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Dating: Help and advice

I really don't know what to do there's 3 years of a difference between us and now I feel folk will talk about us for the year gap

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2 January 2009 (F) - I really like this guy who has a child but I used to go with him a couple of years ago and when we split he got into a relationship a couple of weeks later which he was unhappy in but within a few weeks his girlfriend announced she was pregnant what ...

How can I make my boobs bigger???

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2 January 2009 (F) - How to make your boobs bigger ??? I'm 13 and my boobs aren't very small they are actually not bad and my bf everything was gud he is one year older and a lot of girls like him but he always loved me cause he knows me well and we were together 8 ...

Any information about making the experience of sex beautiful, satisfying, and pleasing for her?

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2 January 2009 (M) - Ladies, Can you reply? I have been seeing a woman who is more than years older than I am. I really like her and would really like to experience sex with a more mature and experienced woman. And in particular I would like to experience sex w...

I need help from the girls!

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2 January 2009 (M) - Hey this question is short and to the point for girls... why do you guys wear the kind of underwear you do??? I'm wondering because my girlfriend is really plain with her underwear so I don't know how I can change that or even if I can!...

I'm shy when it comes to sex even though I desperately don't want to be.

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2 January 2009 (F) - I've been having sex for about 5 months now with my boyfriend who I love more than anything and don't regret one minute with, but when we do have sex, he's always on top, he desperatley wants me to go on top and try other positions but I feel ...

I can’t just be friends because I’ll always want more.

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2 January 2009 (M) - My girlfriend split with me 3 months ago because she says I couldn’t talk to her and that made her worry about what future we would have. We’d been together for over a year, been through some hard times with exs and stood by each other no matter ...

End it or not?

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2 January 2009 (M) - I am in love but the thing is I have suspicions on my girl. I think she goes and sees her ex, you see she did that to one of my close friends but says it was payback for something. I find it hard to trust her at times but at other times my trust ...

Why is he playing games?

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2 January 2009 (F) - So I have this friend I've known for a few years. We're constantly in and out of one another's lives and most of our relationship is on the phone. I have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend but we do a lot of flirting and seem to love tlking a...

How do you know when a relationship is over???

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2 January 2009 (F) - Hay guys, advise please. I found out 2 months ago that I was pregnant (5 months to date) and I'm not entirely sure if I want to be a mum. Don't get me wrong I don't want to get rid of the baby it's just that I'm not sure if I want to be a mum - ha...

I am worried about my relationship, what should I do?

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2 January 2009 (M) - hey guys, i have a girl i love so much. she is muslim and am chirstian so it took a long time for us to get along. i gave her all the time she needed to think about it when i told her i wanted a relationship. she eventually agreed. after almost 2 ...

Do all the signs point to him liking me?

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2 January 2009 (F) - hey, i like this boy for about a month and a half, and i really like him and he likes me back too, i think. He always comes to speak to me at lunch, told me to take the 'shortcut' home when really it took longer, and he tells his friends he likes me ...

Guys, girls, I need your insight on my situation with my longtime crush.

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2 January 2009 (F) - Hey. I'm a common 18 year old girl that has been plunged into the depths of lovesickness! I'm in desperate need of love advice - so please help me if you can! Here's my question... Ever since I was 7, I've really REALLY liked this guy tha...

Should I call him or his friend???

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2 January 2009 (F) - So my boyfriend and I broke up on the 28th after a really happy day together full of cuddling, laughing, and watching tv...but that night he said "lets just be friends" I was so confused and upset...he says he still likes me...and I really like hi...

What could this guy be thinking?

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2 January 2009 (F) - We were good friends for a long time. then we got involved. We still hang out from time to time. I think he might be seeing someone now, though he's only seeing random people and no girlfriend that I can think or know of. he says he wants to go do...

I'm terrified of talking to guys - how do I start interesting conversations?

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2 January 2009 (F) - I really need a kick start here in terms of my non-existant social life. Basically... I have always been shy, its just in my nature, but have made a few good, close friends. But now we're at the stage where everyone wants to go out and party. I...

My girlfriend and cousin don't get along, how can I fix this?

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2 January 2009 (M) - Hi all, My girlfriend is so amazing and i messed up. My cousin doesnt like her and told me she saw my girl friend with her ex, well it was a lie and i found that out after i chewed her out. What do i do? yesterday the 1st made 7 months, i...

