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Archived questions from: September, 2005 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

I'm with my dream girl at last... only I'm afraid I might 'wake up' to find I've lost her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

30 September 2005 (M) - I've just started seeing a girl that I have loved for years. We had a bit of a thing years ago. Since which I've been through three relationships that hurt me badly and she's got a little 5 year old girl. The thing is is that I am finding it so hard ...

The man I'm dating seems to have had an ample sexual history...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6771 days ago

30 September 2005 (F) - I have been seeng somone for a few months who seems to care about me but he has been telling me things about his past that I am finding it impossible to digest. He married his first wife at 22 and at 34 had an affair with her sister who came to ...

I've got his phone number. Can someone help me with advice on how to ask him out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6779 days ago

30 September 2005 (F) - I'm interested in a guy who works temp. for the same company I work for. For the past few weeks we've made small talk. He just recently told me that he was losing his job, so I offered to help get him another and exchanged phone numbers. Well, I ...

Too shy to talk to the girl directly, I sent her a poem and a rose instead...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6783 days ago

30 September 2005 (M) - Hi I have fallen for a Girl and am too shy to go and speak to her I didn't know what else to do so I sent her a rose with a poem telling her that I liked her and that I wanted to ask her out. I left a text number but she didn't reply. I guess s...

Will we still be together when it's time for my boyfriend to leave for overseas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6783 days ago

29 September 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months - he is 23 and I'm 20, and I can honestly say I've never felt this strongly about anyone before, and he has all the qualities that I could want in a person to spend my future with. I'm pretty s...

I'm a serial dater. I just keep meeting guys, getting bored then moving on!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6785 days ago

27 September 2005 (F) - I have no problem attracting guys, but have a huge problem keeping them. I get bored easily, because after a while they start losing interest in me and I don't get what I want, so I move to the next guy. I'm talking to this guy right now and I wa...

We'll probably get married. The problem is, I don't know if we're in a relationship yet!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6786 days ago

27 September 2005 (F) - I've been communicating with this wonderful guy for the last nine months. We both live in the same country and have known each other since babies basically but we because re-acquainted after a long absence. I study in London now and we communic...

I had another sexual experience after she said to "get it out of my system." Now she doesn't trust me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6786 days ago

27 September 2005 (M) - Hi, I have dated someone on and off for about two years. During the summer we happened to bump into each other again. We started to hang out again, things became more serious and I told her that I loved her. However, the problems from the ...

Yes, I'm definitely going to speak to her, but I could use some "ice breakers"...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6786 days ago

26 September 2005 (M) - Hi Cupid. I am 26 and have been single for about 5 years. There is a girl (roughly my age) I have liked for a couple of years. I never used to see her very often as she is a friend of a friend's girlfriend's sister (complicated I know) but have b...

My girlfriend is almost perfect, except for hairy nipples...

This question has 75 answers - newest was posted 3535 days ago

26 September 2005 (M) - I have started dating a lovely girl. Perfect in almost every way except, she has quite hairy nipples. It's fine to say I should just ignore this little problem. However, how do I suggest that she might want to get rid of the hairs, without seeming ...

I thought "I love you" on my phone was a joke from a friend. Did I blow my chance with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6748 days ago

24 September 2005 (M) - Hi I am a student and in love with another girl in my group. We always looked to each other during the lessons. One day I got a message on my phone saying I love you. I first thought it was one of my friends with some stupid joke. By the time...

I put my foot in it when I asked where our relationship was going...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6789 days ago

24 September 2005 (M) - I don't have problems meeting nice guys but basically I am too needy! I met someone really nice a month ago and played it cool, yet as things seemed to be going well, I had what I thought was an inconsequential conversation about where we were at ...

Guys my own age look old... Guys I date don't want to settle down!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6789 days ago

24 September 2005 (F) - I am in my late thirties, very attractive and don't have problems meeting guys but I am still single and it's really getting me down. I'm never attracted to guys my age as they look so old, so I always go out with guys in their late twenties and ...

She knocked me back once. Should I try again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6789 days ago

23 September 2005 (M) - I recently asked a girl to our homecoming dance, but she was already going with a group of girls. I was hoping we could continue seeing each other after homecoming. I really like this girl, and don't want to just give up now. Any suggestions of ...

Does he think he's betraying his late wife, or is his behaviour normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6791 days ago

22 September 2005 (F) - I have been dating a man for two months. He lives alone and have one grown stepson. His wife died almost three years ago, still he is stuck in a shell. He has not moved on. I finally got him to give her clothes away after the Katrina struck. ...

I'm interested in a work colleague, but worried I might still be on the rebound

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6760 days ago

22 September 2005 (M) - I have recently broken up with a long term girlfriend and find myself attracted to a work colleague. I am 34 and she is 23 but we are compatable in many ways; Similar background and upbringing etc. I have known her for 12 months and worked with her ...

My chick-magnet boyfriend just loves the attention he gets from other girls...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6792 days ago

21 September 2005 (F) - I've been dating my b/f for almost two years, but we had just made it official 7 months ago. He's a chick magnet, this I know. I fell in love with him the first time I ever saw him. He treats me great, but, to me, there is one problem. He LOVES ...

