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writes:My breasts are so small, do guys still get excited when tiny breasts are revealed or would they rather us keep our tops on for sex so they can just use imagination?Once a boyfriend said to me when I was getting dressed"Come on turn round and show me how small your titties are" - I was mortified. He was only joking but I felt paranoid.
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reader, vietgamer45  +, writes (1 May 2010):
All the replies are correct, except for the one who said that the guy was a jerk for asking to see how small your breasts are. If it were I, I would ask also. I am one of the guys who LOVE tiny and small breasts. They are a total turn on for me, but to me, female breasts are bigger versions of guy breasts if you really think about it. The only difference is that the females have bigger nipples and can produce milk and some have bigger breasts. For me, any size larger than B is a total turn off. I know girls who have size A and smaller breasts and they are the girls I would love to date if I were single. I do not like seeing breasts that sag after a while. So, yes, there are guys who love tiny to small breasts like myself. I have a gold mine in my fiancee. When she told me that she did not like her size, I told her that I love her size, just the way they are and I was being very honest with her. Because of what I told her, she feels comfortable with her size. For me, the smaller the breasts are, the better they are. :) They are the best in the world to me!! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2009): you should stop worrying about the sex appeal of your breasts. Normal, non-homo guys should love and appreciate them.
i personally think the next time he says anything like that you should say 'turn around so i can kick you in the balls!'
then be like 'just joking... haha..'
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reader, Replacement  +, writes (3 January 2009):
 I myself prefer small boobs (A or B cup is ideal for me, anything bigger is a turn off but it has never stopped me from sleeping with a girl anyway... just not that picky!). The myth that all men want from a woman is big boobs and a smile is just that... a myth... we want a lot more from women, someone to experiment with, someone whose body we can explore, someone to have fun with, to make love to, to experience pleasure with, to cuddle with afterwards, etc, etc. Don't be ashamed of your small breasts. The big bonus of having small breasts is that they don't sag as much or as quickly as big ones, which only look good for a few short years before they reach a woman's belly button.
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reader, a_decent_1  +, writes (3 January 2009):
 I'd take small breast over huge breast anyday..
Breasts are always a turn on.. Small, big, huge.. They are just treasure..
G'day
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reader, daletom +, writes (3 January 2009):
Yeah, if you've gotten to the point of foreplay then your breasts are either quite acceptable to him or an absolute turn-on. Let him see and enjoy them!
My wife & I can safely tease about her small boobs (34A on a 5'9 frame) but she knows I love her shape just like it is. I think most women (and quite a few guys!) are more concerned about the size and shape of their skin than they need to be, but it sounds like your former B/F didn't understand this. If a similar situation arises in the future you need to let the guy know where the boundary is between tolerable teasing and hurtful insults.
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reader, Ted-ster +, writes (3 January 2009):
Most guys don't care that much; it's the entire package. Yeah, big boobs are great for most, but that's no deal breaker. Besides, he probably alreday had a clue about your breast size before hoping into bed, so that didn't stop him. By the way, you should have pointed and laughed at you former BF's willie, and said wow! that's the smallest willie I've ever seen (true or not)! That would have shut him up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009): It really depends on the guy. Some guys like em big, some like em small others like em really big. I know a guy who only dated very hefty woman cause he said they had really big boobs but the majority of guys that i know it really doesnt matter to them. Its your body and its perfectly fine the way it is and if people cant accept that then they deserve your affection.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009): I have had a guy tell me that mine were too big and he wished they were smaller. Guys don't always want big breasts. The guy who told you to turn around so he could see how small they were sounds like a jerk. You should have said "turn around so I can see how small your penis is." Haha. Guys like breasts, no matter what size. Take your shirt off!
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