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Archived questions from: June, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

I went online pretending to be another woman and my boyfriend fell for her!!!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I used this fake account and added my boyfriend on it. I started talking to him as her, and he started to flirt with her. He said he would kiss her and most probably have sex with her! I kept asking him about me his girlfriend and he was acting like ...

What can I do that's special to celebrate our 1 year anniverary?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 146 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - My 1 year anniversary with my boyfriend is coming up and we don't know what to do to celebrate it but I really want to make it special. I'd really like to hear some suggestions or what you did on your 1 year anniversary :P Any suggestions we...

We want to elope but I don't want my parents to feel cheated in seeing me get married.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend asked me to marry him a week ago and we still haven’t told anyone. We want to avoid the tension, stress and drama that come with planning a wedding and not to mention the debt. We just want to go on a tropical vacation together and ...

I really want to get on with my boyfriend's family.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I have a problem.. My boyfriend is a different nationality to me and his mum and dad speak a different language to me and know limited english. I've met them a lot of times but have barely said anything more than 'hi'. I don't know what to...

He feels more like a friend than a boyfriend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 146 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for three years, a long time considering we are both only 18. However When we kiss I start to feel weird and as if the act is wrong, so we stop. This happens 80% of the time and I don't ever feel like I want to s...

Is it normal to masturbate "to porn" while in a relationship?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 90 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I have been with this guy for 3 years and I was just wondering if it is normal to masturbate "to porn" while in a relationship. I understand that it is a natural thing but when I think of him masturbating to another naked women it makes me feel ...

Boyfriend being completely insensitive and will never support me when I need him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I need some relationship help. I've not been getting on with my partner lately and it's really stressing me out. I've had a lot of issues this year and he hasn't helped me through any of it. The first major one was that i had major issues abou...

Would you date someone who got divorced at 25?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 74 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I met someone I fell in love with when I was 22 years old. We instantly fell for each other, about 4 months later we moved in together and spent pretty much every day together for the next 2 1/2 years. Because we were from different countries, I ...

Should I just leave the pieces on the floor and move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 146 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - Hello...I am a lesbian and my ex girlfriend and I are trying to be together again. We were together in 2008, for a little over 9 months. Through this time she went to alcohol and drug rehab, and I myself was going through a recovery process too. The ...

I like his friend, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 136 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - Me and my friends have started hanging around with one of my friends brothers and his mates. They all go to a different school from me and my friends. All of us have a sort of thing going with a different one of these lads. Its nothing official. But ...

Why am I more attracted to married woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - Why am I more attracted to the married woman? ...

I'm horrible to guys when I'm with them. Help me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 146 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I have major issues with relationships , I'm 19 and I've never been in a serious relationship I always end up kissing boys once and that's it , I rarely ever end up being with them more then once. I'm not a slut or anything I have never even had sex ...

Is he busy or just not that into me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I have been keeping in contact with a man I used to work with. I got an email from him in April in which he said he would like to see me sometime--and would I mind. I replied that I would like to see him too. Another month or so passed, and he ...

Guys make me feel worthless, cheap and degraded. Why do I feel this way?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 144 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - Normal girls would just say that they like getting attention from the opposite sex but I don't know why I feel cheap and degraded when I'm looked at in such a way by boys. And when I'm whistled at I don't feel appreciated I feel like a slut or a who...

I have just found out my boyfriend has been cheating on me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 95 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - hello everyone, well i have just found out my boyfriend has cheated on me (kissed another girl at a nightclub). I found this out because i went on his facebook account and the girl herself told me as she thought it was my boyfriend she was talking ...

How do we go about handling this and will it affect us in the future if we do decide to tie the knot?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 145 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - Well here is the Breakdown... I have a girlfriend now who i care about deeply. We are both starting college and are saving up for a house. We both have good parents who love us and spoil us, along with that we both go to church and love the one who ...

How do I tell him that I know!!!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 23, i am 13 weeks pregnant and have just found out he has been cheating on me. Because of my past i have trouble trusting people. A few things made me think that he was cheating like he took my picture of his wallpape...

