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Archived questions from: May, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Should I take a chance and see what develops?

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31 May 2009 (F) - Im an college student and have been attending college for about 2 years now. This semester is the 1st time i actually attented full time and made alot of friends and met a lot of people. The question i wanted to ask is: Theres this professor i...

I'm confused, he is so bi-polar with his feelings!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - ohkay so this is a little long but i need to say it all. and thru the whole thing dont think im a slut. im 13 and in 7th grade. one day on my bus i met this guy that i saw everyday and thot he was hot for along time. but i never talked to him. then ...

Boys and grad parties!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - K i have three things to ask!! : 1- can i invite the guy i really like to my grade eight grad?? Or is that too weird.... I like him and want him to be there but i dont know..... He has a sister that i babysit could i invite her and then say he c...

Am I wasting my time or should I let it ride?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

31 May 2009 (M) - I need someone's opinion who knows what's going on .... I am 20 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, Shane. He's 19. I do love him sincerely and care enough about him to spend the rest of my life with him, as naive as that ma...

Should I just completely give up on him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - My ex broke up with me. I apologized to him and was truthful to him. He made it clear that he didin't want me. there were times when he gave me mixed signals and I responed and then the next time I talk to him he would be negative again. I loved him ...

Flatmate ruining my relationship! Confront them or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5442 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend stays with another couple in a flat. He has known them for 2 years and has lived with them for that amount. They are very horrible people - confrontational, irrational, nasty, spitefull, messy, most of all jeleous... the list goes on...

I waste so many opportunities and have so many regrets!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - Hi, I feel like life is passing me by,im 22 sitting at home when everyone else is out having a good time, enjoying their lives, i feel like i sabotage myself by turing down invitations and making impulsive stupid decisions.I didnt go out tonight ...

How can I get over my erection phobia?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

31 May 2009 (M) - This is gonna be long..sry ! i need help tho.. Ok so today me and my girlfriend were alone in the house..we started taking of our clothes etc..started foreplay and stuff butshe had her panties on and i was trying to think a way to go inside her ...

He turns to his friends for all of the fun times...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - What does it mean when after a year+ relationship that your boyfriend wants to spend more time with his friends? He never does anything with me anymore other than chores and wants to go out with his friends to do fun things and go drinking and play...

Should I just try to stay friends for now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5442 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy and he seems unsure of what he wants. He lives in another town so the distance makes it hard to see each other. I know he is going through a hard time because his daughter was just born a few months ago. He and his ex w...

How do I let him know that it's ok to be open with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5442 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend always seems afraid to tell me things about his past. He was married before and has two kids. He also has had felony charges for drugs. Last time we hung out I caught him smoking, but he has quit now. At the time he was down to one c...

I'm scared of getting hurt again. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I recently got out of a very bad and extremely hurtful "friends with benefits" relationship that lasted around 7 months. It ended badly and I suffered a lot of emotional abuse and got my heart broken, by an absolutely horrible person. ...

How do I know if a guy really likes me for who I am?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - It seems like all the guys I date just use me. Now I have a hard time trusting guys and always think they are going to use me. How can I trust guys again and How do I know if a guy really likes me for who I am? ...

Should I ask out my doctor?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4063 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - Should I ask out my doctor? I have a terrible crush on my orthopedist. Been seeing him for 6 months and just had my last appointment with him. He is supposed to call me next week with some follow up information... so I'm wondering if I should make a ...

Disowned by family, homeless and with a child.... Help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - Hi me explaining my situation might take a while but i need help.so please dont get bored.im 21yr old muslim and i am also at university.my family are very respected in the community but iv brought shame to them by getting pregnant without being ...

If I fail my next exam mom says I have to finish with my boyfriend!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - I dont know what to do. At school I have alwaiis been good at maths and now am failing it as i failed my first exam. I have another one coming up in a weeks time and my mum said that if I do not pass it I have to break up with my boyfriend cause ...

Am I just too energetic for him?

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31 May 2009 (F) - Hey everyone, I've been seeing a guy for about a month now and things were going great. I'd stayed over a couple of times, he was really affectionate and caring and we got on really well. Last night, I stayed over again and today all we did was w...

