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Archived questions from: 27 January, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I really don't want to get hurt...

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27 January 2009 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for a while and I really really like him, I've fallen too deep and that goes against everything I've ever wanted and stand for. When we started for the first 2, 3 months we seen each other all the time like 4 - 5 times...

Will I ever be able to trust him while she is still in his life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 10 months still has regular contact with his ex, he dated her for 5 years, she is 23 he is 40. A few week ago he went to meet her and she stayed the night at his, he told me he was going home to watch the footie with his neighbour ...

Am I over reacting? Is it okay to be so realistic about marriage? I really don't want to be naive.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for a while. When we started dating, I never thought we would be together as long as we have. Well, I had a problem trusting him (needless to say). But I can honestly say I'm madly in love with him. He seems so ...

I get uncomfortable whenever we get close but I'm longing for intimacy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - We've been together for more than a year and a half, never really kissed, I avoid any form of physical contact with him yet I long for some form of intimacy. It's because I get uncomfortable whenever we get close but I completely trust him. I know ...

How can I help my fiancee deal with her grief???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - HI, I was curious if anyone had any advice to help me both with helping my fiancee and with my own issues dealing with this. A few days ago my fiancee's brother took his own life. Since then my fiance has obviously been not feeling that gre...

My boyfriend won't finger me or do anything sexual for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - Okay, well my boyfriend and I have now been in a relationship for over 4 months now; I am 17 and he is 18, and we both love each other very much. Yet I'm worried something is wrong because he won't touch me in any way more than touch my breasts. I ...

Why do we like what we do on the opposite sex???

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27 January 2009 (M) - The question to end all questions..... why do we like what we do on the opposite sex??? Why do you guys like boobs or asses legs anything else??? And girls why do you like what you do??? Please and thank you in advance...

Can you make love for 5 hours and NOT be in a loving relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - Is it possible to make love constantly for 5 hours and not be in a relationship that is based on true love?? ...

Should I give the bracelet back to him or should I keep it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend gave me a $700 bracelet that has his name engraved in it. The only problem is that this bracelet was given to him by his ex. He says that he loves me and he wanted to let me know how serious he was about me. I thought it was sweet but ...

I want out, but I fear it will hurt my daughter.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - I live with my fiance of 2 years (we been together for 6) and our 4 year old daughter. We own a house, live a quite life. I have recently realized I am not happy! My entire family lives 14 hours by car away. He is an only child with only his father ...

I don't understand why my ex still wants to be friends.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, Me and my boyfriend of 1 year and 2 months, broke up nearly six months ago now, but have remained friends since. His reasons for the breakup were that he wanted to concentrate on himself (his family, studies etc). For many of the...

He won't date me because I had a small fling with his friend last summer

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - Ok, so theres this guy I like, and I've been watching him and I'm positive that he likes me a lot too. So, I asked him out. And he turned me down. See, I had no idea he and this guy I had a bit of a thing for last summer were best friends and ...

I tried a threesome and hated it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - I have had a boyfriend for about 2 years and recently I found out he wants to watch me have sex with another man and he won't feel jealous or anything. We tried to do a threesome but I couldn't do it.. I couldn't stand another person touching my ...

How do I tell him that I don't feel the same way any more?

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27 January 2009 (F) - I have got a new bf and hes a really good guy, we have been together for a few months now. We have been getting on so well up till now. We have been arguing over stupid things, like music, films, even games, if I don't like somthing that he does ...

I Think I may like girls but how do I tell my boyfriend??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - Ok so I heard the song by Katy Perry you know the taste of her cherry chapstick and I think I may like girls. Yeah I kissed a girl before or girls and stuff I dont want God to punish me because Im a strong believer in God. So what do I do? Hide the ...

He seems to have dropped me like a hot potato... what's going on???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I've been seeing someone been out on dates, he paid for everything night on drnking, meals etc. He even came and picked me up and dropped me off at home. Been back to his for relaxing night and even invited me to his mate's party new year eve. T...

He knows how I feel so why is he still pushing for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for around 2 months now. When we where friends he didn't want to rush into any thing like sex, he just wanted to take things slow and at a time, he didn't seem like all the other boyfriends that I've been out with, ...

What are the pros and cons of giving a baby up for adoption, and the pros and cons of keeping it?

