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Archived questions from: 25 January, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Should I make him choose between drugs and me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - Wow, so I don't really know where to start. This may be longer than I expect, so I apologise in advance. I started dating this guy not long ago, he is older than me, which is fine, age to me has never been a barrier. But is it not strange how things ...

We hit it off and now she's cold!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4852 days ago

25 January 2011 (M) - Hi Guys Small problem. I got to know a girl at dancing lessons and we got to get friendly there. As the lessons progressed, we got to know each other and had long sessions chatting afterward. We also went to a restaurant after last week's lesson a...

Why am I so angry?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4851 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - I just need some kind of advice..or i feel all this will get too far and destroy my family relationship. Im a 16 year old girl, eversince i met my boyfriend, i seem to blow up easily at my family. First it started with my brother, he dislikes my ...

I'm so in love with you, but I have days when I'm not sure... So he says!

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25 January 2011 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend the other night, after I had a dream that he was all over someone else. We dated for 6 months and he was a good person. We went on trips together and we had our fights, but after we broke up in November for 24 hours, ...

How do you talk to guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - How do girls talk to boys? out of all my friends I can't talk to boys. I try so hard but i can't i end up talking to them how i would talk to my girlfriends. So a lot of boys think i am weird. Can you please tell me how to talk to boys? ...

Should I win her back or let her go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4852 days ago

25 January 2011 (M) - So, this girl and I had been datng for a month and in that month everything seemed to be going perfect! I had feelings for her that I hadnt had for my previous girlfriend after 8 months. And then suddenly she missed her ex. Her and her ecx hadnt ...

Is it wrong for me to date other races?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - Hey peeps, Is it wrong for me to date other races?? I'm black and my friends always talkin about sticking to our own culture but I find white and chinese boys SERIOUSLY attractive :s. I also want to know if dating other cultures last long ...

Have I ruined my chances with this man? What should I say to him now?!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

25 January 2011 (?) - Please, please help me... I can't stop thinking and my mind is going crazy!! Last night, I had a dinner date at my place with a colleague of mine I really really really really like. The evening was smooth and flirty and fun. Then he started making p...

Her friends are gonna get in the way if I ask her out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4851 days ago

25 January 2011 (M) - Hi guys i have another question. There is a girl who i have half way fell for, its not a deep love or anything but the problem is if i ask her if she wants to be together she has about 7 other girl who will say no and that can affect her descion ...

Boyfriend's chin stubble is irritating my face. Any ideas to prevent this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has quite a bit of stubble on his chin. I love it, but I often get rashes and wondered if there was any way to prevent them, or make them less noticeable? thanks x...

Boyfriend claims he love me. So why does he sleep around?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4851 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - If my boyfriend says he loves me, then why does he engage in casual sex with others? ...

Are there any couples out there who are 100% faithful to one another?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - I dont know if it's because Ive been reading the articles on this site too often (this being a relationship help site and all), but it seems that everywhere I look, people are unfaithful to each other. Im basically asking, are there any couples ...

Should we tell our good friend that we saw her new husband on an online dating website?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - Dear Agony Aunt, I am in a group of 8 women that travel and play a sport together. We have known each other a very long time and are good friends. One of my friends divorced her husband of 25 years to be with another man. This man had been single ...

My ex is trying to sabotage my new relationship & my new bf is backing off. WHY?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - I have found a new man... all is going great. We went on holiday together and got on well. I posted some pics up of our vacation as I was so happy. Anyway, my ex bf is still on my page, which I totally forgot about. He is now trying to get me back ...

My boyfriend has slept with 6 women, but he's my first. It bothers me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4851 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - I've been with my bf for 2 years and when we met I was a virgin and he had slept with 6 other people. I love him a lot but I find this incredibly hard to deal with sometimes. Sometimes it does't bother me, but when I think about it it weirds me out. ...

Boyfriend became pessimistic when he started having health problems. How can I help him become positive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4852 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - Hello, I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 months. He cares and loves me so much that he even talked about marriage. The problem is that he is moody and pessimistic. Mostly, after he started have health problems. He tells me he i...

Should I stick with guys who bore me, or wait for the players to change their ways?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - I seemed to be having a hard time to finding someone that I can have a relationship with. I talk to plenty of guys, but once the relationship begins, I get bored of them... Or the guys that are intresting to me, end up being jerks and want to get in ...

