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Archived questions from: 26 January, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

My boyfriend is making me sad/depressed

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am going through a really hard time in my life right now with a guy. I have been with this guy for about 3 years now and all of which has basically been off and on. We fight all the time now and break up almost every couple of ...

Why is he behaving like this? Does he still care?

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26 January 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, Me and my boyfriend of 1year and 2months, broke up nearly six months ago now, but have remained friends since. His reasons for the breakup were that he wanted to concentrate on himself(his family, studies etc). For many of the...

I don't know if he ever really loved me which sucks.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Hi so there is so much going on in my life know first of all i had a boyfriend and he was my first one but we live together and I told my ex best friend and she told him and he denyed it and broke up with me this has happened 3 times and he has ...

What should I get him for Valentine's Day?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Hey... I've been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years and 7 months. What should I get him for valentines day?...

He told some foreign girl online that he was single--leave him or dismiss it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - I've been going out with this guy for about 3 weeks now, and I was friends with him for about a month before that. Anyway, like it or not, a standard protocol of mine when I am with a guy is to, after a few weeks, go into my bogus myspace ac...

Why do some guys like short hair on girls? Isn't it a bit boyish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - No offense because I think can be cute, but why do some guys like when a girl's hair is short. isn't it a bit boyish? i just don't really get getting turned on by someone with less or around the same hair as you... but i'm just speaking about ...

Am I right to be jealous? Or am I just insecure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend 8 months,we get on very well and see each other alot but he has not told me he loves me yet (I have told him) so am a little insecure (but try not to show it). On Saturday, I met his friends for the first time, people ...

GUYS: does nipple size and colour really matter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Ok guys. This is a pretty weird question but I've heard a lot of stuff recently that has made me question; do guys actually care about the size of a girls nipples? Ive heard some guys make fun of ''burger nips'' and just generally poking fun at th...

In a rut....please give some advice

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

26 January 2009 (M) - Hi, This is my first time posting on a forum like this so please be gentle. I just can't seem to get any solid advice from my friends or family. For the longest time I did great with dating. I lots of friends that were women and I had lots of ...

Can a guy wait for a girl if she's not ready?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Hey Cupiters! Question for all... I just started a new relationship with this guy. The passion is soooo there but I like to take things slow in the beginning with any guy not just him. You know get to know each other more and go from there... But ...

I am hoping to god my period comes soon, as I'm getting increasingly worried.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Hi. I recently "fooled around" with my fiance. He came on my breasts, and it ran down onto my legs. I was very worried, so within the hour I had taken the morning after pill. Now, I am also on the contraceptive pill, and I was on my week break, ...

Should I just take it in my stride and be happy or try to change the impossible?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - I've been exclusively dating this man for over a year and although mostly a happy relationship, we seem to bump heads a lot. I'm 19 (turning 20 this year) and he's 20 (turning 21) so there isn't much of an age gap, yet somehow, he seems to be the i...

How can I ask her to drop those other guys and be exclusive with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 January 2009 (M) - Drunkly added a girl (21) as a friend on a internet networking site. chatted a few times here and there online. decided to meet up for drinks and food about a week or two before the holidays(2008). Had a great time and amazing conversation. ...

Help! sexuality, love and confusion from a 15 year old girl. Save me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - So... I'm 15. I find it hard to see what there is special in a relationship other than touching one another. I really dont understand what the difference between love and like is. Because i love my friends, and i could love someone im in a rel...

Protected sex but fear of pregnancy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

26 January 2009 (M) - So my girlfriend and I had sex about a week ago and again 3 nights ago. Both times I used a condom and 100% sure that I never came. But she's worried that she might be pregnant because she just went ill, she has sore breasts, and her period is late. ...

Will I be stuck in this rut forever where I don't meet many girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

26 January 2009 (M) - -Nearly 22 -Never had a girlfriend -Kissed once ( drunk ) -I really struggle talking to girls -No friends that are girls, not even 'Sorta' friends -Never approached a girl, but read everything on how to do it lol I feel a big void, never ha...

My boyfriend is being so clingy.

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26 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is being so clingy and I am so scared of ending things because he says I am the only good thing in his life and he couldnt take it if things ended. I think he can read the signals that I am not happy. He relies on me for lifts here ...

