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Archived questions from: 27 January, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Should I bring up his strange post?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend hasnt been saying much when we text each other latley and on his website he posted "slowly dieing" but he hasnt told me any thing was wrong and we have been with each other for a year should i be worreid? Should i bring up the post when ...

Why won't my boyfriend go out with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4850 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Why won't my boyfriend go out with me? Everytime I get invited to a party by one of my friends my boyfriend won't go. He never walks me to places or from them! I don't understand all of my friend's boyfriend drop them off and pick them up at ...

Should I continue to be his friend and see what happens? Let him be the man and make a first move?

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27 January 2011 (F) - Last year, I was trained at my job by this really neat kid, and I totally started crushing on him. He's the brother of the owner of the company, so for the extent of the time I worked there, he would come in and do filing and stuff for me. I eagerly ...

What advice do you have for a feuding couple?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

27 January 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I fight a lot. We're both stubborn headed which is probably the main reason why we fight. Today I tried to joke with her and she said she felt like I "insulted" her. What advice does anybody have for the feuding couple? I love ...

Why would she remove our anniversary date from facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

27 January 2011 (M) - my girlfriend has removed our anniversary date from her facebook. we have been dating for 8 months and we both love eachother. but i was just wondering why she would remove our anniversary date from facebook what does this mean. ...

I think he may be flirting by accident!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - my boyfriend doesn't flirt i don't think. he's really faithful and he says he doesn't know what flirting is so Im afraid he may be doin it on accident how do i explain what flirting is to him...

I want to ask about a new facebook friend but I don't want to come across as clingy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

27 January 2011 (M) - I was just wondering if there is a way to ask my girlfriend about a guy she recently added on facebook without coming across as clingy? I don't normally ask about guys but this one is kind of fishy...is there a way to go about this? I hate coming ...

I believe my boyfriend may suffer from Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Is it safe to be with this kind of person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Hi. When we were discussing something, my boyfriend told me he loves to see a women naked i.e. naked with all her feelings and vulnerable. He is very self centered and never much cares about my needs, it's always about him. He abuses me mental...

What drives a man to perform oral sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - When a man performs oral sex on a woman, during intercourse for the first time, how does he feel? What drives him to do it (i.e; to give pleasure, expecting something in return, closeness, or just being horney)? ...

I'm 22 and have never been asked out on a date? What's wrong with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - I am 22 and have never had a date or even been asked out. I feel like there's something really wrong with me. I am not outgoing like other girls and I am definetly not nearly as pretty. I just feel really down about this. What is wrong with me?...

Should I continue waiting for my married lover, or am I being taken for a ride?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

27 January 2011 (M) - Greetings All! I have worked with this person for two years and have always had a mutual great feeling. We began an active relationship last year. I was in process of a divorce, but the feelings for her were very real and true. She put forth the ...

If my boyfriend had intentions to cheat with an old hookup, would he tell me whenever she contacted him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - I just have a quick question. I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months and we love each other very much. Recently, a girl he has hooked up with in the past has been trying to get back with him. He tells her no, but I guess she's just desperate. M...

But I love him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I was dating my boyfriend for 11 months and we got into an argument and he said he needed space, but would date me again in two months. A month has passed and this space has been agonizing me. He said he still loves me and wants to be ...

Online dating? Experiences and advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

27 January 2011 (?) - I have never tried online dating. I am moving to a new city and am considering it to meet people. Like cellphones and facebook I thought I would defy the trend of online dating for a while before I join the masses... I've never met a person w...

Recently reconnected after 7 years. What is he thinking?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Seven years ago, I had a friend’s with benefits relationship that lasted a year. I moved away because I fell in love with him and did not want him to know. Six months ago, we reconnected and I admitted how I felt and why I had moved. He had no idea ...

My boyfriend goes out of his way for a woman he is not even good friends with. Is he interested in her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Hi. My boyfriend of 1 year avoids me often, and says he is busy at work. He takes extreme measures to help a girl whom he is not close friends with, but when I asked him for a favour (which will not take more than 15 mins for him to do) he said he ...

I love him, but has his love for me died? What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - He's doing it again! He's saying I've broken his heart more than once... HOW??? I've been faithful throughout this relationship, while he was out doing God know's what from 6pm-1am! I love him dearly but sometimes it does my head in to HAVE TO ...

Girlfriend seems disinterested in sex. Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

27 January 2011 (M) - I am at a loss as of what to do. I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for nearly 5 years, and some on and off time 2 years before that. Recently I have been looking at buying an engagement ring and proposing to her, but this process ...

Jumped from one relationship to another and now I'm having second thoughts!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Where to start? Well in April 2010, I got together with this boy (Adam), and everything was going fine, until November of that same year. I fell for a friend (Darrell), and decided to end things with my boyfriend. About 3 weeks later, I started ...

What do you think, does she like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

27 January 2011 (M) - well i met this girl and we talked for a bit, then we hung out a couple times, and after the second time we hung out she was txting me and she said "thx for hangin out with me :))" and i was like "thx for being awesome..and cute" and her reply was ...

Can someone help me with some ideas for Valentine's Day?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

27 January 2011 (M) - I'm not sure What to get my girlfriend for Valentine's day. I got her a silver necklace for xmas and she's yet to take it off, so I'm hoping to achieve that level of success again. What are some foolproof ideas? ...

