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Dating: Help and advice

Was this mean or well deserved?

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6 January 2009 (?) - In high school I used to be teased because I was overweight, wore glasses, and quiet. As I went to college I started to go to the gym and is a ripped 200 pound running back. When I came back home from college one of the girls that teased me now ...

She just doesn't have time for me!

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6 January 2009 (M) - I have recently engaged in a new relationship with a wonderful girl. She is 17, a senior in High school and I am currently a sophomore in College. The age difference really doesn't affect us that much. My problem is that this girl never seems to ...

He's hot I like him

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6 January 2009 (?) - Hello. I need help. I am new to this so I'm just testing it. I like this guy. He's hot but I doubt he likes me back. Any advice?...

Body language and prayer request....

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6 January 2009 (M) - I have a request and a question, what does body language has to do with getting a gal? Secondly, this is not a question actually, its a request to all readers. my prayer to all readers is, whether u r all da religious type or not, pls pray for me. ...

I like this girl that's my friend, but she doesn't seem to like me!

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6 January 2009 (M) - i like this girl in my last period(class) and thats the only time i get to see her in school. we sat pretty close to each other. we have just met this year for 4 month now but the first 2 month we talked alot with each other,we always made each ...

How do I make a move on my boyfriend when I don't have the guts to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - I need some help. My bf and me have been together now for 2 weeks now.We love eachother very much. I would want to do a move but im so scared.I would love to have the guts! Do you guys have any tips to help me through this?...

Was he trying to tell me something with his hand holding?

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6 January 2009 (F) - A friend of mine, recently held my hand and started softly playing with it. Was he trying to tell me something with the way he was holding my hand or am I thinking too much about it?...

How long does it usually take a guy to say I love you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - so my bf and i have been together for over a month and he is a little less than 3 years older than me. he is a juinor in highschool and i am a freshman. he has never said i love you, and we talk on the phone alot, and i get to see him about once ...

I'm 30, how do I get a boyfriend??

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6 January 2009 (F) - Hi there This may seem like a completely stupid question, but how do I get a boyfriend?!!!!! I can't believe I'm asking this! I'm 30 years old! Basically I've had 1 serious relationship which ended several years ago (not too badly) and si...

Did he mean he's just another frog or my Prince Charming?

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6 January 2009 (F) - Have recently got back in touch with my ex boyfriend form high school and we've been talking loads on the phone and catching up. We havent seen eachother for 4 years. I was telling him that I'd been in a few bad relationships and used the term, ...

With exes, we could talk forever... with my new BF we can't find much to say.

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6 January 2009 (F) - With all my exes we could chat for hours on the phone - about nothing really. With my latest boyfriend (1 year) our conversations are only ever short. Are we just too different and not suited. I know Im more carefree and he's more sensible...

Should I go for it with my older, world traveler?

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6 January 2009 (F) - Hey everybody Don't know if you'll be able to give me advice on this one... but here goes :) Basically, I went on a cruise over Christmas, and on one of the formal dress up nights, some officers were invited down to dance. Because I'm a kee...

She says she loves me, but will never see me.

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6 January 2009 (M) - Ok, Im 16 years old and my girlfriend is 15 and i have been going out with her for nearly 6 months now, but for the past two months it has not been going so good. I want to see her badly but she will only ever see me with friends, and for the past...

How can I prove to guys that I'm not after their girlfriends?

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6 January 2009 (M) - I have a lot of girls that are friends, I mean like 60% odd. I think guys feel threatened by me because of this, im kinda confused about my sexuality right now to be honest and i'm not sure how I can show these guys that I dont fancy their ...

Kissed a player at a party and now I can't get him off my mind!

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6 January 2009 (F) - Hello, i've known this guy now for around 1 year. we only ever say hi because we just see eachother when some of our friends talk to eachother. he is a bit of a "player". we both got drunk two nights ago and ended up kissing but i stopped it. now ...

He's feeling me and his ex, should I be feeling him? Feelings?

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6 January 2009 (F) - My friend for a while just told me that he's really feeling me. But he has a situation dealin with his ex-girlfriend. He says that he don't know if he's feeling her more or me. I was just wonder should I like that his his feeling toward me because ...

Perfect first date, horrible aftermath. Help!!

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6 January 2009 (F) - I am fifteen, and recently went on my first date with a really nice guy from school. I have known him for almost 5 years, and have liked him on and off, but never told him as I thought he was waayy out of my league. then, last week, we went out to t...

