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Archived questions from: 14 January, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Why is my boyfriend doing this? Please help me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Me and my BF got into an argument.. he got really angry and started saying horrible things to me.. he said I am always whining and..(f*king about with other guys).. he said I am not having sex with him so someone else must be getting since he ain't ...

Is love enough...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Is love enough? I had been waiting to go out with this guy for ages, he was my best friend! but recently we seem to have nothing to talk about, we used to be on IM and the phone all the time talking , but recently we don't talk and when we do t...

I want to know how I can trust her again and forget about this.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - Ok... I'm back again, I have forgave her for sleeping with my friends who are not around any more. I want to know how I can trust her again and forget about this. We might not have been together when she done this, but if your not together then ...

Should I tell him I'm pregnant?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and have just broken up. The main problem in our relationship was that we never had time for eachother because of our demanding jobs. He got a relationship with someone at work, and that was when we broke up. We didn´t exactly part ways ...

I constantly want to be with him and talking to him when before I would get sick of him and feel smothered...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - So me and this guy have been dating on and off since may of 08. We have dated a total of 3 times, once in mmay, once in september and we are dating now. Both times i was the one to break things off and for different rteason each time. The first time ...

Is it too soon to contact her? I'm not at all the needy type, but have these butterflies in my stomach since the kiss

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - I had my second date with a girl I really like last night. We also shared our first kiss, which makes me feel like a kid in high school again. I can't get her off my mind. She sent me a text after I dropped her off saying that she enjoyed the ...

I feel like I deserve being treated like this "no love just sex" coz I have no good qualities.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - I was abused as a child and every relationship I had after that was purely the men wanting to have sex and once they did they dumped me in the worst possible way. Now I'm dating someone who has never satisfied me during sex and he only wants to see ...

Her period isn't due for another 5 days, can she be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - Hi, Me and my girlfriend had sex for the first time on Saturday. We used a condom and were really safe. I did'nt even cum. Now my girlfriend has cramps and her period is'nt due for another 5 days. Can she be pregnant?...

Do his feelings run deeper than friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - I'm 24 and since I was 14 I've had it rough. I was diagnosed with a medical condition that is incurable (non-contagous) and I decided that I had to accept the condition myself before expecting someone else to accept it as well. Therfore I have never ...

I always text him first, does he like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Hello, okay..theres this guy...liked him for agggges, and Im pretty sure he might know (i may have drunk txt him a few times-not admitting it, but surely he'd question why i was texting him?) and also..when we text...its always me that texts hi...

Why didn't he just invite me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - My guy invited me and my daughter to come over and hang at the pool. I told him my little one was in school he just said "ok"...why didn't he just invite me at that point? Weird? ...

Why am I always falling for "taken" guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Why is it that the guys I like either already have girlfriends or get them as soon as I realise I like them? Is there something wrong with me?...

I need an attack plan for this break

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - My and girlfriend are on a break, how do i give her space? SO basically she really wants to be with me and likes me but right now she didnt get over her ex before we initated this realtionship so right now she said she catn get over him because ...

Am I his girl or what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - I have been seeing a man for the past 4 months... We usually spend time at his place. We eat together, and cook sometimes,watch movies,t.v., talk and spend quiet time. We are intimate, and have amazing sex. We truly enjoy each others company ...

Fear of commitment?

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14 January 2009 (F) - Hi there. I think i have a fear of commitment. I am currently with a man, and have been on and off for the past 4 years, however there is another man whom i am very attracted to, and am tempted to try a relatinship with. I do feel i have a lo...

Why are guys so quick to start talking about sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Hello Dear Cupiters! I'm wondering why this is happening.. I talk to guys just fine. But when they start to mention sex a lot in the conversation, I make it clear that I'm not an easy gal! And this happens when we're just getting to know each ...

EX Factor problem!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Hi everyone I know that this may sound strange, I've gotten what I wanted but am afraid it will have the opposite affect? Now that we are getting over the fact that he emotionally cheated with his ex girlfriend, one of the boundaries I set...

Should I stay with my new girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - First off, I have a daughter with girl 1, she's my ex now for 2-3 years. At first things were good then the baby came, I understand that she needs some time but after a year she was really slacking on us, so I became lonely being with her, I tried ...

Activity day...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Hi guys (: I was just wondering what kind of activity days you could think of for my boyfriend for our year anniversary? Thanks in advance (: x...

If you stop masturbating for too long can it hurt you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Well Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 months and I am sick of always having sex with him, sometimes if were just laying there watching a movie its all he can think about and I don't wanna be mean and then I feel bad when I say no so ...

Do I tell him? I cheated 6 months ago!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Hi, ive been with my boyfriend for 4 years on and off. i'm 18.the thing is...i cheated on him about 6 months ago when on holiday. and really dont know whether to tell him. it wont happen again for sure, im not sure why i did it to be honest because ...

How do I scare him-I'm NOT a doormat!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4995 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - in the time that i've been with my boyfriend which is nine months, he's cheated on me three times (only kissing) twice with the same girl, i've forgiven him obviously, not easily but he's still gone and done it again, he doean't think about the ...

Is love enough if you're opposing magnets?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

How do I stop being nervous around guys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - hi i was woundering how do i relax arounds guys if a guy touched me i go weak in the kness and get nevervous and tense up.the last time i was in nightclub a guy had his arms around my waist and i felt very nervous and shy.i was weak in the kness.the ...

I don't know what our status is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - i met a man on the internet and originally it was just for slightly kinky sex which neither of us had tried before, this didn't really get started as we soon were contacting each other daily and seeing each other weekly.over the past 2 months, and I ...

