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Archived questions from: 8 January, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

We were together 4 years. How can she replace me so quickly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

8 January 2009 (M) - Dear aunts, I need help bad, I'm sick of feeling hurt all the time, split from a good/bad relationship in november, not had contact or seen my ex at all but my friends and family seen her a few times and they come and tell me that they seen her and ...

How would I know if he is cheating or has lost interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy for a year now and it's been good for thr most part but I know we are all still human, so my question is how would I know if he is cheating or has lost interest?...

Would a girl be able to fall in love with a guy like that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

8 January 2009 (M) - I've a simple question to all, do you think a gorgeous gal can love someone with following features? Someone: 1. who is shy, 2. who is introvert 3. who can easily become friends with gals but nothing more than that. 4. who is not that cool. 5. ...

How can I pluck up the courage to kiss him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - Hii xx So here's the thing. My bf and I have been going out for a while now and we both would like to kiss but we are kinda nervous about it. How can I pluck up the courage to do the first step? And what should I do to enjoy my first kiss, how to d...

I'm thinking of breaking up with her... but I don't want to...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

8 January 2009 (M) - Hey people, I've been with my girlfreind for almost 8 months now and I really love her, but lately I've been feeling really depressed and have been thinking about breaking up with her without trying to. I don't want to but it just seems like it's ...

Do you think he will miss me....?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5591 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - This guy named James and I went out a while ago. I really loved him but he broke my heart and we were very up and down. He would be nice to me one day but then the next he would be really mean, he would make fun of me call me fat and ugly and then ...

I love him very much but he's a compulsive thief!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5592 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - I'm a 40 year old female so I perhaps should already know the answer to the question however I just wondered if any other readers have experience they can perhaps pass on. My current partner and I have known each other for 21 years, we have an 18 ...

We are 236 miles apart... can this work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - Can long distance Relationships work? (236 miles apart)...

I get laughed at in work cause of my age gap with my partner!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - I am dating a man in scotland who is 19 years older than me, he knows I love him, but people at work take the mick out of me cause I'm 24 and he is 42, what should I do? ...

Do I give her the note I wrote telling her how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

8 January 2009 (M) - So honestly, it's been 2 months but I know this feeling and it's love, me and this girl have gone out for almost a year before and now where back at the 2 months mark, but she just had an ex of 3 years and was really surprised when I started talking ...

My girlfriend is acting, untouchy!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

8 January 2009 (M) - My girlfriend is acting, untouchy? So today my girlfriend was acting rather odd, on the phone last night before she went to work she told me she hearted me, (She nevers says that first) then at the end of our phone convo last night she told me not t...

I know she's lying, how do I handle it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

8 January 2009 (M) - My girlfriend is insisting she does not talk to this certain ex-boyfriend of hers. She said they haven't talked in a LONG time. She said this earlier today. Now, I know that is a total lie, that they had an AIM conversation two days ago and tal...

I really like him but I'm scared of getting rejected again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - Hi Im 14 years old nearly 15 like every teenage girl i ave a crush on a guy in ma school hes in the yer above me n 2 years older. i meet him at 1 of my neighbours (who is also a good friend of mine) 18th birthday party. at the time i th...

Are we dating or just hanging out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5591 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - Ok, I've been talking to this guy for months and months..we get along just great. He finally asked me out and he says, "I don't drive. I got a DUI." Sorry, but I was a little dissapointed and I blew him off a couple of times. Then, I was li...

Does he not like me or am I being irrational?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5592 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - Hey everyone, well I'm not that good at this relationship game, first guy i was with cheated, 2nd texted/ called all the time, every day.. and so on. Anyway I met a guy in ton last Sat and i gave him my number, he text me first 3 days, then misse...

Should I keep her???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

8 January 2009 (M) - Hello dearcupid. Yesterday I spoke about dirty text messages on my girlfriend's phone, most people told me either to give her an ultimatum, or just dump her. The only thing is through what I've seen would I be a mug to see if I can get past this, ...

My boyfriend has just found out that he is father to a 3 month old baby!!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, I've been with my boyfriend 6 months and he has just found out that he is father to a 3 month old baby. He had a brief fling with the mother last april and stupidly they were careless and ahd unprotected sex. The baby was born 3 ...

I'm in love with my boyfriend but I'm getting married to his best friend. What should I do???

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - my mom picked out a guy for me to marry. she asked me if I loved someone.... I told her about my boyfriend but my boyfriend of 2 years says he's not ready to get married and wants to break up. I was devastated. My mom says I have to get married by ...

I'm lying to her to save her feelings...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend went to my friend's house for a drink with her and her boyfriend. We all got drunk and my boyfriend went and got in a bed upstairs and went to sleep, and my friend also went to sleep, I was left up with her boyfriend who I had ...

Sexy Time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - Hey, I have been on a weeks course of antibiotics, 4 250mg ones a day, and I stop taking them tomorrow. I am going to my boyfriends on Sunday and he'll probably want to have sex because it's been so long since we last did. I am really concerned as ...

His g/f works 3rd shift, he's got another woman

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - hey aunts...i need you to help me decifer something...my friend and i are trying to understand why his girlfriend continues to work a 3rd shift job. she has worked on and off 3rd shift for almost 10yrs. he is very upset at the fact that she does ...

