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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I am dating a guy. I invited him for dinner. He accepted but told me he will only have time next week after an examination. The examination will be on Thursday. Shall I ask him again at which time and day he will able to after the examination? Or shall I let him tell me by himself when he will be able to because I do not want to pressure him. I think the only thing he thinks now about is the examination. I heard him say to someone that on friday to sunday he will not be here in this city. Yesterday I texted him message that contain "happy birthady, and that he is the only guy I only care for". When I met him the day after by accident and asked him if he got my sms he said that he did not have time to answer it and that he will answer it later. This day this guy big smiled at me a few times. So, he also knows that I am interested. I also told him the day before yesterday that I bought a new dress to wear for our dinner and asked him which color he would prefer it to be, and he answered.What shall I do? shall I let him tell me by himself when he will be able to because I do not want to pressure him. Or shall I ask him again if he will be able to make it on Thursday (on the examination day) since I know he will be busy at Friday to sunday?This guy is a popular one but with me he is quite and a little bit shy.Thanks for any advice!
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (31 October 2009):
 Geez woman, ease back a bit. You don't need to press the man so much. He knows you invited him over, he got your text, now leave it alone for a while. All this constant contact smacks of desperation and is a big turnoff.
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reader, Markingbad +, writes (30 October 2009):
 If a woman i was in a relationship with said i was the only guy she cared for it would be a great compliment. If she asked about what to wear in her own home..well i would wonder why she couldnt decide that foe herself.
Problem here is your not in a relationship yet. And your behavioure would set allarm bells ringing. You really only needed to arrange a time and day and leave it at that. If he doesnt show up then you would at least know it wasnt your fault.
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