Too many guys, what do I do? Who do I choose?

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2 January 2009 (F) - I started seeing a married man (S)from work four years ago. I don't want to go into details, but when we got together I was suffering from post traumatic stress. He was a good friend and there for me and I guess even though I was only 24 and him ...

I have a foot fetish and my guy hates his feet touched! What should I do?!

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2 January 2009 (M) - Hi, I am a gay man with a serious foot fetish. I started dating this really great guy and I really like him. Unfortunately, he can't stand having his feet touched because they're too ticklish. The only time I got to rub his feet, he kept jerking ...

Does it sound like he geniunely likes me? What are your views on my situation?

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2 January 2009 (F) - Last week I stayed round my friends in San Fransisco (3 hours away from me) who I had met off the internet 3 years ago, and have always been really flirty and sweet with eachother (we have met up 4 times before) but he's had 2 girlfriends in this ...

First date gone wrong - forget him or give him a second chance?

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2 January 2009 (F) - Ok, so I met this guy for the first time..yeah our first date! I noticed a few things about him that I thought were rude, weird, hmmm I dunno you tell me. I go out of my way to cook a nice dinner since everything is closed late NYE. I figured it was ...

I'm a younger girl who is constantly attracted to older men.

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2 January 2009 (F) - So, I've always found older guys more interesting than the ones my own age. I'm 16, and I always seem to find myself looking and thinking about 20-40 year olds. I find myself being, well, more myself around older guys than the ones my age. I was ...

Should I tell him what I feel about him or should I just forget everything?

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2 January 2009 (F) - 2 years ago, I broke up with someone..Well we actually weren't official lovers but we date and talk often and are intimate. You know, that part in a relationship that is complicated and you're somewhere between going up the next level or remaining ...

Torn between two boys - how do I break a heart?

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2 January 2009 (F) - help i am torn between two boys and im only a teenager. i have known this boy a while and he`s my best friend. he helps me out all the time and recently he told me he loved me and wanted to be more than friends. then the other boy came in and swept ...

Mixed signals after first date

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2 January 2009 (M) - ok here goes..went out on somewhat of a blind date that was set up by a mutal friend..it wasn't so much blind b/c we exchanged pics and there was a mutal attraction. the date went great..we laughed and really hit it off..when i got home, she texted ...

I like guy who doesn't talk to me anymore

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2 January 2009 (F) - im 14 and there is this guy who i have known for ages,we have been out before but i dumped him because i over reacted about something, but halloween 2007 i fell out with another friend and now neither of them are talking to me but i want to make ...

My boyfriends best friend wants to date me, now what?

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2 January 2009 (F) - okay so here is the thing. i date my current boyfriend. well his used to be best friend called me and left me a message saying he wanted to go out with me, the thing is i've known him for 5 years and i used to be in love with him in 3rd grade! i've ...

14 dating a 23 year old with kids

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2 January 2009 (F) - I'm 14 and my boyfirend is 23. i have know him since i was 5 and we started dating 3 mounths ago. but he has a girlfriend and 2 kids. i am bi and so is his girlfriend and we have had a three some. he says he loves me but i don't know what im getting ...

Says he loves me but won't break up with his girlfriend

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2 January 2009 (F) - Im 16 and he is 21. That isn't the problem though. He has a girlfriend. I have spoken to him about it and the only thing he says is you know how i feel about the situation. He claims to love me but then he doesnt want to break up with his girlfriend ...

He wants to leave his girlfriend for me but I'm scared in case he hurts me again, help!

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2 January 2009 (F) - hi pips, i've been in a relationship with pat(2003) and broke up (2005) it hasnt always been easy,cheats lies and everything i guess we were both young then, we recently got together we both have kids with different partners, the thing is we still ...

Will I always wonder - what could have been?

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2 January 2009 (F) - Cutest story ever. A guy I knew freshman year of high school set me up with his best friend, a sophomore. We "dated" for a month. By "dated," I mean we talked on the phone and went to homecoming together. We never held hands, we never kissed, etc. ...

Telling someone how you feel - say it? Or write it?

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2 January 2009 (F) - f you were going to tell someone how you feel - they've been confusing you so much and you dont know whats going on and you need to explain something about whats been happening with you. is it better to say it to them? or is it better to w...

If a guy was just trying to "score a virgin"... would he...?

