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Archived questions from: 5 January, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Tingling sensation after I have sex...

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5 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I recently started having sex on a regular basis, 2 months ago. Often after my boyfriend and I have sex, my vagina has a tingling sensation, like I need to pee and sometimes there's even traces of blood when I go to the toilet.... What's...

I'm tired of feeling like he doesn't want to be with me...

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5 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating a little over a year. We are both in high school as of now and we have always planned to finish off together and then continue to be in this relationship for the rest of our lives. We constantly talk about ...

The World of Hanging Out and Hooking Up

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - “Women need a reason to have sex. Men just need a place.” Billy Crystal, When Harry Met Sally You. You are smart, you are independent, you are strong. You make your own choices about what you do with your body. When you like a guy...

I feel ill...

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5 January 2009 (F) - I think I have a problem. I am still attracted to my partner but we hardly ever have sex and to be fair we take it in turns to say no to each others advances-meanwhile I have developed an unhealthy appetite for pornography. It makes me feel ill ...

Am I next???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years now. I thought that we were both happy but recently he told me that he isn't happy and wants more things to do with his life - I think he is going to change his job, he's talking about joining clubs ...

I dated him for 3 weeks in May 2008, I didn't know what I was getting myself into...

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5 January 2009 (F) - I've asked a ton of questions on here for some advice, but I've never really got the help that I needed. In May 2008, I *unofficially* dated this guy, we were friends first, I was 16 he was 16, but we just didnt want to rush into anything incase ...

I really need help with this urgently before tomorrow (2nd posting) thanks!

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5 January 2009 (F) - P.S. I am only posting again as this is a very important question and I did not recieve enough answers to consolidate the issue. You may be tempted to delete my post despite this P.S. note - but why don't you take into consideration my feelings and ...

Do I keep talking to her even though she doesn't deserve it whatsoever?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

5 January 2009 (M) - My ex and I were together for about 2 years, we were very much in love, we were both each others first true love, and everything was great up until a couple months before it ended. i pretty much made her the center of my life. we did everything ...

I'm scared I'm not big enough for her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

5 January 2009 (M) - I have never had sex but me and my girlfriend want to. I worry about my penis. I measured it and it's 5.5 inches but I'm only sixteen. Her ex was about 2 or 3 inches longer from what I've been told. I'm scared....

How do I get my boyfriend to finger me?

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5 January 2009 (F) - How do I get my boyfriend to finger me? I have tried to bring his hand down there to touch me, but he just stops. What should I do or say to get him to finger me?...

My boyfriend of 6 months just cheated on me on New Years Eve.

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5 January 2009 (M) - My boyfriend of 6 months just cheated on me on New Years Eve. He was out of town for work. The week prior we spent Christmas together with my family and his. The thing is his family is still coming to terms with the fact that he's gay. It was a big ...

Lost My Virginty at 14, Help!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - I just moved to a new city same state. At my old school I was just getting involed with boys. I was in 7th grade then. And now I am in 8th and I moved here over the summer.So Im in 8th grade now suopose to be in 9th. But lately I have been making ...

Should I play around like this after the fact that I don't want to have oral?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - I told him at the beginning of our relationship that there would be no oral, but then I said I would do it with him this week. I don't know what to do. I don't feel comfortable doing that, and I'm a minor, and he is an adult. Should I play around l...

My man says he loves me, but we are not really "we."

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5 January 2009 (F) - My man says he loves me, but we are not really we. I am postponing my yes to him, cuz I can't get caught with him, and he wants to make us offical. We were together, after 2 weeks apart today and he was being a butt hole cuz he won't let me touch hi...

Past bites... still sore.

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5 January 2009 (M) - I have had a torrid time breaking up with my ex-love. She broke up with me, because her ex-boy friend had come back. I was very serious about her. It took me three years to get her to tell me a yes. I had in fact told my parents that I would be...

Is there a chance he may be interested in me after all?

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5 January 2009 (F) - I need some advice on a guy, we arranged to go out once but he blew me out, we didn't really speak for a while and lately we have been getting on really well, he has been sending me emails just general chat but when we see each other he doesn't ...

How do I find out if he has true feelings for me?...

