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Dating: Help and advice

A year on and he says he's still doesn't know me well???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy for a year now and every time I ask him what's up with us he tells me he doesn't know, he always tells me that he doesn't know me well and he's still getting to know me. What do you think I should do?....

Help, is there more to it or am I making something out of nothing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year now, and we both love each other a lot. However ever since I started being with him he has been very protective over me. I have a facebook account and added someone I knew from school, he got annoyed ...

When we're apart I can get so insecure and jealous...

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11 January 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend with all my heart and I know he loves me too. We have a great relationship, we can on well, hardly ever argue and when we do, sort it out straight away. However, I'm at uni and he works full-time back at home, so we don't get ...

I don't want to love the new guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5588 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - I have been in this amazing relationship with this guy for 2 and a half years. The first year we had a long distance relationship but it worked out and the second year he moved closer same highs chool and all it was great but then at the start of ...

Is it wrong to keep it quiet now that we're so in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - I started seeing a guy a few months back and I thought he was lovely but it was nothing serious. At the time I was still really good mates with my ex and a few times he came round and it felt like we were still together, we ended up having sex and ...

Choked during sex...was it wrong of him??

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - I've been with my overly passionate, subtle and lovely boyfriend for some time now. He's not very spontanous, everything seems like a walk in the park... and almost routine. Last night we had sex. And he started choking me towards the end out of the ...

Will I be able to love anyone else as much as I loved my first love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - A few years ago I went out with this guy and we were together for over a year. We honestly did love each other and we have kept close contact until very recently. The thing is he still loved me even after 2 years after we broke up. I didn't realise ...

She says she cares a lot about me and she does truly like me, but her love for her ex is getting in the way.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

11 January 2009 (M) - So basically we have history we used to go out for a year, after that they started to date for 3 years, the last year of that relationship, he neglected her and she was tired of it, but also feels she's part of the relationship failing too. So now ...

What should I do about him now?

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11 January 2009 (F) - We’ve been together for 3 months.. after 2 months he changed and started been all weird and not calling me much.. he use to call me every day..last time I saw him he got really angry and accused me of cheating on him... saying I am not giving h...

Why do my parents hate my girlfriend? She's a wonderful person!

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11 January 2009 (M) - My g/f and I have been going out for more than a year now. I love this girl so much and the same goes for her with me. We are always on the same page and we know where we want to go with each other. We have been doing long distance for the past four ...

Advice to help a desperate girl out!

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11 January 2009 (F) - To you guys out there, you you ever ask out a girl who is plain looking, overweigtht and crossed eyed. She is in hers 30's, shy, quiet and very nervous around guys. She has no experience at all, not even in the kissing or holding hads area, I ...

Do you find this anappropriate?

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11 January 2009 (F) - ok, so my boyfriend's sister keeps texting him things like "I wanna be your official girl" and stuff like that, and I told him I thought it was inappropriate, and that I'd appreciate her not texting those things to him. He doesn't agree with me ...

My boyfriend is jealous but he has no need to be, how can I convince him?

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11 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is jealous of one of my old mates, I love my boyfriend so much, and I never want anyone else, but this lad keeps popping up and he hates him and so do I, but he doesn't believe me. I know he should but he has no reason I've never lied ...

She is having some of the symptoms of being pregnant... could it be possible she is?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

11 January 2009 (M) - Ok so my gf and I are really scared. A few days ago I rubbed my penis against her vagina. I am 99% sure there wasn't any pre cum on my penis because there has never been before. She is having some of the symptoms of being pregnant like feeling sick ...

I think my friend manipulated the situation

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - I met this guy in the summer, before I moved to Ottawa. I had planned on moving back to Hamilton, and he started messaging me on face book after he promptly added me telling me that he was going to drive down with my best friend at the time to get ...

