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Dating: Help and advice

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i are juniors in highschool and started going out september 19 of last year. we really are in deep love. we have gone to second base but parents are always home. 1) he can't drive me until february so how can we get some privacy?...

I want real reasons: why are girls always falling for jerks and not nice guys?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - Why do da girls always fall for those guys who are jerks, mean, have no sense of emotion, doesnt know how to care, doesnt respect gals,guys who are always flirting wid everyone, who only have outer looks but no feelings inside? Is there boy ...

How can I tell her that nothing will ever happen between us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - hi well i've just got into a relationship that i've been wanting to happen for a long time now because i think this girl is incredible. good looking, fun, funny, sweet and kind. But shes not an open person which is fine. but theres a girl wh...

He bites my neck now instead of kissing it... what does this say to me???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I have a question. I recently got into a relationship with a guy and so far it's been 3 amazing months. In the begining whenever we would makeout he would eventually end up kissing my neck, which I loved. But now when we engage ourselves in ...

What if I lose this chance at a relationship over making dancing something so important?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I am a single, 36 year old female, never married and I love to dance. Every opportunity I get I am out at the club. I'm not out there to pick up anybody, just to dance. I've met a guy who doesn't dance. According to him, the dancing is a small ...

Is friendship with this married guy going the wrong way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5596 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I'm asking this question b/c although sometimes one might feel like is just about friendship, there are somethings that makes you wonder if it's just an innocent flirty kinda game or if it might lead to something else later. I become friend wi...

Should I forgive my boyfriend for watching porn?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 4 years. We do not live together and we are both virgins. He recently confessed that has watched porn at least once a week for the last 3 years. I was really hurt when he told me. He seemed to feel bad ...

He keeps backing off from me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I have a problem and wondered if you could give me some advice. I met a man about about a month ago he is 46 and I am 33, we have gone out on dates a few times and seem to get on well. The problem is there have been occasions when he has tota...

His penis keeps slipping out... how can we improve on this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I have wrote this anonymous but I was wondering if anyone had any ideas what I could do. I have slept with 2 people in my life and the first person I have only slept with a few times and that was who I lost my virginity to but my boyfriend now, I ...

Trust...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I was going out with a guy for a few years but then I got really drunk and ended up cheating on him which was really stupid because I love him so much.... when he found out rumours about it I lied about it for ages then I just told him. We split up ...

Please help me make the right decision, I miss my ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5594 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I really need help. I'm 15. I have a boyfriend. We've been through a lot together and have a lot of past together. we went out all summer and even went away together and then we broke up and now we're back together.. I really have felt like I've ...

Suddenly he's pushing me out

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5596 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - hi im 17 and ive been seeing my bf for about a year. We did have a rough few months that we were apart and saw other people then we worked out our problems and got back together....anywho...he is very clingy i guess youd say, and he always texts me ...

3 guys after me..don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - OK, here's my problem...i am in love with this guy and 3 other guys are after me, and i have absolutely no idea what to do! please help me?...

Girlfriend can't orgasm and complains of having no labido. What to do next?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - Girlfriend can't orgasm and complains of having no labido. What to do next? We've been dating for two years. We are very much in love and very close. To me she is the most beautiful and special person i've ever met. We are both attractive fit p...

It's as if he's bored and NOT happy!

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4 January 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about 7 years on and off but 4 years solid, we have a child, she's 3 now and when she was one, he left for 6 months and we never saw him. We got back together and everything was fine but he lies all the time and ...

How old does a 15 year old woman have to be to have sex with her 18 year old boyfriend without legal consiquences?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - How old does a 15 year old woman have to be to have sex with her 18 year old boyfriend without legal consiquences?...

I seem to have much more sex drive than my boyfriend and wanting sex more than he does.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5596 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years and ever since we've been together, I seem to have much more sex drive than him and wanting sex more than he does. We have been together on and off and when I've told him how I feel he says the fact that ...

She always gets a nasty feeling after an orgasm

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - So my girlfriend an I have been along the lines of 2nd base for a bit (touching below and above waist) I have made her orgasm by fingering several times, she has tried to jack me off but we're getting to that. That's not my question though, when I ...

A replay of my question on my longtime crush. I need answsers by tomorrow!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - P.S. I am only posting again as this is a very important question and I did not recieve enough answers to consolidate the issue. You may be tempted to delete my post despite this P.S. note - but why don't you take into consideration my feelings...

I want to know really how to find people to date and how to become more confident around guys.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5596 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I'm 14 and I've only ever had one boyfriend, it's not that I don't want one its just I never seem to be interested in guys and they don't seem to be interested in me either. It hadn't bothered me until now but now moat of my closest friends all have ...

He's a bit slow on the uptake - any ideas for dropping hints?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I've fallen for the most irritating person! Ok, lets say he seems perfect - tall, good looking, generous, sweet, kind, friendly and we can talk for hours BUT he never can keep an appointment. For example he invited me round to his, but I couldnt ...

I like him but he has HIV, and I don't. Should I give this up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - I have been single for a five years now and have become quite happy on my own. I love my life, my friends, my family, my home and my work. Truth be told I haven't bothered to search for a partner during the last year and a half simply because I ...

