecure about dating

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2044 days ago

14 September 2018 (M) - Hi all, I'm having a real tough time with my confidence on dates. This has been due to my now significant hair loss. I'm in my late 20's and recently went out with a girl who i'd not seen for almost a year (i'd had to move away for work, but we kept ...

He says he can't predict how he will feel in the fututre

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2046 days ago

14 September 2018 (F) - I’ve been with my bf for 6 months it’s all going well we love each other a lot and planning on moving in in a month. He’s 30 and only had a handful of short term relationships (9 months max - he’s a commitment phobe and has never felt previous ...

What is the next move for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2050 days ago

11 September 2018 (M) - I don't really know how to read this situation or move forward with it.. I went on a couple of dates last December with a girl i met online. They went really well, however I had to move away early in the new year for work. We loosely kept in touch...

I kissed my ex when on a break from my boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2050 days ago

11 September 2018 (F) - I need help, me and my boyfriend always break up and this time I thought we broke up for good, but no. He came back like always. But while we broke up I kissed my ex. And I feel so bad about it but I don’t know what to do. My boyfriend told me he ...

DId I ruin a good thing by commenting on his social media and being petty?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2051 days ago

10 September 2018 (F) - Hey guys, I'm in a dilemma with a guy. So the beginning of August, I start talking to this college athlete that goes to the neighboring school. Everything is great, affection, attention, dates, sex and spending time. Until about a week ago, he pos...

I'm feeling cringy and insecure about texts I sent

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2052 days ago

9 September 2018 (F) - I am cringing because i sent a 'I missed you text as well as a follow up text saying that he doesnt have to say it back to me if he doesnt feel like it.' I started saying I miss you last week, so it's something new in our relationship. It's be...

My boyfriend is on a dating app! What should I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2039 days ago

7 September 2018 (F) - My boyfriend is on a dating app online for an hour. There's no photos and details but it says single looking for a relationship and half the profile is false to hide his identity. As soon as he went to sleep the profile said offline. What should I ...

Is this relationship based on sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2053 days ago

6 September 2018 (F) - I am in a weird relationship with a 48 year old man. I lost my virginity to him but lied I was on my period. I had sex because I was ready to and do not feel an ounce of guilt. All I wanted from him was to have sex, get over with the pain and move ...

He’s going away for the weekend with one of his best female friends!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2049 days ago

6 September 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 3 months,we knew each other before though and its pretty serious. Everything has been good but there is one thing Im not comfortable with and its that hes going away for the weekend with one of his best girl ...

Should I call him out or just drop it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2055 days ago

6 September 2018 (F) - Back story: I started seeing this guy back in February, but ONLY as a hookup (my intention at the time, since I was getting out of a 6 year relationship). This lasted for a couple months, and near the end of the couple months, I realized I was s...

How should I go about finding a good intimate connection with the opposite sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2056 days ago

5 September 2018 (F) - Two years ago I came to this site and I got some great advice on getting over my ex. I have since then focused on building myself up through affirmations - prayer - positive advice from people and trying to give back to society as a woman ( helping ...

I am paying my girlfriend's rent but we are not on good terms. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2052 days ago

5 September 2018 (M) - Found girlfriends journal. Made the mistake of reading some of it. She has been in contact with her ex in prison. Sentenced 25 to life. Wants to visit him as soon as she can. Hasn't seen him in like 2 yrs. I have been supporting her almost 100% for ...

Am I stuck up for wanting basic things?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2057 days ago

5 September 2018 (F) - I'm been with my bf for a year and half. He lives with his mum still and now built a cabin in his mums garden and says he plans to stay there. I am not happy about staying there with no bathroom, kitchen, space for my things but he says I am stuck ...

Does this indicate that there is more than a friendship or just nothing to worry about?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2052 days ago

5 September 2018 (F) - Ok so my boyfriend has a female friend which happens to be his accountant but he told me they are also friends,they around the same age group, he is older than me, when my bf did his housewarming get together he invited me and my family plus his ...

Boyfriend's family word is golden, mine doesn’t count!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2057 days ago

4 September 2018 (F) - I need some advice. I have been dating a guy for five years, his family is top priority with him, I am bottom of his list. I will add that his family absolutely dislike me, no matter what I do, it is always wrong. He has a large park RV that his...

Is it unreasonable that I don't want to know about his personal masterbation habits?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2058 days ago

2 September 2018 (F) - I hope this question is not too vulgar. It's actually quite personal and embarrassing but I'm not sure how to handle my situation most effectively without some advice. I'm sorry for the length. It's a two part question i guess. A few weeks ag...

Single for 3 years! Is dating hopeless for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2059 days ago

2 September 2018 (F) - Okay so I’ve been single for 3 years I have been completely okay and comfortable with it and I have enjoyed it. But sometimes I don’t like it so much because I’m ready to settle down, I wanna get married and have another baby I have a 7 year old and ...