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Archived questions from: 3 January, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I'm worried we'll look weird if I grow taller than my boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - I have a new boyfriend, we are currently the same height but im 16 and still growing and he is 18, im worried we will look strange if i get any taller, help?! ...

He kissed my Mom--should I ever trust him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - hi all,this my first time here and i hope that you help me with my problem,i found this site using google cuz i really don't now what to do? my problem is that i recntly cut down my boyfriend because he did something very terrible. see,my parent...

I'm angry...she is being over friendly to this other guy! What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - Hi. I've just had an argument with my ladyfriend over this guy in the office. Both she and I have worked at the same company for about 3 years . We started dating about a year ago - but kept the matter secret. I used to have an office right next to ...

I'm 13, he's 19--does he just want sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - well theres a boy i knoww that i chat to often he really likes me but theres one problem im 13 and hes 19 my mates say that he just wants one thing but hes not like that hes very sweet and looks out for me im not sure if i wanna be with him thou...

How do I get him to realize I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - i recently found out one of my best friends was dating a boy that i liked however he ended it and is now with his ex again i really like him and he said he liked me back but im to shy to ask him out what would be the best way to get him to realize ...

Met up with my ex but he looks soooo different now and I find it hard to handle.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - I had been with my boyfriend for six years and had a great relationship. Then my family suffered multiple devastating losses, the family members we lost were the glue of our family and everyone left behind seemed to be fumbling around in the dark as ...

When he blows up, it's so much hard work to get him to lighten up and accept that a lot of the problems are the ones he's causing.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is so gorgeous to look at, absolutely stunning, so I was gobsmacked when we got together. After a few months together I have realised that he is always always right. We fall out over the most ridiculous things and until I apologise he ...

I have concerns whether he is now trying to control me, what I do, and who I see.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years. In getting to know each other we became good friends. When he gets upset he tends to tell me the only thing I know better than him is my job and religion. He knows everything and what I say has no ...

Now I just feel used and like he never intended to get with me. I feel so hurt.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - I've been friends with this guy for a few months and have liked him since I first met him. He said he liked me too but he has depression so I didn't want to rush into things and hurt him. A week ago we kissed and texted each other a lot over ...

My boyfriend keeps spelling my name wrong and it's so embarrassing...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Hey everyone...! I have a problem, it might seem slightly small and silly, but in the long-term it could turn out to be a bigger problem lol I'm 16 and have been going out with my boyfriend for just over 2 months. The problem is that he used ...

How can I get him to lighten up and feel more comfortable during sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Been going out with my boyfriend for the last couple of months and we started sleeping together just before Christmas. Everything has been going fine but I'm finding my boyfriend is a bit reserved sexually. He doesn't want to try new things. It's ...

How can we control our obsessed neice so she doesn't get her feelings hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - my niece is 15 she told my dad she was obsessed with a girl that she was friends with for a long time.. so she wants to be with her that bad.. she lives with her mom.. so how do we control her with out getting her feelings hurt by this person? ...

Why can't I meet a funny, supportive man that wants me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Im 35 and single. I have no children and am scared I wont ever have them. I dont want to go it alone and I dont feel desperate I just feel like my clock is ticking was too fast now. I rarely fancy anyone and most men in my area are taken. ...

I'm in love with him but if I wait around for him he might decide it's not me he wants.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5597 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Okay, this is quite confusing, right. I have been pacing around the house all day driving myself mad, going over and over this situation in my head a million times, I swear i'm driving myself crazy analysing every last detail, so I finally stopped,...

I still want to focus on college, but should I give him a chance?

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3 January 2009 (F) - its a long story. This guy started liking me during our freshmen year in high school, and back then, I wasn't interested in a relationship, I wanted to focus on finishing high school and my studies. During the first few months of this, he started...

Should I call him back and see if everything is okay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5597 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - i am not looking for serious relationship. however i am getting used to hang around this guy and i think we click. friends adviced to me is not to get to know him any further because he will end up hurting me. i not sure whether i had put in real ...

Is he doing this out of pity?

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3 January 2009 (F) - I met a guy 2 years back in a radio delivery. He left a week later, but I contacted him a month later to see if he recalled me. He did and we began keeping in contact since. We became "friends", I say it like that b/c I notice he never added me as a ...

Does he like me? He's passing by my class to see me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5593 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Hi I really want to know whether this guy likes me. Well this guy began to flirt with me. Staring, smiling. Coming close. Always a smile on his face whenever he would see me. I could notice all these things from my side vision. He would pass b...

How can I be more confident instead of getting quiet on him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5597 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - hey, theres this boy i really really really really really really really really like. and he likes me too. when i usually hang about with my group of people i'm not shy or too loud and i have loads of fun with them but then the boy i like comes over ...

Although I enjoyed his interest I'm not sure I want to meet him, as I am committed, so what should I answer him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Dear aunts and uncles I'm with my boyfriend for 4 years. We had some problems the last few month, but know, we want to stay together and may go further. At the beginning of our problems in October, I went to a advanced training course, where I ...

I can't find that special person and won't waste a kiss on someone else, am I normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - I have been told I'm romantic and an amazing catch,but no girls ever take interest in me. I'm 5'8 and weight around 160 pounds.I'm not interested in random hookups to which I've been called gay because of it. I want my first kiss as well as ev...

I'd do anything to find a girlfriend, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - Hi here is my question I'll do anything to get a girlfriend, iv run 18 miles with flowers to see them, for them to turn me down and not even talk to me. I take 3 hours on a train just to see them, i take them for nice walks, i hold there hand...

