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Archived questions from: 15 January, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

What do you think, should I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4862 days ago

15 January 2011 (F) - theres this guy who i fancy who i think likes me too. but he's a Jehovas Witness. now, i don't know lot about what they are allowed to do, but i do know that they follow very strict rules. he's a Jehovas Witness mainly because of his pa...

I find I can't stay away from my married lover. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

15 January 2011 (F) - I am seeing a married man. I know it is wrong. But, can't stay away. What do I do? ...

How to talk dirty on IM?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

15 January 2011 (F) - My guy and I can't be together at the moment (long distance relationship) and we IM a lot to keep in touch. Lately he wants to start talking a little dirty with me. I like this and want to go along with it, but the thing is, I am a virgin with no ...

I've been seeing her but she thinks she still has feelings for the ex! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

15 January 2011 (M) - I was recently seeing this girl for about 2 weeks i saw her about 3 times and we were really getting along well, she was always telling me how lovely i was and how i made her feel so happy, then she told me she still has feelings for her ex ...

I can't seem to stay sexually attracted to the same girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

15 January 2011 (M) - I can't seem to stay sexually attracted to the same girl. I can love the person but after few weeks or months I just cant have sex with her... all of my past girlfriends where gorgeously looking But really after some time I get into a battle w...

Pull out method... reliable enough???

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

15 January 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend want to have sex, im not on the pill or anything and neither of us have got condoms. he said he could put it in then take it out when hes about to come, but i dont know if thats okay or not. what is the best thing to do?...

Texting problems...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

15 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I jus started dating. For like the first week everything was going very well. We talked all the time and texted all the time. We always checked on each other, but then all of a sudden he quit texting back. That same day I called him ...

Dating etiquette...???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

15 January 2011 (F) - Can someone advise me about dating etiquette and so on? I have been on three "dates" with a man that I really like but I am not sure if this is just the normal way that things go as I have not dated for a long time. We are colleagues, and each time ...

Is it my fault? Am I too fat and ugly for him???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4862 days ago

15 January 2011 (F) - my problem is i met my partner on the internet last year we hit it off stright away, soon we couldnt live without each other so i moved in with him but since i did that our sex lives has gone out the window. he would rather show other women him ...

What is the best way to find a healthy sexual relationship with an attractive female?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

15 January 2011 (M) - I have not had sex in well over 4 years now. I'm only 25 years old and really feel terrible about this and angry that my love life has turned out to be so non-existent. I haven't even dated somebody more than a few weeks during any of that time ...

Help! Am I doing the right thing by not saying anything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

15 January 2011 (M) - here we go, my gf left me just before christmas, she decided to go out with her flat mate, he had always liked her a year before she met me and she had had several bf during that time, he was her only friend and he started seeing another girl at his ...

Should I call him back... or should I wait for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4861 days ago

15 January 2011 (F) - Yesterday him and i were supposed to hang out..i have been kind of busy and have not been able to see him i told him the day before yesterday that we would hang yesterday and to not make any other plans but me cuz i wanted alone time with him. he ...

I feel like I'm gambling my happiness here...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

15 January 2011 (F) - I have a boyfriend who kissed another girl and stayed over at her house behind my back. they had just kissed and he told me the next day.He said he had liked her for over a year before falling in love with me. He doesnt want to be with her but think ...

How long should I give her to have "her break?"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

15 January 2011 (M) - So i have been dating this girl for almost a year we have talked about marriage having kids, then she finds out some bad medical news then tell me she needs a break, some time alone. she still calls me 3 times a day, still have sex talk for hours on ...

I want her to come back with every fiber of my being, do you think she will?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

15 January 2011 (M) - So in 09, I moved for her after a long distance relationship that lasted 11 months. We were pretty sure we were going to be together a while and were tired of paying airfare to go back and forth to see one another. Three months after I got here...

She broke up with me once cause I wouldn't ask her to have sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

15 January 2011 (M) - Hey. Well..I got no one else to talk about this. Me and my girlfriend have been together for quite a long time. And we got our ups and downs. Heres the problem to me.. we did broke up once just because I didn't asked her to have sex with me. She was ...

