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Dating: Help and advice

I'm 30 and never had a girlfriend

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 2644 days ago

10 January 2009 (M) - I am 30 (just) and I have never had a girlfriend. In fact, I have never even kissed a girl or lost my virginity. It is not something I like to broadcast as everyone I know is in a relationship or has been in one, and it makes me feel inadequate. I ...

We like each other but he's my boss

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5588 days ago

10 January 2009 (F) - I have like this guy for a while we work together and soon he found out. i was ok when he didn't know because the only thing i knew is that i like him but now i know he likes me too. when some one tells you that or you hear that from someone you ...

How can I stop these negative thoughts and just be happy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

10 January 2009 (F) - I keep feeling a bit depressed.. my bf and I have been together nearly 2 years, I love him and I know how he feels about me but he seems to treat me like one of his mates rather than a gf. I'm not sure how I'm supposed to be treated technically but ...

Want to speak to my boyfriend but can't...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

10 January 2009 (F) - My partner has been fairly supportive for a number of years but I am angry with him as are relationship is not moving on. I have two children for a previous and one for him. I am very independent with my own property and job. My mother died ...

Facebook question.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

10 January 2009 (F) - HI:) My boyfriend and I are friends on facebook. When I look at his profile it says that he has been tagged in 17 pictures but when I click to see them I am only able to see 11. Has he prevented me somehow from seeing the rest? how and why? He ...

Where can I meet some curvy latinas on the internet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

10 January 2009 (M) - Where can I meet some curvy latinas on the internet? =P...

Should I pay off the $1500 she is after?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

10 January 2009 (M) - About a month ago my long term partner of two years told me she "loved me but was not in love with me" and called the whole thing off. This was the day after thanksgiving where we had been planning next years christmas trip and also firming up ...

He bit my tits and now I have red specks all over my nipples. Is this dangerous?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

10 January 2009 (F) - I don't care if this may be stupid, but I really want an answer to calm my nerves. My boyfriend and I had some fun today and he bit my tits, that was about 6 hours ago and I checked and there are red specks like all over my nipples, should I worry? ...

Can having anal sex get me pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

10 January 2009 (F) - Ok, I need a little help. I'm 16 and have tried anal sex with my boyfriend. He got it in a little and we did it for a couple minutes but it hurt too bad so we stopped and gave up. He never came... my question is could I get pregnant from this since ...

Help finding a non traditional engagement ring

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

10 January 2009 (M) - Hi, and thanks in advance for any help. I recently have been discussing marriage with my girlfriend of a year. After talking about it with her and finding out that she has been thinking about it also and has the same feelings about it that I ...

Do guys make passes at girls who wear glasses?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

10 January 2009 (F) - Do guys makes passes at girls who wear glasses and have plaits in their hair? needy type girls...

Why is my b/f acting like this?Gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

10 January 2009 (F) - Before my boyfriend and I went out, we were friends, not good friends though. I noticed that he had a lot of friends, most of whom were girls. Then we started small talk and he was always "chasing" me, texting me, writing on my myspace and I noticed ...

Should I tell her that I can't promise her forever!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5591 days ago

10 January 2009 (M) - I'm in love with my GF. she has never told me this outright, but i know she wants to marry me and has envisioned a future of forever with me. how i know doesn't matter but this is the truth. my problem is this: i cannot promise her forever, mai...

I'm confused..like both colleague and my boss!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

10 January 2009 (F) - I've written before about a colleague at work, she's gorgeous and I am seriously attracted to her I'm not sure if she feels anything for me or even if she is straight or not. Since then she has been off work with depression following a number of ...

How often to have contact with g/f & b/f?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

10 January 2009 (F) - I am wondering, how often do people have contact with their bf/gf? And by contact, I don't just mean seeing them face to face, but talking on the phone, sms/text messages, email, instant messages online etc... I liek to have contact with my bf ...

They call me fat, will I ever have a boyfriend?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

10 January 2009 (F) - just wana ask if a girl that is fat..., well they call me chubby, flat nose, w/ big legs...can possibly have a chance to have a boyfriend?...

Inexpensive dating ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

10 January 2009 (M) - So quick question for everybody, i was wondering on some ideas for dates for me n my gf of a year and a couple months??? We are both 19 so i mean we cant really go out to the bars and we have alrady done the dining thing a decent amount. Ummm im ...

I'm 21 want to date a 15 y/o afraid of what people will say

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

10 January 2009 (M) - I'm a 21 year old male.... and I found a girl whom I have feelings for.... the thing is she's 15 years old... I'm afraid to date her because of what people might think. Shes a great girl but the age difference is the only problem... Anything ...

Sick of being alone!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

10 January 2009 (F) - Hello fello aunts and uncles! Im 19 years old, really attractive, smart and outgoing. I have only had 3 boyfriends in my life but never anything serious. 2 of these boyfriends turned out to be players and jerks who only wanted sex and I was ...

We had sex he stopped calling and now he's calling 2X a day?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

10 January 2009 (F) - Ok I have a question, I don't understant men. Hi i'm 25 and have just got back into the dating game. I recently got divorced a little over a year now and have never dated anyone except for my ex husband. we got married when I was 18 and he was 27 s...

I am depressed because I need a man, but really don't want one!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

10 January 2009 (F) - I have a 4 month old baby. The longest I have ever been single before my pregnancy was maybe 1 week. I wasnt with my daughters dad for very long, in fact, we were only together 18 days. On the last day we were together I found out I was pregnant, ...

Which finger does a promise ring go on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

10 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend just gave me a promise ring. I am very excited but did have one question. Is there a certain hand or finger to wear it on? Do you wear it on the left hand like an engagement ring? Or is there no etiquette at all? Thanks in advanced for ...

What does "friends for now - not ruling it out" mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5592 days ago

10 January 2009 (F) - What does this statement really mean "friends for now / not ruling it out" i was told that (a while ago now), we wernt' a couple, it was more casual i guess. He said he felt we were getting to close and he's scared to get close to anyone ...

Conversations with girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5591 days ago

10 January 2009 (M) - Ummm...My girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 months now and for some reason I always have the same problem around her. When I try to talk to her I forget what I wanted to say and end up sounding completely stupid so...How exactly could I find ...

Is she not sexually attracted to me any more? Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

10 January 2009 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 1 year and 3 months. I have eaten her out and she has given me a blowjob. We've been doing stuff like this for a while now but for some reason its just now that she decides that she doesn't feel right doing it and ...

I just need some advice about this situation and about relationships and dating in general.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

10 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 11 months now. In the beginning we took things really slow, we knew each other for about a month in half before we became a couple. We were doing so well until maybe 3 or 4 months into the relationship. ...

I am worried he is going off me as we've been together so long, but I don't know.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

10 January 2009 (F) - hi all, I have been with my fiance 6 years in June and we have always been close and very intimate, we used to have lots of sex even went 23 times one night. About 7/8 months ago my fiance became all strange and we hardly have sex, the last ti...

Am I being petty or could I do better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5592 days ago

10 January 2009 (F) - Any thoughts please... I've been with my guy for about 14 months, and I'm not a money grabber, not in the slightest but I do believe in a little romance. He has only ever taken me out for one meal (the rest we split) and weve never been away for a ...