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Archived questions from: 19 January, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Why will he not go down on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - my boyfriend wont go down on me, his never done it before, and says it doesn't appeal to him. so I've stopped giving him oral sex to try and make him but he still won't. what else can I do? ...

I know he likes his privacy but now he doesn't want me coming around to his house...???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - I'm so in love with my boyfriend of four years, he's perfect for me. The only thing is he's a very private person and I'm very open and honest so I just don't understand his need for secrecy, when we love each other. It's got to a ridiculo...

Should I tell him about the baby?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - My ex boyfriend was married and i finished it for that reason, i was just lonely after my husband died, i have now met somebody that is single and we have been going out for 5 months and i decided not to tell him about my married ex boyfriend, we ...

How do I gain experience with women this late in the game?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - I'm an adult whose always struggled with confidence issues around women. I've made changes to my physical appearance, so I don't consider myself a bad looking guy. So obviously, I expect a woman who takes pride in her physical appearance too. I ...

His brother tried it on with me and I also think my bf is cheating on me. How do I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I been going out for almost a year....The thing is he used to be a player and so did i so we both have trust issues...Anyway The other day we got into a argument and he left me at his house with his brother. I was pissed and ...

I'm ashamed of what people would think if they knew I've never had a relationship. How can I interact more successfully with guys?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - I'm 17 years old, turning 18 and i never had a boyfriend. I never even went out on a date or kissed a guy. A lot of guys have asked me out especially these last few months, but i always said no beacause they're just not my type, apart from one guy. ...

She says I'm pushing her further away and making her hate me. what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - hey there peeps, im having a really hard time right now in my relationship or the allusion of what used to be. She found some conversations i had with an ex and flipped out on me...i can completly understand that. I have never cheated in my entire ...

Is he still faking or is he desperate? Or do you think I've surmised his real reasons?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - Well, I'm 15 and gay, and probably full of overused cliché, but I was with a guy for 9ish months, then he broke it with me. Obviously I was distraught, considering he was the first person I'd had feelings for, first person I'd ever been with, and a ...

How do I ignore this woman and all her antics?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4858 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - I fell pregnant and the father of my baby denied paternity of the baby, he has now started dating someone i work with and (truly and honestly) i dont have a problem with their relationship, the problem i have is that this girl seem to be boasting ...

Where is the middle ground between being a nerd and a player?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - Back in high school i was a big nerd, constantly overlooked by females that i was interested in, or just completely not seen at all. Its been 6 years since i graduated high school and, still a nerd on the inside but with a lot more confidence, and a ...

He always texts back, but since the message where I told him how I felt I have not heard anything! Have I scared him off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - Few days ago I asked this question about telling someone who I'm sort of involved with, that I miss him http://www.dearcupid.org/question/if-i-tell-him-i-miss-him-do.html I felt really positive and sure about telling him this, but I was really n...

Crush trouble.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - Okay heres how it goes.I am a fifteen year old gay guy and i have a crush on a fellow guy who goes to school with me and i am more than sure that he is gay.Well he is really shy,and all and he easily blushes around hot guys.So no doubt there.But the ...

Why do I keep thinking of him, dreaming of him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - Hi everyone. I don't know if I am at right place to seek advice. I don't know where to start from, to explain my issue. So I writing every thing in detail. Sorry for the long long story. OK. I am 24 yr old Hindu gal and the guy I have issue ...

How can I stop worrying?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4858 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for about the past 7 weeks or so, and I really like him. We're exclusive but not official,but if he was to ask me out, I'd say yes in a heartbeat... but that's besides the point. Anyway, the thing is before I met him I had ...

What am I doing wrong and how do I fix it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - I'm convinced there are people in this world that just aren't meant to develop relationships with significant others or ever maintain healthy ones... me being one of those people. I'm 24 and I have never had a boyfriend, and if one more person ...

He isn't physically affectionate, does he not like me or is he shy?

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19 January 2011 (F) - Alright here's the thing, I have a boyfriend, his name is Alphonsus, he's real sweet funny and weird, we've been dating for about a month now and you'd think 'awwwww y'all are holding hands and hugging all day', but no...he's shy, or he doesn't like ...

Help with my first date......

