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Dating: Help and advice

Money is keeping us apart.... any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - I'll try and condense what could be a remarkably long essay type question into a simple straightforward well question. Roughly about 2 years ago I started speaking to a man online. Time flew by, my feelinigs grew for him, his feelings grew for me... ...

I love her..but know she's not the one!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

1 January 2009 (M) - ive been dating my gf now for a year and two months. we've broken up 3 times before. it feels like everything is okay except now i know she's not the one for me. i can have good times with her and she helps with the bad at times but in the long run ...

3 guys, and I'm not sure which one to go after!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

1 January 2009 (M) - New Year = New Start - - Should I make it a brave one? towards the back end of 2008 i found myself in a right muddle!! Theres this guy at work that i really do like i like him sooo much the problem being he knows how i feel and has said that he...

He says I ruined his New Year and now I feel so guilty and don't know how to make it up.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for 2 months and after a month of being together he asked me to spend New Year with him. The plan was to get ready together, go to his best friend's gathering (there were about 6 of his best friends there) then go to a ...

My guy friend is so overprotective of me! What is up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

1 January 2009 (?) - I have a guy friend whos really protective of me, and he always tells me not to hang out with certain guys or if I mention a guy he doesn't like he always calls the guy an idiot. I'm kind of getting tired of it, he doesn't even want me to like his ...

How can I get this guy to see I'm not shy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - I like this guy who is a friend of a friend. I've know him for about three years, but in that whole time I've probably only met with him 7-8 times maybe. Not a lot anyway. I talk to him on IM sometimes too. But the thing is this, I spoke to him ...

How can I live with the guilt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

1 January 2009 (M) - My best mates has been going out with a long term mate of mine for over 4 years. We are all good, long term friends, including my bf (and yer I am gay), well all get on really well as a group. But one night me and my best mate's gf went out with ...

Five Languages of Love...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - My bf and I have taken the Five Languages of Love quiz and his is Acts of Service. I got a 0 for that one as I hate when people do things for me and I hate chores. How can I give him acts of service when I hate to cook, clean, do laundry, etc.? ...

How can men be so cruel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - How can men be so cruel sometimes? How can they act like the love someone and then dump them a week later like they dont even matter and as if they are just something they played with and threw away? I mean aren't we all people and should be treated ...

Do I respect his wishes and just see what happens?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5599 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - After sending him a really nice email, how i feel about him having a photo of his exwife and her contact details under the name sweetheart on his cellphone. They were married for 2 years and have been devoiced for 2 and half years now, she ran off ...

How long does it take for implantation to take place?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - Ok, here goes my story... My bf and i had unprotected sex last night and again this morning. It is now approximately 18 to 20 hours since it happened. I know i was suppose to ovulate the day before yesterday but i never noticed any stretchy mucous ...

What does it mean if my boyfriend and I don't have sex as often as we used to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - What does it mean if my boyfriend and I don't have sex as often as we used to? He says he is so tired lately but for some reason I feel like he isn't as interested or attracted to me. We don't live together, and we are both 19, if that is any help. ...

How can I make my boobs less saggy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

1 January 2009 (?) - My boobs are really droopy and I don't want to show them to my boyfriend. I can't even look at them myself. How can I make my boobs less saggy? I know why they are like that, I yoyo diet, and I want to lose weight again but whenever I do my boobs ...

I need some advice please about my ladyfriend's vaginal odour.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

1 January 2009 (M) - Hi, I need some advice please about my ladyfriend's vaginal odour. I only get to see her about once every couple of months and we have a good sexual relationship in the short time we're together. However, on my last visit a few days ago, I was about ...

Why does he silence me?

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1 January 2009 (F) - Well, whenever we go out or are at family members, why is that when I speak or wait to raise an opinion he silences me, why does he do it? Could he like it when his women are seen and not heard? Or do I make no sense when I speak? ...

