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Dating: Help and advice

The sex with my new guy just happened. Now I don't know what he thinks of me. How can we go forward?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4871 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - So basically I dated my boyfriend since high school and everything seemed great. We were worried about our relationship because we were going to different colleges but after a couple months we knew everything would be okay. As I got into my first ...

How can I stop myself from wanting to be with or be in contact with my boyfriend all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - Hey, I'd love your advice on how to stop myself from wanting to be in contact with/actually with my bf every day. We've been together 4 months, started with hanging out together, then he asked me out, and things have been great since then-I wasn't ...

He's been seeing me since October, but he told me not to tell anyone. Why is he doing this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - A guy and I have been talking for a while at school, he always sits by me, and smiles when he sees me. but he won't admit to his friends that he likes me. i don't know why, and it's not like i'm just somebody to stay away from, he told me to not tell...

I'm so terribly confused!

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5 January 2011 (F) - Hello guys... So, to start off directly, I fell in love with my close friend ... and I'm quite sure that he has feelings for me, too. We've always been hugging a lot and stuff, but it became kind of different lately; for example, the two of us spent...

How can we make it work?

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5 January 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 and a half years and really aren't getting on. He doesn't have a job and isn't able to pay rent and no matter what I say he doesn't get one, he just says yeah I'll go tomorrow! I'm not sure what to do ...

It hurts when he looks at other women

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I need some insights... My bf and I are in a great relationship for over a year and half, we love each other so much and we plan on getting married. But he's a MAN and he can't help looking at other women. I know, they say it's normal, "m...

I'm graduating, he's a teacher and I'm looking for something to happen between us.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - Hey, I could use a hand on this issue. There's a guy at school/6th form, he's a fairly new english teacher, and I'm very attracted to him. I think he likes me too, we're really very close and go around town together a lot. At the moment we're just ...

Guy with definite mixed signals!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - I like this guy who is very much a ladies man! he has never admitted he likes me but gets with me sometimes and texts me quite a lot, I know he talks to other girls so it isn't just me but I know all he wants is sex because thats what he tells me ...

How do I force him to seek help?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - Hello, and thanks in advance I've been with my bf for 2.5 years and its been a constant battle more so this last 1.5 I'm unable to go anywhere with gf's unless he is present, unable to have my own privacy on Facebook without him having acce...

He is not allowed to date outside his religion!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - hey, i'm in need of advice! My bf has a very different religion to me and my family. His family's religion is very strict and one of the 'rules' is to be with some one who has the same religion. He doesn't care much as he is with me but he hasn't ...

Are my reasons valid for not telling him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

5 January 2011 (?) - I've never had a proper boyfriend, I've been fairly happy with that until now. Mainly because I loved this guy for longest time and that occupied my affection for other people. During this time i've tended just to hook up with people in a completely ...

A plea for help!

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5 January 2011 (M) - :/ well this is less of a question as to more of just a plee for help...... me and my gf have been going out nearly 5 months and up until now everything has been perfect no arguments nothing :/ but recently shes just completely shut herself off from ...

Now's my chance to zone in on her but I'm clueless as to what to do!

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5 January 2011 (M) - i currently go to college in the uk and there's this girl in my class. i liked her from the moment i saw her but i then found out that she had a boyfriend. So i tried to not look at her, in that way. a few weeks before christmas she was telling ...

What is the 'norm' for hair down below?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - I don't suppose this is relationship per se but it's just something I've been pondering and can't answer it myself! Well I have been seeing this guy for a while now and we've been making out and stuff but things are starting to get a bit more h...

Why hasn't he emailed or called me yet?

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5 January 2011 (?) - Happy new year everyone! So... before the holidays a colleague of mine I really fancy told me we'd meet up for dinner after Jan 3rd (that is when I got back from the holidays) and, well... I know it's just th 5th today but I'm freakin out already!...

We are living too far away from each other but we want to be together forever! What can we do?

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5 January 2011 (F) - am a 21 years old girl.am in deeply in love with my brother (not real brother)but my family members think that we are like real brother and sister. he is also in love with me.when i was 15 years old he came to our home and live for 9 months .then ...

