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Archived questions from: 9 January, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Do I tell him I like him now or risk waiting and someone else snatching him up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - After getting hurt and messed around almost constantly for a year, I finally met someone a few months ago who makes me smile and I have a bit of a crush on him. I only really see him once a month at a club we go to, and one time he told me he is...

Guy seems all into me till I tell him I like him.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - I told a guy friend i had feelings for him twice in a few months. The 1st time he said he was sick of relationships, he's been sleeping in my bed, and we have done things together and cuddled etc. The 1st time i told him he was distant for a few ...

My mother wants me to choose... her or my baby's father???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - hello everyone I need your advice. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and im an adult. My mother keeps on telling me she is going to get me and him to break up every single day. I am pregnant by him and im tired of hearing ...

How to get over these feelings of jealousy towards my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

9 January 2011 (M) - I broke up with my girlfriend of 18 months last tuesday. Overall i have taken it fairly well and not been very upset about the whole thing. However, im having some trouble with dealing with the fact she's already got another guy put love hearts ...

Stuck between two guys...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4866 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - I was recently in a love with a guy but unfortunatly that guy loves me too but he stopped talking to me suddenly for few days, in between those days I was all broken up, hurt by my first friend, now the situation is such tht Im attached to his ...

Age over reason?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - My situation is a bit complicated(everyone's is... i have a boyfriend and we've been dating for about little over a year now. He's a good person and i like him very much but among other issues (albeit minor, perhaps) there's an 11 year age ...

Stuck in an agonizing love triangle..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - So basically.. I met this guy three years ago. And I fell in love with him a year later. And we did a lot.. until suddenly a few months ago I found out he has been with somebody else the whole time. Yet, I'm still with him. It's just that.. I was so ...

Went on a date yesterday but can't get my ex out of my head!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - i went on a date yesterday with a lad i like, he was being really sweet and comforting with me, like putting his arm around me, hugging me, stuff like that but i still feel something for my ex and its annoyng as i want to forget about him, i just ...

Dating a married man. What should we expect, I don't want to hurt anyone...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - I'm a married woman having an affair with a married man from work. we've been doing this for 8 months. we've known each other 7 years. we see each other almost every day. we meet just to talk. we have seen each on weekends. it's getting harder t...

He thought I cheated on him but I didn't! Now he's broken up with me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - me and my ex-boyfriend started going out on april 6, 2010. on august 23 i was walking with 4 of my girlfriends and 4 guy friends. we were all crossing the street and of course the light was red. while we were crossing the street one of my guy ...

Bizarre dreams!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - i was sleeping over at my bf's place and yep my bf and i had the same dream at the same time... i know i might sound crazy but it really happend. i dreamt instead of my bf beside me it was some old lady asking me questions about my bf.. first s...

Help! Why doesn't he cum??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - Hi I have been with my partner for almost 10 years we have 4 children. Our sex life has been great we have sex heaps like everyday and sometimes 3 or 4 times a day but I have never been able to give him a blow job where he cums!! And recently he...

My mother said I was a disappointment to her... on my birthday too!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - Hi, my name's Clare and it's my 18th birthday today. I suffer with severe depression, diagnosed 4 years ago. A lot of stuff has happened in my life to cause me to be down (I won't go into it), but recently I've been happy. I started a music ...

My venting caused him to want to break up with me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4866 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - okay so my boyfriend does things that hurt my feelings a lot and sometimes i just need to vent. well he joined in an xbox live party today to hear me venting and now he is very mad at me saying i was "talking shit" and now he wants to break up with ...

His foreplay made me really wet... is this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - so last night me and my boyfriend went to the movies but we didnt watch the movie if you know what i mean, we made out the whole time. So anyway when we were leaving the theater it felt like i had gotten my period cause my panties felt wet.. but ...

After reading the messages I don't trust him at all!!! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - ok so i had one of my friends message my boyfriend on myspace to mess with him to see if he would cheat or anything cause i really wanted to know. so she sent him a message and said hey you seem pretty cool and i wanna get to know you better. my ...

I feel he loves this 12 year old more than he does me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - my bf of a little over a year, finally got rid of his gf of 13 years. she was a tweeker and cheated on him, got pregnant, made him think it was his, found out it wasnt, one week b4 baby turned 5 years old and now is adament on raising her kids. well ...

How do I make a kiss happen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - How do you get around to the situation when you kiss a boy? im 15 and i never have, and i just dont know how to make it happen... help!?...