Is he trying to give me the cold shoulder?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5592 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - I really need some help, i am 16. One of my friends set me up with a guy, we got on really well, and when we said goodbye he kissed me, then sent me a txt asking me out, appogising for not asking me out in person. We talked on msn, and he was all ...

She touches me, sings to me, does she like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5592 days ago

8 January 2009 (M) - ok im new here and i have been searching for some answers in my problem..please help me. im a boy..17 years old and i have been dating someone i just met past 2 weeks ago. i met her in a bar in she was really gorgeous and she was 17 too. i asked ...

Is being in a relationship a bigger distraction than being single?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - I just got out of a relationship 3 weeks ago. I was dating him for almost 10 months. I dated a loser who was a pathological liar.. and i fell in his trap. The only thing he did not lie about was his love for me. He fell in love with me, he took my ...

Guys!! What is your 2st reaction when you find a girl has a crush on you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - my question is for a guy's response, so help me out if you can. I want to know what the first reaction is to most guys that find out a girl has a crush on them. Are they happy that someone has a crush on them or do they immediately jump...

Losing the nerve to contact him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - Hey everyone! Met a guy over xmas, and we've been emailing everyday. We did swop numbers... and I really want to text him, but when it comes to putting his number in... I lose my nerve? Am I crazy? I just keep talking myself out of it! Any advice? ...

Have I forgotten how to maintain a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5592 days ago

8 January 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm feeling a little concerned. I'm 20, and I have dated four women in my life (or three depending on how you see it). My first love was long distance and our relationship lasted two years before her desire to go to university broke us up. It ...

Broken up but I want her back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

8 January 2009 (M) - Hi, I have been into relationship with my girlfriend for the last four years. I never knew( neither she told me ) that indirectly i told her to do stuff she doesn't want to do ( like going out with guy friends, talking to unknown guys on phone, t...

Girls Girls Girls please help

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

8 January 2009 (M) - Question to girls, do you find guys that wear tight pants attractive??? I'm not talking about the super emo tight pants but something that hugs the body at least??? And why do you find it attractive???...

How can I keep strong and leave my abusive man once and for all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - How can I keep strong and leave my abusive man once and for all. Two years ago my man asked if I would give him a 10 day excursion with his ex girlfriend because he said he loved us both (long story) and couldn’t decide which one to chose. I beg...

My boyfriend pushes me away when I'm the one who can help...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend lives with his family (mother and sister) and everyone has to pay rent at their house. He recently had a birthday, took a week off, but requested vacation time. They didn't give him that, so he was unable to come up with his half of the ...

I still love and need him so much... but I broke up with him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend today. I told two people what happened and they agree that it was the right thing to do but inside I feel like I just want to be with him.. he's such a jerk to me about this and he said either we're together or we don't ...

I never want to fall in love again!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - I never want to fall in love again! My first boyfriend and love broke up with me after 2 years. He had issues with my past. I don't know how many times I've typed this. But this was just the final straw. In the past I had a friend with bene...

Please help, I feel that our relationship is disintegrating.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - My fiance is a truck driver and is gone except on weekends which means home Friday night or early Saturday morning and leaves on Sunday. We have had some problems in the last year but I thought we had worked our way through them but now he is ...

Does he want to be with me or her???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5593 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - Me and my ex broke up a while ago because he cheated on me, yeah I know it's bad but like he was with her for a few weeks and she didnt let him talk to me even as a friend. Recently, the day before new years eve he called me saying things are done ...

What to do so no one gets hurt

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - Okay so I have a great boyfriend he is the total opposite of me and its all good. He is the nerdy type and plays video games on the computer which kinda bothers me but not enough to cause anything. And he adores me and treats me sooo good. So anyway ...

I played hard to get and now I think its too late

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5593 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - I met this boy at a party and we talked for almost the whole night and he seemed he liked me and I know I did. I had heard of him since he was this really popular girl’s ex but I never see him at school because the popular people have their ...

I am in an awful mentally, abusive relationship. I am very unhappy and really want to be out of it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - I am in an awful mentally, abusive relationship. I am very unhappy and really want to be out of it. I really don't know where to turn to or how to get out of this hell hole I am in. I have asked my boyfriend to leave but he won't, he keeps saying we ...

Heart broken and I need help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend left me on new years and I was with him for four months but we really just clicked ya know? Well he goes to my school and I have gym class with him. I have tried to be just friends but it's too emotional for me. It's hard to get ...

Trapped between a current boyfriend and an ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - I am still in love with my ex and he loves me, but I am in a new relationship. I dated my ex., who I will call S. for 4 years. He was my college buddy/studio partner/best friend/boyfriend. We essentially spent just about every day of the 4 years ...

He thinks like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - Hello everyone, My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while now and I have already told him that I want him to be my first. We are waiting until we have gone out for a year. (So it will be legal, and I know everyone is thinking it; We ...

Should I believe him that he is not gay or is this a huge warning sign?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5593 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - I caught my boyfriend of almost a year sending a naked pic to another man. This came as a huge surprise because before this he has always seemed extremely attracted to me and wants to have sex all the time. He is kind of emotional and feminine in ...

My relationship seems to be going into meltdown at the moment.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

8 January 2009 (M) - Hi I wanted to get some advice because my relationship seems to be going into meltdown at the moment. My girlfriend and I have dated a for nearly 2 years over the last 3, (we broke up after a year and got back together again last year). The pro...