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Dating: Help and advice

My boyfriend has naked pictures of other people in his phone.

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13 January 2009 (M) - Well I been in a relationship with this guy for 4 months now. The other day was our 4 month anniversary, and we spent the day together. He cooked for me and everything, because usually I'll be the one doing the cooking. So later on in the day I just ...

How do I get over the nervousness I felt when a guy a liked tried to kiss me?

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13 January 2009 (F) - How do I get over the nervousness I felt when a guy a liked tried to kiss me? I panicked and said no because I was terrified I would do something wrong and make a fool of myself. ...

Why does he do this? Should I worried?

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13 January 2009 (F) - He never makes the first move to kiss me or anything.. it's like he wants me to come to him. I always go up to him and then starts kissing him. I always initiate things. When I ask him to kiss me he just gives me a peck on the lips and I say is...

I'm quite an emotional person so don't know if I'm just overreacting.

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13 January 2009 (F) - Am I overreacting? Me and my boyfriend are very much in love, however I'm at university, while he works back at home. We don't see each other as often as we like, but we both make the effort to visit whenever possible. My boyfriend's got ...

I have faith in her that this will all work out... once she gets over the ex!

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13 January 2009 (M) - So basically, we've been almost going out for 2 months but she feels as if we rushed into this relationship she really wants this too work out between us but feels she cannot go any farther without first figuring out what she neeeds to do about her ...

I've read that my first love is in a relationship. We broke up a year and a half ago... Why am I so upset??

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13 January 2009 (M) - Hi, I was feeling a little curious just now about the first girl I loved. I took a look at her myspace just to see if there was anything new about her. It says she's in a relationship now and, even though it's been a year and a half since we br...

I need some Dating advice

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13 January 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm a 30 soon to be 31 year old man who has never dated mainly due to lack of confidence and mental health issues. I feel as if I have addressed most of these to an extent where I am now willing to challenge myself in this area. There ...

I want to know what I can do or where I can go to get my dick fixed.

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13 January 2009 (M) - I want to know what I can do or where I can go to get my dick fixed. It points upward and I can't try any positions because it hurts my girl. I have to beg her for it because every time we do it it hurts her, and although she says its her I know ...

He never makes the first move.. should I be worried?

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13 January 2009 (F) - He never makes the first move to kiss me or anything.. is like he wants me to come to him.. i always go up to him and then starts kissing him.. i always initiate things..when i ask him to kiss me e just gives me a peck on the lips and i say is that ...

Will she ever come back to me?

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13 January 2009 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years on and off, always ending it when things got too heavy coz I had been deeply hurt in the past. We have been split for 2 months now and she tells me she loves me, yet shows only hate and bitterness toward m...

Don't we all rebound off each other?

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13 January 2009 (F) - I'm a single mum and had a bad, stressful break up with my baby's father. Recently I met and started seeing a guy who made me feel happy for the first time in ages..we're attracted to each other, he respects me, makes me laugh, is good with my baby ...

I'm ready to have a child even get married. He's not!!!

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13 January 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together 5 years I'm ready to have a child even get married. He's not! He says he can't see his life without me and doesn't wanna be with anybody else but he won't make a move. I wanna have a baby in two years plan ...

Do I believe him or not?

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13 January 2009 (F) - There is this guy... he started talking to me saying he thought I was gorgeous and all that and I fell for it. We arranged to meet (I wasn't going alone) and he stood me up. Of course I was hurt by this and told him. After not talking for a few ...

I need him back desperately.

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13 January 2009 (F) - About 4 years ago I dated a boy, for about 6-7 months. I fell for him pretty much straight away but after about 5 months my parents decided they didn't like him and I was forced to break up with him. For years down the line I still think about every ...

How do I get my boyfriend horny when I'm publicly with him? Where do I touch him without taking any clothes off?

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13 January 2009 (F) - How do I get my boyfriend horny when I'm publicly with him? Where do I touch him without taking any clothes off?...

When me and my boyfriend have sex it only feels good once then it starts getting like sensitive.

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13 January 2009 (F) - Hi, When me and my boyfriend have sex it only feels good once then it starts getting like sensitive, then once he ate me out and it felt good then he kept doing it and it wasn't feeling good. We had sex after that and it didn't feel good either. I ...

I was thinking how to beat the 'I'm too embarrassed' and 'I'm scared' feeling when telling some one you love them.

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13 January 2009 (F) - Hiya. I was thinking how to beat the 'I'm too embarrassed' and 'I'm scared' feeling when telling some one you love them. Peaces xx...

I wish he would hurry up and divorce as I am wanting a family of my own soon.

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13 January 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been dating a guy for about 2 1/2 years now. I found out that he was married about a year into the relationship (yes I had to find out for myself). She lives in another state than we do and they have been seperated for about 3 ...

Is it possible that my hymen is still in tact?

