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Archived questions from: 30 January, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

What are good ways to tease my guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5568 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - What are good ways to tease my guy? We're both going to the mall tonight...trying on some clothes? He wanted to get a little freaky in public, but I'm not ready for sex yet! :-) We've gone as far as very, very passionate kissing and a little tou...

So what do you say to this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - Hi everybody, I'm just writing this to get an idea of peoples reaction to this situation. I see someone most days I go to work and we have a little chat going. I find her very attractive, lovely smile and pretty eyes and she is different...

Is my boyfriend trying to bribe me into having sex with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5571 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - Is my boyfriend trying to bribe me into having sex with him? We had that talk last night and I said, "I wasn't ready." It was cool. But this afternoon he text me something like... a co-worker told me that his wife text him '911 I want sex' And he...

My boyfriend is bi, even gay and likes transexuals.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5571 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 7 years is bi maybe even gay, but he won't admit it, and I'm gutted he wont tell me the truth, we have never really had good sex, but he is a good friend and I do love him, he likes transexuals etc. That's all, he looks at on the ...

I just want to know if I worry for nothing.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I know people are tired of the stupid "am I pregnant" questions on here but mine is maybe something different. I just started having sex with my boyfriend. We use condoms and everything but he pulls out and takes it off at the end and leaves his ...

How do I make my boyfriend more sexual with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I'm 14 and me and my boyfriend are the perfect couple but he not as sexual as I want him to be. How do I loosen him up? And I also want to give him oral. should I?...

Do I have any chance of reuiniting with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5567 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I appreciate all the advice I can get and thank you all ahead of time fort reading and your thoughts. So me and the guy ill call him D had been together for just over three hours and it was amazing, we were so happy and had begun to seriously sta...

I have a boyfriend but I'm a big flirt. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5571 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - Well I'm a thick brown skin 14 year old girl who has a fat butt and medium sized boobs. I get a lot of attention from boys and I love flirting with boys, but I have a boyfriend and he knows that boys always flirt with me but never says anything ...

Should I trust that my online BF really loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - :) i wants too know one thing that i always think about this is for guys! Im a 13 year old girl and ive fallen in love with a boy over the internet we've been together for 2 months and i think hes the 1! BUT! HE KEEPS SAYING HE LOVES ME BUT LIV...

How realistic are my chances with him?

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30 January 2009 (F) - I like my guy friend, J. He has a girlfriend who's going back to Europe in June. He likes her physically but called her a whore and never talks about her to anyone. My friend A also likes J but isn't allowed to talk to him because his of girlfriend, ...

Body language...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5571 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - Body language. I am seeing a guy who when he chats to me - he rarely looks into my eyes or says anything "lovey dovey" - but when I look away - I catch him looking at me! - What does this mean?...

My girlfriend sees me more like her best friend rather than boyfriend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a year and a half and I really love her and she loved me too... But last night I knew something was up, so I asked her. It took a while for her to tell me, but I told here I was here for her. She said I ...

He says I don't need to know anything about his "female" friends!?!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5571 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I have been dealing with this guy for 10 years with 1 year of us broken up. We got back together 2 years ago. I'm not the type of person to give up on a relationship. Today I found that my guy has signed up for single web sites, which i found ou...

How to make her forget how I acted and start afresh, confident and assertive.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5571 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - I need some advice. I have been dating a girl for three years. Half of the time we lived in the same city; the other half has been long distance. The distance has been getting to me. Despite the lack of evidence, I have been: (1) suspecting her ...

When I left the room I heard her kissing another guy--what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - Iv recently split from a long-term relationship and have been getting to know a girl who lives in my building, she used to smile at me and Id always catch her looking at me when I was with my girlfriend, then after I split with my girlfriend she ...

Opinions on using birth control AND condoms!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - My girlfriend has been on birth control for over two years and takes it exactly on time, every day, religiously. She has been tested several times and is 100% clean of diseases. I am also 100% clean of diseases because she is my first and only s...

I'm in love but I suspect my man is cheating, how can I catch him...?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I'm in love but I suspect my man is cheating, how can I catch him...? I can't go through his phone because no one calls and he tells everyone that does call to call him back because he's with me. What do you suggest???...

Should I give this man up or continue to be a goofy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - Hello, I'm currently in a relationship but it seems like every time he wants to be free he tells me "I'm not messing with you any more" but then when he wants to come home it's "oh baby I love you". 9 out of 10 I'm pregnant but I don't think I can ...

