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Archived questions from: 16 January, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I cheated, should I let my wife cheat now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

16 January 2011 (M) - i have cheated on my wife now iam wondering if i should let her be with another man so she can feel even ...

Virgin and the Future

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - Hello, I am 22 will be 23 in a couple months. I am dating a wonderful guy he is 21 and will be 22 this year. We met last year in Feb at work, he had a girlfriend at the time and would talk to me in getting my point of view on things. She was younger ...

My b/f is going to be an assistant teacher at my school

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4857 days ago

16 January 2011 (?) - Hey, my boyfriend told me that in September he will become a student-teacher at our college. By then we will both be eighteen, but I will probaby do another year at college. This would mean that I would be in lessons he would be helping teach. I...

He doesn't ejaculate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4861 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - Hey, I'd love some advice, esp. from any guy readers, about male ejaculation. I've been with my bf 4 months, see him 3-4 times per week, and everything's going great :) But I'm kinda worried about what happens when we have sex. Our libidos seem ...

Why do many women have the chance to marry more than once in their lives when other none?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - What does it takes for someone (mostly women) who had a divorce or went through a bad experience to get several chances in their lives and marry once, twice or more and happened to find people who want to marry them. There are others who never find ...

You're not then you're cold.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4855 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - I met this guy over a month ago, almost two months ago, and things are pretty confusing. In the past three weeks I've spent more nights at his place than not. We don't have sex every time, quiet honestly we haven't had sex very much at all. I'm ...

Should I be happy that he won?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4826 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - I played chess with my boyfriend 3 times and I lost all of them. My boyfriend is dyslexic (although he is one very talented guy, he loves arts and plays the guitar and piano like a pro) and in school, he's placed in the last class. Me however, I'm ...

Should I keep looking at her when I talk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4855 days ago

16 January 2011 (M) - i go to college in england and i really like this girl there. one of my best friends likes her too i'm not sure how much and my other best friend really likes her as well but none of them know i like her and i am the only one who knows that my ...

Did he think I was a cheap woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - Hello guys, plz i need a sincere advice, i met a wonderful man when we were having a business meeting, and we started texting right after the meeting and decided to meet the next evening before i leave town since we don't live in the same town! i ...

I sent him a note but he won't know it's from me because I forgot to sign it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - I wrote a not to a guy I really like, but i dont know him at all we only talked a couple of times. Well on the note I asked him if he wanted to go to winter ball with me, and had my friend deliever it she explained to him it wasnt from her but here ...

Is a 10 year age gap ok?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - I'm 26 next month on the 28th of Febuary, and their is a guy I like, he is 10 years older than me, he's 35. Is that age difference okay - someone who is 10 years older than myself? I know people say that age is just a number, and it all depends ...

Will he come back to me or stay with his ex this time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - I need advice. I'm 18 and I've know this guy, who's 20 since he was 16 and I was 14. We knew of each other but never really spoke when I was younger the age difference was daunting. I found him Facebook a few months ago, we chatted and exchange...

I really like but she keeps getting confused about what she wants!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

16 January 2011 (M) - hey guys.. i have a problem.. finally i have met someone after being in love with my ex for years, but the problem is ive only known this girl a month but we have strong feelings for eachother, but she met me really soon after she split up with her ...

How do I tell the new love that I'm still good friends with my ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - I am 14 years old and a freshman in High School. I'm getting close to this guy who goes to another school and I think he's going to ask me out soon. I like him as well and am excited to get to know him better. My problem is that I'm good friends ...

Why did my boyfriend text disgustingly hurtful stuff about me to his friend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - Why did my boyfriend say that? what am I gunna do?:(? my ex boyfriend has been calling me lately and my boyfriend asked and obviously i couldn't lie so told him the truth. i went through his phone( i know i shouldn't have) in the text he told his...

Am I wasting my time here?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

16 January 2011 (M) - [MOD NOTE] PLEASE SPECIFY YOUR AGE, SO OUR AUNTS CAN GIVE YOU THE BEST AGE APPROPRIATE ADVICE. THANK YOU. Hi, I am a 39 year old guy. Anyone who has read my previous posts will know that when it comes to finding love, I've not had the great...