I think I'm paranoid

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Hi! I've been in a relationship for 10 months now with a foreign guy living in my country. At the begining we had an argument regarding his ex-girlfriend living back at his country. They had broken up 3 to 4 months before we started dating and ...

I need to block his past out of my head...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - I'm in a loving relationship with an amazing man. We're having a baby in August and we're really excited and happy. The problem is that his past keeps interfering. A few months before we met he slept with a girl in his close group of friends...

I love my boyfriend but he smokes weed...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - I am in a six moneth relationship with my boyfriend and we are very happy, loving and caring and affectionate towards each other, we get on so well and I've never been happier. the only problem is he occasionally smokes weed... its far from all the...

Last week he called me and said he loved me but wasn't in love with me...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Dear cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for 11 months. Last week he called me and said he loved me but wasn't in love with me. He doesn't want to break up. He still wants us to be together, and he doesn't want to date other girls. He gave me ...

How can I get him to wait a little longer.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm in love with this amazing guy and we've been dating for almost 2 years now. He loves me and he wants to marry me. I also want to spend the rest of my life with him but there's one problem. I don't think he's financially stable enough yet. ...

Why is he going cold on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Hello there! I've got a bit of boy trouble, I'm 16 by the way..to make a long story short basically I was seeing this lad we weren't officaly going out but we practically were because we were only seeing each other we just hadn't committed to the "...

I told her if she had a termination we were over!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 months and she recently found out she is pregnant, she wants to terminate. She's also only 22 and says she's not ready to have a child. When she told me I didn't talk to her for a week then told her I ...

Will I ever win him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend finished with me and my nieces and my sister saw him walking up the road with his new girlfriend. She was arm in arm and when he saw them he quickly chucked her off and looked shady and just put his hand up but put his head down !!! ...

Whyy am I still single??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - i'm 15,i'm a sophmore in high school and i was wondering.is it normal to never have a boyfriend.i mean i've been on a date,i've been kissed,i've done hook-ups,but i never had a boyfriend and i really wanna know why probably because. i always flirt...

Is my girlfriend a complete miser for not spending on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

26 January 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and i have been together for approximately 3 months now. We have a fantastic relationship, we never argue, spent plenty of time together and have an incredibly loving bond. I can without doubt say that she fulfills my every need both ...

Guys: Is the first thing you notice about a girl REALLY the size of her chest?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - So, I'm in high school, and I've come to notice a trend in guys' behavior. (well the ones I'm around at least) They always stare at your chest. There's one guy, when asked if he knew me, said, "Oh yeah, she has really big boobs." Swear to God. My ...

How can I date his brother without hurting or losing my friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - A friend of mine has told me that he has a crush on me. I don't feel the same way and I have told him this. However now I have a thing for his younger brother. Is there any possible way that I could try to date the brother without losing or hurting ...

I need help on who to chose

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

26 January 2009 (M) - ok, i dated this girl for 8 mounths and i really love her alot. and then we dated again for a mouth and i liked this other girl at the time when we were dating. then she broke up with me because of that and i reallly like this one girl alot but i ...

Am I being selfish? I don't want him to go!

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26 January 2009 (F) - ok, well im a 19 year old female and my other half is 22. we have been rock solid for 3 years this march, however its been mentioned that he really wants to join the raf this year, as his career at the moment is hitting a brick wall really. dead end ...

Is it harder to move on in a situation like this ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - If two people are very much in love, they were together for 6 - 7 years. He had to end the relationship because of some unresolved circumstances which involve family backgroud, etc. Even after the breakup and n/c, still have very strong feeling ...

Is it worth holding out and hope maybe he didn't mean it, and that he will find the strength to stand up to his mother.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - I am a 30 year single mum of 4, over 3 years ago I split with a violent ex. I met a fantastic man last year, he was a few years younger and didnt have children of his own. we met online and we chatted for 8 wks sometimes we were up all night. he new ...

How to pull back..?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - I am a late bloomer so to speak, and 2 days ago I had my first real date. I was so nervous I thought I would die! I know, funny for my age. Nothing happened, not even a kiss (I have problem with intimacy), but I had fun. Anyhow, we'll be going on ...

Wondering how to last longer

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

26 January 2009 (M) - So my girlfriend and I have had sex twice, but the first time she was in a lot of pain (she was a virgin) and I lost my erection about 20 minutes into it because I was moving slower for her and if I went to far into her she would tell me to stop. ...