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Archived questions from: 21 January, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Ready to live with my boyfriend and become estranged to my parents... HELP!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm so desperate I've resorted to asking over the internet. My parents told me they are never going to accept my boyfriend. He is 36 and I am 20. We've been dating for 2 years. He is a nightclub promoter and has been having money pro...

Torn between ex girlfriend of almost 3 years and best friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5579 days ago

21 January 2009 (M) - Basically I'm torn between 2 women. One is my ex girlfriend of 2 and a half years, we had alot of problems mainly to do with trust, but I was so in love with her I couldn't imagine being with anyone else. I was even planning on asking her to ma...

My boyfriend's mates are teasing him and it's spacing him out...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - Hello Again. Well, My boyfriend and I are still going out. Just to re-cap he and I have been going out for a little over half a year. He was a player and I had not dated many people. Well, this is the longest relationship either of us has be...

I don't want her to think I'm a lousy lover...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

21 January 2009 (?) - I need help.. I'm feeling kind of worried. I'm about to have sex with a girl I've been going out with for over three months... she's cute, sweet ect. and I'm a pretty nice guy, but I'm afraid what she'll think when we have sex, I'm afraid making t...

How do you get a girl you have been dating for over a year to have sex with you???

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

21 January 2009 (M) - So yes I have asked this question but I want to know how do you get a girl you have been dating for over a year to have sex with you??? It's gotten to the point where it's like hmmm shouldn't we have already done it like a dozen times???????...

I don't want to mess everything up like I did last time.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - Hey everyone, I need as much advice as I can get please! Basically, ages ago I wrote about a stupid thing I did (met a boy on the internet, fell in love but I was using pics of some random gorgeous girl instead of myself) I deceived him and went to ...

How do we strengthen our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have been together for four wonderful drama free months - at least until now. before I got with him I had a lot of guy friends and was a big flirt. but since then I've stopped flirting with them and made it known that I wanna ...

Baby mama drama

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - Just wanted to know should I be concerned if I'm dating a guy who has a daughter with his past relationship and he says that he has a close relationship with the mother of his child but she be acting like their back together like when she calls him ...

My ex boyfriend today called me a cling on.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - Hi all, my ex boyfriend today called me a cling on, yes I still do like him but I'm no way like that, Anyway I rang him 2 confront him and I said comon then what do you really think of me, he said that I was annoying sometimes but I know that any...

I can't get my feelings straight.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5579 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - I've had this thing with this guy for about three months. we aren't going out but we have this commitment thing to not hook up or get with other people. i love being with him but i see him maybe once a week. and we are never alone. he isn't the kind ...

Is he being serious or just messing with me? What's his motive?

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21 January 2009 (F) - Okay, here's the basic story to this. There's this guy. I have to sit next to him in a class where it's very free-form and we can talk quiet so long as the teacher doesn't hear us. And he talks to me about um, the dirtiest things! And then there's ...

If he cups your face when he kisses you, does he really like you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5579 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - When a guy kisses you for the first time and he cups your face with both hands does that mean he really likes you?...

Do his text kisses mean he wants to be more than friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - i am wondering what the kisses at the end mean when the text is coming from a guy, as i know that when girls text, they nearly always put kisses so dont mean as much, but when ur getting like 8, 9 or 10 kisses at the end of a text from a guy is he ...

When guys flirt like this does it mean they're interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - just wonderin wat does it mean wen a guy coms wit his friends behind u kinda pokes u then keeps walkin but hangs next to ya and him and his friends r lookin at u then the next day they come to the same place and look at u wen u pass by? basically ...

Did he want to see me on Friday? Why didn't he say so?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5579 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - Ok here's the thing..I just started dating this guy and he says, "We can go to play pool next weekend if you want." I had mentioned it to him that I can play it fairly well. He asks, "Do you want to go Friday or Saturday?" I immediately said, ...

I need some insight on Virgo men... any Zodiac experts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - I have recently gone on a date with a Virgo man and was wondering if anyone can give me some insight on them. We had a wonderful time and a lot of fun and he has called a few times since the date. (It's only been a week since the date). I am an ...