He's abusive, but I don't know how to live without him. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Im in 2 relationship for the past 4 years. My boyfriend beats me up. I've lost all my friends for him.now I have no one to tell me what to do. Every1, including his friends have told me to move on and I also tried. I tried getting into another ...

Our problems started when she moved in, and now she's with someone else. How can I get her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

27 January 2011 (M) - i been with my ex for 1year 7 months everything was good, till she moved in . i thought she was trying to get pregnant.. and i just freaked so i just stopped having sex.. i wish i talked to her but diddnt .now she left in september and i kept blowin ...

How can we stop fighting and get back to how we used to be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - My partner and i have been together for 2 and half years. things were great at the start but as life gose on a few problems come with it. Laterly all we seem to be doing is fighting. We have spoke many times about whats going on and end the end we ...

I was fine with my girlfriend being an escort ...but now her proximity to a certain client is really bothering me...

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

27 January 2011 (M) - I came across this blog and read a couple of them.I am a boyfriend of a escort, I have been her boyfriend for 6 years, she has been a escort for almost 3 years. I am fine with it, She did it for the bills of course.Now We just came into a situation ...

I used up all my ideas in my last gift. Now I need new ideas please to fill the Valentine box for my bf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - I have painted and decorated this heart shaped box for valentines day for my bf. I don't know what to put inside though. I got rid of all the special things like cinema tickets, train tickets to see each other etc etc in the last gift I made him ...

How many girlfriends should I have before I marry?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

27 January 2011 (?) - iam looking for a girl who will be my wife.so before i marry ,how many girlfriends should i have? should i be trusting her? ...

I need advice to cope with my sexting obsessed boyfriend. How have others coped with this problem?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - I need help. My boyfriend is obsessed with sexting other girls. I have caught him twice doing it with the same girl. He swears that nothing is going on between them, but I find it hard to believe. When I confront him about it he just keeps sayi...

Should I forgive my girl friend for being ungrateful?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

27 January 2011 (M) - I want a break from my Girlfriend because she returned a gift I bought for her. I love her and have been with her for 4 years, This is the first terrible thing she ever done to me! Must I forgive her? She returned a cellphone and wanted a blackbe...

I want to have the 'talk' about getting serious, how do I go about doing this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4850 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - I've been having this fling with this guy for a while now and I'm at the stage where I want to talk about things, so I sent him a message saying that I wanted to talk and he said that we can. We saw eachother not long ago at a get together but it ...

This situation with him is getting old, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - I‘ve known this guy for about five or six years now, and we belong to the same group of friends. We only ever meet when this group meets, but then its ok, we do talk and everything is pretty normal. If we meet alone (which is almost never) its just ...

Crush on a very shy girl.......

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

27 January 2011 (M) - Hi. I have a crush on an EXTERMLY shy female What do I do? When I compiment her she tells me that I'm embrassing her......

I thought I was independent but I'm so lost without my boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Normally, I'm independent. I love going to the mall by myself cause I can do what I want,go into stores that I want to go into, try on as many clothing as I feel like it and have lunch where I want to go to and go home when I feel like it. However, ...

I'm tired of being single and the odd man out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Hello everyone. I want to know why I'm still single, in your opinion. I know there's no real 'right' answer. Okay...here we go! I've been single for about 5 years now. I'm not terribly picky, so I don't really have a 'type' that I go after. I'm a ...

I need help to stop chasing men!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Hello, I have a problem chasing men. Somehow I find myself being a bit of a doormat, waiting for calls and text messages all day. I have wasted years of my life doing this only to not have been in a real relationship since I was 23. I am 28. T...

I hate my boyfriend's friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Is it wrong to hate a friend of your boyfriend?? Me and this girl have quarreled 4 years now but she is a friend of my boyfriend and she's telling him bs lies. Am I supposed to be her friend no matter how much i hate her??...

Should I give her time or just give up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4850 days ago

27 January 2011 (M) - Me and my gf broke up last night. We r on great terms. No one cheated not a lot of fighting, we just had some differences in our lives and she is confused. She wants me but doesn't know if I'm what she needs anymore because I didn't go to church or ...

How can I get him to come back to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4851 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - im going to try and tell you our story without making it long. from beginning to end.. in the past six months.. he has left three different girls for me even after i hurt him more than once. he took me back six times after i left him. but the last ...

He had a girlfriend all along,yet he treated me like I was someone special...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Ok so I met this guy at school about a month ago, December 2010. and he was really nice, he would open the door for me, and offer me a ride back home and he would text me all the time and call me. He was even willing to visit me in Vegas when I ...

I really wanna know where I went wrong so I don't make the same mistakes with others!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Some background info: I was married now I'm not. I am in my mid 20s. Anyway I went with my girlfriends to Florida and met this great guy. He was genuinely nice (trust me we did analyze him), wanted to know about me as a person and had long convers...

Should I ask him or just wait?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - So I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 34. I've been dating him for 5 months. He is the most amazing guy ever. He has 3 children and he loves then he always puts them as he's priority which I like because that's how its supposed to be. last year I was In the ...

I need to know how I can fix my clinging-on-to-him without ignoring him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for about 11 months now and things were going great until I had Christmas break from college. I stayed with him and his family for a little more then a month. At first it was really fun and it felt like we were adults ...

Looking for love, don't know about the rest ...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

27 January 2011 (M) - Hello all. I have a pressing question but don't know quite how to word it, so I guess I'll just shoot from the hip. I'm still a virgin. I would like to find someone to spend the rest of my life with, but, I don't know about sex. I keep vac...