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I like the manly smell down there, am I weird?

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Question - (30 October 2009) 13 Answers - (Newest, 14 June 2013)
A female United States age 22-25, anonymous writes:

I just found this web site last month and think its great. I like sitting in this coffee shop, sipping a caramel coffee, and reading about real people and what others think about their problems and hang ups, without the fear of being embarassed.

I decided I need to know if I am weird about a little turn-on that I have. So far I have not seen my topic raised by anyone. Or perhaps it has and I just missed it. I feel too emabarrassed to discuss this fetish with any my girlfriends and need to know if any other girls feel the same as I do. So be completely honest with me.

After I give my boyfriend a blow job, I like to snuggle up next to his balls and just lay there and smell them. I find that I really like the smell of balls. I think my boyfriend kinda knows what I am doing down there, but he hasn't said anything to me. Am I a freak? Be honest. Any other girls out there like me?

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A male reader, joy_73 India +, writes (14 June 2013):

My ex used to do just the same - and she would also lick my groin and just plant her face in my crotch for a while before she gave me a blow job or even when we were snuggling. My wife (before we had babies) would often go to sleep post-sex with her face in my crotch or, more frequently, holding my thing and with her nose in my armpit. Pheromones, I suppose, both down there and in the underarm area.

You are definitely normal. And I should mention that I love the smell of women, both vagina and armpit - provided they are otherwise clean!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2010):

I think its hilarious the majority of replies are from guys...but I think its because you stumbled on something little known to women: men love to smell their privates. The ones who admit it here are real men...those that dont, arent. It's a primal, instinctive thing. I get turned on smelling the faint feminine odor of my GF's undies or workout clothes. I love the smell of a womans vagina and even her ass. So no, your fetish is not at all wierd.

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A male reader, Mr.pleasure United States +, writes (27 July 2010):

I think that is great that u love to cuddle up down there my has the same fetish it only makes the both of us want each other more you're not weird at all if any thing you're normal compared to sum

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2009):

I think that you can enjoy smelling your man down there. You shouldn't feel embarrassed about it. I think that enjoying those things about your boyfriend are nice. It tells you that you really love him even for those things that other people might not be turned on by.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2009):

Thats not wierd, its quite a compliment to your bf. Bet he loves you down there.

I once knew a girl who wanted to sleep with 2 of her fingers inside herself. Also some guys who hold it while they sleep. We are all a little odd in a wonderful way

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A female reader, PixiePie United Kingdom +, writes (1 November 2009):

PixiePie agony auntyou aren't a freak so don't worry.

being attracted to someones pheremone scent is a sign of genetic compatibility, which is a good thing, plus it means he washes...bonus!

and as long as he doesn't mind you snuggling up to his balls, then neither should you.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (1 November 2009):

DoubleM agony auntEveryone's natural body fragrance is distinct, male or female. I think that we sometimes find a mate particularly favorable to our senses, notably taste and smell. When that happens, it is a delight.

Sometimes, we may hook up with someone we like in most every way, but soon discover that the other's natural sensory stimuli, such as smells, are not particularly favorable. Cleanliness can have something to do with it, but I'm talking about the natural tastes and body odors when partners are clean, healthy and without any perfumes or colognes.

As a man, I have similarly savored the taste and smell of many women, yet a few turned out to be less than pleasant to me. I think that it's primarily genetic, but may also be affected by diet, prescription or other drug use and other factors.

It is perfectly natural for you to savor the aroma of your boyfriend's genital area, especially after providing him oral satisfaction. Presuming you have taken his ejaculation and enjoy it - the flavor and his smell are synonymous.

Many women naturally love both the flavor and aroma "down there." Personal experience: some girls have gone to sleep in my "lap" afterward.

Assuming he also enjoys your naturalness, you two have found a fortunate match, but you might wish to refrain from talking to others about it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2009):

I'm partial to the smell of a guys crotch... They always have an attractive, stink (for a lack of a better word). I generally tell them about it and love that I love it. Nothing wrong with enjoying every aspect of the cock.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2009):

I don't really dislike my own smell but it's not doing anything for me either. I never expected it to do anything for anyone else but maybe I'm wrong about that.

Some girls really smell in a way that turns me on. Others dont. I think part of it is affected by how I feel about the girl and her body.

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A male reader, Illithid United States +, writes (30 October 2009):

Illithid agony auntNot at all. Musk and pheromones are normal to like. Many girls even say that the can masturbate more successfully while smelling a boyfriend's sweaty shirt. I for one know that I LOVED the smell of my ex-girlfriend's musk from down there and more than a few girls like the smell of a man.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2009):

Well I'm a guy and I like my smell. Not sure how I'd feel about some other guy, but its me and I guess its how my brain is wired. Its a proven fact that most people don't mind their own body odour.

I'm off topic, sorry. I get the sense you wanted to hear from the girls but as a guy I'd find my girlfriend to be pretty hot if she said she liked the smell of my balls. It would be a big turn on knowing that her animal side likes that part of me. As civilized humans we spend so much time fighting the fact that we have an animal side tied to rudimentary genetics that include being attracted by pheromones and normal musky human smells.

I say keep smelling those balls! You are completely normal (and hot!).

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A male reader, samson United Kingdom +, writes (30 October 2009):

its not weird at all. im a guy and i like the way i smell down there too.lol. I think some people differ. some blokes probably smell worse than others. its a fact that people have different BO's and there have been tests carried out that led scientists to believe that certain women are attracted to certain types of male body odurs. it could be that he has the BO down there that ur attracted to. I have quite a pleasent smell down there when its a bit musky.lol im sure some peoples arent as nice. Its not weird, its kinky, I would be chuffed and really turned on if my gf told me she loved the smell of my balls, and that she loved laying next to them!lol

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2009):

Hey I am in a coffee shop too! I like irish creme flavored coffee. Yes I do the same thing with my boyfriend. For me the smell of a guy's privates are soothing. I don't know why but it relaxes me.

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