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Archived questions from: 23 January, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Boyfriend going to travel for 3 months and I'm starting to worry about how to handle it

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23 January 2011 (?) - hey, me and my bf have been together for a year now. hes planning to go away for 3 months travelling which is absolutely fine and i encourage him to have the freedom to do what he wants and follow his dreams etc. but the more i think about it the ...

How do I successfully ride my boyfriend?

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23 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend loves it when I ride him but after a month I still don't really know what to do. I have trouble keeping a rhythm up. He tells me to lead and he'll follow along, but I always end up losing it and having to pull myself out of the moment ...

I think I just lust over this other guy. Is this normal?

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23 January 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and I recently met a bloke in the office I work in. He told one of my colleages he fancies me. He then asked me on a date but I said no as I have a bf but I do find him attractive. Now I can't stop thinking ...

Are we fixable?

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23 January 2011 (F) - Hey everyone I hope someone has the time and heart to help me. I've looked for advice everywhere and never an answer no matter what website I've gone on. Here it goes: well i've been with my fiancé for 2 years now. We have a 4 month old daught...

Should I make her Miss Right even though she doesn't challenge my mind?

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23 January 2011 (M) - Dear everyone i would like to hear your honest inputs on this statement. i alway wanted to settle for a smart intelligent lady, someone who would challenge me thoughtfully until i met nally she is my current girlfriend now and i love her so very ...

My faith in him is broken... I need your help!

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23 January 2011 (F) - My heart is torn. The issue is i been married for five years separated for a year and a couple of months. Well my husband was having issues with keeping a job and had depression. He does smoke weed and started experimenting with Ecstasy. He slowly ...

Now I feel as if our whole relationship was a sham...

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23 January 2011 (F) - Hi Jo I split up with my ex-boyfriend at Christmas 2009 after 2 1/2 years and have never really got over him as there was no official split as such - I thought (mistakenly it turns out) that we would work things out but he never responded to me so...

I can't stop living in the past... help!

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23 January 2011 (F) - last summer i split with my boyfriend and I loved him like not in love with him but loved the person he was and i feel like he stole my heart and never really gave it back cause now this guy likes me and he's really nice exactly my type of guy, ...

Help!!! Miss him and want him back!

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23 January 2011 (?) - I recently broke up with my boyfriend, He was the first boy i ever loved and he told me he wanted to stay with me for at least over a year.. We had such a lovely time in the holidays though, the best few weeks of my life. He was the perfect b...

He doesn't love/like me the way I love/like him...???

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23 January 2011 (F) - my bf told me he doesnt love me the way i love him but then he explained and said to me that he meant to say he doesnt like me the way i like him. so whats the difference? doesnt that mean the same thing... like or love me. im confuse please help.....

Help! How can I tell if I'm pregnant?

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23 January 2011 (F) - Okay... well me and my ex were going out for about 9 months till we broke up. Sex between us is very good, we both enjoy it. I love my ex and he loves me. His a great guy very respectful too. I think it was a week after we broke up we had sex, he ...

Brother in law lusting...

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23 January 2011 (F) - i met my current partner 10 years ago have a beautiful 8 year old girl and are very happy, about 2 years into relationship i began to talk to his brother in law and chemistry built with us and has ever since. we all go out 2 gether every weekend me ...

Troubles with the reinstated ex!!!!

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23 January 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend knew each other for about a year before we start actually dating, and we were together for about a month before we broke up.... now a couple of months later were back together.. because we both felt like we broke up over ...

My boyfriend doesn't trust me...

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23 January 2011 (?) - My boyfriend doesn't trust me because of who i was 8 months ago. I used to unintentionally 'flirt' with guys. To me it wasn't flirting but it came off that way. I met my boyfriend and we started dating and i completely stopped all of that because he ...

Why would he have condoms in his pocket especially empty ones?

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23 January 2011 (F) - ive been in a relationship 4 a while its very open. i go out and have fun when i want and so does he. the only condition we have made to each other is that we tell what we are doing and that has worked out fine (or so i thought) anyways the other...

His friggin ex!!!!

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23 January 2011 (F) - Oki.. so Ive now been with my boyfriend with 2 months and we are very happy 2gether, but 1 thing is that he keeps talking about his ex girlfriend to me and it makes me quite upset and jealous, he keeps saying that i'm way prettier and stuff, and ...

I really don't know what I would do with out him...