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27 January 2009 (F) - Ok, I waited until I was 18 before I started having sex with my long term boyfriend of two years. I made that decision, because I did not want to leave any burden upon my parents if I was to become pregnant. My now fiance and I plan on marrying in ...

I want to feel my girlfriend's boobs!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - Hey I was just wandering I'm still a virgin and I've never felt boobs. What do they feel like and what would be the best way to feel my girlfriend's tits that would make her happy?...

Cheating and found out!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - I had been having an affair for about 2 years with a former co-worker (I recently got a new job). He's married with kids, I live with someone. We spoke everyday, multiple times a day, on our way to and from work, sent each other goodnight emails ...

Help needed... I'm so screwed up at the moment I feel exhausted.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - Ok me and my ex split in october just gone, he dumped me to go back with the mother of his daughter, anyway that didn't work out, and we started sleeping together like once a week, as like fuck buddies. We still remain friends but, he's now ...

Why is it that some guys are jerks to girls?

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27 January 2009 (F) - Why is it that some guys are jerks to girls? I'm in a relationship with this guy and sometimes I'm like 'What a jerk' Either that or has no manners. Ok, I hate, hate, hate it when guys walk in front of me and leave me behind. He does this sometimes. ...

It's coming up to our 5 year anniversary and I want to do something nice for my boyfriend, any ideas?

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27 January 2009 (F) - It's coming up to our 5 year anniversary and I want to do something nice for my boyfriend... Any ideas??? Male and female answers welcome!!...

It's really over and now it's hurting so much.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend broke up. I'm so hurt. I really fell in love with him. I know I'm young and I never thought I could fall in love this young and share my feelings so strongly with another person but this boy was amazing. We were so close and ...

My girlfriend's dad is behaving very strangely!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - I'm sure one of my friend's dad fancies another one of my friends. She is 16 and he is 59. Do you think it is normal that a man of his age would say to his daughter he will unground her if her 16 year old girl gives him a hug? Also when is planning ...

Who needs men right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - Oh boy so the big question of what do I do? I like this guy but I don't know if he likes me?? But what I would say is just ask him out. The worst he could do is say no but you never know maybe he actually likes you or he will be shocked that you ...

Dumped? Or he just needs space?

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27 January 2009 (F) - hi was seeing some for couple dates started shifts sayd hes too busy to see me at the minute etc. Does this mean that i've been dumped or does he just need space and time to adjust?...

What do boys like in a girl?

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27 January 2009 (F) - ok well its a reallly simple question basicaly what do boys like in a girl or find attractive? even if a girls not amazingly hot...

How can I hint at her to give me a blow job?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - Hey, I recently started fingering my girlfriend and was just wondering what I could say to get her to start giving me bj's. Weve talked about it lightly and she said she would rather give bj's than handjobs. I kinda think it's fair that she sh...

I can't stop seeing prostitutes...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - hi agony agony aunts and uncles, I have a problem which is really getting me down. To put it bluntly in the last year I have had sex with more than 20 prostitutes. I have no problem getting women the normal way (one might even call me a player...

Is he playing me or trying to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of a few days now got off work early yesterday and wanted to hang out. But I had to work late. Plus, I had school work. We talked throughout the night. Then, I said let's hang out on Friday...due to my busy work and school schedule....

Am I wanting too much? too soon?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - I recently met the most wonderful guy through a mutual friend, who is intelligent, caring and makes me feel wonderful. He doesnt want to rush anything, and is not ready for a serious relationship, as he had a bad experience last time. This is fine ...

Am I making a fool out of myself and looking stupid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - I am wondering if anyone can give me some advice. I recently met a friend of a friend who I am very attracted to. I am just out of a long relationship so I am a little out of practise at the dating game! The first time I met this guy was wh...

Jykle and Hyde caused by ADD/ADHD

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - I need some opinions. I'm dating a man that has severe ADD/ADHD. He's a beautiful man inside and out. Here's the problem, he's going to be diagnosed next week with ADD/ADHD (How do we know he has it already?? we are both familiar with the signs as ...

My ex is acting strangely towards me and I think we need to talk. What should I say?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - After breaking up three weeks ago, I'm already sick of being the "ex". Me and my ex are at university together, and since we broke up things are completely different. I assumed things would change, but I can't understand why it seems to have ch...

