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Dating: Help and advice

To all Men Help What is this guys problem?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - Calling all guys late 20's to 30s im so confused and need some male advice or anyone that can relate to this feel free to help...thank you basically i have just returned from a trip to america with my friend i had a great time and defo needed ...

Ideas for "secret admirer" notes needed please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend is attending college hours from where I live and plays baseball. My spring break happens to fall on the week of his birthday so I am going to go up. I told him I couldnt come for his birthday but I will be there the next week. But ...

He said he'd text me but he hasn't. Does that mean he didn't like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - I want the honest truth (even if it hurts) My friend had a friend who she wanted to hook up with someone, she had showed him a picture of me and he was interested. He added me on facebook and we began talking, and then texting. We had to wait abou...

Do woman know when a guy likes them in a romantic way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

10 January 2011 (M) - My question today is pretty straightfoward: Many girls I have met tell me that, "Women know when a man likes them in a romantic way." I have asked, "Really? How do they know?" "We just know," is the simple reply. Is this true? If this is...

She says there's nothing between us, but I still feel it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

10 January 2011 (M) - I met a girl roughly a year+ ago, shes best friends with my best friends girlfriend. We were always around each other at outings. I instantly fell for her, I followed by always trying to ask her out, to try to get to know her more but she would ...

Why are men players?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - Why are men Players??? Why do they have a daytime girl and a nite time girl?? ...

She plays these mind-games and I'm not sure what to do now!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

10 January 2011 (M) - hello. I have a very complicated situation on my hands, but i'll make the story short. Me and my girlfriend of a year just broke up for an unknown reason, seeing as she was the one who did it. This relationship had been in my control almost this ...

My cousin and I have secretly been together for several years!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4851 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - My cousin and I have been secretly together for seven yrs off and on,I tried to stop several times,but I can't Im in love with him and, he knows it. When i try to leave him alone he becomes so angry and mean,it makes me cry! I dream about it when I ...

Men, what distance would you go to prove your love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - This question is for males. My question is simple : what will you do if you fall in love with a rich girl, while you are not from rich family? That girl loves you too.. But of course her family will not allow you to be her girlfriend. Will you give...

He seems to value his money more than he values me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - Ok there is this guy that I've been dating for 6 months he is very nice and we have our problems but we always fix them and we connect on a big level.. Ok there is this just one problem he is obsessed with money he is divorced and has 2 kids so ...

Am I being too clingy or is there a problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - Here we go... I am having a communication problem with my boyfriend of a year and a few months, and I don't know if it is me being clingy and needing to talk or its something else. Our normal week consists of him driving a hour and a half to...

My new bf flirts with all my friends - WHY?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - My new bf keeps flirting with MY friends. My Facebook page is pretty popular and heaps of guys flirt with me on a daily basis. I find it really hard to police and am still trying to clean up my profile of these people. Mafia Wars killed my profile ...

Can a relationship recover after cheating by a partner?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - I'm very curious about this because I have been cheated on. I would reallly like to move past it, and still be in a relationship with this man. He has done everything he can to earn my trust back and I do completely trust him again. I don't think he ...

Torn between two guys and I don't know what to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - Ok although my situation is long and complicated I guess it boils down to the fact I like two amazing guys. The first has been my bf for 3 years. We have had some great times and I love him dearly but the relationship has become stale (and please ...

Not sure if I feel affronted or if I should hope he'll change his mind over his imposed 'conditions' on any relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - i met a guy a few weeks ago, after 2 dates he told me that he really did like me but would not be able to marry me due to family reasons, but i could have him as a boyfriend and live with him as long as i wanted. he also added that he had an ex ...

Is my cousin interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - Ok so my question is a bit apart. But please go through it. To start with, I've got a cousin of mine whom have been giving signs that he is interested into me lately but am not really sure if this is the case. I have also seek help from this s...

I cant tell if she wants me to ask her out again or if she just wants to be friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

10 January 2011 (M) - I need some opinions or advice: asked her out several times. First time she had a boyfriend, 2nd time after they broke up, third time she said she wasn't ready for a new relationship. We are long distance now, but when I catch her online she always ...