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23 January 2011 (F) - I am 16 and my boyfriend is 18 we have not been together that long but I am so in love with him and i would do anything for him. At the the start of our relationship I thought he felt the same way but I don't know if he does anymore because ...

I'm so hurt right now I don't know what to do...

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23 January 2011 (M) - Here is my story... I was dating a girl for over a year and the entire time we were together things were great. A few months into the relationship she began always asking me to buy her an engagement ring and a house we could live in. At first I ...

I think that he was using me to fill a gap until he left.

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23 January 2011 (F) - Was seeing a man for three months. He never took me out, but he would cook for me a lot. We would spend the night at each other's houses. He told me that he loved me. Well he went on a trip last week and he told me last night that he had a job ...

When a woman tells her man she wants a break...

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23 January 2011 (F) - I've been dating this guy for about two years. Things were fantastic and then one by one, little things started bothering us about each other. He told me I put on a lot of weight, was messy and crazy. I couldn't stand his pot addiction, obsession ...

Accusing me of cheating... again!

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23 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been through a lot in 8 months, from me not being well and being in hopsital.ect. 7 Months ago, me and an old friend was chatting on Facebook. However because i used alot of pet names such as 'hun' or 'bab' my Boyfriend fou...

Is he just taking me for granted or what?

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23 January 2011 (F) - I dont even no were to start, I've been with my partner for almost eight years. We have kids together, we have had our ups and down, I have been trying to set a date for the wedding but every time i want to talk about it he dont - so, finally i ...

I'm just not sure what's going on with her!!! Help!

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23 January 2011 (M) - I've been dating this girl for about a month now. She's cute, silly, beautiful, smart, and pretty darn awesome. But there are things that are making me turn away. Before we started dating we were both in very tough relationships. My ex girlfriend...

Advice for dating please...???

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23 January 2011 (M) - Herro everyone. First time in practically two years and I have a date :). She's 17, I'm 19, and I'm really looking forward to it. However, I want to try and avoid going to the movies, would rather talk more then sit and blatantly stare at a scree...

I think his feelings for me might be fading... help!

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23 January 2011 (F) - I am 16 and my boyfriend is 18 we have been together for just over a month and I am so in love with him. we tell each other we love each other all the time and at the start of the relationship he was so lovely to me and he still is but something has ...

Is there something wrong in our relationship?

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23 January 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid Me and my bf are together for an year. We are happy together, but i always feel like whenever he talks to me in a really emotional connected way, the next 2-3 days he'll try to avoid me as if he wants to undo the connection we fe...

Is there any point in waiting around for something that may never happen?

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23 January 2011 (F) - basically, i was with this lad for about 4 months, then we split up due to an argument that got a little heated, he said some things, i said some things, and well yeah in the spur of the moment, i ended it, but i never realised what a mistake i ...

Would you see someone again if they texted that you're a whore?

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23 January 2011 (F) - I have a question for the ladies out there. What would you do if someone texts you that you're a slut, c*** and a whore. That somebody that you love texts you that on your phone? would you want to see him again. what would you do thanks 4 all your ...

Bathing suit problem!!!

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23 January 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I've written quite a few comments on here before but I'm having trouble thinking clearly when it comes to this. My bf and I sometimes go to the pool together and we also go to the sauna. My bf would like to go to the sauna without an...

Is he interested or am I being silly?

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23 January 2011 (F) - My line manager keeps making comments to me such as I want to stay with you, I love working with you, I want to live with you, I dream about you, I'd love to be your bitch, I think your a really nice person and when he was due to move to another ...

We broke up, and he wants some space. I want to work things out. Need advice!

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23 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together about 8 months. We live together and we're planning a future together. Problem is that we are both dominate personalities. We both are used to doing things our way with little resistance. This has started all ...

I'd like to slow down and focus more on foreplay with my boyfriend. Any ideas?

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23 January 2011 (F) - Hey, I'd love some advice from girl and guy readers on how to give my guy great foreplay, please:) We've been together 4 months, and things are great. We're very physically attracted to one another, and usually go straight from kissing to ...

How can I start a conversation and at the same time show that I'm interested in her without looking like a creep?

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23 January 2011 (M) - I sent a friend request to a girl I like on facebook. The girl is not totally a stranger to me. We have at least 20 mutual friends and she used to go to the same high school. Unfortunately we had no class together. I do remember seeing her in ...

