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Archived questions from: 9 January, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

My boyfriend is turned on by Trannies.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4356 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is turned on by Trannies. I have caught him by accidentally hearing him having phone sex with a male/shemale. This prompted me to check his profile in a website that I happen to know he's on. (similar to Myspace) Well, this confirmed ...

How do you get over a guy???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - Hey, I have one slight problem I have a bf and he's just gorgeous and I broke up with him because he was just a player and couldn't be with just one girl so I said that if he's gonna continue treating me like this we have to be over, well it happe...

Why can't she be mature enough to realise that they are over now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - Hi I posted a question a while back about my boyfriend, I discovered he was going behind my back meeting with his ex of 5 years in a non sexual way apparently(dat was admitted by both of them) and believe me she wud hav told me if they did. Anyway...

Does my man have a crazy opinion or is it true?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - Hi all I have a question that I'm very Intrigued about. I've been dating my man for over a year now and recently we had a discussion about cheating. In his opinion most people will cheat in any relationship especially men. He accepted that no...

Why would he lie about her staying the night?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5591 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - okay, so I've never resulted to asking a website anything but I'm a little desperate. Me and this guy have been dating since January 17, 2007 and I broke up with him for about 3 weeks and he continuously called and drove by my house, he begged me to ...

Something is bothering my girlfriend and I don't know what...

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9 January 2009 (M) - So basically, we've been going out for 2 months, might as well be three but it wasn't official, we have a pad because she was my ex 3 years ago for a year we went out, in that time she went out with another guy for three years, but over the summer ...

During intercourse she doesn't seem to be able to last very long.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

9 January 2009 (M) - Hello there I'm 22 year old male, I'm engaged to my partner of five years. My problem is that during intercourse she doesn't seem to be able to last very long, by this I mean she ejaculates long before I'm ready to and there is a lot of fluid. ...

What kind of things do you like from your girlfriend on valentine's day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - Hey everyone (: hope the new year is all good for you all (: Basically I like to be organised and I know I have a month to decide, but guys, what kinda things do you like from your girlfriends on valentines day? (I always run out of money rea...

I really fancy my boyfriend's younger brother...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - It all started off with a boy I really really fancied in the of year 7 and I really like him soo much, he is just a couple months younger than me but he is in my form but he said he has never been attracted to me. I tried to move on and pretend I ...

How far would a partner need to go for it to be considered as cheating???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - hi What would your girlfriend/boyfriend have to do for you to consider they have cheated on you? Thanks I'm really confused right now :( x x x x...

Why would a guy say he missed me and then not try to see me at all?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5591 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - rightio i'll try n keep this short coz i hav a tendency to ramble i'v been with my bf for near 2months but things feel kinda hot n cold ok ok were not totally serious but i guess thts coz we NEVER get to see each other - and we even work togethe...

Is it just bad luck or is there a reason why I attract cheating men?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5591 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - I recently discovered that someone I was seeing is in a three year relationship. Of course I have stopped seeing him but it does concern me that this is the fourth time this has happened to me and I'm only 19. I'm not easy and wait a long time bef...

Troubles with my ex, his ex and my tongue piercing...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5590 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - Im sorry its long but please please read!After a year and a bit my exboyfriend has started getting alot closer to me, to the extent where he always wants to get my attention, talk to me, touch my hair, tickle me, be playful, cuddle me and expect to ...

Should I break up with her or should I forgive her again?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

9 January 2009 (M) - hallo, I'm kind of confused. I have a gal for four years now and it seems each year, she has an affair and call me lucky but I always find out about it. well, now it's a couple of weeks into the year and I happen to have the password to her email ...

Why do guys boast about there so called girfriends to other people?

This question has 48 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - Why do guys boast about there so called girfriends to other people? I know what you say he's proud of her, just others girls don't want to listen to them because it's hurtful. This girl could like him and he goes boasting about he might in 4 ...

Frustrated about where this is going...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - Hi all, My ex bf of 3 months said to me last nite about this guy I'm talking 2, he said that I am to take him down the pub that we go to and that, if he (my ex) doesn't like him I won't talk or see this any more, and that I should be careful,...

Keep trying or just be with her cousin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

9 January 2009 (M) - I was out with this girl for 4months and I liked her but I did not love her then her cousin tx me 1day and we started talking for hella long then she said that she loved me I had feelings for her and I did not want her only to say it and not say it ...

I am frustrated and confused about where my relationship of just over a year is going...

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9 January 2009 (F) - Hi everyone! I am frustrated and confused about where my relationship of just over a year is going... The guy I am with is very sweet and good to me besides occasional moodiness which I think is normal for everyone, so generally we get along w...

My ex is a beautiful godess and I can't find sexual pleasure in other women since I met her...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

9 January 2009 (M) - I have a problem that doesn't seem to be going away. I broke up with my girlfriend of 3.5 years about 14 months ago (long story short: we were fighting a lot, neither of us were happy, I suggested taking a "break", and we never got back together- ...

Relationship confusion

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

9 January 2009 (?) - I have posted here before, but now I know that I have not gotten over it. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years and only recently found out he watched porn. Prior to finding out and when questioned he would tell me that the last time he...

A first is all.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - Is 32 years old too old for a first boyfriend and first kiss?...

Older people fall for me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - Call me narcissistic for saying this, or call me delusional: I always wonder why so many of the adults in my life are so visibly attracted to me. It's my professors, mostly, who seem so interested in talking with me, and, during this time, flirting ...

He said we shouldn't date because he's friends of my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5591 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - SO I have been seeing this guy for a while now.. last night we were making out and it lead to us almost having sex... we didn't have sex cause he couldn't get it up .. this has happened before where he has issues with staying erect.. I think this ...

How do I date other people without losing him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - I have been dating this great guy for about a year. He treats me perfectly, is fully trusting and trustworthy, appreciates my honesty (I'm a bit too honest for most people, so this is a big deal), does nice things for me constantly and we never ...

Should I write her a message telling her she's beautiful?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

9 January 2009 (M) - Back in August this gorgeous girl came into my job and I was too nervous to talk to her, but another guy who works there got her number. For months I've been wallowing in regret thinking of all the things I should have said but didn't have the nerve ...

Does he want me for something more than a hook up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - I have this friend and we used to be really close last year, we would hang out every day for a couple of months. Then, one night we started kissing and he wanted to have sex with me. I told him no because I want to get to know him more and asked if ...

Nervous about first quasi-blind date!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

9 January 2009 (M) - So I began talking to this girl online about 2 weeks ago. We were both on free social networking site geared towards dating. She messaged me and we spent about 4-5 hours messaging back and forth the first night. Same thing the second night before ...

Boyfriend isn't spontaneous!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months now, and i told him i loved him about 4 months in because that is how i felt. I wanted to say it before he did so i knew i felt it and wasn't saying it in guilt. Like i have done in the past.It's just i am a ...

My g/f said "I don't want to hurt you I want you to hurt me"?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 January 2009 (M) - Alright, I have one that's been kind of in the back of my head for awhile. My girlfriend recently told me, "I don't want to hurt you, I want you to hurt me." Every once and awhile it has come back up in my head and I wonder what that means. It's ...

I'm not sure if he wants me but he doesn't want anyone else to have me either

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5592 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - Well where do i start i went with this boy in november and i really like him bt he hurts me first he broke up with me and then talked mad shit about me but he said he never said any of it he was writing me on my space talkin about how my pussy ...