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anonymous
writes:This guy and I have been seeing each other for a few months now. He lives in a different state. At the beginning, he was always messaging me and chasing me and we started getting intimate and had sex about 1 month after. He says he loves having sex with me but when I ask him what are we, he says he doesn't know if it'll work out unless he moves here. We've visited each other 2 times since we started and each time it has been fantastic. Great fun, great sex, and i could feel our relationship developing. Recently he came to visit me for a week and stayed with me. It didn't feel the same as before, he seems very distant and when I held his hand, he'll drop it within 5 mins or so. (previously he wouldn't let go). Previously he'll want sex at least once per day when we see each other(and he'll be initiating), this time we had sex about 4 times but each time i initiated. On 1 occasion during his visit i hugged him, he didn't look happy and i asked him what was wrong. He said he needed his private space. I was really hurt when he said that. I don't know what that means...am i rejected? It was a bit awkward after that incident since he was still staying at my place for another few days. Inside me, I think its over and I should move on ...but there is still a part of me with some hope. I don't know what he wants. Should I just move on? Is there much point in hoping? and What happens if he contacts me again? Should I ignore him or be friends? Thank you for your help
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks..i guess all your responses just confirms what I thought anyway! Moving on without you...!!
He isn't worth my time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2009): Definately not good. Could be some personal issues, or... other concerns.You need to be frank with him, ask whats going on and why was he that way to you. Find out whats going on with him, sooner the better.If he keeps playing along like this you may have to end it, but try to resolve whats wrong first.I hope it all turns out fine
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reader, Shiny Moon  +, writes (30 October 2009):
U should speak to him clearly about ur feelings. looks like its over. When he cant name what this relationship is to him then he never wanted a serious relationship with u. get over him and this relationship.
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