We're taking time apart and now she wants to meet up again. Is she going to drop a bomb?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6134 days ago

20 September 2005 (M) - Hi, Please, help! My girlfriend and I are on a break. It's been 8 weeks, but this is OK since I did the same a few years ago. I know she loves me, but she said at last conversation "I'm afraid if we get back together it'll be great and someth...

With the amount of time we spend together, shouldn't my guy seem a bit more... interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6793 days ago

20 September 2005 (F) - I met a man 4 years ago. Nothing happened at the time. I ran into him about 2 months ago and we have been spending some time together. We've done dinner, dancing and both like to gamble once in awhile. I am 41 years old and he is 51, going on 52 ...

Can get sex easily, but I'd like a proper relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6791 days ago

20 September 2005 (F) - I am an attractive 53 year old woman who is finding it impossible to meet someone who will commit to them. I have no trouble attracting men, but they only ever want sex. As that's not what I'm about I very rarely see them again. What is it about me ...

I'm ready for a relationship, but she wavers and says she just wants "a friend"...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6791 days ago

20 September 2005 (M) - I was seeing this girl Jane. She recently split with her Ex and we got together ( we originally met over net ) Anyway it was a somewhat rocky ride for 4 weeks because she was acting funny and stuff. I confronted her a number of times and basicall...

He says he'll give me anything when he's a success. Is it worth waiting for?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6794 days ago

19 September 2005 (F) - I'm 19 and have known my bf for a couple of months but been with him for a little over a month. I recently just lost my virginity to him, maybe because I thought i felt love or whatever, or becuase I needed to satisfy my lust. Anyway, he's 26 and h...

Afraid to say or do anything that might brand me a fool. Help...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6794 days ago

19 September 2005 (F) - All my life I've been seriously affected by an inferiority complex - which has worsened over the years by an abusive relationship. Recently I met someone I really like but I'm afraid-afraid of making a fool out of myself--- What should I do?...

He only rings up at the last minute. Am I just a booty call?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6795 days ago

18 September 2005 (F) - I'm an emotional wreck! I am 47, divorced and have been seeing someone for a little over a year. He is 44, never married, but lived with someone for 9 yrs, he has been on his own for 6yrs. He stated from the beginning that he did not want a ...

I think I'm dateable. My friends think so too. But I can't seem to find men who are interested...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6794 days ago

18 September 2005 (F) - I'm 26 years old and really very lonely. I would love to have some new friends, and even more so, a relationship. The problem is, I have such a difficult time seeking and finding these things. In 2 years, I've had one short-lived relationship with a ...

My girl is obsessed with other guys' legs!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6170 days ago

18 September 2005 (M) - Hi I am 21 and my girlfriend is 19. Whenever we're out and about she always takes photos of other guys' legs and I don't understand why she does it. She won't discuss it with me and I think it is obscene that she does this. What do I do? ...

I'm seeing (and sleeping with) two different guys. Do I need to tell each of them about the other?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6796 days ago

16 September 2005 (F) - I am 48 - Divorced twice and 6 months ago ended a 5 year relationship. Started dating again 5 months ago. He is a great guy, and I really feel for him, but have kept my feelings to myself. We have slept together, and it is wonderful; however,...

My boyfriend wants to have his cake - and eat it! Should I let him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6797 days ago

16 September 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, I found out recently that my boyfriend kissed another girl whilst on a stag weekend. They exchanged numbers and have been in contact since a couple of times. I found this out though by a text message I saw on his phone from ...

Every time my boyfriend checks out women with big boobs, my heart sinks

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

15 September 2005 (F) - I am a small busted woman. I have always wanted bigger ones. My BF's exwife is petite w/ Big Boobs. His 15 yr old daughter has big boobs. When we have sex, foreplay to him is sucking my boobs and he gets aroused by that. That is what turns him on ...

She's laid down the law, and she won't go anyplace with me where people might be smoking cannabis...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6797 days ago

15 September 2005 (M) - Dear agony aunt, I have recently got together with a girl that I met and have been a couple for about 3 weeks. From the outset I made it clear to her that I smoke the occasional bit of cannabis. She also made it clear that she was not a fan of i...

As soon as I sleep with a woman, I'm turned off...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6797 days ago

15 September 2005 (M) - Help! I've slept with 100's of women and I start off really liking them but as soon as I sleep with them that's it. I'm completely turned off. Is there something wrong with me? Why can't I form a serious relationship with one of them??...

My family and friends might not accept my girl's child. Do I risk it by dating her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6798 days ago

14 September 2005 (M) - I have been friends with a girl on and off for years. We would both like to take the relationship further. The problem is that she has a child from a previous relationship, who just happens to be of a different race/skin color. This doesn't ...

I want to fall in love and my actions seem to say it, but when she falls for me, I lose interest!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6800 days ago

13 September 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, I love girls and love a lot of them. I have probably fallen in and out of love with more than 10-12 girls so far in my life. I am 23 yr old guy and have always been like this since my childhood. I loved to be in company of girls...