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13 January 2009 (F) - hi, my boyfrind and I recently had sex. He was my first, and he didn't go in all the way, and I'm wondering if I still have a hymen because when he tries to go in all the way it's like the worst pain I've ever felt.. so my question is... is it ...

She was raped and won't get professional help. What can I do to help her?

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13 January 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid I've been with my girlfriend for nearly two years now. After a year and a half we broke up for two months... we were still crazy about each other but had moved in together and were having huge problems. We got back together after two...

I love my mom but she's so controlling of my life

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13 January 2009 (F) - my life is so confusing......im currently seeing my ex boyfreind and we are so in love but im seeing him behind my mams back because she has it in to her head that he is gay....he is the most sweetest lad you could ever ask to be with and i dont ...

We couldn't be happier together... but I can't erase his ex girlfriend from my mind...

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13 January 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about 11 months now and I couldn't be happier. Problem is, I can't seem to erase his ex-girlfriend from my mind. A little over a year ago, i had moved to the state I live in now, started going to school and met m...

Why do we argue all the time? We seem okay for a couple of days then it's back to arguing again...

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13 January 2009 (F) - Hey there, Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 9 months now, and already it's been a very rocky relationship. It's got to the stage now where we argue amost of the time, and it makes us both dislike each other a lot but when we aren't a...

Would you take someone back who left you because of their ex?

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13 January 2009 (M) - Hi, Could any of you take someone back who messed you around in the past? I was with someone for 3 weeks, not very long I know, but we connected straight away and we were fairly intimate. I really liked her a lot, and we would chat on IM at work all ...

I hurt myself because of him, and I desperatly need advice!!!

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13 January 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have argued for 2 days straight, i have came off my anti depressants because of him, i drank alot last night and dont remember much, i woke up this morning my leg covered in blood. i had tried to carve something in me leg, i dont ...

How do I convince her that 5 years is long enough and we should have sex

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13 January 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 5 and a half years now. We've had a healthy relationship except for a period of time a couple years ago when things got rough. Here's the problem: Both of us are 22 and we have never had sex. I've spo...

I love him, I'm losing him

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13 January 2009 (F) - hi guys i really need your help on this one, how would you know if someone is not into you anymore, are there any signs? because i am confused i feel like i`m loosing the man that i love but when i ask him about it he always says i`m the only woman ...

Is he shy? Or only like me as a friend

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13 January 2009 (F) - I was friends with this guy and he asked me to go to the movies with him, so i did and we had a great time. At that point i thought that we were just hanging out as friends. But then he asked me to come to his place and he cooked me dinner... After ...

I look at the cd and see the man of my dreams, but I let him get away

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13 January 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, About a year ago I met the man of my dreams at a wedding I was actually a bridesmaid and he was my groomsmen .. But the thing is I was in a four year relationship with alot of problems..so I broke it off with my boyfriend at the time...

I love him but my problem is that lately I'm unable to look at him without seeing his past.

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13 January 2009 (F) - My bf and I have been dating for almost 2 years and have a child. I know he wants to get married and have a very high suspicion that he's going to propose soon from all the comments he keeps making. Nothing would make me happier because I love him ...

One minute he is telling me kissing is too personal, the next he won't sleep with me but he is kissing me and cuddling me and asking me to stay the night.

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13 January 2009 (F) - Long story short - I've been seeing him for 10 months. Having sex for 5. We are not official by any means, and I know he is sleeping with other girls. Or at least, I think that he is. After getting into a couple big fights, I told him that if he ...

21 and never had a date... what is wrong with me?

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13 January 2009 (F) - I am 21 years old and I have never had a date. No one has ever asked me out. The Question which is running into my mind is, is there could be anything wrong with me? Pleaze help. Am worried....

I think our 3-some has back fired on us....

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13 January 2009 (F) - Okay my man and I have been together for almost 5 years and we had a threesome a couple of times. It was nice after a while but I got tired of sharing my man to my best friend. Now my man and I have an open relationship and have had it since day 1 ...

I never understand someone who can sleep with someone else's partner knowingly. What are they thinking?

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13 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend had a brief period with this girl but never wanted her as a girlfriend, she was not the nicest person etc and when she eventually got a boyfriend he knew it wouldn't last because of the kind of person she was and he was right. We mee...

We're cousins and we're in love and want to tell our families...

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13 January 2009 (F) - Me and my cousin have been together for 4 years now like we're extremely in love with each other. We want to tell our family but we fear they won't understand and will keep as away from one another. What can we do? Another question. What if he's ...

Tomorow she's going to try to talk to him, and see where her heart lies...

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13 January 2009 (M) - The girl I love is still in love with her ex, and she's going to talk to him, what do I do? (10 Points)!? So tonight we talked on the phone, basically I told her how I felt, I'm in love with her, but right now she's out of a three year relation...

