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Archived questions from: 24 January, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I just wanna know how to get over someone!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - I don't know how to explain this so I'm just gonna say it. I've had some problems in the best with relationships because I seem to always fall insanely 'in love' with the wrong people - and it drives me insane because I can't get over them until ...

I sort of had to chose between a guy and a friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5577 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - I'm dating this guy and everything is good with him and I'm happy being with him, but now I've lost my best friend. I wrote about this before, she was once like in love with him but they never dated or anything, and he and I began to hang out. ...

Flirt & Fail? How to dodge love betrayals

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

24 January 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm 13 and I need love advice. I have been flirted with time and again by several girls. They all say I'm cute or something, but deep down, I don't believe that they're telling the truth. For a few examples, I asked a girl out, and the next day ...

I don't know... Am I overreacting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - Hello everyone, I'm writing to you guys for relationship advice. For the past few days I've been really upset with my boyfriend because on thursday he wanted me to come over an spend time with him and I did. He practially rushed me to come over and...

How can I come to terms with going on dates? I really do hate everything about them.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - It's been 7 months since my break up from my 2 year relationship. I finally got my things back from him and I feel pretty resolved about the whole thing. I am ready to move on. But I have no desire to date. I've been turning down dates and I've been ...

I need your advice guys... I'm confused about my sexuality...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

24 January 2009 (M) - Well here we go I'm 13 years old and I have this girlfriend for 8 months, we get into fights a lot and we have broken up 2 times. I am really happy with her we mess around when we see each othere but.... summer of 2008 I saw my sister's guy friend ...

We used to take pictures and record us during our intimate times but they have been stolen!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5577 days ago

24 January 2009 (M) - I had been seeing a girl for 5 years and we are ultimately married now, we both love each other a lot. But an incident occurred in our life, we used to take pics and record us during our intimate times. And few of those contents got stolen from our ...

Is this love or what???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5577 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - Wow! This a long story so I will just make it short. There is so much that has gone on for so long, I met this guy nearly five years ago and I was going through a rough time, i had just lost my previous boyfriend in a car accident so me and this ...

I'm really confused and unsure If I'm being walked all over.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

24 January 2009 (M) - Hello all ! I'm going through a bit of a confusing time regarding my relationship with my boyfriend. First of all I'm gay, but it shouldn't have any bearing on my dilemma. I know that you guys and girls give good advice cos I've seen it before! ...

Opinions!!! My boyfriend wants to watch me with another man - healthy and normal??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - Me and my man michael have been togther almost 5 months ever since we hit about 3 months he has been asking me to have a threesome with another man and him i dont feel comfortable i did it like 4 or 5 times thinking he would give it up but he told ...

My lost love...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

24 January 2009 (M) - I've been with this girl over a year now and I'm 15, she used to love me until we had this massive breakup, I'm pretty much in love with her and we're now back together, but it's been a month since the argument and I've been so much of a better ...

I don't understand what this guy is about?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - I once met this guy in a nightclub,he is three years younger than me.He made it clear to me that he liked me,i gave him my number,but he never contacted me. A few months later,we bumped into each other again,and he still acting like he liked me...

How to get rid of hickee fast

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

24 January 2009 (M) - The other night me and my fiance were makeing out when she decided to bite my neck, which really drove me wild. the problem is that it left a hikee (im not sure if thats how you spell that) Im a manager at my work so i cant have marks on my neck, ...

I've been patiently waiting for her and now she wants to cool things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5577 days ago

24 January 2009 (M) - My question is about my girlfriend with whom I have been for about 7 months. The story is that we met through a mutual friend - her best friend is a work colleague of mine and he invited me out. After a month or two it became apparent that we liked ...

Did she change her mind? Very confusing situation

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5577 days ago

24 January 2009 (M) - hey well i met this chick the other night and she was like telling me straight up that she thinks im cute and that she thinks i have gorgeous eyes n stuff n we were at this socail thing watchin a movie n we sat togther n talkd n yer hangd all ...

G/f with intimacy issues

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

24 January 2009 (M) - I'm gonna go ahead and leave our ages out of it, but my girlfriends ex boyfriend took her virginity when she was 14, she's not a trampy little teen slut, she's an incredible girl who thought she was in love. her ex cheated on her and then treated ...

We like each other and kissed but she doesn't know if she wants to go out with me. Is she being awkward??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

24 January 2009 (M) - right.... me and her have liked each other for ages, ahes told me, i told her. we went out the other day, and we kissed (more than once). after i asked her out and she just said i dunno. and then later i asked her about it on msn and she said i ...

What do guys think of red heads and freckles?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4197 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - I have red hair and freckles and sometimes i'm self conscience about them because i feel "different" per say. What are male opinions about red heads?...

I haven't had a relationship in 5 years and my self confidence/esteem is so low

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

24 January 2009 (M) - ok my life is one big mess im hurting so bad inside it killing my emotions. i cant have a relationship cuz i blow it everytime. my self-esteem and self confedence is so low and i dont know what to say or do while talking with a gurl. i always get to ...

I stuff my bra, don't want any guy touching me there

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - so basically, i dont mind if a guy touches me anywhere, but since i stuff my bra, i dont really like them to touch my breasts... and im scared that my boyfriend will want to touch me there, and be confused if i say that he can touch me anywhere else ...

Should have never let it go this far

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - Ok so I have been seeing this guy for over a year. We are still just seeing each other. He comes over almost every weekend when he doesn't have work. We usually go out to eat, movies, or both. Whatever we feel like doing. We do have sex. I'm just so ...

I never came during sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - i have never came during sex and i'm in love with this guy i've been whith for a long time... what should i do???...

Something going on or am I paranoid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - Me and my fiance have been together for almost 3 years. One of our mutual friends (I have known her for years and he and her are more associates than friends to me but whatever) has recently moved to our state. My fiance got her a job with his ...

Valentine gift ideas for a guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - Ok, my boyfriend and I have been dating for about a month now and Valentine's Day is coming up. If it helps, I've known him for a few years, so he's also like my best friend. My question is, What should I get him for Valentine's Day??...

My b/f is flirting with another girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

24 January 2009 (?) - My boyfriend likes to flirt with all the girls so I am used to it. But there is this one girl that he really likes and she likes him. He says he doesn't like her yet, but according to my friends, he flirts and hangs all over her whenever I'm not ...

Anyone have a b/f cheat and gave them a second chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - hey guys quick question.... has anyone been in a situation where there boyfriend cheated on them and they gave them a 2nd chance?? if soo did it sucseed and would you advice for me to give my boyfriend a second chance.. he says he loves me and now...

He hasn't contacted me in 4 weeks??!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - We’ve been together for 3 months.. after 2 months he changed and started been all weird and not calling me much.. he use to call me everyday..last time i saw him he got really angry and accused me of cheating on him... and I told him That hes ...

Should I go into marriage without financial stability?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4570 days ago

24 January 2009 (M) - Should i go into marriage, even though i'm not finish my College degree and only earn $120 a week? I would also be going against the better judgment of my Whole family, who thinks i should finish school and get a decent job before i marry. My ...

Girl's opinion please..she acted interested but then ignored me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

24 January 2009 (M) - There is this girl who is totally into me she had been giving all sorts of signs. After flirting for as couple months i decided to ask her out.She said what would we do since im not allowed to drive for a month. i said that i could make it work. she ...