Its like I'm invisible around him?

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23 January 2011 (F) - Ok sorry if this is a little long.So Im 17-18 female and just started working in a restaurant as a cook.Oh bye the way just warning poeple that this is one of those annoying teenage problems alright.The day I handed in my resume I saw this guy ...

Need help...what would stop her from wanting to be with me?

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23 January 2011 (M) - Hi DearCupid, I am asking this question with regards to someone I really like but I'm not sure what her point of view is of everything... If she is single, attracted to me, cares about me, and knows that I really care about her, what would stop ...

My GF thinks I'm not a good listener...I don't know where that came from?!

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23 January 2011 (M) - I've been seeing a woman for 3 years. Things started out very well, we were really happy together. In the last year or so, things have been suffering a bit. This week we nearly broke up twice. She told me the following- that she feels that som...

I cant have children but would like to date a woman who has children so I can be a role model

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23 January 2011 (M) - I'm 32 years old and recently divorced 11 months ago after a 3 year marriage. My ex left me after we were trying to have a child, she couldn't get pregnant and after numerous tests it came back that I'm sterile and unable to father a child, she ...

My boyfriend treats his daughter like an adult friend

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23 January 2011 (F) - I have been dating a great guy for a few years. He's been divorced for almost a decade and has a 13 years old daughter. He gets his daughter every weekend and cherishes the time he has with her. Since I've known him, I've felt like he treats h...

How can I be more outgoing and not shy?

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23 January 2011 (F) - OK. Well, lets just say I'm not very good at getting guys. Like, if I like a guy SO much I would be to shy to even look at him. I would prefer the guy come up to me. I'm a little on the shy side. Okay, I'm super shy. I have a few guy friends, but I ...

Do guys like flowers?

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23 January 2011 (F) - I'm thinking of sending my boyfriend flowers for valentines day because he's at the United States Air Force Academy and I'm stuck in Vermont. Would he like that? Do guys like that? why or why not?...

I want to date her but I don't know how

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23 January 2011 (M) - I am in love with a woman 5 years older than me. I work with her, she is the most beautiful woman I have ever seen, and I just don't know how I could ever make her even want me to take her out for lunch/dinner. It kills me, because I am a very ...

Help! Need Advice About the Guy I Rejected

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23 January 2011 (F) - Help! I think I made a mistake; a big one. So, I liked this guy a couple of years ago, but I wouldn't go out with him because he was 16 and I was 13. We remained friends for a while but we eventually quit talking altogether. Now, I am in High School ...

Do I get over him, do I wait for him, or do I fight for him?

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23 January 2011 (?) - Hi, so I got dumped last Sunday, in a text, without a reason why. Oddly enough I wasn't mad at the guy, because I just knew Friday and Saturday that it was coming, I wasn't angry, I was just hurt. He still refuses to talk to me, but a mutual friend ...

I go all out to see my boyfriend yet he makes up pitiful excuses why he can't see me!

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23 January 2011 (F) - Sorry for the length of the post, but I just wanted to get in every detail so you could evaluate it as fairly as possible. My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. Initially, we saw each other maybe 3 or 4 times a week (just ...

What does "I want to take this relationship to the next level" mean

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23 January 2011 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend off and on for about three years now and we split lay november and now we are together. He just said to me "I want to take this relationship to the next level" and I have no clue what its suppose to mean or how to ...

Did he expect me to wait around for him forever?

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23 January 2011 (F) - hi! so ive been in love with this boy adam for 2 years ive told this boy my feelings for me acouple times and he never gave out one clue that he liked me. all he would say is aww that was sweet we should hang out but we never did get around to it! f...

His behavior is confusing me. What is his angle?

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23 January 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, Okay so I like this guy but am a little confused by his behavoir. I am in High School and we used to text a lot because we didn't have any classes together but liked each other.( We would flirt with each other, when we texted.) Anyway,...

Can love change a narcissist?

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23 January 2011 (M) - I like this girl but I think she is very narcissistic. She expects people to do things for her and often they do because of her looks. She is not very empathetic and gets upset when people criticize her or if they have problems with anything she ...

I think he could be my prince charming but I'm afraid of being hurt!

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23 January 2011 (F) - Right there some guy he reall likes me and I really like him but because I been hurt by my family and peopel around me Im scared he goign to hurt me he hasnt doen ntohing to make me think like that its just that fear i been through crap and im ...