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Archived questions from: 21 January, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I'm out of his league...Should I care what others think?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - I just need to make sure I'm thinking clearly. I'm engaged to a wonderful man who treats me like a princess. He loves me and I love him. Our sex life is good. He's financially stable, (6 figure job, house in the right neighborhood, car, he has no ...

My boyfriend of Three years cheated then left. Why am I being treated like this? It feels punishing.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - my boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me and then left me for his 1 month affair girl. He was perfect to me and i honestly don't know why he has changed this dramatically. I was never formally introduced but i heard that the mistres is 7 years younger ...

We text, and I've told her I love her. But how do I escalate it to a face to face relationship? What do I say to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4856 days ago

21 January 2011 (M) - I have fallen in love with a girl, I'm always sending her text messages telling her that I love her, but I don't have the courage to tell her face to face. how can I tell her and what should I say? ...

He started texting me after we broke up. Then just as suddenly he stopped. Why would he do that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - I'm just looking for a second opinion. A couple of months ago, I slept with this guy a few times. We texted, then i made the tremendous mistake of asking his friend about one of his ex girlfriends. So he stopped texting me. However, each time I ...

Should I stay or move on? I can't seem to convince my gf that we could be good together

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

21 January 2011 (M) - It's been 3 weeks since my girlfriend and I broke up. The reason we broke up was because we fought too much, and our intimacy reduced, but we did have a great friendship (she was my best friend as I was to her). We did have trust and loyalty, befo...

My girl seems to be playing games with me. Why text me when she was with another guy? What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

21 January 2011 (M) - I saw my girl with another guy. She saw me and said, ''hi'' to me. I ignored her. After that she sent me a text saying,''You seem cold today. Why are you so down, or is it me?'' What was the purpose of this sms? She knows I saw she was with ano...

I often get in a panic and gag at the thought of a bj. Why does this happen and how can I address this problem?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - I have this fear of giving a blow job to my boyfriend of 6 years. I don't mind giving oral sex, but as soon as he puts it in my mouth I feel the need to gag. He has a very large penis and if he has just had a shower I don't mind as much. he does...

I want to attract and interest a certain guy, but in a subtle way. Any ideas please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4826 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - What do boys look for in a girl? Please help I need a boyfriend but I want a certain guy, but I don't think that guy likes me! How do I get him to notice me without talking to him, I want him to come to me!...

How can I make this easier?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - i am 18 so please dont say i should have waited. Me and my boyfriend, he is 18 as well, are expecting. well he is now my ex boyfriend. we broke up last night because he had said earlier that he wasn't happy. so i broke up with him. the thing is...

How to get her back???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

21 January 2011 (M) - I started dating a girl i work with about 4 months ago, over the time of the relationship i got very jealous and paranoid as she is polish and when she spoke to other men or her friends in polish i got worried what she was saying. She always told me ...

We only dated for one month... but I fell for her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4856 days ago

21 January 2011 (M) - I dated a girl last November for a month, it was great, i was starting to fall for her. suddenly i find out that she is starting to see the guy she was with before me, he was insisting to see her... when i confronted her, she asked for a break, and ...

I don't know how to initiate conversation!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4856 days ago

21 January 2011 (M) - There is this girl and we recently started talking on the phone and apparently 1 I don’t know how to start a conversation. I’m fine talking it’s just first starting to talk I either know what I’m going to say and I can’t say it or I don't know what ...

Am I being too demanding?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4856 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - I've been in a relationship for past 3 years and im very serious about him... he's got new'ly appointed 4 job and is quite busy these days and hardly has time 4 me.... and when i call up he doesnt have much to say to me. I think he is taking me for ...

He's calling me too much! How do I get him to stop?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

21 January 2011 (?) - So I met this guy through a friend and He showed some interest in me. Truthfully he's not my type of a person AT ALL. but I, for the heck of it, just casually flirted with him. I don't know, but I think he took it as a signal enough to hit on me. H...

It seems like she wants me to chase her, even though we are official!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

21 January 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been talking for a year and some change now, and just in September we made it official. But its like she wants me to chase her, its like she doesn't like to call or respond to my texts unless I contact her. If i don't ...

I've not heard from him in 2 weeks, what happened?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - Meet a deployed soldier online at the end of Nov and have been chatting away for the last 5 or 6 weeks, seemed to be going ok. We chatted and flirted lightly and expressed an interest in meeting up when he got home. He is stationed local to where...

Is this love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4856 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - i had a best friend,we enjoyed each other's company a lot..but then he proposed and i said "no" as i never had that feeling and he left me forever and i missed him a lot for few months and then lost hope he would ever talk to me but still he is ...

She turned me down because of the colour of my skin, even though she is darker than me! Who is the crazy one here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

21 January 2011 (M) - Aunty's I can't beleieve what just happened. My cousin hooked me up with a chic I'll say is "X". Okay so we kicked it on the phone for 9 months until last Saturday. She liked me and I liked her. She calls me tonight and said we should be friends ...

Should I ask him out again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4856 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - Um, I use to be in this young relationship and I am parable way younger than you. But I need help, I went out with this guy, he was really nice, caring and protective about me. But he was getting bulled by other boy's in our year and I felt ...