Dating for the hell of it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 146 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I'm currently 23 and have dated many men, have now realized that men around my age are not ready to commit because of timing issues (career, job, money goals, finishing University/Grad school) so, I want to remain neutral and date for the fun of it. ...

How to tell her I want to have intercourse?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 146 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - How can I convince my spouse to have intercourse for the first time? Whether she will accept or show any temporar because I am getting married next month. I was too shy a guy, please advise how to bring this up with her?...

How can I make my vagina less tight for my unusually large boyfriend?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - Err, how do I put this? Long story short: my boyfriend has a long, thick penis and I have an unusually small, tight vagina. Sex doesn't last very long because these two factors combined mean everything is finished before it even starts. Our sex life ...

I can't get over my exboyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 121 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - Ok, so my boyfriend {now ex} broke up with me a few weeks ago, and i really can't get over it xD. He told me it wasn't working out and tht we were better of as friends. I had saw it coming I guess...I just had blindsighted myself to just ignore it. ...

I'm NOT going to give him another chance but I can't leave him. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 145 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I love a boy and he love me too. we are in a relationship from the last four years. now he is ignoring me saying that he want to concentrate on his studies but one of my friends told me that she found him with a girl. after this lots of my friends ...

Don't know what to do - boyfriend with drug problems...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 145 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I’ve never posted to one of these things, so I am new at this, but I don’t really know where else to turn for honest advice. I have been dating my boyfriend for 9 years and we have been living together for 3 years – we are both 26 years old. He h...

How does the small stuff determine whether a relationship is worth investing in or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 144 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - Hey everyone. I wrote about a week ago. Guess I need a bit more feedback :-) So, for 2 weeks my boyfriend of 3 months had suddenly changed his behavior from loving to quite indifferent so I was close to the conclusion that he was trying to break up ...

We still can't trust each other and at 22 he's already gone off sex. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 133 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - This is quite a long one and I apologise but I feel like giving the history is really important in this case. I've been with Roger* for nearly four years. We met online and were friends for three months before we became a couple, I guess we were ...

Am I a horrible person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - Me and my Ex girlfriend were together almost a year, we split up recently and decided we wanted to be friends. Recently i've explained to her that i've had a bit of a drinking problem and i've been out of control. while at her house i wanted a drink ...

Assertive dating techniques - jump at opportunities to define what is acceptable

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - Hi.. so im generally good with the confidence and self esteem thing - but lately im paying more attention to it, as i go after high quality game... Scenario: recently i went on a date, left her alone the next day (i have a life/etc) - nex...

Did I make a mistake by not talking to her? I feel so stupid...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - okay.. so I'm going to be a senior in high school. the girl my friends told me I should have talked to has recently graduated. I would always see this girl everywhere at school walk out of a room or down the hall and see her. this girl was soooo ...

I've forgotten what dating was like before my ex, help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - Ok, first of all I'm not a virgin, and I have two kids. I recently ended the relationship with their father as it was not going well... at all. What I'm asking may sound stupid. I've completely forgotten what life and dating was like before him (as ...

We broke up yesterday, I want her back, how long should I wait before I text her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - ow do i get back my ex-girlfriend? She respected me enough to talk about it in person. She sed she loves me as a friend, and isnt in love with me, what should i do? i would like her back, but i dont know how to go about it.... We broke up yesterday, ...

Girlfriend focuses more on work than our relationship, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - Wow I better add a little to this, it seems that I didn't describe enough. My girlfriend and I have been together just over 10 years. Last year I did what I shouldn't and had an affair. But I had the affair after one year of us NOT having sex. The ...

Should I tell this new girl I'm dating I was engaged?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - Im going on a date with this girl i really like, and all signs point to her liking me as well, but there is a minor problem, my last realtionship that ended 2months ago i was engaged to marry her. Even though im completely over my ex and want to ...

How do I deal with my girlfriend's interfering family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - Im a 33 year old man with a 14 year old son. im gonna get straight to the point. I was single for about a year then I met a beautiful 25 y.o. woman whom now im deeply in love with and she loves me too. now the problem. her parents have such a hold ...

