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Dating: Help and advice

My boyfriend preferred watching a movie with his best friend rather than with me....and I had arranged a day off just for the two of us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Ok, here goes :) I arranged to get a day off from work so that my boyfriend and I could watch a film that he had bought, and just spend a nice quiet night together... But I just found out that he watched it with his best friend instead. I'm furio...

Is it right to stay with the only man I have ever been with?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - dear readers, i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, he has been the only proper boyfriend that i have ever had. i love him very much and he loves me to, we have a great relationship. But people always seem to think its ridiculous that ...

Are men really ok with small perfect breasts?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - my boyfriend is a boob guy.. i know that he loves boobs,..big boobs especially. Im about 34b. i lost a lot of weight and lost most of my breasts( i was 180lbs now im 125). they are perky, he tells me he loves my boobs but always comment's on boobs ...

Why doesn't my mother like my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4847 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Hi guys! I haven't posted in a while, and regardless if that's good or bad, I do have something I want opinions or solutions on. Recently my mom has been making rude remarks to not only my boyfriend but also my sister's, and she also keeps saying ...

It all went great at first but then I got kind of bored.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Hello everyone ! First i just wanna say i love this site ! It's great to hear other people's opinions. Ok, so I've been dating a guy for like 2 months already, it all went great first weeks, then I kind of got bored and we are verryyy differe...

I'm trying to make this guy want me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - I am trying to make this guy in my class to want me. We are taking a law and security course, and have been getting along great.When we have physical fitness classes in the gym, I will wear my short running shorts and when we have swimming...

Without chasing him or embarassing myself, how do I get him to ask me out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - I have crush on a guy I work with but I can't work out how he feels about me. Firstly he is younger than I am, he is 18 and I am 21. We get on really well and have a lot in common, and when we work together time passes by so quickly. So we have been ...

Why are bigger breasts bigger?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4826 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - How to learn to love small breasts? I have small breasts, and I don't like how they look. I know women can look good with small breasts, like Kate Hudson or Natalie Portman, but I just don't think they look sexy or hot, just pretty. I'm also...

Girls, when you were 14 how would you want a guy to ask you out because I really don't know how to do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - First some Backround. There's this girl who is everything any guy could ask for. she is the smartest person in my school(and thats saying something) she is drop dead gorgeous, she is the funniest girl I know. She is also so nice and has a great ...

Men are such an enigma. What would you call this relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Its simple. I really adore this guy whom I kept meeting at work. Though not co workers we are in a formal set up. In years we have become warmer. He is aware of my problems n tells me Im around when required. I liked him and we kept in touch. Then ...

How do I explain to friends that I don't want to be touched because of my disfigurement?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - It's me again. I have people who are pressuring me to be in a relationship, but there's just one problem...I'm permanently disfigured. I used to have tits, and then I had surgery. It still doesn't look normal and the Doctors don't care. But the ...

My boyfriend's ex-wife and son are constantly interfering!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Well here goes I guess. The guy I am seeing is perfect for me. I know he feels the same about me. So our problem is his 16 year old son and his ex. She has sent me facebook messages saying she wishes us the best, but then argues about me all the ...

Why can't he be enough for me? How can I change to accept him for him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - I am not happy and don't know what to do. I was internet dating for 5 years and met lots of men who lie and cheat and finally met a really nice guy who is introvert and doesn't soclialise. At first this didnt bother me as I got him all to myself ...

I am always the girl next door

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - I am always the girl next door. I have had two long term relationships and with both men, it was about them loving my personality. It was never because I am sexy, or hot its because men feel comfortable in my presence. I want men to really feel ...

Help!!!! Never kissed properly, does it come naturally?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Ok, the question is simple enough and i'm really nervous about it. Does kissing like (getting off) come naturally? i get put off going out with boys because of this. i'm really self-conscious my first kiss will go wrong or something. But l...

I'm almost 20 and totally inexperienced in life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - I'm a guy and in my first year of university. I've never even been on a date and i've only kissed one girl in my whole life and that was when i was drunk and in a club. Is that a turn off?? If a girl liked me now then i wouldn't know what to do ...

Would I be crazy to take my ex back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

29 January 2011 (?) - Would I be crazy to take an ex back? It was a LDR, he broke up with me (amicably) a few weeks back and I guessed he was getting cold feet, scared of commitment or whatever as I was looking to re-locate in the next few months to be closer to him. ...

Am I being paranoid? And how can I impress this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Dear agony aunt, I like this boy and we are good friends. I told friends that I liked him and they thought it was cute. I'm not sure whether I'm paranoid about it, but for some reason he has seemed quiet towards me. I have asked the people I...

I'm always there for him and I'm a good mother to his kids...then why doesn't he trust me and love me back the way I do for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - hi i am an OFW, im in a long distance relationship, he is 10 years older than me, we are together for 7 years, and we have 2 kids. i love my partner a lot as if i cant see my future without him, though we are not married yet because of some ...

How would I suggest we have a FWB relationship? And is it a good idea?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Okay so, me and this guy "D" were dating for about a week before I found out he had been cheating on me with two girls. This happened around 6 months ago. ''D'' and I really haven't talked much since then until a couple days ago when I decided to a...