How much does a guy plan to spend on a girl on the first date?

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6 January 2009 (F) - Honestly, I want a guy's opinion on this one! How much does a guy plan to spend on a girl on the first date? And how fancy of a place or settle for a quick bite to eat and not let her super size?!? LOL. Say you both met online (dating site) an...

What do I do about this guy (he's coming over in 5 minutes!!)? Need your help, quick!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - Hey. I'm a common 18 year old girl that has been plunged into the depths of lovesickness! I'm in desperate need of love advice - so please help me if you can! Here's my question... Ever since I was 7, I've really REALLY ...

We're dating but he's still contacting other girls from the dating site!

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6 January 2009 (F) - I met my boyfriend 2 years ago on an internet dating site. Just before xmas I went to log into my emails and found he hadn't logged out of a messenger service. I had a look and it was all girls names, and when I went into the emails I saw that he ...

Why has he changed so much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - My ex boyfriend is totally confusing me. When we were dating we had sex and I told him he got a little in me so don't be surprised if I'm pregnant and I told him I found out I was and he thought I was lying so my best friend called him and told him ...

Should I wait for her to call me or call her later on and she how she is doing?

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6 January 2009 (M) - Last night my girlfriend got really upset with about something she messed up. Everything prior to the incident was going well. She spazzed out about the whole situation. Once again it has nothing to do with me. (she locked her iphone, and has to pay ...

He's masturbating in his sleep and says he can't remember doing it!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - I've been going out with my current boyfriend for about a month now. We have previously dated for 4 months last year and have decided to give it another go. Everything is going fine, much better than the last time, except there is one thing that kee...

Can this kind of chalk and cheese relationship work?

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6 January 2009 (F) - I am recently divorced after being married for about 15 years. The divorce was not something I wanted but my ex husband met someone else and wouldn't try with me any longer. Anyway I have now met a really nice man who I was friends with for years ...

Why has my girlfriend's friend always hated me?

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6 January 2009 (M) - Ok so my girlfriend has this friend and for some reason she hates me. My girlfriend and I have been going out for almost a year and she has hated me pretty much all of that time. Would you say that the friend fancies me or is just jealous that my gf ...

Is 2 years a long time to be single?

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6 January 2009 (M) - hi Just a quick one. I'm 22 and I want to know is it abnormal that I haven't had a girlfriend for over 2 years?! I was going out with a girl from when I was 16 until 20, after we broke up I found it really hard to go out chasing other women like...

Revenge dressing! Make yourself irresistible to your ex!

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6 January 2009 (F) - How do you do it? What do you wear? How do you look like the breakup didn't hurt you and you're flourishing, on the market, and he's replaceable?...

Dumped my guy... now want him back.

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6 January 2009 (F) - Just dumped my sexy boyfriend because he I found out he had a long-distance girlfriend. Deception! But we had been having wonderful sex for months and I miss it. Now to punish me he says he has to cut me out of his life completely. I want to ...

Arguments about anal!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - My fiance is always getting sexually frustrated with me and it is always about the same thing -- him wanting to perform anal sex on me!!! I'm not down with that. We've kind of tried before. Last night, we had a slight argument about it. Of course I ...

Why am I so nervous about going to see my girlfriend again after a month and a half?

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6 January 2009 (M) - I need some help. I am going to go see my girlfriend tonight, the first time in a month and a half since she went back home for the holidays. I am so nervous. I have no clue why I am so nervous. She is an amazing person and I can't imagine my life ...

Misunderstood...

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6 January 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend needs some money for an internet connection, while he is overseas. He tell's me, that since we are in a relationship, that we should be there for each other. Yes, I understand that... but he thinks being there for each oth...

My girlfriend always seems too busy to talk with me these days...

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6 January 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend are together for over 6 months now. I am 17 years old and she is 15 years old. She acts very diffrent towards me these days, and I'm very insecure about it. I can't stop thinking that she is cheating on me or something like ...

I'm looking for advice on my boyfriend's attitude towards me.

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6 January 2009 (F) - I'm looking for advice on my boyfriend's attitude towards me. About a month before Xmas just gone my Grandma fell very ill and sadly died, the funeral was 2 days before Xmas. I became very run down and fell ill with a cold virus over Xmas and New ...

We don't get along the way we used to, I need your advice here!

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6 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has just hit a milestone birthday in his life, I am nearly two years younger and I think this is affecting us and the way we get along. He has started going out with his friends drinking and I'm left behind. I don't know what to do any ...

