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Archived questions from: 17 January, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

There's always an excuse not to meet up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

17 January 2009 (M) - hi i have fallen for a girl at skool and she says she really likes me too and wants to go out with me. But she says she wants meet up more first. Which i'm fine with. But when i ask if she wants to meet up she always says that shes too busy or has ...

He makes the dining that much finer..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - Ok, so here's my dilemma: For about the past year or so I've started to like this guy who works at a restaurant I go to quite frequently. I think he (and possibly some of the other employees there) may be catching on that I like him. But I just ...

No girlfriends allowed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

17 January 2009 (M) - i am 15 years old. my parents dont approve of me having a girlfriend. i love this girl incredibly. they told me to breakup with her but i wont. please help me. i dont want to disrespect my parents. but they are not letting me see her and they are ...

He won't date me because he says he's an arse!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5584 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - Hi, hopefully you'll will be able to help me with my conundrum. :) I've known this boy for a year and I fancy him (he knows). He's admitted to liking me a lot too. We flirt like crazy all the time. Recently though, he said something that's...

Why do guys says one thing and then don't follow through?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5584 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - Hiya i really like this boy, weve spoke a few times but not loads. We kissed in a club n he asked me to go back to his but i said no.. couple weeks later he text me saying what u up to etc..then i ran out of credit so didnt text back.. I text hi...

I don't wanna lose her....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

17 January 2009 (M) - A few days ago, my gf and i were at school for this activity, and one of her friends was leaving, so then i said "go kiss and hug and say goodbye" So my girlfriend thought i told her to make out wif her friend, and told her no, just give her a ...

Full blown fishy fanny!!!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

17 January 2009 (M) - My girlfriend is 15... and I recently engaged with her... but after my fingers STUNK OF FISH. I'm not talking a little, I mean full blown fishy fanny! What do I do??? I can't go round with smelly hands :( Thanks :)...

I love my boyfriend but he's not big enough for me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3976 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a while now, and I really really like him. Everything in our relationship is perfect, except for he has a tiny penis (3" when erect) which cannot satisfy my needs... I don't want to lose him but do ...

How should I bring it up to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

17 January 2009 (?) - Ok so I have been seeing this guy for a little over two months. We have been texting every day, once in a while we'll talk on the phone and we rarely see each other. He lives about 30 minutes away from me. I would like to see him more often, but to ...

They're both really sweet... who to choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - ok hi :] I'm 15 and I'm going out with this guy and everything is or was going great until I met this guy now I'm sure that I love my bf but every time I'm with this other guy I feel so good and I think that there might even be friction between this ...

Not seeing one another enough and it is affecting our relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5584 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - I'm 19 years old and have been with my boyfriend who's 22 for nearly 6 months now. We have a great relationship, we're both very affectionate, loving and caring towards one another and we make each other laugh, infact ive never been so happy in a ...

3 boyfriends and don't know who to choose...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5584 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - I have a problem, I have 3 boyfriends two are english and one is italian and I don't knoe whst to do because I really like the italian one but all my friends say that I should just keep going out with them all but I really like him what should I do ...

Just Friends.....????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5584 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - Hey Aunts. I have a short question. Me and my boyfriend live together, and had a party last night. I invited one of our mutual friends (who happens to be his ex girlfriend from like 5 years ago-not serious or anything)and she told him she didn't w...

Taking a break...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - We have been together for 7 months. we were doing so great!!! but things happened and he want to juvi for a day becasue he got caught tagging. but he says he needs space,time to think. he thinks he's bad for me and he says he sould let me go so i ...

Any meaning behind intimate texts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - Do text messages mean anything? I am seeing a man who rarely shows his emotions. Yet when he has been texting me lately his texts seem a bit more intimate! - Is this just to keep me interested or do text messages really mean something?...

Am I giving out the wrong vibe?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - Please can you help me? I am not having much luck with men!!! Th ones that do wanna know are just mily after sex and quite honestly, I`m sick of it. I have been told that I am quite pretty and easy to get on with. The thing is though, men star...

I just don't know how I can stop pressuring him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5584 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - I was with my ex for 4.5 years and we broke up 4.5 years ago. (Ironic, I know.) Anyway, the reason we broke up at the time was because I was only 23 and couldn't be in a serious committed relationship anymore. We really didn't have a "bad" ...

I messed up with my girlfriend, and now she's overly sensitive and paranoid of nudity

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

17 January 2009 (M) - I'm a 30 year old man. I've finally found the woman I want to spend my life with, and I think I f***ed it up. When I first met her, she made it very clear that watching porn would be a deal breaker. And I wanted her badly enough that I agreed wi...

