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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Okay, so here is my problem. I really like this girl, and I have liked her for awhile. I felt like she had been flirting back, and my buddy told me she had as well. So I had been really struggling with whether or not to tell her I like her/ask her out. Anyway, push came to shove and a few people convinced me to tell her how I felt. I did this via an anonymous message system since I was afraid of what her reaction might be. She commented on my message to her and said "I really wish I knew who this was." So I texted her and said it was me, and she didn't reply. I asked her if this was a bad sign, and she said "I just didn't know what to say."Now I'm just lost. I have only known her a few months but I really like her. The message I sent her might have been a bit too deep and revealing, but that's my issue. I need advice on how to fix this situation if it even needs fixing at all. Did her answer basically tell me she's not interested? Or is there still a chance for me?Thanks,Anonymous
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reader, pietry  +, writes (3 January 2009):
 Nothing is lost for sure. I believe that when trying to tell somebody important things like this, you should try face to face.
If you got an anonymous message saying somebody likes/loves you, then you got another message saying it's some specific person, how would you react ? I for one would be evasive, just like she is. She might think somebody is impersonating you or somebody wants a bad joke.
I say meet her and talk to her seriously about this ( never send a friend to do such things for you or some other ideas.. ). Girls and people in general appreciate sincerity and even if you are shy or emotive don't worry she will feel that you mean the truth when you say it
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