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Dating: Help and advice

He left me to have a good time with his ex, and now that she's out, he wants me back again!

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30 January 2011 (F) - I've had many trust issues with my boyfriend. Most with his ex girlfriend. Many issues in general, including: When they first broke up he started talking to me a couple weeks after.. then we started 'talking'. Before I left for Mexico in the summ...

How do I ask out this girl without being rejected?

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30 January 2011 (M) - There's this girl I know who is a friend of mine who I've been wanting to ask out. She is very pretty very smart and very funny. All of my past gfs asked me out so i want to know the best way to ask her without getting rejected. I know there is no ...

Am I going to see him again or is he trying to give me subtle hints?

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30 January 2011 (F) - I have been on only 2 dates with a great guy. We get on alarmingly well and he has told me he finds me very attractive, that he thinks I am lovely and he even said sometimes he finds my eyes so amazing, he has to look away! Obviously I am aware it's ...

Changed so much with trying to accommodate the men in my life, I don't even know who I am anymore...

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30 January 2011 (F) - I've been in 2 serious relationships one after another for the last ast 4 years. I've been single for about a week now and I don't know who I am anymore. I've changed to accomadate these men and now I feel like I've depended on them so much I lost ...

Maybe I've been too clingy but I really like him

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30 January 2011 (F) - Basically I've liked this guy for nearly a year now. We've had a bit of flirting going on every now and then before, and he's admitted hes liked me before, then months later i admiteed that i liked him really badly, and he was shocked and didnt know ...

Should I just give it a go with this guy?

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30 January 2011 (F) - dear agony aunts, theres this guy that really really likes me and has said stuff like hes never felt this way bout anyone before and hes exactly my type of guy and is looking for a lasting relationship and i am warming to him but i just aint getting ...

My boyfriend calls my best friend names when I am around. What should I do?

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30 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and my best mate(boy) are also best mates. However, my best mate feels like my boyfriend doesn't like him because of the way he acts in front of me because my boy friend calls him names. What should I do?? ...

16, in love, and ready to have a baby. Need advice, opinions, and feedback!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I'm 16 years old and want a baby. Ok so I'm 16, turn 17 in 10 months, I finish high school in just under 5 months and have already achieved good grades so far. My boyfriend is the exact same except he is 2 months older then me. We have been tog...

Is there anyway I can ease the pain in my throat after I give my boyfriend oral sex?

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30 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has been teaching me gradually how to deep throat. I really enjoy pleasuring him in that way, and I'm getting really good at pulling him in deep. The only problem? It hurts! The next day, my throat is very sore and inflamed. Unplea...

Does ejaculation volume influence the effectiveness of the pill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4844 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Maybe I'm thinking too much into this, but does ejaculation volume influence the effectiveness of the pill at all? My girlfriend and I did it the day after her period ended, and it was a longer, more intense session that had an abnormally large...

I like him, but I'm worried that he will never open up to me!

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30 January 2011 (F) - This isn't a huge issue yet, but I am trying to decide if I should stick with this guy or just forget about him. So we've been hanging out for the last month, at least twice a week, and lunch a few times too. But sometimes when we talk I will bri...

My boyfriend has anger issues, but I don't want him to leave. Will he ever change?

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30 January 2011 (F) - I really dont know what to do anymore! I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we have a 6 month old son. He works nights and I look after our son. He gets really naggy over the slightest thing and will shout, swear, and punch the walls....

My ex wants to try again, but take things slowly this time. Should I give a shot?

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30 January 2011 (F) - I split with my ex around 7 months ago, as i didn't feel the same... like I didn't feel the love I did before. I've recently started talking to him again and he said he wants us to try again, but take it slowly. What do you think? Should I try ...

Does he miss me too? And should I tell him how I feel?

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30 January 2011 (F) - Should I tell him how I feel? Ok, my ex decided that he wanted to be just friends. I agreed because something didn't feel right. I still love him, but decided that we both needed some space. It's been almost 2 weeks, and I had not heard from him...

Can't figure this guy out! What is going on?

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30 January 2011 (F) - I met this guy back in November and we were hanging out a few times a week, having a great time, and it lead to me sleeping over when I would see him. Every since I met him I questioned if he was a player.... his cell always being off when I am ...

My boyfriend's mother hates me and refuses to see our child because I told her he was bisexual! How can I clear the air?

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30 January 2011 (F) - I really need help. I've been with my boyfriend 4 years, (were 18) and we have a 14 month old daughter together. The problem is that his mother hates me because I once told her my boyfriend was bisexual (which is true). He cheated on me 3 times wi...