I don't want to get too close

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - a good friend told me that he is attracted to me. i like him a lot as a friend and he is a great human being. in general i am afraid of relationships/getting close because im insecure about my many faults and hide some big emotional problems. i ...

I always lose! Bullies win!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - why is life so unfair fomr some of us and not others. im sorry the bullies always and i always lose. and don,t say the bullies get their came ups on because they don,t . The bullies always win always always always win....

She said "I didn't know what to say" when I expressed my feelings! Now what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5597 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - Okay, so here is my problem. I really like this girl, and I have liked her for awhile. I felt like she had been flirting back, and my buddy told me she had as well. So I had been really struggling with whether or not to tell her I like her/ask ...

First kiss advice

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4768 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - I am approaching my 18th birthday and I have yet to kiss a girl. When I was in 7th grade my Uncle who was essentially my father passed away suddenly due to a stroke.I went to see a doctor for depression and am fine now. A year after his dea...

Am I doing something wrong dating him I'm 17, he's 27

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Well I am a 17 year old girl soon turning into 18 and the guy whom I am in a relation is 27 year old. And only thing that strikes in my mind is that am I doing anything wrong? As the matter of fact love is blind. But still I think there is too long ...

Would it be okay to date my mother's half-sister's son?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - i was wondering if it would be inappropriate to date my mothers half sisters son ???? we meet once when we were 14 and now again 14 years later??? would nt the blood relation be considered more distant that first cousins because of the half sister ...

How do I move our relationship to second base, without going too fast?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - Ok me and my girlfriend want to move our relationship to second base but she wants me to be the one who moves us, what do i do to help me move us there, i never did anything passed 1st base befor, i know what second base is and everything, i just ...

We liked each other, we dated, we talked, then he wanted to end it, what happened??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5598 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - OK, so, I liked this boy for ages, and he liked me too, but neither of us could pluck up the courage to ask the other out. We had always been friends, so it's weird how we both started fancying each other after we'd known one another for so long ...

Is this co-worker interested in my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5598 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - How do I know if my boyfriend is interested in one of our co-workers? He started buying her snacks and always smiles at her. He asks questions about when she is working. She knows that we are engaged. She always smiles back. Now when she hears ...

Are we moving way too fast here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - I lost my virginity with my boyfriend and I feel terrible. We hadn't even been going out for a two months. And I'd given him head like less than 5 days after our first kiss. I told one of my closest friends and all of my friends are like virgins and ...

I'm very scared of being hurt again.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Hello all, I'm a 22 year old female and I have been seeing a 21 year old guy for around a month now, and a couple of days ago we decided we were pretty much boyfriend/girlfriend and made it official. I really like this guy, I'm really happy! Howeve...

Question for guys

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3 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months. I would be lying if I said I wasn't in love with him. I get scared cause I think he will leave me all the time. I want to talk to him about my fears, but guys hate girl stuff and emotion and ...

I love him to death and I don't want to let go. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - I have been with a guy for the past 3 years. We had our ups and downs, I'm still madly in love with him.. he obviously love me too because he gets jealous, our only problem was trust, I never trusted him because he cheated a lot, I always forgave ...

Will sex hurt the first time for me because I'm uncircumcised?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - Okay so.. I am concerned about something and my question will be about sexuality... I will just say a couple things about myself: 17 years old, I have a 5.5 inch penis when hard and is uncircumcised. I am also a virgin, but many girls like me and ...

My fiance is almost always staying over at his sister's house.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - My fiance is almost always staying over at his sister's house. Yes, she's married and has kids. Should I have anything to worry about?...

My girlfriend has one inverted nipple and she's paranoid about it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - My girlfriend has one inverted nipple - it doesn't bother me at all, but she is so paranoid about it that her boobs are a no go area. She has been to the doctor and there are no medical problems. I don't know how we can get over this as I really...

If a boyfriend punches a wall when he's mad does that mean he's abusive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Quick question. If a boyfriend punches a wall when he's mad does that mean he's abusive? I've heard it does but I was wondering if anyone has a boyfriend or is a boyfriend who gets mad and punches something but would never punch a female. Thanks....

I feel he is a bit distant and I think he still love his ex-girlfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Hi I have been dating this guy for 3 months. We met in a online site and things are going really slowly. He says he is serious and wants a long term relationship. His ex-girl friend broke up with him 9 months ago. After 2 months he left the onli...

I've always been curious about deep throating. But I can't do it. Ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm always very open to new ideas for bed and I always try to do new moves to surprise my guy. He does as well. Well he says I give great oral, and that makes me feel great. However, I've always been curious about deep throating. But I...

Do guys still get excited when tiny breasts are revealed or would they rather us keep our tops on for sex so they can just use imagination?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - My breasts are so small, do guys still get excited when tiny breasts are revealed or would they rather us keep our tops on for sex so they can just use imagination? Once a boyfriend said to me when I was getting dressed "Come on turn round ...

Help... I'm in love with a married woman!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - I have been dating a married woman for about a year and a half now. We both love each other very much. I don't think love is our trouble. We are Best Friends and would do almost anything for each other. I want this lady to leave her husband but he ...

Me and my bf were having sex yesterday and the condom broke without us realising and he came inside me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Me and my bf were having sex yesterday and the condom broke without us realising and he came inside me. As it was New Year's Day, none of the chemist's were open but we went to the hospital and managed to get the morning after pill and I took it ...

I feel he's more of a friend than a boyfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend went away for 5 weeks and he will be back in 2 weeks time and since he's been away I haven't missed him and it's made me think about our relationship. We've been together now for over a year and I don't feel like he's my boyfriend, I ...