Should I stay with my b/f or go for the other guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Hi guyz,my case is, i have been in a relationship for a year 6 months, i loved ths guy alot but he things are sometimes not good between us,he lied to me about somethings but i stood by him after he explained his reasons and never did it again. we ...

Best way to keep a man's interest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Why is it that men will call you at first every day and then miss a day and you don't hear from them? Are they just busy or does that mean they aren't that into you? Should I call or send a text? What is the best thing to do to keep their interest?...

We want to marry, he's muslim & his family is against the marriage

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - I am 26 and I am in love with a Muslim guy(I am not). We were classmates in University and have been friends ever since. We are very serious about each other and plan to get married. However, his family is conservative and is dead against marrying ...

How can I convince her the trouble is only for short time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - we have been dating for the last one year. this relationship has had its own valleys and hills. the girl is a secondary school dame and i an in my final year in college. sometimes back, i had been posted to a town far away and our meeting was ...

Valentines Gift Idea...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Hiya, I know its fairly early to be thinking about gifts for valentines day but I'd like some of your opinions with regards to my gift idea.. Its mine and my boyfriend's first Valentines Day together and I really want to get him something differ...

Choices choices choices...

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14 January 2009 (F) - Hi guyz, My case is, I have been in a relationship for a year 6 months, I loved ths guy a lot but things are sometimes not good between us, he lied to me about some things but I stood by him after he explained his reasons and never did it again. We ...

I'm worried about my g/f & I at the university

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been going out for nearly 2 years now, we are both on our way to university this year although i'm really worried about it. I do really love this girl, but whenever were both out say at a pub or a nightclub we always fight, ...

B/f still good friends with his ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - im so confused and dont know what to do... my boyfriend is still friends with his ex and this is killing me and affecting our relationship. i started dateing my boyfriend 6 months ago, and its the first serious relationship iv had. whe...

My b/f brags about girls to see if I'm jealous

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5588 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - How do I know if my bf is just trying to be honest with me, or if hes really bragging and trying to make me jealous? My bf constantly tells me about all these girls who are flirting with him, trying to hook up with him, making moves on him, wa...

I have a new girlfriend who is a virgin, how do I know she is ready for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - I have A girlfriend who is a virgin. Shes 6 years younger than me. We've been going out now for about a month and I like her a lot. She plays with me and stuff but she's kinda shy when it comes to me playing with her(By that I mean fingering her) I ...

What to do now. Where do I go from here.......???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5588 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend for a year and a half had a great relationship. We had dated most of our junior year and all our senior year in high school. We had talked about splitting up only because we were going to our respective colleges and we thought ...

Am I just being too clingy in my head? Is this normal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - I am trying not to be clingy and so far so good. I have been with him for about 9 months. What I don't get are two things. The first thing is we have not had that relationship discussion yet I have heard him call me "my girl" on the phone... What ...

My boyfriend loves me but he still loves his psycho ex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend loves me but he still loves his psycho ex! I don't know how to get rid of her. What should I do? My boyfriend doesn't want to give up one of us, he doesn't even want me to give up on him but how can I get him give up his ex?...

My girlfriend wants me to see/date/sleep with other girls.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3012 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - My girlfriend wants me to see/date/sleep with other girls. She says she wants me to be sure that I want to be with her, and that she doesn't want to restrict me or drive me away by being jealous or possessive. I love her and want to be with her ...

Can someone truly be forgiven?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - I had a one night stand while in a relationship. It wasn't planned and in no way could be considered an emotional betrayal. The following morning, having realized what I had done and what I stood to lose, I confessed. Fortunately for me, my ...

How can I get what I want even though I'm clueless and guys don't have the you know what to come and talk to me themselves?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - I don't get it. All my friends say that guys are always staring at me and that some say I'm pretty and what not. Yet, I'm single. Not that I'm desperate to have a boyfriend but it comes to the point that you envy those who have the relationship you ...

He said that he'd been thinking for a few months about dating other people... I'm in shock!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I have been together for six years. We were high school sweethearts, and I was his first. We've also been living together almost the entire time, and now go to college together. To me, our relationship has been a life-a...

I want my girlfriend to drop some weight.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - I'm 20 my girl is 18. I'm feeling like I'm starting to fall for her but she is starting to get on the overweight side. I still feel attracted to her but I want her to be healthy. I have told her that I love her how she is but the weight is starting ...

She doesn't want to be pressured

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5588 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - Ok so bascially we started to go out about 2 months ago the first couple weeks were great but then she started to act weird, and this was because she felt we rushed into are realtionship, she said shes not over her ex ( of 3 years) they broke up in ...

Sis doesn't like my boyfriend, how do I get her off my case

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5588 days ago

14 January 2009 (?) - My sister doesn't like my boyfriend because he's three years older then me (hes 17 my sister's age and I'm 14). she says he all wants is to get in my pants and yet she's with a 23 year old. Honestly I don't think he'll ever pressure me to do ...

Why hasn't he popped the questions

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for about 21/2 years. He talks about our future alot, but he has never popped the question! what is the hold up? Should I ask where our relationship is going?...

My g/f is becoming distant

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - My girlfriend of 2 years her grandmother passed away this past friday. Since then I have told her I'm behind her for anything and I'm here to talk if she needs to. my girlfriend doesn't really like to share her emotions and feelings she deals with ...

I think about her all the time

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - I just want to know if I'm the only guy like this. I'd ask my male buddies, but they'd give me a hard time about the whole thing. I am 29-years-old, and I have been dating this girl(also 29) for 11 months. I am completely nuts about her. Alth...

Mixed signals after the first date

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Hello everyone! I've been best friends with this guy for a little over a year now and the moment I saw him, I knew he was the one. We started talking in class and then eventually online and the phone. Then we started hanging out more and more. It ...