Period problems... caused by the morning after pill?

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27 January 2009 (M) - So my girlfriend ended up getting her period yesterday which made us both super relieved but there is a problem, after a while she stopped bleeding and now she's not bleeding for a while. Could this be because of her illness or because of the ...

My gf played spin-the-bottle and kissed 7 people in a night. Now I am confused....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - How would you feel if your girlfriend kissed 7 people in a night ? Well that what my girlfriend did and i feel very bad on that and it was a spinning bottle game and i felt like people who play that just don't pay respect to their selves and righ...

My mom thinks of my g/f as a "fatal attraction"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - I have been dating a girl for 6 months. To full understand this situation perhaps a brief back story is needed. She was involved with one of my friends for a period of time, while they were together he encouraged her o begin becoming friends with ...

Chocolate shop in UK that does engraving for a cake?

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27 January 2009 (F) - Hi, i need some help for my bf's birthday i want to get his face engraved in chocolate by a professinal.. Howver, i cant seem to find people who do it even though i've searched the net doesanyone know of someone or a chocolate shop that does in the ...

My girlfriend wants to be able to kiss other guys

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - Hey guys, I am 19, and my GF is 18. Basically, my girlfriend loves me says I am perfect for her, says she wants to marry me and everything. Prior to this, I guess our lowest point is when she kissed a guy out clubbing drunk (i know no excus...

Ever since we got caught having sex we argue about stupid stuff

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - I feel like i'm losing my boyfriend. We met on holiday and i just fell in love with him and ever since then we spend hours on the phone every night and meet up with each other when we can. The last time i saw him we got caught having sex by his...

I texted my boyfriend, but he didnt answer

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27 January 2009 (F) - Hi, i texted my bf last night saying whats up but i got no answer. i started to worry like...does he not want to talk to me, is he ignoring me, and stuff like that. Do you think he probably forgot to check his phone or his phone is dead and ...

I dropped him off at the bus stop and left him stranded with no money.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - Today I made a harshest decision. I dropped my boyfriend off at the taxi rank and he didn't have money for the bus fare. I left him there to find his way. I know it is mean, especially for someone who has zero cents in his pocket. I have been dating ...

Date wants to see a scary movie and I don't like them!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - i asked out this guy to the movies and he said yes.but he whats to see a scary movie and i dont like scary movies (i still have nightmares after seeing the ring 5 years ago)but i dont what to tell him that.like ill go see it but i really dont what ...

He's got all the traits that should make me run away

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - hi. i'm in love with this guy but he has all the characteristics i should run away from but i cannot help myself...he is arrogant, rude and very uncaring but i love him still. lately he has been ignoring me and not even calling as he used to? i've ...

He wasn't able to perform, is that normal?

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27 January 2009 (F) - Hey Ive been seeing this guy for a few weekes now, last weekend he invited me over to his place to cook me dinner..and invited me to stay the night..which i happily accepted..lol Anyway so we hop into bed and talked for a while and then he told me ...

Why am I not considered girlfriend material?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - Every single guy that I have been with treated me badly and I dotn knwo why. Im smart, fun, tall and pretty (people tell me I look like a model) but not like fake tanned blonde bimbos, I harldy wear any make up. Im also interesting to talk to (I ...

He can't seem to perform and only wants oral sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for little over two months now. We have a wonderful relationship overall, but have been facing some issues when it comes to sex. He seems to love (almost prefer) oral sex and we do that the majority of the time. ...

Why do girls think I am looking at them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - The problem is every time I am around a girl they always think that I'm looking at them. Now, I don't know if it is just curtain girls being really vain, or if it is something that I am doing to make girls think that I am looking at them. Sometimes...

Should I move on or ask her out again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - I think I've probably been rejected, albeit gently. There's this girl that I really like. Right now we're pretty good friends with each other. I even gave her a surprise birthday present a while back, and return she made this cute plushie for...

Do I really want to be with her or am I just lonely?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - I need some advice. I started dating someone a while back and we had basically both just come out of long-term relationships. After awhile it was because clear she just wanted something casual, although I had wanted more of a relationship at first. ...

Why does he never bother to text me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - When my boyfriend and I are apart and I call or send a text message to him he never bothers to reply. Why?...