Attracted to blondes!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

15 January 2011 (M) - alright for some reason I am really attracted to blondes. So I am at this high school dance last night and when I walk in right away I see this girl who has a smoking hot body. at first I was almost intimidated but thinking of the last girl I ...

Ladies, Would you date a 40 year old virgin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

15 January 2011 (M) - My friends tell me to lie about being a virgin because they say, if I start to become intimate with a woman and she learns that I am still a virgin, she will be scared away. My friends say by this time, women want experience so my best avenue is to ...

Boyfriend has a drink problem and I would love your thoughts

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

15 January 2011 (F) - Hello, My boyfriend has a drinking problem and although he admits it and says he loves me and that I'm more important than the booze, he isn't doing anything about it and sometimes he can drink for 10 solid days where I can't contact him as h...

My boyfriend always talks about sex with me on the messenger

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

15 January 2011 (F) - Every time my boyfriend and I talk on the messenger, he always talking about sex with me but I'm not in the mood to talk about sex with my boyfriend because I'm not so horny as my boyfriend, And when he and I are together we always get very hor...

Pregnant by my foreign b/f

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

15 January 2011 (F) - SO im with my bf a year now n realized im pregnant oh but shit hes from brazil and we live in ireland and hes only on a student visa we had no plan 4 this and yes were happy just thing is were scared out of our wits were going to be separated we ...

Does this silence mean it's over?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

15 January 2011 (F) - I have a boyfriend who I haven't heard from for almost 2 weeks now. We're in different countries right now. I've tried calling him and left voicemails I don't know how many times but he hasn't returned any of my calls. I sent him a letter which was ...

Need advice on rebuilding trust in gf who cheated on me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

15 January 2011 (M) - So my gf and I have been together for 4 and a half years and we love each other very much. I had a lot of trust in her about being with her guy friends. Then one day, while she was in the bathroom, I found some pictures of her with one of her ...

Feeingsl of lust for my girlfriend's sister..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

15 January 2011 (M) - i'm a 15 yr old guy....i hav a gf...and we love each other a lot!!! she has a sister who is older than me by abt a year and a half and is much more attractive than my gf...this sister loves me as a brother and i love her as a sister as well.....but ...

I'm really not that bad...why don't girls ever notice me???

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

15 January 2011 (M) - I am a pretty average guy, at least I think. I weigh about 84kg or 185lbs, and I'm about 6ft 1inch or 185cm tall. I've never been made fun of for being ugly or anything. I'm 21 and stay in pretty good shape by working out most days of the week. ...

Is my BF finally learning that he cant take me for granted anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

15 January 2011 (F) - Hi all, just a quick question - in short my bf ( now more or less ex) took me for granted for a long time, and I allowed him too, but finally I got the strength , and backed right off, and stopped calling him, and showing him I cared as much.It ...

How do you get to a woman's heart?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

15 January 2011 (M) - I've not been real big in the dating world here recently so I need some advice. How to you get to a womans heart?...

My boyfriend can be very flirty and has a sick sense of humor.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

15 January 2011 (F) - I have a situation where I feel stuck and would like a second opinion. Please do let me know what you think, or if you have any good advice on how I could approach this. My boyfriend can be very flirty and has a sick sense of humor. What I am...

For girls: Initial reaction when you interact with a guy with facial tics (a result of tourettes)

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

15 January 2011 (M) - I'm a 22 year old guy, I have a normal social circle of friends, and am usually very active. I have never had that much confidence when it came to people of the opposite sex, however I get along with all my friends girlfriends, so I do believe it's ...

"I love you" in the first couple of weeks of dating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

15 January 2011 (F) - Is it normal for a guy to say "I love you" in the first few weeks of dating? I always thought it took months or years until it got to that point....

I've tried talking it through, but she just wants sex once a month.. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

15 January 2011 (M) - I been with my girlfriend for 4 years now, she is 26 and I am 30. All that time she has never liked sex but does it just for me, once a month, always the week before her period. The thing is, I want it to last a few hours at least as we hardly do ...

Why did he say "patience is a virtue"

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

15 January 2011 (F) - I ilk this guy and we hav made out before but after that he said things were complicated and he couldn't have any type of relationship right now. That was about a week and a half ago. I haven't texted him for a while and now I texted him yesterday ...