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5 January 2009 (F) - How do I find out if he has true feelings for me?..I mean more than just friends. He does things that surprise me..calls me on his lunch break every so often, text, after work late night calls just to talk..nothing sexual. He doesn't ment...

I don't understand our relationship

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5 January 2009 (F) - Ok, I met this guy thru an online dating site. After months and months of talking on the phone..then me being in a serious relationship that he knew about. We still kept in contact thru it all. After the break-up about two months ago, we finally ...

I want to be clever in asking him out..any ideas?

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5 January 2009 (F) - I really have so many worries don't I? Here goes: Just got back to school today and I am certain I want to ask out Tom. I like him, he doesn't have a girlfriend, I don't have a boyfriend and I think he likes me. But I'm not sure how to ask hi...

I want to respark the relationship..any cheap romantic ideas?

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5 January 2009 (M) - I want to respark the flame, any cheap romantic but sweet ideas to help me????...

Did this guy really get scared or was I lied to?

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5 January 2009 (F) - I am so hurt and need some advice. There is a man i went to high school with and we recently went out a few times. Everything was so perfect.He led me to believe that we had something special and that he would only being seeing me. I thought ...

I know he's going to propose, how do I let him down gently? But still keep him with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - Hi I have been seeing my bf since feb (2008) i live with him and am in complete love with him. Im 19 and hes 30 and he makes me happier than ive ever been before.But he is talking about marriage We are going away to Rome and i know for a fact th...

Am I a friend? more? He calls me buddy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - Is he just being polite or is just taking things slow and is interested in me? We go out, we call each other back and forth just to talk, and text. He never mentions his past relationships, nor do I ask. But on these (2) dates he hasn't made a mo...

What do his intentions mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5596 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - I have not seen my friend in 7 months in person since we left for college. He talked to me on facebook aim 20 days go saying I'm sorry for not keepin in contact and I miss you I wanna give a big bear hug and all of that stuff. So on Saturday I ...

Ladies, I need advice on making first dates amazing...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

5 January 2009 (M) - I'd like to think of myself as romantic and sweet! But what do the females think! 1) What would be an amazing date be? (WHERE) Like where would an amazing first date take place? Like your dream date? Haha 2) I'm still young and in School so it'...

How can I tell my parents about my White BF when they're so against dating other races?

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5 January 2009 (F) - I really need some help. How can I tell my parents about my bf? I am black and he's white. My parents are totally against dating people of other races and I know they will be mad about this. How should I break the news to them? I am afraid they ...

Won't be seeing him for six months!! What can I do to let him know I'm still into a relationship?

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5 January 2009 (F) - I met a guy I love over Christmas (I've known him for about four years now) and we really hit it off, flirting wise. I have so much fun when I'm with him and the time flies by so fast. The only problem is that I live in a city that's several states ...

Take the lead and ask him out?

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5 January 2009 (F) - dear,anyone i really like this guy and i think he likes me to but im not sure.we've been friends for about a year.we both have never been in a relationship and im scared to ask him out and he has not even tried. should i take the lead...

What to do when the conversation is awkward

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5 January 2009 (F) - So, if someone you used to go out with invited you out but the conversation was awkward what would you do? Like it seemed like he wanted to be around you be really nervous? He asked me again this week but I don't know if i can keep hanging out if ...

We tongue kissed could I be pregnant?

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5 January 2009 (F) - hi im 13 turning 14 but i havnt had my perios 4 a long time...i had it like in october and now it 2009 january 4 and i havnt had sex im still a virgin..im kind of worried bcz i have aboyfriend and all i ever did wuz just kiss him..yea it wuz tounge ...

What do I do and who do I chose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - I have a bit of a dilemma. I am in love with two guys. Guy number 1 I went out with once for a year but we broke up because he cheated on me. After a couple of months he came back to me and kept apologizing. We got back together but we broke up ...

Do women find men drinking beer on a date unattractive?

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5 January 2009 (M) - Hi, I'd like some advice from the ladies, please! Very simply - do women generally find it unattractive if a man's drinking beer on a date, or even at a social event? My female friends tell me this is the case, and that I should switch to wine...