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4858 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - Hello on saturday I will be having my first date with this girl I met. She is really into me. Anyway thing is I can talk over texting but when it comes to talking on the phone it's hard for me because I have this disability where my thought ...

Does she like me? Is she confused?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - This is sort of hard to explain, but there's this girl who I met in my geography class and I feel this strange connection between us. I had already sort of liked her before we even started talking. The first day back to school, second sememster, ...

I have a thing for this girl at work but she likes someone else, should I ask her out anyway?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4857 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - Should I ask this girl out? I work with her and have recently realised I had feelings for her when I actually look forward to go to work just because she is there. Problem is while we flirt and stuff we aren't very much alike she hangs out with a ...

Now I've got doubts about moving in with him. Can I trust him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has just been telling me about some of his usual behavior in relationships, and I'm not sure what to make of it. He said he's had one relationship that lasted over 3 months and all the rest he gets bored with and wants change, so sudd...

Who is the best choice for me out of my two suitors?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - i have two suitors. one is a doctor the other suitor is a successful chinese businessman. the doctor is nice, sweet and passionate.but he has bad breath. While the chinese is caring and sweet. He has no bad breath and the chinese is very hygi...

I want to be heterosexual but I don't know if I am, advice please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4851 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - So, I'm 15 and sexually confused. I've only kind of liked one girl I've known, and that was this one brilliant/beautiful/charismatic girl that I knew in kindergarten, and I didn't even know her very well. Now I'm in highschool, and I don't think ...

What's a cool way to tell her I like her and I miss her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4859 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - I started speaking to a girl and after some time i started liking her. We used to talk daily on phone until recently, when she got busy with her college work. Yesterday i cracked a light joke on her saying, 'she doesn't pick the call anytime ...

Does my driving instructor like me? we're both single. He's 40, I'm 26

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

19 January 2011 (?) - So I'm having driving lessons at the minute. and i have feelings for my instructor he's a really nice guy in his 40's single tall dark, yada yada, anyway he's helped me out so much he's even got me a new job working for his brother at a local pub, ...

I'm bi. My loving man accepts my needs. But now I'm in love with a woman. Out of my mind with guilt. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4859 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - Hi Aunties I came her for some advice about guilt and love. I'm married to a good man for 22 years. we have 5 children and all but 2 of them are off to college. My husband treats us good. He's a good father and husband. He's always put us before ...

I'm not as physically attracted to my boyfriend as I would like to be....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - So here's the deal: I've been with my boyfriend for a year and I love him so much! He treats me like a queen, is caring, and I can't go a day without thinking about him. I like doing physical things with him as well as just talking to him because he ...

My boyfriend's insecurity about his looks has shattered our sex life...how do I make him feel better about himself???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - hey so i dunno if im just overreacting but my bf hardly ever wants to have sex. Hes always too tired, not feeling well or in a bad mood cos of work. Now hes on Admin leave and I figure..well work shouldnt be the issue..but it seems we have le...

Why does he want to pick up women when he has me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - A friend told me to look at some online forum for guys who feel like they need a little help with picking up women. It was filled with silly pick up lines and ridiculous little mind games. My friend thought it was hilarious but I found it a littl...

Can I trust my new Gf? Doubts keep creeping into my mind due to my previous gf.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4857 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - I've recently started a relationship with a girl I met online. We met up, after talking online a while and things went great. I was nervous upon the first meeting. My main concern was about our attraction to each other. But as I mentioned, things ...

I like him, but I'm worried about his ex gf. Should I back away or try to go exclusively with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4859 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - I am seeing this guy I really like. But his ex gf used to be one of my best friends a until a few years ago. They broke up around 2 months ago. She put him through hell. She'd become very paranoid and jealous. She once snogged a guy who had eyes for ...

Best friend of my Ex seems interested. How should I handle this? I'm not over my ex yet.

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19 January 2011 (F) - So, my ex whom I lived with for two years (and still secretly have unresolved feelings for).. he left me 9 months ago and now has another girlfriend who is long distance.. Anyway, we always hung out with his one and only best friend.. I tried to d...

Do I have to tell this guy I'm seeing about my past sexual experience?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - Do i have to tell this guy im seeing about my past sexual relationships and experiences or does it not matter?... things have been going really well, and weve been getting to know each other, i just wondered if it was neccessary to tell him? He ...