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2 January 2009 (F) - This question is more for the guys (lol) (this is a girl that is asking tho) If a guy was just trying to 'Score a virgin', get a 'v-card' or whatever - not nice but there are guys like that!!! lol 1. Would you still keep the girl around ? ...

Why would you tell a girl that you still smile at her pictures?

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2 January 2009 (F) - if you told a girl (that you were seeing, now friends) that you still smile at her pictures and they are very cute.... - what would be your reasons for saying it? just for the sake of it? for a nice comment? telling her you still feel more? no ...

I like the younger brother, but the older one is into me. Help?

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2 January 2009 (F) - I am 14 years old and i don't have the best past with older boys. The situation that Im in right now is difficult for me to figure out what to do. First off the guy that likes me is a senior and I am a freshman. I like this boy who is a freshma...

I'm in love and he's a druggie - did he take advantage of me?

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2 January 2009 (F) - I am 14 years old and no im not exactly sure what love feels like but if i had to guess im pretty sure it would feel the way im feeling about this guy. My best guy friend introduced me to his best friend (the guy i like) and ever since I cant get my ...

Am I overreacting? He slapped me.

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2 January 2009 (F) - My Best friend is a guy and we have been best friends for almost 4 and a half years. A year ago we were at work,and I said out loud how much money he had,even though nobody had heard me, he got mad and lightly slapped me across my face.I got so ...

What should I do about her not talking to me?

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2 January 2009 (?) - My girlfriend is to allergic nuts. One day randomly bumped into her. She lean in to kiss me but I couldn't let her because I had nuts that day and not being aure what her reaction would be. She got upset and before I could explain, she got out of my ...

Should I try to wait on him to come around??

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2 January 2009 (F) - I'm a 21 year old female who is feeling real lost and confused. I have been dating this man for about 3 months now. At first we spent so much time together and went out with each other all the time.I met his family and everything. Then I started to ...

Part of me wonders if he's playing games with me...

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2 January 2009 (F) - I meet this guy online six years ago!!!! and i do care about him with all my heart, but there is a part of me that wonders is he playing games with me!!!! because he never says anything only that i repeat myself over and over and he hates it.I told ...

How do I break it to her?

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2 January 2009 (M) - can men change their minds in one night about love beetween two diffrent girls? cause one night when i went to bed i loved emily but the next morning i loved rowan. so i tolled my mom and she said i talk more about rowan than emily when we w...

Is there a difference between having spark and having passion?

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2 January 2009 (F) - Is there a difference between having sparks and having passion if so what? Thanks in advance...

I'm in love with a friend that doesn't feel that way about me!

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2 January 2009 (M) - So theres this girl that I have been friends with for atleast 3 years and we r best friends. All my other friends know I like her and they are always messin' with me about it. So one day, word got around our little group of friends and she found ...

What can I do to be happy again?

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2 January 2009 (F) - There's a guy who used to live in the same town as me. Now he has moved half way across the country. I know i am a bit young, being still in highschool but there is something about him that after two years i still haven't gotten over him. Sometimes ...

Why am I falling for him and when will he ask me out?

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2 January 2009 (F) - whats wrong with me? why do i like this guy so much. all hes done is ruin my reputation, and stuff. he told his friends he slept with me, and one of them comes up to me and say" you did it for____, why dont u do it for me" i just laughed and walked ...

The thought of him moving on makes me physically sick...

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2 January 2009 (F) - I was dating this guy for one year. During the first week or so of that relationship, he cheated on me with his ex. During the last week, I found out he sent a letter to a girl at work telling her he was falling in love with her. She didn't feel the ...

Should I tell him my feelings or am I wasting my time?

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2 January 2009 (F) - I really like this guy, we met up in the city recently and hung out, had a good time went to the movie and madeout. Its sort of been a little awkward ever since, but i could be looking into it. Then he tells me he hooked up with his Ex over new ...

Why am I still thinking about him after all this time?

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2 January 2009 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend nearly 3 years. I was with my ex 2 years. As soon as i seen my ex i fancied him yet it took my a while to feel the same way for my current boyfriend at the begging as i had just stated seeing him. I feel mean but 3 years ...

Deeply in love...

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2 January 2009 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for about six months,i didn't like when i first met him because felt that he was just too serious,the complete opposite of me according to certain things,so he chased me for more than half a month,before we got ...

How do I have the 'relationship talk' without seeming 'bitchy'?

