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Archived questions from: 8 January, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

My guy friend is moving departments and I'm in pieces

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

8 January 2011 (F) - please advise me. whats wrong with me. ive been in floods of tears all day because a guy i work with is moving to another department. we were close friends to start and towards the end we had some silly rows but today finally cleared the air. ive ...

How to forget about the older guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

8 January 2011 (F) - hey im 16 and quie nature for my age i drink,go out into town (clubs) and hang aroun with older lads. There is like a well known group of lads were i live there like in their 20's and im good mates with only on eof them but another one i so...

How can I make him think about me as girlfriend material?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

8 January 2011 (F) - Well, here's the thing: I'm seeing a guy to whom I'm really into, although I won't let him know that because I'm not very sure about the way he feels about me. I've to say that he's kind of "emotionally unavailable" I'm a bit "femme fatale" in terms ...

Should I ask him out for coffee?

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8 January 2011 (F) - I've not got much confidence so I go to this place called mind, other people go their with there problems aswell. I'm nearly 26 and when I first meet people they say I dont look my age, well that I look about 18/19. Well there is a 35 year old I ...

Am I just email entertainment for this leo male?

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8 January 2011 (F) - Need help with mature leo guy! Been emailing this particular leo guy for nearly 6 weeks now, was introduced through a mutual friend, we live in different counties but hope to meet up in a few months. Fairly regular chatting, mild flirting, i ask ...

All this has happened in a few weeks? Should I let it slide?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4869 days ago

8 January 2011 (F) - So, i was talking to this guy for a month. Meaning we both liked each other, but had yett to commit exclusively. And then right before he was going to ask me out a girl asked me on facebook if i was also seeing him and claimed that she had kissed ...

I think he may be asking me out, but maybe I should beat him to the punch?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

8 January 2011 (F) - i really like this person. i have told him and he seemed cool about it. In class i overheard him say to his friend how do you ask someone out. My friends have been trying to get me to ask him out but i just dont know how to. He smiles at me all the ...

I want a guy to double date with - why is no guy interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4869 days ago

8 January 2011 (F) - I'm a junior in high school, I'm smart, confident, and I'm good looking haha:) anyway, all throughout high school I haven't had a boyfriend. Guys have been interested in me, and we "talk" for a while but something happens and it just falls apart. I...

Should I have taken the risk of giving him my number?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

8 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm 22 and I went out with some friends on new years eve to our local pub. We all met up at one of our houses first and most of the group were in couples except me and one guy who I inatantly knew I wanted to get to know him better. While we ...

I love my cousin, what should we do?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

8 January 2011 (M) - Okkay this is my story. I'm sorry if its long but I just need adives on how to handle all this I were 11 years at the time when for the first time I got to know my cousin, in the first few hours I were super shy because she was beautiful for be...

I'm falling in love with my flat mate

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8 January 2011 (M) - A couple of months ago a new flat mate moved in and we hit it off straight away. We spend a lot of time together (in each others rooms, going out for drinks, etc). The other flat mates have thought we were together but we are not. I would like to ...

Is it normal to feel this nervous around someone I like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

8 January 2011 (F) - well my problem is i'm too shy, especially when it comes to guys (that i like) because there's a guy that i like for almost more than a year, we're both in college and he likes me too. i mean he made it very clear that he wanted to talk to me and ...

I'm having trouble finding a female that wants me and not cheat on me what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

8 January 2011 (M) - im having trouble finding a girl that wants to be with me for me and not want to cheat on me all the time every girl but one has cheated on me . . . i need hints and tips on relationships from females and males! please help me...

Did I hurt her ? Will she get nasty ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

8 January 2011 (M) - i met a girl at college and she seemed to be giving me signals of interest. Anyway, her friend gave me her number and when we began texting she began the flirting and texting until almost 2am on college night (something i wouldn’t expect friends to ...

Is Karma punishing me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

8 January 2011 (M) - I want to know if anyone has ever broke someone's heart the wrong way then later on it happened to you? My girlfriend broke up with me this morning and I'm sick as a dog. Did you get feel like you couldn't make it fron one minute to the next?...

Why won't my boyfriend spend holiday's with me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

8 January 2011 (F) - I'm an older woman dating a much younger man. I am in my 40's and he's in his 20's. Actually he is 27. We met online about five months ago. We met face to face about 2 months ago. I like him a lot and he tells me that he likes me too. Most of the ...

I just want to know what's up with us. Should I make the first move?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

8 January 2011 (F) - I met a boy named M a little more than a year ago, at the same time as his brother P. They aren't at my school; we were introduced by their aunt, a close friend of my mother's. In fact she brought them directly to my house one night without me ...