In love with a married PASTOR!!!!

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13 January 2009 (F) - I have a difficult situation, I am a 36 year old woman that has been in a relationship for 8 years, we live together. Over the years I have lost interest in him b/c he has a medical problem that is preventing us from having an intimate relationship. ...

I got dumped and she continued to mess with my head while she was sleeping with someone.

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13 January 2009 (M) - So me and my gf of two years broke up in november, before then we lived togethor for a year then in Aug. I had to move away for grad school so it became a long distance relationship and it was going okay. Until I found out she was talking to her ex ...

The unsociable boyfriend and the girlfriend who cared.

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13 January 2009 (F) - I have been in a roller coaster relationship for the past 4 years. I love my boyfriend but am skeptical about how he is feeling about me sometimes. He does things as if he cares about me but I still question it. He is a homey person and is not ...

Question to the men re hot chick!!!

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13 January 2009 (F) - Curious on what you all think here, especially men... if there was a girl that you were very attracted to and respected her, would it be intimidating if you were interested in her but you knew she went out to clubs and other places looking awesome ...

My room mate now likes the same girl as me

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13 January 2009 (M) - six months ago, my life was great. my roommate, his girlfriend, and I were really good friends. and then i met this girl who i really liked. my roommate found out and decided that he would help me out. well, after a while it became less of me trying ...

What are the chances he'll say yes?

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13 January 2009 (F) - There is this guy I really like, and I thought he liked me too. He would sit beside me whenever he could, we have the same sense of humour, and after our friends' birthday party, which we'd spent most of the time talking, I'd been the only one ...

I don't know if I'm gay!

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13 January 2009 (M) - i am i 15 year old boy and im having problems i don't know if im gay, people think im gay at times. i like to masturbate to gay porn then after that i have no more feelings for it, i started looking at a women and i masturbated a couple of times to ...

Could you try to give me tips or anything that will help me get a boyfriend?

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13 January 2009 (F) - I'm 15 years old, and I know most of you adults would probably say wait you'll have plenty of time for boys. But it seems like MOST girls at my school have boyfriends. Its like everyone is paired up. Walk down the ONE hall in my school, and you'll ...

SuperMarket Fling gone Wrong!

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13 January 2009 (F) - Last April I met this guy at my local Supermarket. We hit it of pretty good, went out on dates etc.. Then a couple months later we had sex. It was'nt that great. He spoke a good game but did'nt live up to it. I was fine with the whole thing be...

I was let down badly by people in the past and find the idea of letting someone in terrifying.

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13 January 2009 (F) - I guess I have a problem I'm just not sure what I'm doing wrong. Basically I've never had a boyfriend and I'm now 25. I'm not bad looking, I get on with guys really well and I know they're interested because people tell me, but I never get asked ...

How can I make our phone conversations better?

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13 January 2009 (F) - How can I make our phone conversations better? He lives 45 minutes away so i cant just see him in person every day.but we do fine in person or chatting online,but when it comes to the phone its like we both dont have a lot to say.Neither one of us ...

I don't want to lose what we had because of what I did...

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13 January 2009 (M) - My gf and I have just split up after 5 1/2 months. I'm 16 and she's 15 and we're the most serious partners we're ever had for each other. We broke up becuz I wanted to have sex and she didn't want to. Actually she told me no and I said ok then she ...

Should men chat to other women online?

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13 January 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend just recently broke up after being together for the past year becuase of his Myspace account. I knew he had one when we first got together and I told him then that I didn't like it. He has over 1500 people on it and their mainly ...

I am having terrible trust issues in my head, I know he is the one in my heart but my head and heart can't seem to agree.

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13 January 2009 (F) - ok so here is my story. I have known my boyfriend (SK) since 1993. I met him when my son was a few months old. The first time I met him I knew he was the one for me, however I thought i was doing the right thing marrying my baby's daddy. we all ...

What does it mean when a guy gets so protective of his phone..??

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13 January 2009 (F) - When he gets a phone call he goes out of the room... even though I can hear that it's his friend's voice, a male's voice... he looks at me to see if I am listening and then goes out of the room.. What is up with that? I don't question him about ...

Trust him... or trust him not?

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13 January 2009 (F) - Hey. Well, Story goes my current boyfriend and I have been dating for a real long time and I still don't trust him. He cheated on me once. He was a real player. But that was years ago. A few years later we got back together. (now dating for a yea...

I'm bored and I'm tired of our lack of depth!

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13 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year but I feel the romance is gone. Actually the romance was never there, and I don't know how to define our relationship. He has been home often because of some probation restrictions he has a ...

How can me and my partner see eye to eye more?

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13 January 2009 (F) - Hey guys, it's my first time on here and I need some serious advice, I have been with my man and the father of my children for a long time and we have had a lot of problems, mainly with me and doing things that I should not have been doing in life ...