Trusting my boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5442 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - hi im 17 and ive been dating my boyfriend for 8months now and the past 8 months have been amazing hes sooo nice to me and everything but i cant trust him hes sooo over protecting when it comes to me i cant text any of my guy friends on my phone ...

Chosing between 2 guys. How do you do it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - I dated a guys for 2 years he wasn't able to commit to me (wasn't ready to move in with me or get married). We broke up because I couldn't handle that anymore. After the break up I ran into an old friend from highschool and we started talking. He ...

He promised to quit smoking but its been 9 months..how can I not hate it!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - well here's the story.. i met him as a smoker.. i did not want to date him because of that but he insisted and insisted and insisted promising that he will quit if i gave him a chance..but he have been together now for 9 months now and he still ...

I think I'm trying too hard in the relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - Well, I'm dating this guy, I'm 16 he's 19. Everything was going great, he probably still thinks it is, but I have my own personal problems getting in the way. You see, I've never been in a relationship before, and he knows that, I had never kiss...

I want to break out of my shell!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5442 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - Hi, so i need advise. SO after my boyfriends prom (we go to diff. schools) we are going to an after party. I'm a very careful person and im scared to do anything bad beacuse my dad lives through me. But i want to break out for once. Neither my ...

Is shyness making her like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5442 days ago

31 May 2009 (M) - am 19 years old just getting to 20 this year am cute too.there is a girl of about 15 years old just a neighbour to my friend. when my friend brought me to their house i saw this girl and she was some kind of shy looking at me, which caused her to ...

Lied about my age, will he still love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - Hi, i met my boyfriend online 2 months ago. We got chatting and really hit it off, met a couple days later and we got along so well and fell for each other so bad that i didnt end up leaving and so now ive moved in with him. We've already been thr...

Dishonest, without intention... what do you think?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - Hi I have made this huge mistake. It started out less malicious than it sounds, 5 years ago I was playing a game online and wasnt interested in meeting anyone for real, so in order to keep my age to myself and annonymity, I sent a fake pic, Sad...

Did my boyfriend really love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - I have a boyfriend and we were 8 months together now, we were leaving in one house, he had a wife but their relationship is on the rock,. My boyfriend had the attitude that he dont care others at all, but when we leave together he started to change ...

I don't think he's interested in me for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - I feel like this guy who I'm dating isnt really interested in me for me. I feel like he doesnt really care about how I feel and my emotions etc. Often when we talk, he doesnt seem to really be listening to what Im saying. The times when he se...

I fancy my girlfriends best friend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

31 May 2009 (M) - Here is the situation. Since my first year in high school i started dating a girl. After about 6 months of dating we're getting together in a relationship. Up to now its almost 2 years being together. There are lots of ups and downs in our rel...

Pregnant with ex boyfriends baby

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - Hi, Me and my boyfriend have been together for five years. But last year we had some problem. So we cheated on each other. Early this year we decided to end our relationship because it wasn't working. One month later i found out i was pregnant. So...

Will he ever see me as girlfriend material?

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31 May 2009 (F) - I kissed someone else's boyfriend. I know it's wrong but whatever I love him and he loves me. Why does everyone say that he'll never see me as girlfriend material??...

He's with me now, was with her, now she wants him back, tried to seduce him, should I confront her or ignore it?

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31 May 2009 (F) - my bf's ex, who is also a friend of mine is unbelievable. i had gone out with him first, then she did, then he came back to me. we used to be really close but after she started going out with him the friendship just died from there. i was reluctant ...

Teenage love, how do I ask him out?

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31 May 2009 (F) - Hello. I know this might sound stupid and unbelievable since i'm so young.. but i'm completely head over heals in love with my best friend. so i've known him for about two years now.. and about a year and a half of it, i've had hidden feelings...

Help me win her back!

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31 May 2009 (M) - Okay..... Me and my girlfriend of 1 year and 1 month love each other very much. But i recently made a huge mistake. At my graduation they was a group of people who dont like my girlfriend. And i hung out with my girlfriend the entire night, but i ...

