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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've been friends with this guy for a few months and have liked him since I first met him. He said he liked me too but he has depression so I didn't want to rush into things and hurt him. A week ago we kissed and texted each other a lot over christmas. Last night we slept together, it didn't go very well and afterwards his ex rang and he seemed really upset. He broke up with her a year ago, after which he tried to kill himself. He's always said he doesn't have feelings for her any more but waited until I'd slept with him to tell me he does. Now I just feel used and like he never intended to get with me. I don't know what to do, I feel so hurt.
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reader, huneygyrl +, writes (4 January 2009):
 Seems like you were on the rebound status. He wanted to comfort of another female to fill in that space since his relationship with his girlfriend have been an ex girlfriend for about a year. He was absolutely wrong for leading you on. Feel the pain, get up and now move on. Good luck.
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reader, texangirl +, writes (3 January 2009):
he was wrong no doubt. another thing is that sex has so many things involved that he may have not known how much he still cared for her until after the sex with you. it could also be he's just a lying jerk and you may never know. The good and bad thing is thta even though you may like him it doesn't sound liek you knew him very well so you don't really have the connection of a long term relationshi[p the bad thing is you didn't know him very well and shared something so imprtatn with him. i hope yur heart heals. As for hoping anything could materialize it doesn't look that wya right now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009): He may not know what he wants. Give him his space to work things out with his X. If he does come back don't be in a hurry to sleep with him.
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