Do I go back to my abusive ex bf or stay with my current guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I have recently split up with my partner of 2 and a half years (billy). He has hit me several times and i had also stopped fancying him, i went off sex with him so i decided that it was time to end it. I have started seeing an ex boyfriend (Jason), ...

Overexaggerating? Or something wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - Ive been going out with my boyfriend for a few months now, every things going great. At christmas he really treated me and bought me amazing expensive gifts, i couldn't believe it. Anyway i went on holiday for three weeks to australia over ...

He checks out other girls and I try to be cool but it bothers me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - This is really typical and stupid, but it's causing me pain and I was wondering if anyone could help me. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months. Before that, we were really good friends for about a year. Well a few weeks before he asked me out, he ...

Can I trust him? I found his speedating name tag!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5596 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years and although this happened a year ago it still plays on my mind. he was thinking of starting a speed dating business and in the end didnt go through with it but it was something that he offered ...

My b/f is really clingy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - Hey,I have a boyfriend, OB, but the thing is he is really clingy and he calls and texts all the time. It sounds really stupid but I tried avoiding him for one day and he was really upset about it and told me if I have a problem about us then I ...

I hate my sister's boyfriend and it's tearing me up.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - ok well here goes... My sister has been with her bf for almost a year now and well first time I met him I thought he was rude because he said things that were quite offensive - which for the first time meeting his gf's sister... that's pretty su...

Just kissing him is strange

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5590 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I met a guy in november of 2007 thru myspace, everything was going well but he wasn't ready for a relationship, in june we had an incident with my ex boyfriend, where my new boy caught me in the middle of a really bad situation, we tried to work ...

Not sure what to do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - So i've a crush to a guy from another country .I meet him online.We talked till late at night everyday for like around a week.He did say he likes me in a joking way and after we talk and talk again,I said I like him and he said he likes me too.But ...

I can't act normal around my ex now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5596 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - I got my ex back it seems she wants me but I can't act normal when I see her I hardly can laugh any of yall can help me how to start we are going out for a bbq tomorrow how should I act? thnx...

Great first date but very confused now

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - here goes..i posted here a few days ago about a date i went on and got mixed signals from the girl..me and this girl went on somewhat of a blind date..we hit it off..the night i got home from the date she was texting me how i was an amazing guy and ...

Do guys like vegans? Animal lovers?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5596 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I'm a vegetarian - considering becoming a vegan. Do guys dislike/like/have any preference over vegetarians and animal lovers?...

Do you think I should look for someone or wait for someone to find me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - This guy named Stephen broke my heart months ago.. and its taken me forever to finally just let go and tell him goodbye.. he was awful to me. he cheated on lied to me abused me and made up awful rumors.. about me. and i still cant seem to forget ...

He wants to take me to his house. What does he mean by that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I met a good friend of mine (who's a guy that I really, really like) for lunch the other day. We talked and laughed and gazed in each other's eyes for the first time which felt really strange. Afterwards when he was taking me home he mentioned that ...

Am I being shallow for liking him now that he's losing the baby-fat and gaining all this muscle?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - First off, I'm twenty and in my last semester at community college. The guy in question is also twenty and also in his last semester at the same community college. And by sheer coincidence, we're planning on attending the same university to finish ...

Beautiful Girls need loving too! Why aren't Caucasion guys giving me any??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I am a attractive and slender, dark hair, dark eyes with a sophisticated air woman.. I get compliments often of my looks. Usually men who are old enough to be my dad or uncle.. but mostly from the outspoken African American Males. All I seem to get ...

He isn't excited to see me anymore! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a few months. We are currently living 280 miles apart and he isn't as excited to see me when I come to visit (I only get to visit once a month) it seems that our spark is starting to fade I want ...

Why do girls feel the need to lose their virginity at a young age?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - Why do girls feel the need to lose their virginity at a young age? I know when I settle down,I want someone who hasn't slept around with many partners. All sleeping around seems to do at a young age is get girls popularity and a nasty reputatio...

Do I trust him not to cheat on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5405 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been going together for a year, and i really love him. he's the best thing thats happened to me, and is my strength.he proposed to me a while back and i accepted. but im about ti graduate. im so scared because even though ...

Her bad moods are bringing me down!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - I've been dating my fiance for over a year. We're engaged to be married in 5 months. I love her so much and she's warm and afffectionate 95% of the time. The problems is that when she gets stressed for frustrated, she snaps at me and gets bitchy ...

Phone confusion with this guy..what was happening here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - Hey Guys, I just signed up on this site...so here it goes -hopefully someone can give me some insight. about a year and a half a go i was working for a marketing company and managing reports from interstate via the state managers etc. Anyways i...

He's a married friend..so why does he go 'cool' when I mention other guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I have a friend with whom I keep in touch very often. They live far across the country and I'm friend of him not his wife. I only know him actually. But, he's happily married, he talks about family and all. The thing that bugs me is that since we...

I want to change the way I am in life... but how???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5597 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - Hiya me and my bf have been together now for 1 month and 4 days but when I get angry I get in weird moods, I want to stop these moods now but I don't know how. I love him and I don't want to lose him. I want to change my life as I actually don't ...

I think in order to help her get over this argument I need to gain her trust again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5596 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have got on great until a few days ago, she hasn't long gone on holiday abroad to Madeira for new years with a friend and her friend's family. In the middle of the week we had a huge argument and she claimed I'd been off with ...