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2 January 2009 (F) - My long distance boyfriend of two years flew back home yesterday after a two week visit for Christmas and New Year. Because of the extent of distance involved (try me in Australia and him in Europe) whenever we see each other, it is usually for at ...

Does a spark when I kiss him mean we are meant to be together?

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2 January 2009 (F) - when i kss my boyfriend i always get a spark does that mean we were ment for each other ...

Dating a cousin?

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2 January 2009 (F) - I started dating this guy and we fell in love. We have spoken about spending the rest of our lives together. Now we have recently found out that we may be related (although I think it's distant). It has really become our concern since his ...

I push him away because I'm afraid of getting hurt.

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2 January 2009 (F) - I am really scared...because i just realized when i get close in a relationship i have the tendency to push him away. I am not afraid to be in love or staying committed. i just have fear of getting hurt but it looks like i am the one hurting myself. ...

Painful after painful relationship....

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2 January 2009 (F) - hi everyone, I have had 3 painful relationships one after another. The first one lasted nearly 2 years, we were thinking to get married, at least i was, but he cheated on me and left me for another girl. after that i could not overcome this situat...

Why can't he say "I love you" after 4 years of crazy sex?!

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2 January 2009 (F) - Can a man who shows every signs of loving a woman not be able to say "I love you" even after 4 years of crazy sex? I always thought that I could recognize love. I know that many women mistake lust for love...but is it possible that a man may love ...

Is it my fault my girlfriend is throwing up?

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2 January 2009 (?) - I was at my girlfriend's house (alone). We watching a video and making out. She had to go the washroom. 15 minutes later or so I heard something crash in the bathroom. I got worried and went to the washroom. I found my gf was pass out on the floor ...

Should I break up with him? I don't know if I can keep this a secret.

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2 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of three years got a DUI for the third time so they are keeping him in Jail. I haven't had a close relationship with his brother but because of this situation we had been spending a lot of time together. On Christmas eve he came over ...

Does it sound like he genuinely likes me?

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Will a break fix everything or have we just grown too far apart?

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2 January 2009 (F) - I have been engaged to my partner for 5 years, and together for 6 1/2 years. We started dating when I was young (17) and I guess you could say it it my first love (same for him he is 27). We had set a date for our marriage over a year ago but rece...

How do I get through to her and show her this guy isn't good enough?

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2 January 2009 (M) - Hi, There is this girl who I am crazy about and have been for about 3 years now. We are really close friends and have had loads of chances to ask her out but have always chickened out. Now, she is dating someone. More to the point, the...

Will he get bored and leave? All we do is snog!

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2 January 2009 (F) - i want to be able to have fun with my boyfriend. all we ever seem to do is snog,head to the bedroom and thats the end of that. its oring and im afraid he will get as board as i am and leave. any suggestions??? thanks xxx...

I've fallen for the girl I call my best friend!

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2 January 2009 (M) - I've been bestfriend with this girl for a while now and I really have fallen for her! I told her how I felt and she said she felt the same way but if anything went wrong in a relationship she didnt want to lose me. I saw what she meant. Its been 3 ...

How do I get the trust back?

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2 January 2009 (M) - I am 28 and been in a serious relationship for the last 2 years, and have been living together for the last year. We have had alot of issues with fighting and i admit i can have a very hot temper. She travels back and forth to see family where she ...

Has his flirting increased?

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2 January 2009 (F) - Hi, just giving an update about a previous subject I posted on here: I had mentioned that I'm good friends with a former college prof (I've since graduated). I know he's about twice my age, but I don't care cause we get along so well. Below's my...

I don't understand him at all... can someone please help me?

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2 January 2009 (F) - I'm sorry this is so long but it's a bit of a long story. My bf of two years and I broke up in mid-November and there's been some weirdness between me and my ex. Let's start with episode 1 (I'm sorry it's so long but I can't figure out how to ...

Why does my boyfriend treat me like this??

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2 January 2009 (F) - Well where do I start... I'm nearly 19 and i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. When i first met him, i wasn't the one that was keen but the more time i spent with him the more i realised i was falling for him. He was so nice and caring the f...

2 guys dunno who to pick!

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2 January 2009 (F) - re posted as wrong info included! 2 guys dunno who to pick! New Year = New Start - - Should I make it a brave one? towards the back end of 2008 i found myself in a right muddle!! Theres this guy at work that i really do like i like him soo...