Is this a good change or am I being led along?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I have been in a relationship for 6 months and it progressed really quickly, i dunno it was like 2 magnets being drawn together but we also fought an awful lot, it was a lot on petty small things but also bigger things like him being so involved ...

Why hasn't he had a girlfriend yet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - I have a male friend who I've liked as more than a friend for years now, but he always seems so unavailable. I've talked about him with other girls he know as well, and everyone thinks he's such a great guy. However he remains single! We were all ...

Why do people start doing what their partners do?

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9 January 2011 (M) - I was wondering why people who get into relationships usually start doing what their partner does? Like say they were into motor cycles, the girl would go out of her way to buy one so she could share something in common with her partner. Or if she ...

In our LDR I feel I take more than I give. How can I satisfy him more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - I am 17, he is 19. We are in a Long distance relationship, and are sleeping together. Problem is, I tend to take more than I give, meaning I am usually satisfied with the sex, whilst he gets nothing. I can't seem to stimulate him, and I feel selfish ...

Do I really like her for who she really is?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

9 January 2011 (M) - right, ive been with a girl for nearly 6 months now. we're both 17, she's 4 months older than me, and we go to the same school though she is in the year above. The way we started going out is a bit strange really, she just started talking to me ...

I love him but my best friend has him, and I helped get them together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4868 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - I fell in love with this boy. But then, my best friend, told he she loved him first. So, I worked hard to get them together. Now, finally, they are, and they're both in love. And I'm unhappy. I would have told this boy my feelings, but I'm like a ...

My girl has me, but she has also gone with a boy. Why couldn't she put our relationship first? How do I cope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - A normal girl in love with another. Something I would have thought impossible for me, until over a year ago. I have been in love with her for a long time, I don't know why or how, but I am. On new years of last year she went the extra mile and kiss...

What are the signs that a relationship is likely to end? Even it all looks OK now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, From your experience, when you were in a long-term relationship with an ex-boyfriend (or ex-gf), did you ever have a feeling (or signs) that you guys will eventually break up? (it's my first relationship and it happens to be lo...

Having doubts about a partner? Is it normal at the start of a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - Is it true we all have doubts about each other at the beginning of the relationship? Could that break or build further the relationship? I've had this awkward conversation (can't call it a fight, because it wasn't) with my boyfriend - (we'...

I don't know if I should agree to what he's asked nor if he truly loves me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4868 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - i love my boyfriend , and he loves me too. we have been in a relationship for 1year.but my nature is very suspious . how will i come to know that he truly loves me? he is asking me for oral sex, what do u think , i should say yes or no?...

He told me from the start he didn't want a relationship, but now I have feelings for him. Should I break-up to just be friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - there is this guy i have been good friends with for ages. He just moved back to his home town, where i am. We started hooking up. He has told me from the start that he didn't want a relationship and I didn't want one either. Now I have developed ...

Are guys losing respect for girls today than in the past?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - I know the guy I am with does not act like this what so ever, but is it just me, or am I getting the feeling that now a days, men expect girls to bend over and give themselves to them? Are guys really loosing respect for females now a days? ...

Could this be all because I am still a virgin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - I am still a virgin, but my guy and I do do stuff. I am curious on why I act "wild and crazy" during our "fun time" but when my guy jokes with me about it any other time, I am extremely embarassed, and don't want to talk about it? Could it be ...

I feel I have no choice but to leave him and move on

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I have been thinking for a while now and feel it is time to move on with my life and break up with my boyfriend. i love him a lot but they way we are with each other is very unhealthy. He says he hates me and i tell him he needs to stop bu...

Is space needed right now? Men and Women please.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - I have been seeing a guy on and off for a very long time. We both decided to give it our all this time and try to work toward a relationship. He lives near me but works in another state about six months out of the year. I usuall fly to see him ...

We had a great first date so why is he acting so distant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - I've liked a guy for a few months now, and I've been sure that he's liked me for atleast the past month or two. He had hinted at going to see a movie together, and over winter break, he actually asked me out! He picked me up and we had an awesome ...

What is with his disappearing acts?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - I met this guy about 8 months ago. When we met we hit it off great. We had three consecutive dates in a row, spending most of the time talking about our life experiences, music, traveling, etc. Our physical chemistry was fantastic - things happened ...

Can women being the aggressive one in a relationship be sexy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4868 days ago

9 January 2011 (M) - When I mean 'aggressive', I mean likes to take control and does the initiating in the relationship. For myself as a guy, I have never been fond of being the one to pursue and have been attracted to more dominant women, who like to take charge a...