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18-21,
*opelessly.romantic
writes:my boyfriend and i have been dating for just over a year. We spend every single day at college together. Well, thing is, he always judges me and talks bad to me and hurts me. But i love him and i do so much for him. He wont even try to do something small to make me happy. I cant leave him because he's all i have. He's my boyfriend and my best friend. I can confide in him. I love being with him. I have no other friends that i can hang with and be myself around so he is all i have. I have no siblings and no cousins my age so he's all my company. But i'm so tired of the way he talks to me. Not all the time though, only when we fight. I love him but i cant leave him. I dont know what to do. Please help?
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reader, Ginalolabridga  + ♥, writes (31 October 2009):
 You have come accustomed to relying on him for everything i feel and that is why your feeling as you do, trust me when you break free from a person with these traits and meet others who will treat you like gold, you will realise you actually had nothing with him!
He neither respects you or treats you good so why be with him?
Go join some clubs, get your self out in the community and volunteer to do some work that way you will meet other people which will broaden your horizon more than what it is now.
It is very important you have friends, other interests what your doing in this relationship clinging to him for death is unhealthy.
You will feel more of a person doing other things that does not involve being with him 24/7.
It will do him good too.
Gina
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reader, buffy0809  +, writes (31 October 2009):
 When someone treats you like dirt....why stay? Ive learned that and it only gets worse if you put up with it. Your worth more then what he is treating you like.
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reader, q1605  +, writes (31 October 2009):
 There is a person that can always be trusted. Always be counted on to do the right thing by you. They will not lie to you, cheat on you, or steal your money and blow it. They'll give you the shirt off their back, and are always where you can find them when you need them.
Go look in the mirror. That person is you. Guys will come and go. People will let you down. You never know for sure what it is they feel in their heart for you, until it is too late.
So you do have somebody else. And if you don't get better acquainted with her, than you will never be able to maintain a relationship with some body else.
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