Relationship in limbo! What can I do to kindly jolt him into taking action?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - How does one get out of relationship limbo? Started out as a fairytale then turned ugly. He told me he doesn't want a committed relationship, so I showed him the door. Things are just complicated though as we move in the same circle of friends and I ...

I perform oral sex on her. How can I get her to reciprocate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

25 January 2011 (M) - How can I convince my beloved to perform oral sex on me? I am doing it for her, but she always refuses. Help me....

Should I see what transpires with my ex, or should I break contact?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4844 days ago

25 January 2011 (M) - Long story short, I got dumped by my girlfriend of two years in September because I was studying for my medical exams and never had any time for her for 6 months. She said little things turned into big things and she couldn't take me not being there ...

Job offer, unhappy girlfriend and tough decisions - help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

25 January 2011 (M) - Hi, I'm a guy in university and I have a serious concern causing stress in my relationship for the last couple weeks or so. I have been dating my girlfriend for over a year, and we love each other and want to marry each other (or so I thought). ...

First Valentine's with my girlfriend and I have no money. Need suggestions!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

25 January 2011 (M) - Valentine's Day is about three weeks away and I've got no money at all to buy her anything. Besides, this is our first time together. What should I do?...

My boyfriend is having an affair, and I don't know what to do!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together over a year now but lately our relationship is falling apart as we have begain to row about 3 months ago he told me he could meet up for a while as wanted to sort our his career etc but i later found out he has ...

What to get my guy for Valentine's Day?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - Please help me :) What can I get my bf for Valentine's? (besides, wearing some hot, sexy lingerie for him and learning some strip teasing ;) =D I'm so excited!) We've been going out for 5-6 months. He is 30+, likes football alot, he is a cou...

Do you think the tactics she's used mean that she still might care for me?

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25 January 2011 (M) - So me and this girl have known each other for 7+ years and we had a bit of a fling for a couple months. basically what happened is that we lost touch over the holidays because we were always in a power struggle (she'd ignore me, i'd stoop to the ...

3rd cousin relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

25 January 2011 (M) - can i have a relationship with my 3rd cousin?...

Does he notice me in class?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - there is this boy in my class and i really like him but i don't know if he notices me in class, cause he doesn't talk to me but on face-book and stuff he talks to me all the time and we talk for hours and he is the first person to start the ...

I will be alone on Valentines Day, which also happens to be my crush's birthday! What am I supposed to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - Okay, so this guy i used to be friends with doesn't talk to me anymore. I thought him and I were just friends. Only friends. He doesn't date and well I was fine with that. But then he stopped talking to me. It was sad and I got over it. Now that ...

Girlfriend drifting away? Or am I too clingy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

25 January 2011 (M) - Hey everyone, I'm in a relationship with this girl that I like and I am facing quite a few problems. We are both students in graduate school. Firstly in a social setting, she tends to ignore me and just chat with others. She doesnt look at ...

I want to move the relationship to something more than casual

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4853 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - I met a guy 4 months ago and we are physically intimate and have not talked about exclusivity. We don't talk everyday but we have seen each other steady, once a week. In the beginning I solely wanted to just hook up because there was a strong ...

My boyfriend is constantly texting other girls and flirting with them!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - I hate having this feeling that my boyfriend is always.. 24/7 texting girls. i have been dating my boyfriend for 3 months now but me and him have known each other for over 4 years and have had an on and off relationship. he is much of a private ...

He found out I was pregnant and he changed his phone number!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4853 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - so me and my ex were together for over a year and lived together for about 7 months. He broke up with me a couple of times bc things were "too stressfull" him not working ect. We've been broken up for about 3 weeks now. The last thing we talked ...

I can't figure out whether she likes me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4851 days ago

25 January 2011 (M) - alright well this girl is giving me the hardest time I have had to figure out if she likes me or not. she seemed like she liked me and maybe seemed like she wanted to date in the future but this morning she texted me after I told her that before I ...

Valentines day present ideas :)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - I need a little advice. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 10 months and it is our first valentines day together. We have a very close emotional relationship and i really wanted to get him something special. We are still in high school ...

How do you talk to men and build intimacy?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - So, my problem seems to be in how to talk to men. I don't know how to build intimacy. I always end up talking about politics or world issues, etc.... How do women talk to men, to make that connection? Any ideas/help would be appreciated....