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Archived questions from: 22 January, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

She doesn't want to have sex cause she thinks I'm too young

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

22 January 2009 (M) - hey, i'm 15 and my gf's 16. The problem I'm having is that she doesn't want to have sex cause she thinks I'm too young, but I've already had sex and she knows but she still thinks I'm too young, what do i do?...

I'm kinda thinking at this moment that he doesn't care for me any more

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - Hiya, this is a question 2 anyone but mainly guys, me and my ex still talk every day, he tells me about all these girls that he is shagging and I just go along with it and laugh, he nows I still like him, anyway speaking 2 someone 2day they said he ...

I feel guilty about not being a virgin, help!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

22 January 2009 (?) - Hey, its very simple, I lost my virginity at 16 with my 2 year boyfreind and Im a catholic who wante tdo wiat for marriage. thing is things got complicated and we broke up. Now I'm with this new guy for three months. he is nice and sweet and a ...

My jealousy is killing our relationship I can see it but I can't do nothing about it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I have a problem with jealousy. I have a boyfriend and we're dating for 2 years and I still can't believe him. My jealousy is killing our relationship I can see it but I can't do nothing about it. I'm jealous when he goes out with friends ...

I am completely heterosexual but I get these random urges, that range in strength, to go down on a man.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

22 January 2009 (M) - I am a 25 year old male, I am in a relationship with a woman and feel completely heterosexual but I get these random urges, that range in strength, to go down on a man. How weird?...

Does he seriously want me back? Or like my friends said, Is he just lonely for now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend brkoe up with me about 2 weeks ago. We only went out for 2 months, but this breakup hurt me espeically since it was my first serious relationship after a bad experience. (My ex-boyfriend hit on one of my friends and lied to me when I ...

I think I'm falling for my partner's mate!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I have been with my partner for 7 years, I love him but for at least 6 of those years I have had really strong feelings for his best mate, I've tried to get over these feelings as I never thought I had a chance with my partner's mate, but I have ...

Lost and Confused...Aries and Aquarius!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - Here is the gist of the story. I met this guy in Cali I don't live there but visit often for the past 10 years. He is a friend of a relative for six years and we've never formally met each other but had to have passed by each other countless times. ...

How do I let her know that this isn't just grabbing dinner again as friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

22 January 2009 (M) - I've been seeing this girl a lot and it's pretty casual, we hang out and talk about a lot of stuff but we also casually hook up a lot.friends with benefits kind of... The other day I asked her if I could take her out on a date on the weekend and ...

To trust... or not to trust?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - Well, for the first time here, I have a question non-sexual related... So, I´m dating this guy for almost a year. This is the 3rd serious relationship I´m in, but this one is making me change, I am really crazy about him. Not only because he´s my ...

I want to keep our relationship a secret but he wants to tell everyone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - Please help as soon as possible please. Well the thing is, i have a boyfriend and i do love him so much, but the thing is its a secret relationship and he has told a lot of people and he's making it dead obvious by putting it on his msn name tha...

Problems with friend and family!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I started seeing this guy about a week ago. We went on our first date and it was awesome. I just have a couple of problems. 1) My best friend is heavier and is jealous of me and my bf. What should I do? 2) My mom is super strict, and won't let us...

If I see him with someone else at the part I'll be upset so don't know whether to go or not.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I was seeing this guy for a while who I work with, he took me for lunch, cinema, dinner etc. He used to hug me and massage me, everything was great. I text him telling him that I liked him on new years eve but he never said anything about i...

How do I gain mutual respect in this relationship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend is 21 and I'm 20 this year. We have been together for almost 2 years and recently we have been having lots of problems, from 5 months back. My boyfriend was enlisted in army for 2 years, and right now, he left 1 year to go. We o...

He's amazing but he's a total manwhore, what do I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - k to start off, i'm 17 (grade 11) and my boyfriend's name is kris, he's in grade 10 (16) but verrrrry cute:) i think he's amazing, basically perfect. since he's extremely popular, amazingly hot, a gentlemen, good listener, caring and the whole pa...

Two dates later, should I start leaving my weekends open for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - Ok, so I just started dating this guy about a week ago. He's like when do you want to go out again, Friday or Saturday? I answered, "Saturday." I'm thinking we're not exclusive yet..not sure. I don't want to ask him. But the thing is he didn...

Do I trust my gut feeling or my head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I have been reading a book in order to help me with my confused mind. I am currently with my man of 4 years, he does everything right, and everyone around us thinks we are very happy together. I am however constantly thinking about another man, ...

Assholes and Rebound Guys, how can I break this cycle???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I need and want a good man to settle down with...etc but every time i meet one that wants the same i get scared and end up with an asshole again. Assholes say they want kids, fam...all that stuff, but LATER, nice guys give me this vibe that they ...

Should I tell her that I actually DO like her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

22 January 2009 (M) - I like this girl who is in my year at school, but when she asked me if i liked her i said no in case she didn't like me. Im confused - should i tell her i like her or not? Thanks For The Help much appreciated....