Me: quiet and traditional. Her: loud and bubbly. How would I ask her out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6799 days ago

13 September 2005 (M) - The girl I love is very flirty and I don't know how to interact with her. She is loud and bubbly while I am more quiet and "traditional" about such things. She knows I like her a lot but shows me no recognition. I just don't know how to intro...

Ladies: what kind of romance book should I bring for the girl who asked for one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6800 days ago

13 September 2005 (M) - I'm a librarian that is has just started courting a girl. She asked me to bring her a romance book from the library. Do I settle for the Danielle Steele-type sob-stories, or do I go for broke and get her some Mills and Boons ?...

Best way to punish my boyfriend for his deception? But still forgive him...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

13 September 2005 (F) - How do I forgive my boyfriend for deception, but still make him know he can never do it again? My boyfriend lied to me about something major (not just a little lie). There are parts of our relationship that are wonderful and I'm willing to give it ...

Why would God let me fall in love with a guy who's scared to talk to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6800 days ago

12 September 2005 (F) - I've been trying to get this guy's attention for over 3 years, and at times I think he likes me, but other times I don't. I'm very confused on why God would let me fall in love with him. I know I have deep feelings here, because one, I've never fe...

When she dumped me, she said she "wasn't paying me enough attention". What's that mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6801 days ago

12 September 2005 (M) - OK, so I've been going out with this girl for a while; like a three or four months, and I think I'm in love with her. But she just dumped me because she said that she wasn't paying enough attention to me and it wasn't fair for me. What is she real...

We seemed to have a good time together. Why no reply to my text?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6801 days ago

12 September 2005 (F) - I have met a great guy, we ended up spending the night together but didn't have sex. I told him I wasn't into one night stands. He said that was fine and he appreciated my honesty. I took his phone number - he didn't take mine. I asked if we would...

Good-looking guys treat me badly, but I can't date someone I'm not attracted to!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6782 days ago

12 September 2005 (F) - Can someone help? I seem to be stuck in a cycle.. all I do is choose really good looking guys and predictably this ends in depressing disaster because most of those men are too busy enjoying themselves to really want a girlfriend. At least, that's b...

My boyfriend says he'll call, then he doesn't, says he'll write, but doesn't do that, either!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6802 days ago

11 September 2005 (F) - I need help. The guy I am interested in is 21 and I am 16. He tells me he loves me and I can talk to him for hours but I don't know if he is lying to me because he told me he would me write me but he didnt write or when he tells me he would call me ...

Am I normal? Just not that fussed about a girlfriend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6692 days ago

9 September 2005 (M) - Hey! Great site by the way. I am a 27 year old fella. I have had long-term girlfriends, short term girlfriends and everything else in between. I split from my last bird over a year ago. Problem is this: I don't feel the *need* to have a girlfriend. ...

What is the difference between a "serious girlfriend" and a fiancee?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6805 days ago

8 September 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 10 months. 2 months ago, he ask me to marry him, and we became engaged. For a couple of reasons, he decided and I now agree, that we aren't ready for that "next step". Therefore, we have taken a step back ...

I love him and he loves me, so why won't he show any affection to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6804 days ago

8 September 2005 (F) - Okay my boyfriend and I have been talking about getting engaged and what not. I love him with all I have. I have never been so in love with anything or anyone. But here is my problem...I feel that he sees me as more of a friend and not a girlfriend. ...

Why would he rather spend time with his female friends than with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6805 days ago

8 September 2005 (F) - How can you really tell if someone is in to you? How can you tell if they are holding back or keeping distance because of them and not you? For example....The guy that I have been seeing now for a couple of months is great. We talk every day, ...

My 23-year-old boyfriend wants to retire... now!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6805 days ago

7 September 2005 (F) - I am 21 and my boyfriend is 23. He has recently been talking about retirement and pensions and says he wants to retire NOW. I can't understand why he is in such a rush to retire... and, retired at 23?? It sounds odd that someone would want to re...

Am I imagining it, or is my boyfriend pulling back from us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

7 September 2005 (F) - I have been dating my new guy for about 5 months now. In the beginning, we both established that we weren't looking for serious things, and most likely it would be more of a "fling". However, we clicked and we clicked hard. After 1 month he had ...

I want to be friends with my friends, but they seem to want to date me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6806 days ago

7 September 2005 (F) - hi, I am an 18 year old girl and mainly have male friends. I do prefer male company as I tend to argue with girls. I have been friends with a group of males for a few years now! However I dated one of them for 1 year, it did end well but he still ...

My girlfriend cries... And cries... And cries...

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3874 days ago

7 September 2005 (M) - i think my girlfrend crys too much, i want to have more sympathy but i find it hard. I realised that my sympathy ran out when she was crying because she was ill and she 'dident have time to be ill'. Surely no one has time to be ill? and crying will ...

My boyfriend has lied all his life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6806 days ago

7 September 2005 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost three years. We both love each other very much and I want to spend the rest of my life with him but his compulsive lying is ruining any chance of happiness together. He's told me that he's lied eversince he ...