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writes:Been going out with my boyfriend for the last couple of months and we started sleeping together just before Christmas. Everything has been going fine but I'm finding my boyfriend is a bit reserved sexually. He doesn't want to try new things. It's not as if I'm asking him to do anything crazy, maybe just try some handcuffs or lubes or something, but he seems very scared. What can I do to make him feel more comfortable?
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reader, xoxDrkrosexox  +, writes (13 September 2010):
hand cuffs? well for some ppl hand cuffs are yucky haha:) hes just not comforable...hes orginal. he likes the basics. Dont force him. Just give him time. good luck!!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (3 January 2009):
Well you're basically saying that after 2 weeks having sex with him, you're already bored with what he can do.
Give the poor guy a chance. Let him get his confidence and act a little more crazy... bring the ideas in slowly.
He'll loosen up soon enough.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, i_luv_michael +, writes (3 January 2009):
 Well, you make the first move, and chances are, he'll follow you... the last thing he'll want to do is let you down, good luck! - Lily
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reader, Western3589 +, writes (3 January 2009):
 Let him be the dominant one a few times in sex. Make him knows he is doing a great job. Sometimes after this ask him if he wants to try something else. If you want him to use lube just say it hurts and you would be better off with it.If you want to add handcuffs tell him you want to add even more thrills to sex then you already have.
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