Does my boyfriend want me to dress girly for all ocassions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - He mentions 'It's a huge turn-on for me when girls wear dresses or skirts.' Here's the thing..I'll wear them like to church, wedding, maybe a nice dinner. But he's like even if we go shoot pool you can wear a knee-length dress or skirt. But at the ...

Will the age difference be a bother to us later?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I am 22 years and my partner is 29 years old. We are planning to get married soon but I sometimes feel that the age difference is somehow big and it can affect our relationship because sometimes I do things and he sees them as childish since he ...

Pretty girls.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - When a pretty girl wakes up next to you in the morning and her face doesn't look so pretty and her hair's a mess, does it bother you boys? or if she's always doing her make-up does it make her seem insecure? curiosity...

Live-in boyfriend of 3 years needs his space?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We have lived together for 2. He told me 2 nights ago that he wants to get his own apartment because he needs his space. He goes on to tell me that he is still in love with me and still wants to remain ...

When a guy gets close to me, I back off!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I am 23 year old girl and my most embarressing problem is that I've never had a boyfriend. I've had problems in the past with me having been sexually abused when I was 9 and really bullied at School. I have been asked out by lads before but found ou...

Its different tonight and I want her to know I feel that way

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5568 days ago

22 January 2009 (M) - I've been seeing this girl a lot and its pretty casual, we hang out and talk about a lot of stuff but we also casually hook up a lot.friends with benefits kind of... The other day i asked her if i could take her out on a date on the weekend and ...

I think she deserves a bit of her own medicine

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

22 January 2009 (M) - Here is my situation, first the background information: I've been talking to this girl for about 3 months now, shes 20 and I'm 27. She lives with her parents about an hour and a half away from me so I've only went out with her twice. The first time ...

What does she mean --would I fight for her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

22 January 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together over a year. She always asked me if we ever broke things off whether I would fight for her. What does a woman mean by that? Her and I are both Christians. I had promised her thoughout the relationship that ...

He was hot, but now running cold

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - He was full on to begin with and was really into me and the situation then he backed off because he was confused with what he wants. i have fallen for him big time and dont know what to do! Any tips?...

I feel sex is so one sided with us...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

22 January 2009 (M) - My boyfriend and I have been having problems that have almost split us up twice. I have a higher sex drive than he does but I have never been pushy, asked for sex or demanded it or anything like that. I have backed off so much trying to make t...

Friend... or boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5579 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I am 19 and he was my classmate. We became very close recently. We will send messages and phone each other almost every day. It is starting to become a habit. I know something is not right about us. I don't think normal friends do that. But our ...

My online hotty is turning cold...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I have been seeing this guy that I met online about 3 months ago. We have been out 2 times so far and he wants to meet up again this weekend..where he wants me to go over to his place for dinner. He never rings me though.. I'm always the one doing ...

All I want is some space to be left alone for a while!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I have this ex girlfriend who's gone completely raging psycho on me. I mean, completely off the deep end. We broke up about 3 months ago, but she is still expecting me to treat her like she's my girlfriend and that's completely flustering to me. ...

She broke my heart and all I want is to help her...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5579 days ago

22 January 2009 (M) - So, my most recent girlfriend just broke up with me, she says it's because of the distance, she lives 5 hours away, but the distance has never really bothered me, and now she's very very depressed, she's started cutting herself, I still love her, ...

He accused me of chucking a little old lady on to the street...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5579 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over 5 years we have a 2 year old little boy we both work full time. My problem is when we met I owned my own house with a mortgage he also owns a house jointly with his mum, his mum put half towards the house and ...

What can we do to stop fighting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

22 January 2009 (M) - Well thanks to all that gave me wonderful advice. :) but I have another question... Okay well I'm 17 and my girlfriend is 15 and we have been together for seven months now and we have a lot of problems. We always seem to fight. So my question is how ...

I've pretty much lost all intrest in sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5579 days ago

22 January 2009 (M) - so... I'm not really sure whats going on... I've pretty much lost all intrest in sex.... sometimes i get horny but its rare.... im losing all intrest.... sometimes my dick wont stay hard.... what the heck am i to do? and i've read some of the other ...

Is he for real or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I really like this guy, we both DJ and we're are both Aquarius's. When we lay in bed it feels like were one and the world could end around us but we would never notice. He brings me over to his friends house and when we are together he makes me feel ...

Do I get him something for Valentine's Day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I know its really early but I have been dateing a guy for about 2 months and I've known him for about 5 months should i get him anything for valentines day? if so, what should i get him, something small for sure but what? ...

Friend flirting with boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - my friend has a friend that like to flirt with her boyfriend ...what can i do? i want to do a favor for her because she has done a lot of favors for me and i want to return that favor??...thank you!!...

Struggling between my b/f and an older man

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I'm in love with my boyfriend whom I've been with about a year and a half or so, and it's perfect together. but recently i've acquired this gradual adoration for an older man that i work with. im 17, and this man is 37- but we click! all day we talk ...

How much time should go by before proposing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5579 days ago

22 January 2009 (M) - I am wondering , What is the ideal amount of time before you propose marriage to a woman? I am madly in love with my girlfriend and cant imagine my life without her. I know its too soon, but i want some feedback to what amount of time of dating is a ...