Created a disaster, by agreeing to move in with her and her kids, how do I end it peacefully?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

31 May 2009 (M) - Hey folks, thanks for reading. A bit(okay, a lot) of background: My girlfriend and I have been together for a little more than a year, and she has two kids from previous relationships. When we first got together she was living in a very tiny apar...

How do I know if I'm really in love with him?

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31 May 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 months and i am really starting to love him, but how do i know if I 'm in love with him?...

Getting depressed over the situation I am in

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31 May 2009 (F) - I am only 19 but i am starting to get depression over this situation i am in: I love this guy (lets call him Sam), but he doesn't love me. I've dated other guys since to try and find someone new but they just won't do. I only want Sam. If he loved...

Crush on my hairdresser!

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31 May 2009 (F) - I have a big crush on my male hairdresser. He is a few months younger than me and we are both single parents. He is really handsome and has a really lovely personality. We are very similiar as he teaches full time but helps out in his families ...

Would this run off a possible boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - Guys: Suppose a woman is over a certain age... say 25, or 30... and has never been in a long-term relationship. Let's say that she simply never found the right person, and had bad luck with a series of guys. Are her odds of EVER finding love pre...

Confused gal!

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31 May 2009 (F) - hi dear..i m girl who is 16 years old. and i have fall in love with a guy whom i am very close wuth.i dont know whether he knows that i like him but he have tried to bring out the truth that i like him..i am scared to tell him because i dont wan...

How do I get rid of this guy before my bf gets out of jail?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - The guy i've been friends with really wants to have sex with which is my weakness but i have already told him i dont wanna have sex with him. I've tried ignore his calls and avoid him. Some how he always finds me. When my boyfriend gets out of jail, ...

Is he just afraid of committment or does he only want sex?

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30 May 2009 (F) - Ok so I've gotten into a real mess recently because I've fallen in love with my ex boyfriends best friend. We have been friends for over four years, and about 8 months ago finally took our friendship to the next level after I had broken up with my ...

I made about every mistake possible! Can I save this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

30 May 2009 (M) - I met the woman of my dreams and turned something special into a mess. I admit not only is she the first woman I've ever been in love with, but the first I've ever even gone out with. We just seemed so perfect together. Yet looking back I r...

Did I give him too much space..has he lost interest??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - Hi, me and my boyfriend (both 19) have been together nearly 5 years now, we're engaged and are usually fine but lately he's been talking and acting like he wants a different 'path of life' to go down. We're usually the typically 'cute couple' who ...

I need insight as to why my life is like this!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - Why is my life this way? Hi! I must admit I have never really been lucky in love although I am quite good looking with a decent enough figure. To start with I didn't want to lose my virginity until I was 30 and then the guy turned out to be a wrong ...

In love, yet we can't seem to make it work, due to clashes!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of two years have had our ups and downs. Everytime things go well in our individual lives [ie: get out of debt, decide to quit bad habits] we work so well together, and I can see a definite future for us. The problem is, when we are ...

Boyfriend getting more immature and selfish

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - I need to know what is going on with my relationship at the minute. We have been going out for a year and three months and over that last couple of months thisngs have changed. My boyfriend seems too be getting more and more immature and sel...

Should I ignore him eyeing up other women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - I have a new partner, every time we are out, i notice him ogling other women who are younger, and thinner. He says he finds me gorgeous and attractive. So why does he do it? last night he spent all evening eyeing up women, and practically...

How do I turn them down?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - I need help on how to turn guys down. I'm single, have been for a while, just waiting for the RIGHT guy. I made myself a promise that the next guy I'm with, will be the last guy. Here is my problem, when I'm hanging out, I always get guys I'm not...

Does he really want me or her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - I have a friend who lives long distance. When he moves to my town he always breaks up with his girlfriend to date me, but when he moves home he gets back together with her. He hasn't told me about her but he is from a very small town so I hear about ...

How do I ask him out? I don't want to ask others for help

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - Hi, I need some advise, there is this guy at work who I find attractive and we've briefly spoken to one another. I'd like to get to know him better but its difficult as I don't have an opportunity to chat to him. How shall I show that I'm inte...