He wants me to move to be with him but I don't trust him! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - So my best friend introduced me to this guy she used to work with. I started talking to him although he lived about 2,000 miles away from me. I was a little hesitant because he was so far but I thought, what the heck who knows where this can go.. So ...

I can't seem to get a girlfriend! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

10 January 2011 (M) - I am a nice guy who weighs 220 pounds of mostly muscle - 6 ft and I workout 4-5x a week for an hour each time. I am in college (age 22), and have a job, both of which I am successful at. I got out of my previous relationship about 3 months shy of a ...

My partner left me and is pregnant with my baby!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

10 January 2011 (M) - About 2 years ago I started dating a good friend of my brothers she was only just 18 at the time where I was coming up to 23. But we both got on very well and liked spending time with each other. But then I realized she had a hard time at school a...

Should I tell her how I feel or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

10 January 2011 (M) - basically I'm in love with a good friend's sister..usually I'm good emotionally and see things cleary but I'm just so confused right now and dunno what to do. Basically I work with this guy and we are pretty good mates.. Both in work and outside ...

Is she covering up an awful danger?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

10 January 2011 (M) - she may very well be a perfect match for me, but for this one possibility--namely, that she is actually like Sharon stone from Basic Instinct. So how do I determine whether the sweet, wholesome goodness she is so pro at presenting is not covering ...

Will I sound crazy if I mention this concern?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - This is kind of complicated so I apologize in advance. This guy and I were initially work friends who hooked-up. He had broken up with his gf a couple months prior and I ended things with my bf during that summer. I assumed that we would h...

He says I am his second 'conscious', what does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - When a guy says your his second conscious what does that mean?....i have been friends with a guy who i like and he like me but we havent spoke about a relationship are we just friends or he just wants to take things slow? We indeed had sex but i ...

If I'm such a great catch why do women not seem to be interested in me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

10 January 2011 (M) - I'm 25, single and sick of being so lonely. I've never had a girlfriend or even so much as dated anyone. I'm a decent guy, am told I'm good looking, have a college degree, have a stable job and a good group of friends. If I'm such a great catch ...

He asked me to marry him and then took it back, now he is engaged to somebody else!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - HELP!!!! ok here is the thing ive been friends with this guy for 8 years we know absolutly everything there is to know about eachother i know things that not even his supposed wife to be knows. he only trusts me with most things we are best friends ...

How do we get through the awkward silences?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend can talk for hours but then sometimes can't talk at all. Can u please give me advice on how to stay away from acward scilences. Please don't give me corny answers like the news and the weather and all that green shit. We in the ...

I don't see a future with him but I love him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - i've been dating with him about 4 years and now we're gonna hit the 5. i have a problem with him. seriously, i think he is getting bored with me. we're having a long distance relationship and not seeing him for 3 months. i donno whether i should ...

I want my friend to forget his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - ok i made a post about my close male friend claiming he likes me and which I also like however he is still missing his ex girlfriend. When we met as friends, he poured out his heart to me about his past relationship. It was for 7 years but has been ...

My boyfriend's family doesn't accept me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4868 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - Hey, I never wrote to one of these before, so do bear with me! I have been with my boyfriend for now a year. I live in Northern Ireland, where religion slightly matters. My boyfriend is a Protestant and I'm a Catholic. Boyfriend told me that his...

I don't know how to handle my sadness! I want someone in my life!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

10 January 2011 (M) - Hi guys. I'm a 16 year old gay male and I'm been going through a tough time in my life since the last 3 years. There are a lot of things in my life that are bringing me down. One of the things that ways a lot on me is the fact that I'm lonely. I'm ...

Is it wrong to date my step brother?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - Is it wrong to date my step brother? Im 14 an my step bro is 13 an he is really cute an i really like him. I mean he flirts with me all the time. I dont know what to do?!...

If I can't change who I am attracted to should I just accept loneliness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - I have never expressed these feelings before to anyone; I am not looking for a pity party. I'm just looking for feedback. This is making me more depressed than I already am. I've been told countless times to date within my league. I've been told t...

Why doesn't he want our relationship status on facebook?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - Why is it that when your dating someone and you want to share it on facebook they dont want to. Its been a long time now since we've been together but he still acts like he doesnt know it. I havent done anything to him at all so what does this mean? ...