Aren't you supposed to know when you've found "the one"?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4844 days ago

15 January 2011 (F) - Which One Do I Choose??!! Me and my curent boyfriend have been dating off and on for 7 years, we've broken up and gotten back together 13 times now and every time its the same reason; we weren't ready or old enough for the very sereous relation...

How to make it not obvious you like a guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

15 January 2011 (F) - There's this guy in one of my classes that I like. But the thing is, I don't think he likes me. I mean, he teases me and hits me and stares at me sometimes but I think nothing of it. It's so obvious I like him though. Even my friend whose oblivious ...

Is it right if your boyfriend ask you to go against your parents?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

15 January 2011 (F) - Dear Aunts, Is it right if your boyfriend ask you to go against your parents? I've been in a relationship for a year now with a guy whom I met online. We started it off with friendship, we haven't met in person. I like him very much, he's a ni...

Should I stay at home and deal with my family's blackmailing or move out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4861 days ago

15 January 2011 (F) - So, its been a while since my sister revealed my intimate relationship with my 1st cousin to my mom. Ever since I have been forbidden to see him or have any type of contact with him. Although I know I can get in to much trouble and get him i ...

My siblings are causing me misery, over my relationship. Do I stay home and put up with it, or move out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4863 days ago

15 January 2011 (F) - I'ts been a while since my sister revealed my intimate relationship with my 1st cousin, to my mom. Ever since I have been forbidden to see him, or have any type of contact with him. Although I know I can get in to much trouble and get him in ...

She ditched me and now I'm not interested in prolonging the agony by meeting one last time, what do you think of my plan?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

15 January 2011 (M) - S and I had been dating for a while (3 years) and everything was great - no fights ever (seriously) and deeply in love (first love). Six months ago she went away to university and but we stayed strong until Christmas,...when things went down...

Am I thinking too far ahead in the future?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

15 January 2011 (M) - I'm a 15 yr old guy who has a perfectly normal and great life....i have a girlfriend who is 14 and i have liked her since the age of 11...2 years back she told me that she likes me as well.... at present, we love each other so much that we are...

He asked me out but didn't pay for the date?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

15 January 2011 (F) - A guy that I know is interested in me (we've kissed) asked me to hang out (alone for the first time, also this is the beginning of our "friendship"), but he never paid for me even though he treated it as a date (kissed me again)...is that normal? I ...

I'm single and don't fit the loser profile

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

15 January 2011 (M) - I'm a little confused and would love a little help understanding something. I've posted a few questions on this site and have reviewed quite a few other questions and answers posted by others on this subject and I'm pretty confused as to how ...

Three times he's left me for other girls

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

15 January 2011 (F) - I had the best relationship of my life for over a year when we got engaged. We lost our spark and he broke up with me and started going out with someone else. He made love to me and broke up with her and we got back together. It happened another ...

Can I have some positive advice from people who've had experience with getting back together with someone after a break-up...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

15 January 2011 (F) - I'm not going to go into details about my past relationship with this guy.... right now, we are just friends, we 'broke up' this past summer... we ended on good terms... but he felt that we needed to be separate from each other to 'move on' fro...

The man I've given everything to doesn't want to be with me, I'm financially in trouble and effectively homeless.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4863 days ago

15 January 2011 (F) - Hi please give me some advice. Iv been living with my boyfriend who has always been the jealous and paranoid type for about 3 years. We've worked through alot of issues together and through out it all Iv stood by him and been the best girlfriend ...

Do women respect guys who don't push for sex, or do they think they're wimps?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

15 January 2011 (M) - In brief I know a girl who I have been out with a few times, sort of on a friendly basis.I have never ever pushed for any kind of physical involvement,and whenever we go out I just take her home and wave good night. But I know she has begun relation...

"Female pre-mature ejaculation"....what do I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

15 January 2011 (F) - I have what people call "female pre-mature ejaculation". When I was a teen, I think I masturbated maybe three times during those six years, so I've never really had a full-on release by myself. I just didn't like the feeling of my fingers being ...