Should I ignore his calls for a few days?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 147 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I'm in my first relationship, and things are going well, but I feel unappreciated and like I've lost myself in this relationship. My boyfriend and I are college students and usually spend several hours together everyday including weekends. However, ...

How can I get her to be friends again? I don't want anything serious.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 147 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - I thought my relationship with my gf was getting too serious so we changed to being non-exclusive, few weeks later I have sex with another girl but realize after that she still thought we were an exclusive couple and we get into a big argument. I ...

Any advice on sex and what to get him for our anniversary?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I Have been dating for 8 months now. I lost my virginity to him in March, and he's fingered me, we've done doggy style, regular sex(With condom and birth control pills, of course) but there's one problem. I've never given him or any ...

Do you think waiting is the right approach? Will ignoring him get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - Hi everyone Thanks in advance for your advice. I am a 26 year old woman in the process of applying to medical school, and began dating a man, who recently turned 32. Our first date was in the first week of March, and it was quite possibly...

Where is this supposed to go? He's hot one minute and cold the next.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for over a year now and lived together for about 8 months of that. I just moved out 2 weeks ago because we started fightening and we decided it would be best for us. The last month or so we have said alot of ...

I can't stop obsessing over his ex girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - It is driving me insane! I have been with my boyfriend 8 months and the last 2-weeks I have been obsessing over his ex. He has had numerous exes, but this one I can't forget because he lost his virginity to her about 3 years ago. He told me from the ...

I feel like I should move on but would I regret walking away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 147 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - I met this girl about a year ago through a couple of friends,she expressed interest right away but I just kept it friendly until about six months ago. I ran into her and gave her my number. She called me that weekend and I met her out for a few ...

Which guy do I choose? Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - Basically I have to choose between 2 really great guys. Feel free to comment on any or all aspects of this, because I need all the help I can get! First guy: A beautiful person who helped me get out of a 3 year emotionally abusive relation...

We live very far apart, attracted to each other, but neither wants to move..so why is she acting this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - Long question, sorry. 2 parts actually. Part 1: I just got out of a 7 year relationship a little over a month ago. I left her due to a drinking problem she had (binge drinker, angry drunk). How long should I sit on the sidelines of the dating wo...

Do I have to make the first move and ask a guy out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 147 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - iv never had a boy friend before today i was talking to my friend on the bus and he told me about this girl who he was about to ask out when she told him he liked her dose that mean i have to make the first move for a guy to ask me out?...

Should we end things until he gets over his need to "experience" life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 147 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - My bf has commitment issues but we've naturally become more serious about each other. I am a few years older and we met when he was less than 6 months out of school, living on his own and into his first job. He says how he feels he 'should' be ...

Our sex life is nonexistent.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - I've been going out with a girl for about five years now. Things are pretty good but our sex life is nonexistent. This year we've only been intimate 3 times and last year it about 10 times. I've tried to talk to her about this but I cant seem to ...

9 Months... No "I Love You" Yet

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - When has it been too long after "I love you" should have been said? I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months and we have not said it yet. I'm starting to feel it and I think he does too. I have never said it to anyone before. Anyone, I dated that ...

Do I listen to my aunt or do I follow my heart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 147 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Ok on vacation i met a close friends brother that is now staying with her at first glance i liked him alot.then days went by ididnt see him well one day we had a bbq and he was there well all my cuzins their gfs a friend his sister him and i decided ...

Wouldn't he make more of an effort if he was really interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Hi, i met this guy two months ago and we really hit it off and i think i am falling for him big time. The only problem is i am not sure how he feels about me now, i had sex with him after a few dates (about one month after meeting him) I feel he is ...

I can't seem to get into a relationship!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

29 June 2009 (?) - I'm 23, in a good job, enjoying life generally. However, the one thing that I can't seem to get is a relationship. Some women seem to think I'm a gay man just because I'm sensitive, kind and caring - however, it's my personality and that's the w...

My boyfriend has kissed literally most girls I know!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 146 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - i have a boyfriend who is the most loving and amazing boyfriend ever. but i can;t seem to get over the fact that he has kissed some of my friends. he's a very shy guy and i think i took his virginity, but there have been times when we've been ...