Should I keep going with her or just dump her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - I been sorta dating (well starting to) this chick and we hang like all day and shit but she has been sorta like edgy when I try to get close or put me arm around her, I get this werid vibe and she sorta moves away and doesn't like hugs back much ...

I would love to give him oral too...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

30 January 2009 (?) - My boyfriend gives me oral sex but he never asks me... but I really want to do it. What should I do? I'm afraid of what he might think of me if one day after he gives me oral I just bend down and give him oral, what do you think?...

He wants me to be his next baby mom.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

30 January 2009 (?) - Hello, I'm 17 years old and I've been dating my boyfriend since Febuary 22 2008... and it's going on a year. Okay now we have had sex already but we don't have sex very often like maybe 2 times a month and he has a baby. Let me tell the story - ...

Boyfriend talking to another girl on MSN but says there is nothing in it???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - Last week my boyfriend left his MSN open. I went into it and seen that he had been messaging a girl. The messages were not of a sexual nature however he was saying that they must mail in secret so that I would not find out, he was saying how bad ...

I'm hurting... how can I learn to trust him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5571 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I've been in a relationship now for 3 years and now have a 3 month old baby boy who we love amazingly, 3 months into the relationship my boyfriend went away to America and ended up extending it. I did ask if he had met someone else as it was odd, he ...

Still haven't had my cycle yet and I'm beginning to fear I'm pregnant.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

30 January 2009 (?) - Hello I'm 14 years old and I had sex with my boyfriend on January 15 2009 and today is January 30 2009 and I still haven't had a cycle. I'm starting to feel a little different. I really believe I am pregant. Yes I have told my boyfriend and he is ...

Emotional abuser? Or messed up mind?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - Okay, So I've known this guy for about a year now, when we first met, we liked each other, but never did anything about it. About 3 months ago, after being friends for ages, we decided that we wanted to be together, the thing is, we're both stubborn ...

How do I get him to ask me out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5571 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I have known this great guy for about a month and we belong to the same club at school. We flirt, joke and stare at each other all the time. I can tell that he is a nice guy who might be on the shy side at first. Is there any way I could get him to ...

How can I stop feeling pressured about sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - I'm in a new relationship that is going well, however he keeps bringing up sex. He says he has a high sex drive and would like to have sex everyday but that he doesn't have to. I myself have a lower sex drive and i tend to shy away from talking ...

Distressed lover

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for about 3 yrs. When we talk about marriage he tells me that its him not me, and it's not the time. I love him, and I know he loves me. He is always honest with me all the time, and I'm not just saying that because I ...

He proposed, but now he's not sure. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - my boyfiend and i have been going out for about a year and two months everything seem to be going ok but not we are constantly fighting about silly things and i just do not know what else to do.i love him and he loves me and he had proposed to me ...

What does being in a "mature" relationship mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - I know this is a silly question but, What does it mean when someone says that they are in a "mature" relationship? Does that mean they have been together a long time, or something else altogether?...

Should I try to go out with her? Or just forget it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - Hey. Okay, so I like this girl who is senior. I'm a sophamore. Senior and sophamore relationships happen a fair amount in our school (it's a small one), but she seems a bit beyond my uh level... I think she thinks I'm cute, but not in a "I wanna ...

Should I contact this girl even though I haven't seen her in 1.5 years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - A few years ago I met this amazing girl, she made me feel better than I ever thought possible. We fooled around a bit but didn't get serious. The last time I spoke to/saw her was about a year and a half ago and ever since then I have thought about ...

My wandering eyes have got me into trouble, now I like two guys!

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30 January 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend since the beginning of college (over a year). We now live together even though we are still young (19 and 22). I have a problem with my wandering eyes, but this time it has led me into a larger problem. I have feelings ...

I need to understand what this guy is thinking...

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30 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I need to know what this guy is thinking: We met at work, and I noticed a sort of connection. I decided to do a bold move and invite him for drinks. He joined, but had to leave early that day. We started chatting on msn and he asked me ...

My boyfriend keeps texting me about having sex with someone else!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a long time but he keeps texting me saying he can't wait to have sex with another lass and give me awful descriptions of what he is going to do to her. It really hurts me and I try talking to him and he just laughs a...