Why do the girls I like seem more interested in guys way less successful than me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - Help, I need major help getting on track! Hello all. I am 27 and for all intents and purposes I consider myself a virgin (the one night of 5-hour attempt where I got no pleasure doesn't count). I can't find anyone compatible and I try eve...

What's the best way to handle my 'Grumpy Old Man'?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - I see my boyfriend at week-ends, as he lives an hour's drive away. It annoys me because he likes to stay up until 2-3 am during the week and by Saturday is not up to much. He likes to sleep in until mid day. I like to be up and about and not to...

Our four year relationship has stagnated. Could it be reinvigorated? And how?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - We are in our early twenties. We have been dating nearly four years (having met in high school). Things were passionate but have died down steadily. I truly love her personality (at least the positive part of it). But there are things that have been...

I messed around with two women...now I want the second one who loved me but I ended up hurting...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - Before anyone starts throwing rocks at me pls hold off and hear me out. I fell in love with 2 different women (woman A and woman B). I fell in love with woman A first and boy did I fall hard. The complication was she wanted an open relations...

Request for any ideas on how to spice things up please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - How to "Spice" it up? My boyfriend said he wanted to experiment, do new things. He is tired of the same ole same ole. We will do anything but actual full on intercourse, we are waiting on that one. Well we are kind of out of ideas. We tried the ...

Which states perform legal lesbian marriages? And is the marriage upheld if we re-locate?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Does anyone know what states perform lesbian marriages, and if the marriage is still considered legal, if the married lesbian couple relocates to a state that doesn't uphold lesbian marriage? My girlfriend proposed to me yesterday, just ...

My lesbian friend suggested we have sex before I can be her gf. Is this how it operates?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - I'm a virgin and a lesbian. There's this girl who goes to the same college as me and she's also a lesbian. We met in our history lecture and have become tight. She's been out for 6 years and has had lots of girlfriends. She keeps telling me that...

Verbally he is telling me no, but emotionally telling me yes.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - my boyfriend broke up with me a little less than three weeks ago. the only problem we ever had was that he didn't think he was good enough for me. (i have a few college degrees and family money, he dropped out of high school and is broke) bu...

Threesomes, Texts, Truths and Drama

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Okay, I have this friend, we'll call her Moon. Now she and I have been friends for almost five years. I've seen her go through several boyfriends, as she has seen me do. Her boyfriends though, ranged from emotionally abusive, spoiled brats, t...

Best way to apologise? And what about the confusing dreams?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - hellos thank you very much. me and my ex broke up four weeks ago. I broke up with her because her explanation to a certain text to her 'friend' was not satisfactory. We were having problems too but I was the centre. Communication has been minimal...

Don't want to hurt him... but I like someone else!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - What should I do? I have a really awesome (most of the time) boyfriend (lets call him Rob), and recently I've been thinkin that maybe I like someone else (lets call him Fred). And I think because of Fred I got over Rob. I don't want to hurt Rob, but ...

Shall I continue and pursue things with my love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - hi everyone, i am female, in love. my last relationship was 3 years ago and it was awfully devastating as he left me after our wedding plans and everything was set, now i am inlove with a guy- who happened to be in an open relationship with a girl ...

I think my boyfriend could be gay?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Thank you for reading this. I have never used the Internet for answers, I am very confused. My boyfriend and I have been together for two years and we love each other undoubtedly. Lately though I have been questioning his sexuality. There are a few ...

A third chance... or a third mistake?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - Hi folks, firstly let me attempt to generate a picture of my current relationship... I have been in a very tight relationship with a caring girl for the past 6 years, and I have made sure that I have spent most of my time attempting to pr...

How much patience is enough???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for nearly 2 and a half years. I am a couple months older than him and I attend a university two hours away, while he is in his last year of high school. This is my first year at a four-year university. I went to a ...

Girlfriend like my best friend, keeps in touch with him more. Am I second prize to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - ok, one of my best friends knew my new girlfriend before me and they liked eachother but didnt get together when she asked him out he already had a girlfriend but he offered to break it off to be with HER!!! then she meets me and says she li...

Queefing, it's soooo embarrassing!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4848 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - I used to never queef but last year I had a boyfriend and we would have sex 3 or 4 times a week. I haven't had sex in six months and I still queef! It happens when I do yoga or I lift my butt up in the air. Is it because my vagina is too loose? This ...

My boyfriend thinks I care for him for no reason, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4847 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend tells me today that "you have no reason to love me or care about me, you just do. Which is pretty much you don't love or care about me. " Well we have been fighting about this for hours now. How do I tell him I love him and care for ...

After all the suggestive behavior, he says he's not in love with me and I'm just a friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - I have known a male friend of mine for 8 months.We are friends but not close.We see each other once a month and it's always in a group. It was my farewell party 3 months ago.I dressed up and I took some photos with my friends.This guy friend drank...

How do I know if this guy treats "us" just like a fling or if it has the potential to turn into a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - I've been having this fling with someone for a few months now and I have been feeling confused about whats been going on and where we stand. (If its just for fun or if there is potential for example) When it has come to dating etc, I have alwa...