My boyfriend's temper!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - Am a 26yr old girl in relationship with a 27yr old guy since 4 yrs....we both love each other and are looking forward to marry in futre. Problem is his temper n impatient nature over lil things which often leads to fights between us.I dunno how to ...

I like him but while drunk I kissed his friend

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11 January 2009 (F) - Few months ago I realized that I have crush on my schoolmate. I've known him for about 3-4 years and this year is the last year before we go to the university. He has always seemed a bit attractive for me and I suspected he likes me too, but I ha...

Do guys like girls who go horseriding?

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11 January 2009 (F) - do guys like girls who do horseriding or they think girls who horserifing are posh and snobby...

Slept together and now haven't heard a thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - I was out with friends a few weeks ago and i got chatting to the doorman of the bar we were in, we kissed at the end of the night and he gave me his number.we met up a few times after that, we went out last friday night and ended up sleeping ...

There's no spark with my and my boyfriend... much more spark with his friend though.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5588 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for around 2 months yet was friends with him before that and we were fooling around before we were official. He has strong feelings for me and I do have feelings for him and I would hate to break his heart, ...

Help! My boyfriend's porn habit is driving me mad!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm not sure if this post is going to be to explicit or not (I mean, I am speaking about porn and my boyfriend's interaction with it) so I'm going to apologise now before I start typing! I just stumbled across this forum and topic whilst sea...

My biggest fear is having to split up with my girlfriend as I know it would break her heart...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

11 January 2009 (M) - I've been with my current gf for five years. Things are okay, but they're not great. We argue quite a lot, generally nothing major, just constant bickering about me leaving the toilet seat up, she squeezing the toothpaste from the middle, etc. ...

I'm so down and I don't know why... what is wrong with me?

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11 January 2009 (F) - I'm confused! I'm so down and I don't know why. I go to uni, I have friends, I have a BF, I've just been made redundant from my part time job but I hated it anyway, I have been trying for another job but no luck so far but I have my student loan to ...

Is he using me to get over his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - My friend for a while just told me that he's really feeling me. But he has a situation dealin with his ex-girlfriend. He says that he don't know if he's feeling her more or me. I was just wondering if he using me to get over his ex, because that's ...

Boyfriend extremely needy and doesn't trust me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - hi, okay i've spoken to some people about this already, but they are no help and their answers are biased. me and my boyfriend have been together for only 3 months and he's already saying he loves me more than anything and that if i wasn't his he ...

B/f moving away and I don't know how to handle it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5589 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - my boyfriend lives an hrs drive from me but he is moving further south which will make it two hrs drive. he does have to move as that is where the work is, also his son has just started to live with him , so thats another reason why he must move as ...

Am I sell out because I like white men?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - Well for the past 10 years now since I was 14 yrs old, I add an attraction to White guys. Something about them turns me on so bad. I can count on one hand and 1/2 of all the Black and Latino men that I've dated. My friends and family think I'm...

Would you care if they were ill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - If someone you were seeing - not offically, but were hanging out and being intimate - and you did hurt them by not being honest and you are aware of it...because of that you agreed to be friends..and you throw in "friends for now/not ruling i...

I'm confused! Is he playing games?

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11 January 2009 (F) - I feel so confused. Sorry this is so long! About 3 and half weeks ago the guy i was seeing (not 'officially') said that he still smiles at my photos, and that it would "be nice" to get a massage from me. We were only seeing each other casu...

How to chose between 2 guys

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11 January 2009 (F) - i have been dating guy 1 for over a week and i do love him and i do want to marry him. but then again my heart belongs to guy 2. i have known guy 2 for 9 years and he is my best friend and someone who knows me best. i am so confused and lost for ...

What kind of topics do girls like to discuss?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

11 January 2009 (M) - i have a very close female friend. We talk alot, how do i talk to her on a personal level. We talk at least once every 2days and phone conversations last 1-2hours each time. I just want to get closer to her by talking about everything. I don't know ...