I want her love but I'm not sure if she has a boyfriend! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

5 January 2011 (M) - I love a girl last one year. She is very beautifull. I yet didnt spoke to her. I used to follow her daily on the school campus. Once she smiled to me and i also replied with a smile. I always looked into her eyes and i felt she is looking me also. ...

Am I a terrible person to behave this way when I should be giving support?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - Am i a terrible person to behave this way when i should be giving support? My partner and i have been having this on off relationship for sometime now, he has moved out. The thing is we have 2 kids, my youngest is 2 and when he was a baby, about ...

How do I know there are no other secrets and if I can ever trust him again??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - He doesn't respect me enough to tell me about things when I told him everything about me and has lied to me. He wouldn't talk about his past, only the good things that happened and they were far and few in between. He knows my past, my present, ...

Will she / Wont she??? And should I take the leap or wait??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

5 January 2011 (M) - Hey guys, there is this girl i met, we spend a lot of time together. It was really romantic, we kept kissing and we sat next eachother holding hands. She came from bad relationships i knew this but i kinda rushed it.. so she took a bit distance. ...

How can I get her to choose between me and her boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

5 January 2011 (M) - We've been so close since a year.we've lots of time together.she's not even spent thirty percent of time with her bf..after my breakup with my gf,my friend helped me to get out of it.and now we're best friends too and share lots of things with each ...

I cant help loving her and now I cant fall for anyone else!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - Hi. I am in love since eight years with my former teacher. She is married, I left my boyfriend, I can't help loving her. I am not able to fall in love with any other person. She is now my mentor and instead of working I spend my time daydreaming ...

I'm in love with a girl that hates me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4872 days ago

5 January 2011 (M) - Ok so this girl I really like hates me, for no reason! When I first met her she was so nice to me, but now she absolutely hates me! I really really like her and i have't done anything wrong. I've tried being nice, didn't work. I tried asking her ...

How should I go about asking her on a date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4871 days ago

5 January 2011 (M) - well theres this girl that i graduated with a few years ago and i saw her at a restaurant the other night along with my friend who happened to be her friend as well, so we talked a lil bit and im pretty attracted to her but we dont know each other ...

How do I attract the bad boys?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - what is it abour me that attracts unattractive guys i mean my mom always told me to be nice so i am and i attract boys who i dont like how do i get the ones wh i like what do i do.ps i like the bad boys...

Several guys and I don't know which way to turn....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

5 January 2011 (M) - okay so im a gay guy in college... i dont know what to do as there are a few guys that im either involved with, partially so, or just fancy them. Guy number 1: gay, same age, really nice, same height as me, good body, we are "seeing eachothe...

Am I turning him off or is it his ego?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4871 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - i like a guy at school hes in 8th grade imin 7th and we talk sorta and have conversations.so heres my problem i like him a lot but i dont know if im turning him off. before we were at the park and we were talking and he seemed really intrested i ...

I want to talk to him but he's always with his friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - There is this guy at school that I've liked for awhile now, everytime we cross paths (no classes together right now) we smiles and says "Hi (my name!)" What should I think about this? What should I do now? I'm a senior, and I really don't want to ...

If a guy likes girl, why does he ignore her?

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5 January 2011 (F) - ok if you guys like a girl why do you ignore her and treat her like shit and not return her texts then act like nothing happens a month later...

He wont tell me how old he is!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - Is it weird for a man not to tell you how old he is when you ask? Especially if it's a man you've been out on a few dates with? He refuses to tell me and gets defensive. I didn't think it was a big deal at the time, so I dropped it. But now I'm...

He tells me he misses me and then blows me off!

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5 January 2011 (F) - Not sure what to ask my bf and father of our unborn child is out of state he has been gone for almost a month. it took him 2 weeks to even call me after he reached his destination he called me on christmas crying saying he misses his home town ...

My parents wont let me see my boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4872 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for at least 2 years and my parents will not let me see him. We go to the same school around the same age, we are even both mixed. He's perfect for me. I know because even though we fight we always talk it out. ...