I will do whatever it takes to earn D's trust and hand in marriage.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

8 January 2011 (M) - Hey before I get started please don't attack me because I know I was the asshole. Ok so I'll call say her names D. D worked with me for 16 months.she didn't work in my dept but we friendly.She was single but I was going out with two girls that ...

My girlfriend is falling for her gay cousin?

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8 January 2011 (M) - My girlfriend is falling in love with her gay male cousin! She always keeps things from me and never really talks to me anymore. I love her more then anything but it just seems like she don't love me. I'm constantly doing things for her without her ...

Why can't I get past a 3rd date?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

8 January 2011 (M) - I have been trying to date for a good 6 years now and no one has ever showed an interest in staying with me past a third date or so. I am 28 years old and have been rated an "8" on a looks scale from 1-10. I make close to 6 figures in a good ...

Relationship or just for fun

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

8 January 2011 (F) - I am a professionalI in my late 20’s, dating another professional of the same age. We have been dating elusively now for ten months. We met each other randomly during a dance lesson. He is busy due to his occupation and works 60 to 80 hours a week ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

8 January 2011 (F) - I'm hoping someone can help me. Here's my story. I'm seeing a man who lives over an hour from me and is going through a divorce. He has not moved out yet, however. He is still living with his wife/to be ex and kids while saving money to set-up ...

How do I go about this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

8 January 2011 (M) - ok so i have this girl i been dating for a while. she has been through somethings...in the area of abusive boyfriend...bad relationships and moms ex boyfriend almost raping her.its been many years since then and this was before i met her.i ...

Five months together and now he's looking at a dating site? What's he up to?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

8 January 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months. We love each other very much, at least I think we do...we met on a dating website and when me and him started dating I obviously deleted my page. He didn't delete his but never went on ( you can see the ...

I still love her, but she's sending mixed signals. How do I win her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

8 January 2011 (M) - It's almost two weeks since we broke up. I was very angry at her, we were going through a rough patch. She claims I broke up with her, while she had made it clear that she wanted to be single. As part of my move on strategy, I removed her as my ...

A love triangle to untangle. What should I do?

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8 January 2011 (F) - i went to a new school, to get a new start and Cass was my very first friend. A couple days after we met she started talking about this guy, and how he liked him, but he was 18 (we are 15)! i said if you like him back go for it! A few days later i ...

What do you think the text he sent could mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

8 January 2011 (F) - So i kindof liked this guy, and he liked me in about a month, he got 2 2nd base with me then told me things were complicated and he couldnt have any type of relashionship right now. Which kindof hurt, so i told him i wouldnt bother him anymore, and ...

I'm getting absolutely sick of my girlfriend and I feel guilty for it

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

8 January 2011 (M) - Hey guys. I'm in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend; we see each other about once a month or once every two months and talk online and on the phone every.single.night. This was FINE at first, when everything was still fresh, you know? ...

How long is long enough to expect commitment when you are sleeping with a guy??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

8 January 2011 (F) - I began dating this guy about 2.5 months ago. I had just gotten out of a short term relationship, and before that had a baby and was in a long term before that. He had just gotten out of a divorce a year ago, and the night we first "hooked up...

My BF and I are in our 40s', but is it ok for us to spend the night together, at the risk of setting a bad example to our kids?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

8 January 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and I met 8 months ago and we are in our 40's. the problem is he has 2 daughters 20,22 and I have one son 7 years old. We don't live near eachother so we don't get much time alone. When we are together we can't be alone in our rooms ...

My BF's friend sent me dirty texts which I showed him, and his reaction was zilch!! How do I get him to be more protective of me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

8 January 2011 (F) - Hi everyone. I'm 15 and I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half who's just turned 16 I've come to grips to the fact that he's not the jealous type. This kind of bothers me because I definitely am. When I get upset over little things l...

He has been my boyfriend for two months, and is now trying to get me pregnant!

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8 January 2011 (F) - Okay so me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 months now and he started talkinq bout having a baby with me. The thing is im 16 and he is 18. I told him i'm not ready to have a baby that's not in my life plan to be pregnant at 16. even ...

Can a relationship work without common interests to talk about?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

8 January 2011 (M) - I have had a relationship with a girl on the internet for over four months now. We have communicated by email, instant chat and over the phone over this period and are looking to move forward to meeting. I'm getting attached to her as we have s...

With a baby on the way, my relationship with my BF is headed downhill

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

8 January 2011 (F) - I have a boyfriend for one year and We knew eachother for 6 years. We have a baby girl on the way we were doing fine until he moved in with me and e started fighting it was a never ending battle. I dont know what I should do he calls me names s...