I now want out of the relationship. How do I do it?

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6 January 2009 (F) - Started seeing a guy at uni a while back and we're now dating and basically I now want out of the relationship. What happened is this. We got to know each other and maybe rushed in to things a bit quickly. We slept together. That was fine. ...

Are there certain questions you can ask to see if I guy is true?

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6 January 2009 (F) - Are there certain things you can ask a guy, to test if hes being true and honest and not putting on some fake act? I'm 19 years old, and have had two boyfriends, both who made me believe they were these nice, caring, respectful guys, but in the end,...

How do I rid myself of feelings for him and move on?

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6 January 2009 (F) - uhm. im jus soo confused about what to do. soo on a cool summer night. i met this guy. me 2 of his friends and 2 of my friends were chillin one nite and we wound up having sex. i am down south in school but i visit where he lives about 4 mnths out ...

I'm just not feeling her love anymore

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

6 January 2009 (M) - I really need some help on this one please... I'm having some trouble with my girlfriend. I haven't seen her for 2 months on Friday because she keeps saying her work and family are keeping her busy (she's doing her GCSEs so maybe that really coul...

He says no "labels"--is that another way of saying FWB?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - hi everyone. I'm 24 years old and I've had a crush on a close friend for awhile. He is 33 and recently divorced. I finally worked up the nerve to share my feelings a few weeks ago, with some help from my friend Pinot Grigio. And, the results ...

How do I make her see that she is beautiful?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5595 days ago

6 January 2009 (M) - my girl wont believe me that she is beautiful she just says that shes not beautiful and shes fat and that i have other girls and idk what to do at this point she wont stop its just nothing but bad talk that she says how can i help her see that i ...

My g/f isn't over her ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

6 January 2009 (M) - I am confused help with girlfriend? So basically my girlfriend has told me, im almost perfect and its weird almost unreal that i have came into her life so shortly after her ex,she says she likes me alot, and she doesnt want this to be a rebound,...

How do I make him not feel pain from last relationship?

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6 January 2009 (F) - how to release his pain and suffering from his last relationship? i went out with this guy, but he loves someone else that he just recently broke up with. now he has that pain and hurt he can't let got and i really love him and i don't know how i...

He got me nothing for Christmas or our 1st anniversary?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - OK!..so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 months.Hes my first real boyfriend n i think i love him.For our first month anniversary we didn't eraly do anything special just hung out all day with each other.I was ...

We are in a FWB but there is no sex?!

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6 January 2009 (F) - Ok, so here is the deal.. i have this guy who i am extremely interested in.. though i agreed to be friends with benefits with him. I developed feelings for him, and at times i feel like he has feelings for me. I had gone to spend new years eve with ...

Shy! Does she like me?

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6 January 2009 (M) - i like this girl but im not sure if she likes me im clueless if shes flirting with me and she acts shy around me so does she like me?...

How can I talk my parents into lowering the time away from each other and letting me go to her house again?

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6 January 2009 (M) - My girlfriend gave me a handjob a few times; we also made out. Well, my parents found out and said that we couldn't date for six months. They eventually said that I could date her in 2 months and go to a dance with her (it's one month away). ...

What is going on with him? Is he seeing someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - Is he seeing someone else? or why would he start acting this way? I have been seeing this guy for 2 months now and he started standing me up, and when I call and ask him where he is he very calm, when I ask him to bring the stuff I left in his car ...

I cry most of the time his indecisiveness is driving me insane.

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6 January 2009 (F) - Please help me end it for good.... I need some emotional support. I have been with my boyfriend for 7 1/2 years. I'm 44 He's 47... I have broken up with him before only to take him back after he begs and makes promises he cannot seem to keep. I have ...

Is there any possibility I could be pregnant?

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6 January 2009 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend and I where messing around and things started happening... he fingered me and I gave him a hand job, this was happening at the same time. I then had a nightmare that night that I might have got pregnant from this if he had cum on ...

How to make it last longer?

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6 January 2009 (F) - I'm starting to get very sexually frustrated here. I'm 15 and my boyfriend and I started to have sex a little over a week ago. We've done it tons of times so far, but I've never gotten any satisfaction from it. At all. It's just that he lasts about ...

How can I tell my boyfriend to stop talking/seeing his ex?

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6 January 2009 (F) - I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 28. I have the feeling my boyfriend is cheating on me with his ex. (she is my age). I know his ex, she was once friends with my older sister and she can be very intimadating and very sneeky. When I look through his ...