Is he my soul mate or am I delusional?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - Its a long story, but i'll explain as briefly as possible. I think i found my soul mate, but his actions speak otherwise. We dated a year ago, and ever since then i couldnt get him off my mind. When we were dating strange things happened. The first ...

Should I call, even if I am not sure I want to be with him...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for three months now and whilst he is a lovely lovely guy, I don't think we are right for each other long term. I decided last week that I should give it one last good shot with him to see if we are suited and will last lon...

My dating life has just been a disaster!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - Dear aunts. Hope you can help me out. I've posted before and found it very useful so here goes. I am in my early thirties and my entire love life has been a series of disasters. My first love died in a car crash, the next one I fell in love with at ...

My horoscope said I will meet my love tonight, do you think its true?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - Okay so for a while me and this guy have been a "thing" that no one knew of. HE kissed me once and my heart was racing! So, after a while he asked my friend to a dance... I wasn't allowed to go, so i thought it was just as friends. But it wasn't. He ...

Are there any ways to make my feelings grow stronger for my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4861 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - I feel like i'm taking my boyfriend for granted and I wish I wanted to be with him as bad as does. I really love him and I think we could have a future together. But he says he wouldn't be able to live without me and that i'm the only one he'll ever ...

I want him back without him feeling like he lost his pride

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - I need help getting a really special guy back....whenever I try to tell him I still like Him he's a totaly a** to me....I no he likes me he just won't admit it because he dosnt wanna lose his pride after dumping me because I said he needEd to put ...

I'm not sure I can forgive him for losing it with his ex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - I'm seeing this guy. We were both planning on losing our virginity to each other. He recently told me that he " unintentionally " lost it to his exGirlfriend. Itold him that if he ever did that, iwould move on and forget about him, but ijust can't. ...

My BF is an Insecure Odd Loner. How Do I understand him better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - My bf frustrates me sometimes- I dont get him. We get along great, hes fun to be around and funny but he has a habit of joking 24/7.. it seems he can never be serious..even if I'm trying to be.I also have trouble knowing when he is serious - he ...

I want a serious relationship, why doesn't anybody else my age want the same?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - I'm 23 and quite mature for my age. I want a serious relationship, but all I find is people my age wanting flings. Or they just play you like my ex did and then dump you by text. Why is this? The problem with guys my age is that they only want sex ...

Do people in relationships tell each other everything?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - When two people are in a relationship, do they have to tell everything to each other? example: - schedules? - appointments? - emails? My boyfiend went to a bodybuilding show in the fall, and I am not aware of that. I found a picture of h...

Is it important to date during your youth?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

16 January 2011 (M) - is it important to have girlfriends or boyfriends during your youth? ...

Why does he always kiss and hug me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - hello, i met a guy at a party and when we were first introduced, he hugged me and gave me a kiss on the cheek. As the night progressed, we got to know each other better. As i was leaving, i went around and gave everyone a hug goodbye. When i got to...

Will I get a boyfriend when I have braces?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - So i got braces last month, and im going to high school pretty soon. will the guys go for all the girls without braces?? i dont think im ugly, i just hope ill get a boyfriend even with braces. waddya think?...

How do I climb out of the pit of dispair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

16 January 2011 (M) - I am a 22 year old virgin, worse I haven't had a girlfriend since the 7th grade and as far as I know only one girl has been interested since. I lost over 75lbs and today am almost at the point of having a 6 pack. I changed my clothes and hair ...

There's days I love her and other days I just don't care

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4862 days ago

16 January 2011 (M) - i have been dating this girl for almost 2 years at first we where like made for each other but about a year ago she confessed to me that she send a guy picture of her in her bikini when i went on a 2 weeks vacation. and now she told me she had a ...

I've never kissed a guy sober and don't know how to initiate it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - This past month I've been home from school, and this last week I started hanging out with this kid that I have always had a crush on, from afar. He is my friend's brother's friend. But throughout the years hanging out at her house, etc, we got to ...

I really hate being shy.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - [Mod note: 2 questions by same poster combined.] Q. I'm a Freshman in High School, and I feel kind of like the rock that hasn't rolled in with the tide. While all my friends are chatting during lunch about how and where they last had sex, I've nev...