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Archived questions from: 28 January, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I don't know how to ignore her or get her out of our lives... help?

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28 January 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about six months now, we get on amazingly and are very happy together. however, his ex girlfriend is clearly still not over him, they broke up over a year ago but i can see she still loves him. when she first ...

Any advice on how to get her to come round to the fact that me and my boyfriend are an item would be appreciated.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - Ok this is going to take quite a while so here goes. . Me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year, there is quite a big age difference, I'm 19 he's 30 but that doesn't matter to us at all, the problem is my parents, well my mum especial...

What is he thinking? I can't tell

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28 January 2009 (F) - I posted this question yesterday and still have no answers. Could you please re-post and perhaps tag it as something else and not 'friends.' Many thanks! I met this guy through work a long time ago. Recently I saw him while out and couldn’t sto...

I want a b/f but go to all girl's school. How am I supposed to get one?

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28 January 2009 (F) - For ages i always thought i was perfectly happy without a boyfriend and didnt really want one as i didnt want to be tied down and thought it was just generally more fun, but now i see more people with their boyfriends and actually i would quite like ...

Is he only going out with me because I'm a virgin?

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28 January 2009 (F) - I have my first boyfriend! I graduated early, but when I went to school there was this guy on the varsity football team and he was a senior. I never knew who he was, but He came to one of my friends' parties last week and said he knew me from school ...

Am I in love with him or do I just want something I can't have?

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28 January 2009 (F) - ok so here it goes im attractive im 17 and im very confused!! Thers this boy and we have known eachother for 5 years and we have admitted to eachother that we do have strong feelings for eachother but agreed they were just like a brother would love ...

Is it possible to become infatuated with someone on TV?

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28 January 2009 (F) - This is weird, but is it possible to become infatuated with like someone on TV? I wouldn't really say it about myself, but I was just curious as to whether it can really happen. Thanks....

Do I ask her to the prom?

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28 January 2009 (M) - Dear All This is following up from last December. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/was-i-rejected-what-do-i-do-now.html Basically I told the girl of my dreams for five years, that I loved her dearly. It was all a bit too much for her; I...

How do I find a good guy who cares instead of the bad boy who doesn't?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - I have always been the girl to get the wrong guys. I am through with getting hurt and I wanted some advise as to how to get the good guys who actually care about me and just not wanting sex. I have heard guys like it when girl play hard to get? Is ...

My uncontrollable nerves are getting in the way!

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28 January 2009 (?) - Okay here's my problem, I thought it had disappeared but apparently only when ive been drinking. I'll put it this way, I had a miscommunication with a girl about a date recently, she texted me asking me out and seeing as we had class in five mi...

What is his game?

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28 January 2009 (F) - This is a really long problem. started seeing this guy 6 years ago whilst still married with 2 young kids. Ended up falling in love and moved in with him. As my husband threatened me with all sorts of nasty things i.e. kidnapping the kids, turning ...

How long should I wait to get on birth control with a new relationship?

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28 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of a few days ago wants me to get on birth control. I've gone on it before and it's great! But to me that a huge thing to be sleeping with someone and just relying on the pill. Plus, I have to look out for myself. How long should I wait ...

I love boys but when they talk to me I freeze! What can I do?

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28 January 2009 (F) - I love boys... But sometimes I get to nervous to even talk to them or walk and I just listen alot of boys have walked out of my life because I dont talk or get scared and dont do anything example: A boy I lived asked me on a date I just stared a...

Shy with his feelings but not to ask for money...any opinions?

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28 January 2009 (F) - I am seeing a man who I love dearly, but I'm not 100% sure what he really thinks of me. When we sit and talk he never really looks into my eyes - but when I look away he does! - Also when we kiss - it is never really a proper "french kiss" - but mo...

At first it was great...now he feels distant.

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28 January 2009 (?) - Ok this is a kinda long story so ima try to make it short.. Ok so I met this guy last year(he is now 22 and I am 18) and he asked for my number and he would call me almost everyday, but we lost touch until his cousin contacted my friend and they ...

We're growing apart. What can I do to stop that?

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28 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 months. We're completely in love with each other, and here's what's happening: We're in a somewhat long-distance relationship because we go to different schools, and we only get to see each othe...

I fell in love over MSN but he doesn't return my feelings.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

28 January 2009 (M) - i fell in love wiv some guy over msn (i didnt know him but i couldnt help it) and when i told him i loved him he sed he loved me to. he likes it when i flirt wiv him but a few days later he told me to stop thinking of him in tht way and, like i sed ...

What can I do about my gfs low sex drive??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

28 January 2009 (M) - dear cupid, My,girlfreind has a really low sex drive, she has been like this ever since i met her and now its starting to hurt me because i want her to feel the same way sexually about me as i do her. When we have sex its always me coming on to ...

My girlfriend doesn't want me to have any female friends.

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28 January 2009 (M) - Written here before many times. My gf has broken up with me many times. We keep getting back togethre. During the last break up, which lasted a month, I met new friends thorugh some old friends. When my gf and I are together she is very jealous. I ...

B/f joining the army. Shall I stay with him?

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28 January 2009 (F) - My bf said he is joining the army and that I will leave him. Shall I leave him??? I love him but I will never see him I don't know what to do because I know that if he goes then I will never see him n I havent seen him in over a week and I miss him ...