Crying during Sex: What does he feel? What happened to me?

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30 January 2011 (F) - Last night, my boyfriend and I were having sex. We went on round after round til he was so worn out. I still wasn't so I moved his hand to caress me under there. He got into it and started doing something that made me feel soooo good. I felt lik...

Why did he suddenly decide that he didn't want to be with me?

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30 January 2011 (F) - So in the beginning of the year, I met this guy at school (first year of college - we're both 18) and he immediately showed interest in me. He also became my lab partner and 3 days after meeting him, he told me he liked me through a drunk text. I ...

At what point in a relationship can one justify using the word 'love'?

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30 January 2011 (M) - Hello, a very misleadingly simple question... at what point in a relationship can one justify using 'love' as opposed to the elements of infatuation to describe the mutual feelings between the two involved? As a mere teen-ager, I find the often-used ...

I went to a party with my crush and he ended in bed with my best mate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4846 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - So just over a year ago I met this guy and we got along Really really well and things wer're going well. We had a Lot in common and he made me smile. He then invited me To a party he was having, knowing that I wouldn't know anyone There I ask...

I feel like he is pushing religion on me, but he keeps asking me out

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30 January 2011 (F) - A man asked me out that I met at a party. We met up for drinks and it appeared to go smoothly. he invited me out for a fancy dinner a few days later. I accepted. I am 48 and he is 50. The evenign started out soo good until the subject of religion ...

He comments that I smell great. Does he want to date me?

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30 January 2011 (F) - There is this guy at my gym who will on occasion tease me about my workouts. He will make comments about the machines I am on and the weight I am lifting. Then one day I am getting a protein shake and he walks up to me and say's god you smell ...

Not 100% happy in 2 year long distance relationship. What should I do?

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30 January 2011 (F) - Okay, well I am 17 (yeah kind of young, I know right...) and I am in a long-distance relationship. He lives in a place all the way across my country. I really want to be with him but it's hard. We have been together for 2 years. We are both too...

Is he cheating? And what should I do about our relationship?

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30 January 2011 (F) - What should I do? Is he cheating? I love him so much:( I told my boyfriend to take a break from our relationship because I feel that he doesn't like the fact that we are always on the phone or texting. So yes I told him to take a break and he said...

Is he hurt, angry, playing hard to get, or just plain not interested in me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I screwed up and I need help trying to figure out if and how it can be fixed. Back in September, I met a wonderful man. A truly nice guy that every girl talks about wanting to meet someday. Problem was, I wasn't ready to be dating. However,...

How do I know if these bisexual feelings are real or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - So, this is one of those clichéd questions again. Sorry. I'm bisexual, or I think I am. I know that I have an attraction to some girls and I think I have fallen in love with one before. My question though is, how can I be sure? It's quite hard ...

Receiving a blowjob from my girlfriend does not feel good to me! Why?

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30 January 2011 (M) - Okay, so my girlfriend and I have been going out for three months. We have a history together and I love her with all of my heart. There's just one problem. To me, it doesn't feel good when she gives me head. She's gotten me off from her hand every ...

I don't like the person my boyfriend has become!

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30 January 2011 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 18 months now, im 27 and he is 33, we both divorced, we met at the beach and we had a lot of fun at the beginning, he use to take me on dates, dining out all around town and I would sleep at his house every single ...

I've been trying to talk to her for 3 months! Is she playing hard to get?

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30 January 2011 (M) - Well, I have done everything I can to pursue a girl on facebook - I have met her once in person although I have trying to get her contact information without any success so far. This is all the stuff that I have done though facebook 1. Told her th...

Currently involved with a great girl, constantly plagued by the thought of my ex..

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30 January 2011 (M) - Hey everyone, I am currently 20 years young and Id really like some advice with my dilemma. Basically to cut to the chase, I think about my ex girlfriend an awful lot lately although I have been with someone for over a year now. To shed some light ...

It seems like my girlfriend is the only one having fun. I'm worried about her behavior!

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30 January 2011 (M) - Hey all, So here's the deal i've been in a relationship a little over year. We live a little farther apart than usually. Things were really good and still are for the most part. However it hit a little ruff spot a couple of months ago with alcohol...

He's moving away and we won't be able to see each other. He doesn't want to break up

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30 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is moving in 2 to 6 weeks. The only time I ever see him is at school, but now he will not go to my school. He isn't moving very far away, but I won't be seeing him anymore if any at all, because my dad just doesn't want me around him. ...