I feel like I have to act cautiously or else I might mess everthing up again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5599 days ago

1 January 2009 (M) - I had my girlfriend over at my house yesterday and my parents were home. We wanted to fool around but couldn't in my house (for fear of noise), so we told each other we would have our way with each other somewhere else later on. We teased each other ...

Should I try to set up something romantic?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

1 January 2009 (M) - Lance Corporal Conway USMC: If a female that you are seeing says that she is still sorta having this feeling for another guy, but she does like you a lot, would setting up a night of romance for just you two be a real good idea for getting her ...

I think he likes me but I'm not sure

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5572 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - please help me? i like his boy for about two months now, and he likes me as well, i think. we have went out before but about four times. he says to all his mates that he really likes me but to my friends he says he doesn't. but i think he does ...

Confused between feelings for b/f and cousin

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5598 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - hey i have a bf who is 17 and he has a cuzin that is the same age as me 14 i have met him loads of times i see him every time im with my boyfriend and well the point is i kinda like baida more hes funny nice caring and understands me more we meet up ...

He mailed our friend about our sexual experience

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - I've been dating a guy, who's 37, for about 5 months, he says that he loves me and things have been going well. A mutual friend told me he emailed her giving her very specific details of the last time we had sex. I thought making love was ...

I'm attracted to jerks!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - i am attract to jerks,who treated me like dirt who are selfish,mean,arrorgant,indepdent,shallow,ambitious,competitive,aggresstive,domneering,intimating,boastful, who only get a girlfreind when ever its suits and to show her off.when its suits or...

How can I make it better re sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I enjoy giving my guy hand jobs and pleasuring him, and he likes to put his penis betweeen my boobs, what is the best position to do this (especially if we don't have anything to sit on), and how do I make it better for him, e.g do I squeeze ...

Am I being too sensitive???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

1 January 2009 (M) - Hey everyone, Q: So basically my question is am I being too sensitive? This problem actually just occurred at the turn of the new year 2009! For some background information, my girlfriend is at her friend's place in a house surrounded by l...

Is He Settling?? Ugh, Help Me Please!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - i have a really confusing problem. I've just started dating this guy that I've been practically in love with for a year. He's sweet and charming and nice and handsome and I'm sure that I've never felt anything like this before. He's a true gentlemen ...

This quiet boy is so hard to read!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5600 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - I had a guy in my class all term and thought he was very attractive without making any moves. Then after the last day, I described him to a friend and he seemed very convinced that he was interested all along. He sat very close to me and sometimes ...

How do I have sex with her without making it obvious that's what I want?

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1 January 2009 (F) - I am a lesbian. I made a new friend about 3months ago. At first she was interested in my other lesbian friend. At that time, I just broke up with my girlfriend. She was always there for me. We called each other some times and flirt. Until 1 night wh...

Help me understand "dating/talking"...?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

1 January 2009 (M) - Please help me understand "dating/talking"... Kind of a stupid question, but i've been talking with this girl lately, and we've become pretty close. Problem is that she doesn't want a relationship, but i do....I respect and understand her p...

How can I get my beautiful, older girl?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

1 January 2009 (?) - i am 16 and really like this girl who is 18. she is gorgeous, popular, and athletic. i play sports as well. we have never talked before or anything and she is a senior. any thoughts on how i can get this beautiful girl?...

Should I leave this relationship or wait till he screws it up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - okay, me and my x have started back dating and have been dating for about 2 weeks. the thing is i never get to talk to him, he is not a phone person so i never get to see or talk to him unless i go stay the night with him. my mom only lets me stay ...

Should I kiss her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

1 January 2009 (M) - I have to make this quick because the girl I'm writing about is coming over in just a few minutes. I've known this absolutely amazing woman since we were just in diapers and I started falling for her in freshman year of high school. We're now both ...

I can't figure out what women want!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

1 January 2009 (M) - ok so I am a 19 year old guy who is very frustrated. I am pretty good looking with my life in order. I have been through 6 relationships in my life. And this is basically how they have all gone: the girl and I fall in love, we love each other very ...