Sexually involved with co-worker now he's seeing another co-worker

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - Okay.. I went out with my coworker over course of 2 months we were having sex.. Now a few weeks later he's in a relationship another coworker. I'm really uncomfortable with this. I haven't told them because I want them to see that I'm okay with it ...

Why do all guys go "off me"??

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28 January 2009 (F) - I started seeing this guy but i still had feelings for my best guy mate, he spent lots of money on me over xmas and took me out for meals etc. suddenly he just text last night saying we are "too different".. and thats ok, i was a bit gutted but I...

My g/f of 5 years wants to see what else is out there!

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28 January 2009 (M) - Hey everyone, So I'm currently in a 5 year relationship and me and my girlfriend have been having some problems. Last night she told me that she loves me to death and cares for me yet maybe wants to see what else is out there. We are high school ...

Can we get into trouble if we were to date?

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28 January 2009 (F) - Hi folks, I suppose I really just wanted some advice. I'm 19 and in my first year at university. Since I started in september, I've begun to get quite close to one of my lecturers - he's in his first lecturing job, only mid twenties and absolutely ...

We can't officially date because of cultural differences

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28 January 2009 (F) - I'm Black and like a White Jewish boy. yep, it isn't as plain as that though. The attraction is mutual and we can't get our hands off of each other. We have a lot in common and always have a great time whenever we're together. The problem is that we ...

Does he see me as more of fling?

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28 January 2009 (F) - Hi - I've recently started seeing someone - an Italian guy, who is really nice and hot etc On our 3rd or 4th date he cooked me a great meal and then we were making out afterwards. He was getting really excited and trying to go quite far although not ...

Help needed in the sex department!

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28 January 2009 (F) - This is rather embarrassing but I need some help in the sex department. My boyfriend and I have been having great sex for about 3 months now, but I'm always feeling like he does more for me than I do for him. I also have this serious phobia of ...

Bi-sexual, very open about sex, I am different, but told I am too much, what gives?

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28 January 2009 (F) - So I'm 17, bisexual, and a very open person sexually. When I say that I mean when I have partner or potential partner, I don't play those mind games most girls my age (that I know) seem to play about having sex. I lay all the cards out on the table. ...

Could someone give me a crash course on men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - Why would a guy not want to date someone who they are attracted to, someone who they have a lot in common with and always have a conversation about anything with? Why is he willing to sleep with a girl and not date her and is so afraid to commit? ...

I Googled and found his naked pictures, what now?

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28 January 2009 (F) - Google search may have found more than I bargained for! Ive been casually dating this guy for about a month now.No talk of anything long term at this point,im not even sure if he is looking for that.Basically just enjoying each others company when ...

My cousin died, my boyfriend showed me no compassion, should I be concerned?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - Tonight I found out there was a death in my family. I called my boyfriend about 20 mins after our last text (i got the news in between the two) and he didnt answer... then i sent a text asking if he was sleeping, no reply but my phone said he got it ...

I need a primer in sexual techniques, please help?

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28 January 2009 (M) - I would just like to know. I have never gone more than making out with my girlfriend. If we are ready to move on what would be the best way to like lick her pussy? like would should i do to make it feel good for her to make her want to give me a ...

I want to date, but worry about my weight, should I be?

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28 January 2009 (F) - I love being single but I think Im tired of being single I want someone but im scared because two or three years ago people talked about my weight what should I do?...

I love him he loves me but I don't know what to do

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28 January 2009 (F) - i'm writing about my guy again. let's call him stimer for now. honestly, he's weirding me out. i will start from what is bothering me most. in the beginning he would always make an effort to see me, or create contact with me. i can easily account ...

I love them both but not in the same way

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28 January 2009 (F) - Ok... I have a problem... A big one at that too. I am in love with a guy (Lets call him Demon) and am ready to marry him whenever he wants. I love Demon with all my heart. The thing is... I also love another guy (I'll call him Angel). It's not how I ...

I've asked him out twice, he's said no, but I think he likes me

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28 January 2009 (F) - so, thier;s this gye that i like. when i first saw him i thought he was weird. but i found as i talked more, and more abouthim that he was starting to grow on me. at first i dont want to say i was kinda stalkerish but i would talk to him we would ...

How do I get rid of my insecurities and keep this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - I have my first boyfriend! I graduated early,but when I went to school there was this guy on the varsity football team and he was a senior.I never knew who he was,but He came to one of my friends' parties last week and said he knew me from school ...

Why am I still crying over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - I am in love with this guy. Simple, right? Wrong. I see him 6 days out of the whole year. I gave him my e-mail address last time I saw him, but he hasn't e-mailed me yet. I never got his e-mail address. I told him that I love im. He didn't talk to ...

Why is he still messing about online?

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28 January 2009 (F) - I met my boyfriend on an online dating site two months ago. Things have been going really well and until now I had absolutely no doubts about our relationship. However last week through sheer curiosuty I discovered he is still using his online ...

I feel regret to cheat my lover, I don't know if marriage is ok?

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28 January 2009 (F) - I have cheated several times, and when caught, I appologise and am forgiven. Although trust hasn't been back in the relationship, because he has my email password and checks it. Recently I have called my ex-boyfriend and I have fear he understands ...

What is it with guys when they blow hot and cold all the time?

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28 January 2009 (F) - I just started a relationship with this guy a few days ago. And he says, "Let's take off somewhere for the weekend." I thought he was kidding, but apparently not. He asked me again last night if I had requested a few days off from work. I was...