I love my boyfriend to bits.... but he's really bad in bed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4675 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - Ok I posted a question a couple of days ago about my boyfriend. Basically he's the nicest guy in the world and we really get on, he's really snuggly and everything but theres a catch, he's really bad in bed. It started off me just thinking he was ...

I want him to think its his idea to kiss me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5584 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - hi i really want my bf to kiss me but i dont want to tell him this so how can i get him to kiss me without telling him ...

I'm secretly dating waiter at restaurant we frequent

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - hi i am going out with this waiter from a restaurant near me but no one knows and last weekend i went in there with my mum my best mate and her mum and he was there and my mate fancied him and she kept starring and that when he went by and we are ...

He wants a 2 week break! If I haven't heard from him by Tuesday do you think it is best to contact him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - Hello everyone My break is almost over with my boyfriend. We have been going out together for 4.5 years. He broke up/went on a break with me 2 weeks ago saying our relationship is just going round in circles, that he is unhappy and doesn't want...

Hey aunts... your advice worked!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - I am 24 years and in a relatioship of 5 years, due to the advice I got from one of my questions I asked lately concerning wanting to get married. My fiance is now serious about settling down and he's sharing his plans with me about getting married. ...

My ex hates me... but we still have a connection?!? Someone help me figure this out asap!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5585 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - Hi! So here's my story I would like to know what other people think. So my 'ex' and I were almost together for a year, we've been broken up for 5 months now. At the start everything was okey...i had another ex still up my butt trying to make ...

Guys used to line up to date me but now I'm pregnant I'm getting rejected.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - So my baby's daddy left me an broke my heart an he's dating an ugly chubby chick now. I'm 7 months pregnant and can't find a guy to date. Guys used to line up to date me but now I'm pregnant I'm getting rejected. How can I get a boyfriend? ...

If you loved someone and it didn't work out, would you always love them but in a differnt way even if it's not romantic any more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5585 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - If you loved someone and it didn't work out, would you always love them but in a differnt way even if it's not romantic any more? or would you just care! I'm having a hard time understanding as I'm 7 years younger than my partner, we have a daught...

I fell out with her because she was better at shooting than me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5585 days ago

17 January 2009 (?) - My girlfriend and I went to this summer fair (I live in Australia) and we started playing this ball game when you knock down milk bottles. I was horrible at it, I couldn't make a shoot so my gf grabbed the last ball and knocked down some. She even ...

Why is she being so distant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

17 January 2009 (M) - Hello guys.. I need some advice lately my GF is being distant from me.. I mean the other day her car was fucked up she has to pay a ton of money and all.. I mean i try and help her (i don't like giving up or giving in must be my pride) So anyway all ...

I cheated on her with men because I wasn't satisfied sexually with her and I still saw her as my best friend even though we were dating.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for a year. Previous to this relationship we were both in heterosexual relationships and both have never been with a girl. I personally had many male sex partners she has had a few. We were best friends and ...

Should I tell my friend I like her boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - This is such a clichè question and it annoys me but I might aswell say it. I really like my friend's boyfriend and he says he feels the same way about me. He told me a couple months back that he was breaking up with my friend - she's cheated on him ...

Which girl should I go for?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5585 days ago

17 January 2009 (M) - I'm kind of down on my luck right now and I've kind of got a situation. I can't decide to try to rekindle a spark in a friend or just move on with someone else. Here is my scenario: Girl #1. I went to high school with her. We were pretty good frie...

Having a hard time opening up to my older bf

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

17 January 2009 (?) - I have been talking to this guy, he's 22 and I am 18. The age difference scares me since I have never dated some one that much older that me. He has had two serious relationships and I haven't had any. He also has had sex and me I'm still a virgin. ...

Have car, need girl!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5585 days ago

17 January 2009 (M) - 10, no,12 years for me not having a real relationship. I Know that I came frome, Chile, There was zero chance for me since I didn't own my own vehicle. Now that I have the chance of owning, but not driving it, my own vehicle, why can't I get my o...

Second date and I want to know where its going

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - WEll,here goes.Tonight,I had date number two with this WONDERFUL guy.Im very interested in him,and have taken quite a liking to him.But he is sort of quiet and soft spoken.Im the same way myself.I dont have a problem with that but im wondering what ...

How long do I wait for a ring?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5585 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - Hey, I've been in a relationship for 3 years now with my boyfriend. We met when I was 16, it was quickly love, we're both very serious about each other. After a year I started thinking about getting engaged, I spoke with him. He hinted that it was ...

Caught between the two, don't know what to do!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - I've really liked this guy for some time. But it was only recently that I found out he likes me back. Nothing has happened between us; we aren't even dating yet. Last night I went town with my "friend" who I previously hit it off with in the past...