Is this relationship illegal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - hi i am 16 and i have feeling for my 1st cousin who is 18 and has feelings for me. Is it illegal in the UK to start a relationship with him or should i just ignore my feeling ? I am worried what will happen and what otheres will think but also what ...

Does he see me as more than a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - I really liked a friend of mine for a while, almost three years, and I would like to see what other people think of my situation, and if I should finally make a move. He's a shy guy, and we accidentally met at our school's orientation. The first ...

What should I do about the guy I like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4856 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - I'm eighteen years old, and have never had a boyfriend. I've never been the type to go in search of one, and I use to be very shy. There is this guy I've had my eye on for sometime now, we use to text a lot, and when we did it was for hours. I lost ...

Should I talk to him over the summer about us? Or is this a disaster I should just run away from?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4856 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - Alright, so - this guy and I hooked up the day before I left going back to college. I was completely surprised when this happened because Ive known him for a while; we went to high school together, but he was two years older than me. He's in a band ...

Is he playing games or does he want me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - hey people, well me and my "ex boyfriend"...i say it like that because i don't i know if were together still. We've been friends for months already and when we were friends we kissed two times on different occasions. A little after he asked me out.. ...

Does any of this mean she is interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4856 days ago

21 January 2011 (M) - Hello Dear Cupid, I am looking for some opinions here... I have strong feelings for my coworker. Does she feel the same way? I don't know, it's fairly complicated. Between the 2 of us I believe she had interest first, but again nothing is certa...

I think I screwed everything up for me and him.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4856 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - Okay, so I've been thinking A LOT about this lately. I like this guy a lot, but I think I screwed everything up for us. This past summer, one night we were texting, playing 21 questions, and he asked me if I had ever liked him. Well, I freaked and ...

Why do women often think too much into how to act with their guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4851 days ago

21 January 2011 (M) - Why don't girls realize how easy it is to be a "catch?" I see so many posts that involve girls who will resist some sexual acts, or just being sexually aggressive, because they don't want their partners to think they are a slut. That's just not ...

The date was good, but his f/b profile says I'm not a fit

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - So I went on a date with this guy .. It was a set up from one of my clients . We all went out to dinner he was cute and very nice after dinner we stayed and had a drink and just talked . It was fun . He texted me we talked for a few days then we ...

25, virgin, and don't want to scare guys away

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - So I am going to be 25 and I am a virgin. It's by choice for the most part .. The problem is I'm very self conscious about myself .. I want to be with someone but because I'm not experienced it makes me even more self conscious ! I'm to afraid to ...

Is he trying to control me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - Anytime I do anything besides working on homework, my boyfriend expects me to tell him exactly where I'm going and what I'm doing so that he can go too. He even questioned something simple such as why I changed my facebook picture to a picture of ...

Torn Between Two Great Guys!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4857 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - So let's call the first guy #2, and the second one #1. I'm in middle school. I recently met #1 but he flirts a lot and not in a player way. He's really sweet. He's also funny and texts me all the time asking to hang out and stuff. But #2, he went ...

Social disorders prevented me from dating

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

21 January 2011 (M) - I am in a very abnormal situation and I would appreiciate Your advice. I am a 22 year old man with social disorders and it wasn't until four or five years ago that I was just able to approache someone and talk to them comfortably without being ...

Confronting my girlfriends lying has brought our relationship to an end.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

21 January 2011 (M) - I am in a longterm relationship with a girl from another country. We were casual for around 6 months, and connected immediately. Being able to be very open with each other on everything including past relationships, sex etc. We got together...

Does he like me or am I just a second option?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - Around March I received a friend request on facebook from this boy that was going to a college I had applied too. I didn't add him, just left it there and around july i finally added him because I was sure i was going to that college and I was bored ...

Should I go for a sugar daddy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - Hello everyone Ok i meet a guy online,the site was for ''sugar dadies and sugar babies'' lol so he contacted me and we had a coffee he is wonderful,rich,smart and very nice to be around with,he is 47,i am 19 yeah he can be my dad.lol he is willi...

I can't eat! Is it because I'm in love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4857 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - Hi, so just recently I told the guy I fancied that I liked him and we agreed to try going out and would move slowly, which is good enough for me. I have known him for three years, and we have been together only 5 days since I told him on Sunday th...

My boyfriend cheated, wants to be with me, but still seems conflicted

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4857 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for the last 5 years, in the last year we took a break because he was struggling with depression and confusion about who he is etc.... I was supportive of him taking time and felt our relationship was strong ...

I don't want to make all the 1st moves!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is in 9th grade and im in 11th. i have kissed many guys and have a good amount of experience. He is very shy and we have only been going out for a week and he wont even hold my hand. I care a lot about him and want to hold his hand ...

Come On, and Let Me Know...Should I Stay or Should I Go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - You know what they say: problems come in bunches. My boyfriend and i have been together for almost four months. we're really clase and have a strong relationship, but lately we've been having problems with miscommunication, not seeing each othe...

Should I End It?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - Our relationship started out so wonderfully. We started out as friends getting to know each other in our favorite class. Then, we started to fall for each other. We talk, we snuggle, he is my best friend and my boyfriend all in one, and has been for ...