Should I wait for the relationship that might not happen or just go for it and see how far it could go?

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30 January 2011 (F) - Im single and so he is. It's always been more than just friends, we 'sext' all the time. He wants us to have sex but doesn't like talking about a relationship. He's not a virgin but i am. Should i wait for the relationship that might not happen or ...

Should I take a risk and talk to my ex, or wait to see what happens when I visit his sister?

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30 January 2011 (F) - It's been 4 months since my ex and I broke up....the same week we broke up he slept with someone, but didn't tell me... I figured it out! We didnt talk for a month then he got in contact, admitting what he had done and saying how he regretted ...

Should I propose to her, or am I making a mistake?

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30 January 2011 (M) - I've known and have been sleeping with my girlfriend for 2 years besides a several month period where she changed her number and took me out of her life. Here's the deal and I am trying to get to the bottom of this and it isn't easy...we have h...

The eternal triangle strikes again. How can I solve it amicably guys?

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30 January 2011 (F) - Hey guys, I'm 17 and for the past year I've become best friends with a group of guys.(I have girlfriends too but I prefer hanging with guys tbh). I love them to pieces. For the past month or so me and one of the guys, Z, have developed feel...

We both like her but he won't ask her out!

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30 January 2011 (M) - i really really like this girl at college but my best friend also really likes her. he doesn't know that i like her and i'm not going to tell him because i want him 2 go out with her cause he's my best friend and i want him to be happy. the thing...

Sms didn't work. I really like her, but don't want to look needy. What's the best way to arrange our first date?

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30 January 2011 (M) - Hey, I Would like to ask you a question or post my " problem ". There is this girl i'm attracted,to her,to her personality .... I got to know her on New Year's eve, got her number. My cousin speaks with her sister , they have a serious re...

I feel like I am the one always looking for him!

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30 January 2011 (F) - well i've been dating a guy for a month and a half already, but now we seem so distant. i don't know if it's because of school. i feel like i'm the one that looks for him. he supposably likes me too. but he doesn't try or show it that much. i'm so ...

He won't like it that I went out to the club -- should I tell him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - So my frineds and I go Out To eat And after That they want To go To the club of course I'm the driver for tonight I'm engaged and I know if I tell him that we when to the club he is going to flip but I'm not drinking nor am i dancing with any guys ...

Should I get him something or wait for him to make a move?

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30 January 2011 (F) - I sit next to this guy in my college class who was a friend of mine from high school. He's a year younger than I am, but we get along like PB and J. One day he asked me out of nowhere if I liked anybody on the swim team back in high school--I said ...

I want to show him I care without scaring him off

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30 January 2011 (F) - This is actually a followup on a couple of posts that I submitted while things were building up to the point where we are now. And on those previous posts, most of the replies I got were very negative, and said this means nothing, I wouldn't see ...

Unhappy with my BF and his needy mom adds to the drama...

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30 January 2011 (F) - I have been with my bf a while now and as much as I love him I'm not happy . He doesn't listen to me most of the time and has a needy mother to add to the drama. He's undecisive about what he wants out of the relationship and due to us being ...

Second thoughts about my relationship...why???

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30 January 2011 (F) - hi im having second thoughts in my current relationship. we have been together for 2 years and still counting. he always showers me love and care and we are constant on the phone as we are staying in different states.i know i love him with much ...

Is there any way to go back from needy?

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30 January 2011 (M) - I Love my girlfriend. Maybe too much, at the very least, more than she Loves me. I am a tad co-dependant, and I recognize that as an issue, and am sensitive to it, and can usually stop myself when I'm acting overly jealous or anxious about our ...

I cant trust my current BF because of the way I was played in the past...

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30 January 2011 (F) - dear readers im looking for advice, when i was younger i was with this guy who always cheated on me and played me round like i was nothing, and i dont think i ever was to him. now im in a rewarding relationship but i find it hard to trust my boyf...

Was naked with my ex...should I tell my girlfriend?

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30 January 2011 (M) - So last night was my ex's 22nd birthday, so since we're still on good terms I went out with her and some of my old mutual friends. The night started off fairly well but as the night progressed I got more and more drunk (more so than I've gotten in ...

3 guys like me all at the same time...what should I do?

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30 January 2011 (F) - Okay...Well, not sure who to start with but I know this love square thing was not supposed to happen. There is this guy who ive been talking to for a year and we have tons in common but I just have not come to like him more than a friend and he is ...