When is it more than friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5579 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - I have known my friend for a couple of months now and have started developing feelings for him. Somedays I think he feels it too, but I can't be sure. I was wondering how do guys show their female friends of a long time that there feelings have ...

So confused about this relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - I recently joined a dating site and got talking to a local guy we exchanged mobile numbers and he invited me through to his for a meal. All went well we text a bit and we were due to meet again but something come up, the texts stopped. I sent him ...

It seems impossible. How can I get him to cum???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - I've been with my bf for three weeks, we have a good sex life, but he hasn't came yet. I've asked if he's nervous, but he says he doesn't know what's wrong. He's never been like it before. He did say he hasn't always used condoms with his exes, they ...

I want my boyfriend to ask me to be his valentine.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5579 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - Ok.. this is a stupid problem but it would help all the same if anyone wants to give me some advice on this. I want my boyfriend to ask me to be his valentine, we've been going out almost 4 months now so it's acceptable.. right? I know him and...

What can I do? We both want to have sex but I can't ejaculate yet.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5579 days ago

21 January 2009 (M) - Hi, I have got a girlfriend that I have known for 3 months now. We both want to have sex but I can't ejaculate yet. Is there anything I can do to change this? I have heard about eating different foods but I don't think that would help. Help Please?...

Now he's "damaged goods" I should have went out with him when I could have

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - The boy I like now, liked me back in High School for 3 courses in a row. He asked me out several times but I never went out with him. I didn't want a boyfriend back then but now I started to like him. Unfortunately, I came to like him too late ...

I'm 16, he's in his 40's what to do if he asks me out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I have a bit of a problem that I am VERY confused about. There's this guy at my gym, he's (I guess) in his late 30s or early 40s. Anyway I like him, a lot, and he seems to like me as well, but I am 16. He doesn't know that. (Most people seem to ...

Will I be making a mistake if I dump him now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - Guys, my boyfriend of almost 2 years hasn't really been treating me well, we have been in along distance relationship but calling and messaging has been my responsibility alone he calls only when he wants,alot of things and i mean alot of thngs have ...

If I was to go get the morning after pill would Social Services be able to find out I'd taken it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5580 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - I had sex with my boyfriend last night and the condom split. I'm on no other form of contraceptive like the pill or anything, so I need to go and get the morning after pill. Thing is I'm having some problems and home at the moment and social ...

Is this considered cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - I went on my bf of 1 years my space account and saw that a girl emailed him something called a hubby appliction. On it he said that he wants to have sex with her, kiss her and stuff like that. He has never met this girl and she lives across the ...

Anybody who can show me the way in the right direction is welcome to reply.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5579 days ago

21 January 2009 (M) - Hello everybody I'm a bi-curious male, married and seeking a bisexual girl as my trusted Mia-noi (minor wife) to have fun with, and later to have swinging adventures with Looks easy, you think,...? well forget it, it's not! I really don't ...

Is it okay for a guy to give me oral sex but not kiss me? I'm getting turned off, what do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - I'm seeing a guy for 2 months now, he seems quite ok, but my worry is I noticed he doesn't like kissing me. He has been on vacation for a month and came back 4 days ago, we met and he just hugged me, I spent the night with him, cuddled no sex coz I ...

Girlfriend doesn't dress classy

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

21 January 2009 (?) - My girlfriend doesn't dress very classy (she like to show off her body). When I first started dating her (we been together for a year now) she wouldn't even dare to dress like a slu*. She wears clothes leave a little imagination and its really ...

Is this finally my chance with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

21 January 2009 (M) - There is this woman who has been a friend of mine for 10 years. I'm not sure why she told me about a good sex dream she had with me a while back. Today she planted a very nice kiss on my lips. Todays kiss was way more than the usual quick hug and ...

Can anyone tell me what the hell is going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

21 January 2009 (M) - i cant understand whats wrong with me. im not like other people who have a bad outlook on them selves. i dont nitpick about my appearance, i know im not a bad looking guy, i work out hard, im strong and in top physical condition. i have a good ...