Don't want this meeting to end in the "friend zone"

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5 January 2011 (M) - Hello my question is how do i stop getting stuck in the friend zone with every female i meet? I have been talking to this girl over text and im meeting her tomorrow, i would love to be more then friends but not sure how to make her aware of my ...

Falling in Love with business partner

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5 January 2011 (F) - I have been separate 4 years, haven't been with or kissed another man while separated. My husband and I are finally getting a divorce/ My situation is for the past 4 months I have been doing alot of talking on the phone with my business partner...

If I don't have nice skin, can I only look for similar women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

5 January 2011 (M) - Do most women with really nice complexions and good looks pretty much only go for men with equivalent (male) complexions*? *I missed out looks because I know that generally speaking, facial features aren't so important, but other things are. W...

Out of the dating scene for years. Scared & Confused

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - I have dated quite a bit over the past few years. Online dating and it's usually 1 or 2 dates and then it doesn't go any where. Or, I find something wrong with them, or they are not my type. I haven't been in a relationship in over 15 years...just ...

In a relationship of 3 years and now I like another girl. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4872 days ago

5 January 2011 (M) - Hi. I am in a relationship for over 3 years now. I stay at my girlfriend's house, with her mom, aunt and grandma. I could just have stayed at my own house, but I have chosen to stay with her, because she felt uncomfortable at my house. For the past...

Why is he making an issue out of nothing?

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5 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 years. Today he accused me of hugging my male co-workers on the job. All I said was hi to the guy and my boyfriend defined hi to mean hug. Then he lied and said he didn't know who the co-worker was when we ...

Should I forgive her?

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5 January 2011 (M) - Ok so I'm in love with my girl best friend. Its very complicated so I will start from the beginning. Well I have known this girl from like 3rd grade. So were really good friends till highschool. Since then she had crush on me for like a year but I ...

I need advice on flirting!

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5 January 2011 (F) - Um, soo I'm 13 and a total romantic. I love love! But being 13 and single? Doesn't feel that great.. -So I'm terrible at flirting with guys, like I start freaking out and "go all out" like raising my voice and stuff and wayy too embarrassed to e...

I've left everything behind for him!

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5 January 2011 (F) - I've just emigrated to be with my boyfriend who has now established himself for 2 years abroad - we have been apart for a year as I needed to support my Mum back at home who has been really ill - it was obviously not a planned decision. The last ...

Where did I go wrong, was it my fault?

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5 January 2011 (M) - This is a long story but to get the full effect and so i may get honest opinions u need to know the entire story thanks for your help everybody so here it goes I met this girl on a camping trip and it had been awhile since my last relationship bu...

How can I make him see that I'm sick and tired of being treated this way, and I've had enough?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - Hello thanks in advance Well to start this off, I've been with my bf for 2.5 years. He's a contolling person, which I didn't really notice until we moved in together. He has to have his way most of the time. He's taken me out maybe 5 times ...

We've never spoken and I'm not sure what move to make.

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5 January 2011 (F) - Right there is this guy at school that is the year above me and I have never spoken to him before but I always see him on the bus . I think he is really good looking and seems to have a good personality from what I've seen. My mate text this lad ...

I want to express my sexuality!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - Hello! I'm 22 and I'm a quite attractive girl. I have a boyfriend for about 3 years now and we love each other and our sex life is pretty good. Despite all that I sometimes feel the need to masturbate watching porn, thing which I don't find very ...

Boyfriend of 5 years going travelling, again!

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5 January 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, Basically I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years (we are 22 years old)and generally things have been great. A year and a half ago he went away for 3 months during the summer and before he went we first decided to go on a break, b...

I fancy my co-worker but not sure if he feels the same.

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5 January 2011 (F) - My last boyfriend dropped dead suddenly one day 9 years ago, i have never got over this. I know i need to move on but dont know how to, i think that men fancy me but only to find out that they dont want to know, even if they are single, i dont class ...

How do I reconcile things?

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5 January 2011 (M) - I got into a fight with my girlfriend of 2 years a couple of days ago. Right after our anniversary. After our argument I got into my car and left. (one of the things we argued about). I came back and she didn't want to talk to me anymore and ...