He has a gf and I'm heartbroken! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - i have a crush on a boy for almost 3 years. my friends know and asked him to ask me out. just a few weeks ago i sent him a message telling him i didn't tell my friends to ask him to ask me out. then i sent him another message asking him if he likes ...

I couldn't get it up for her! Was I too drunk?

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11 January 2009 (M) - Last night I was about to have sex with this girl that I have been interested in having sex with for months..Im so horny around her and I think about it all the time. Yesterday we hung out and we got drunk real bad.We were on Gin and juice for ...

His ex gf's back! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - i have been dating this guy for almost 3 years we met when i was going though a divorce and after the loss of my 24 yr old son. He really helped me alot. he was separated from his girlfriend at the time. We started off as friends but i fell in love ...

Am I paranoid here...or is he cheating on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 3 months. We have had our ups and down, but who hasn't. I love his guy a whole lot. But, lately, things haven't been adding up. His sister is telling me stuff about him that I rather not have known, ...

She thinks we are just friends but I want to take this to the next step...any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

11 January 2009 (M) - I met this girl in my college 3 months ago in Canada. She now travels to Japan and study. But we still ongoing keep in touch. We wrote email for each other everyday. We have great conversation. We get along very well. We share a lot common. And I ...

I can't stop getting this jealous feeling and thoughts whenever I see my boyfriend and friend hanging out together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

11 January 2009 (?) - So, my boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 3 months,which will be in a few days. We're both 13. We hang out at school mostly all day together. My friend hangs out with my boyfriend every chance she can get at school. Like she'll see ...

What should I do about my boyfriend?

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11 January 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 9 months now but I've known him for 2 years! and I love being with him, I love him so much I think about him all the time!! He lives 20 miles away from me but we still see each other a lot :D 4-5 ...

He wants to pee on me!!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - Hi there! Today I have a strange question.... or maybe not. What should I think about a man who likes to pee on a woman and get horny with it? Is it common? Once again, I think I know it all, but always being surprised... over and over again......

Too late????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5590 days ago

11 January 2009 (M) - Hi, I went out with this girl about a year ago and when she got a little too close I broke up with her. Since then she has been my best friend and slowly I began to fall in love with her. BUT even though she constantly wanted to get back together I ...

How can we get to know each other better?

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11 January 2009 (F) - I feel like my man and me don't no each other well, so I was wondering what are some games we can play that we can have fun with and get to no each other better?...

Should I go?

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11 January 2009 (F) - My situation: I am in my late 20's and have been seeing my man for a year. I am pregnant and despite not being planned we are both happy about it as are madly in love and want to marry and will soon be living together. My outlook: I am no...

Is she faking it or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

11 January 2009 (M) - Hey, I had only had sex a few times before I met my current girlfriend, and these times I have been drunk. Now i've started sleeping with her regularly, I'm noticing I can't last as long when sober. She says she really enjoys it, and orgasms quit...

Could this be a sign?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5589 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - Hi everyone please help me out. I've been dating this guy for two months now, and he constantly keeps joking around about wanting to sleep with my aunt and he constantly keeps saying how sexy she is, when he does it and notices that I'm upset, he ...

Is it okay for your spouse to be overly jealous...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - I really need some help here, I am currently in a relationship of 8 years and counting, when we first got together all was well, until I told a lie about a homey loverfriend, after the lie it seemed like there was not trust there, he began going out ...

Am I just a back-up boyfriend?

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11 January 2009 (M) - I met this girl a little over a year ago.It was honestly instant love.We talked all the time,and slept together a few times(nothing sexual,just kissing,and cuddeling).but the problem was she was seeing this other guy.it went on like this,sneaking ...

In love with 2 guys

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11 January 2009 (F) - I have a major problem. I have a boyfriend and i love him despite the major flaws he has that i can't seem to solve the few issues we have between us. but just lately i've been feeling extra close to my best friend and sometimes he makes me fe...